Pondering Podcast

Louis Patin, Erica Honore
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Erica Honore and Louis Patin are the owners and operators of Pondering Farms in Howe,TX. This podcast will discuss an array of topics based of their family life experiences. Together they have survived child loss, divorce, and a variety of other life events. Tune in to hear their story of surviving grief and everything in between

  1. APR 16

    Conversations With My Mom Part 2

    This episode contains discussions of death and grief. The content may be emotionally intese or triggering for some listeners. These conversations are raw and real, and they might be triggering for some. Take breaks listening as needed, skip or come back when you are ready. This episode contains discussions about race, segregation, and lived expereinces of discrimination. Listener discretion is advised as some topics may be emotionally impactful.   Picking up from Conversations With My Mom Part 1, Erica and her mom continue the episode with discussing their grief journey about the lose of Austin and Erica's dad. How they both naviagted it, the different experiences, and the time leading up to the death of Erica's dad, as well as expereincing her second husband dying. Erica's mom shares stories of family memories, from her early adulthood to now. She gives a mother perspective on some of her decisions and the value of what family means to her. They also discuss the book Loving,Losing&Living written by Erica, and reshare the stories wrote and dive deeper into the emotional and true feelings being held at that time. Erica's mom shares her perspective on those stories and together they discuss the ''why's'', ''when'' and understandings of each other during those times. They end this episode off by discussing Erica's moms childhood, cooking, Lousiana expereinces and shared laughter of new and old stories. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com  https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1

    27 min

  2. APR 10

    Conversations With My Mom Part 1

    This episode contains discussions about race, segregation, and lived expereinces of discrimination. Listener discretion is advised as some topics may be emotionally impactful.   A powerful conversation between Erica and her mother-covering life during segregation in Louisiana, the identify of being Creole, culture shock in California, and the deep grief of loosing a grandson. A story of strength, memory, and the unbreakable bond between generations. Across generations, stories carry weight. Together, they navigate the emotional terrain of culture, transitions, identiy and more. This conversation is about where we come from, what we carry, and how we share stories to future generations.   About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com  https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1

    27 min

  3. MAR 22

    Letters Home

    Sending love and support to our military during this time.. During his two-week break from basic training, we sit down with our son for a conversation we'll never forget. We talk about what he expected before he left.. and what it's actually been like stepping into this new chapter of his life. From physical challenges to mental growth, he opens up about how he's handling it all-and suprisingly how much he likes it! Jordan shares what's been the hardest, what's pushes him the most, and how it's already changing him. This episode is about growth, proud parents and military insight to new beginnings. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com  https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1

    30 min

  4. MAR 5

    Still Married Still Talking

    What does love look like after 32 years of marriage? In this heartfelt episode, we sit down as a couple and ask each other a series of thoughtful, sometimes surpising questions about our life together. From the early years to the seasons of loss, growth, and change, we refelct on what has truly kept our marriage standing the test of time. Through honest answers and shared memories, we talk about the moments that shaped us, the silly banter, and keeps us still going. Most importantly, we discuss the kind of love we hope our children see when they look at us- a love built on commitmeet, resilence, laughter, and the decision to keep choosing each other. After 32 years this conversation isn't just about where we've been- it's about what it takes to keep going even through grief and loss. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com  https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1

    33 min

  5. JAN 20

    Let's Rewind That

    This podcast espiode is real marriage-no scripts, no perfect wording. Erica and Louis dive into the arguemnts, misunderstandings and hard conversations that couples actually have.  From miscommunication and unmet expectations to learning how to listen without defending, this is a space for honest dialouge, growth, and choosing connection even when uncomfortable. They express their communication style, argument style and how to meet in the middle while also coming to a resolution.   About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com  https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1

    27 min

  6. 12/24/2025

    Grieving Through The Holidays

    In this depply personal and heartfelt episode, Erica, Louis and Jordan, sit down together to talk openely about what it means to grieve through the holidays. Christmas, once filled with laughter, traditions, and memories shared with their sons and brothers who are no longer here, now carries a different weight-one shaped by absence, remembrance, and love that never fades. They reflect on Christmases past, the moments that still bring smiles, and the traditions that now hold both joy and pain. The family shares how the holidays changed after loss, what it felt like to walk into seasons that once centered around togetherness, and the ways they learned to navigate grief as a family-each person grieivng differently, yet leaning on one another. This episode alos offers gentle insight for anyone facing the holidays while grieving: how to honor loves ones who are gone, how to set boundaries, how to give yourself permission to feel both sandess and joy, and how to show up for others who are hurting during this season. It's an honest conversation about love, loss, resilience, and finding meaning during the most emotionally charged time of the year. About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com  https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1

    32 min

  7. 12/08/2025

    Mixed Blended & Simmering

    About Host ''Mixed blended & Simmering'' brings you into the kitchen with Erica Honore and her neice, Alexis, who cook, laugh and dig into what it really looks like to navigate step-parenting and blended family life. From recipes that feed the whole crew on holidays to honest conversations about love, bounadaries, healing and growth, this podcast serves up real stories with a side of comfort food. Pull up a chair-there's room at our table!   About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com  https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1

    39 min

  8. 11/17/2025

    Girls & Motherhood

    Join Erica Honore and her daughter for this epsiode as Erica asks questions about becoming a mother and sharing light hearted conversation around the topic and perspective. This epside shows a difference from the Gen Z and Gen x persepctive on motherhood, how it was viewed as a child and how it is now.   About Host Louis Patin & Erica Honore are husband and wife, and the owners of Pondering Farms. Erica Honore is a Certified Grief Specialist & Author of ''Loving,Losing&Living'' which is available on amazon thru the link below Form of Contact: EricaPHonore.com Facebook/EricaPHonore Erica@EricaPHonore.com  https://www.amazon.com/Loving-Losing-Living-Navigated-Completely/dp/B0F6CXB2DT/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1PX7BLEOWV6A4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.X9wq4MDE9O-gfps9HOp_QLPeE43viCXcdOoH7LMBimleZt_RxbIT8aHBbLK-56efLoAt_YaL_Pl1MBb0b3x8jmK1RT4zKozyUWL4YtQJApKoOGq-MCeFynfk5gJtwz6FUI_ebGj4jysMof-9KGNicMtfZYCBWFwU89h_QuyarNZ5O96PldL3eBCgp1NA8gXGJbR-wHnl7qyg9_TD4zOkri8SUxXYmtrGbnvlyD_ZnYY.EL-YfgkAgp-8Wfj9sYbDtgQ4uKkhXNo7CkeuwgVp8zQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=loving+losing+and+living&qid=1750128375&sprefix=loving+losing%2Caps%2C167&sr=8-1

    28 min
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About

Erica Honore and Louis Patin are the owners and operators of Pondering Farms in Howe,TX. This podcast will discuss an array of topics based of their family life experiences. Together they have survived child loss, divorce, and a variety of other life events. Tune in to hear their story of surviving grief and everything in between

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  • Creator
    Louis Patin, Erica Honore
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    15
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025
  • Show Website
    Pondering Podcast