Postpartum Changed My Life

Susannah Long, LMFT

Ready for a new take on your postpartum mental health? I'm Susannah, a licensed therapist and coach and I help postpartum moms take ownership of their mental health and overcome struggles related to stress and anxiety. In this podcast you're going to learn why you're stuck, why our current system is failing postpartum moms, and what you can do about it to start living the life you actually want to live.

  1. APR 16

    28. Is It Depression, Anxiety...or Depletion? A Deeper Look at How Nutrition Affects Mental Health in Motherhood with Brittany Jones, MS, RD, LD

    When a mother feels anxious, foggy, or not like herself postpartum, the conversation often centers around mental health — stress, sleep, hormones, or diagnosis. But what if there’s another layer that often gets overlooked? In this episode, I’m joined by registered dietitian Brittany Jones to explore postpartum depletion — and how nutrient deficiencies can sometimes mimic or amplify what feel like symptoms of anxiety or depression. This isn’t about replacing mental health care with nutrition. It’s about expanding the lens and understanding how the body and mind are deeply connected in early motherhood. We talk about what depletion actually means, why so many women are told everything is “normal” when it doesn’t feel that way, and how diet culture and the pressure to “bounce back” can contribute to under-fueling, low energy, and emotional overwhelm. This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation. In Part 2, we’ll break down specific nutrients and how they support mental and emotional well-being. In this episode: What “postpartum depletion” actually meansHow deficiencies can feel like anxiety or depressionWhy it’s not just psychological — and not just physical eitherThe impact of diet culture and under-fueling in early motherhoodA more integrated way to understand postpartum mental health  Brittany Jones, MS, RD, LD, is a registered dietitian with 15 years of experience, business owner, and mom who helps women and families simplify nutrition in real life. Through her weight-inclusive, non-diet approach, she supports clients in building sustainable habits that work for their busy lives—without guilt or overwhelm. As a mom herself, Brittany understands the challenges of feeding a family while also taking care of your own health. Resources mentioned: Brittany Jones: brittanyjonesrd.comInstagram: @brittanyjonesnutritionWork with Susannah: susannahlongcoaching.comFree guide: Intrusive Thoughts in Early Motherhood (free mini course coming soon)If this resonated, be sure to check back for Part 2 — where we’ll get more practical and break down key nutrients. Download my FREE guide to understanding anxiety and intrusive thoughts in early motherhood ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want more support on your journey? Check out more offerings and apply to work with me 1:1 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠susannahlongcoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got a question about early motherhood, anxiety, or anything we discussed today? I'd love to hear from you! Send your questions to susannah@susannahlongcoaching.com and I might feature your question (anonymously) in a future episode. DISCLAIMER: This podcast represents the opinions of Susannah Long, LMFT. The content of this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical or mental health care from a licensed mental health professional. In no way does listening, emailing, or interacting on social media platforms with content establish a therapist - client relationship or coach - client relationship. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ postpartum depletion, postnatal depletion cure, postpartum mental health, postpartum anxiety, postpartum depression, maternal mental health, perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, PMADs, intrusive thoughts postpartum, brain fog postpartum, emotional overwhelm motherhood, nutrient deficiencies, nutrition and mental health, postpartum nutrition, iron deficiency postpartum, B12 deficiency, vitamin D deficiency, magnesium deficiency, omega 3 and mood, zinc deficiency, protein intake postpartum, blood sugar regulation, diet culture postpartum, bounce back culture, under eating and anxiety, maternal depletion, hormonal changes postpartum, sleep deprivation motherhood, nervous system regulation, matrescence, early motherhood support, holistic mental health, mind body connection, women’s health postpartum

    1 hr
  2. APR 14

    27. Plausibility vs. Probability: Postpartum Anxiety Recovery

    When you are experiencing anxiety, your mind has a way of making everything feel important. In this episode, we’re looking at the difference between something being possible and something being likely—and how anxiety tends to treat those two things as the same. When your mind believes that anything that could happen is something you need to figure out or prevent, it can pull you into cycles of overthinking, checking, and trying to get certainty. This episode will help you step out of that loop and begin to come back to what’s actually real, instead of what your mind is imagining. In This Episode: Why anxiety confuses possibility with likelihoodHow the search for certainty keeps you stuckWhy not every thought needs your attentionHow to gently return to the present moment Download my FREE guide to understanding anxiety and intrusive thoughts in early motherhood ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want more support on your journey? Check out more offerings and apply to work with me 1:1 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠susannahlongcoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got a question about early motherhood, anxiety, or anything we discussed today? I'd love to hear from you! Send your questions to susannah@susannahlongcoaching.com and I might feature your question (anonymously) in a future episode. DISCLAIMER: This podcast represents the opinions of Susannah Long, LMFT. The content of this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical or mental health care from a licensed mental health professional. In no way does listening, emailing, or interacting on social media platforms with content establish a therapist - client relationship or coach - client relationship. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- postpartum anxiety, intrusive thoughts postpartum, new mom anxiety, motherhood anxiety, perinatal anxiety, postpartum mental health, anxiety in motherhood, intrusive thoughts meaning, why do I have scary thoughts about my baby, anxiety and what if thoughts, overthinking and anxiety, rumination anxiety, reassurance seeking anxiety, how to stop overthinking, how to stop intrusive thoughts, cognitive distortions anxiety, plausible vs probable anxiety, probability vs possibility anxiety, uncertainty anxiety, intolerance of uncertainty, anxiety coping tools, mindfulness for anxiety, present moment awareness anxiety, nervous system regulation motherhood, matrescence and mental health, fear based thinking, how to trust yourself again, anxiety recovery for moms, postpartum OCD thoughts, unwanted thoughts anxiety, mental habits anxiety, breaking anxiety loops

    12 min
  3. APR 9

    26. Leona Changed Her Life: How Loss Led to Purpose and Deeper Healing with Perrin White, MSP, CCC-SLP, COM, RYT-200

    This conversation is about so much more than breath and breathing. In this episode, I sit down with Perrin White — speech-language pathologist, orofacial myologist, yoga teacher, and breath coach — to explore the deeply personal journey that led her into the work she does today. What unfolds is a conversation about motherhood, grief, and what can happen when we stop trying to escape pain and begin to gently turn toward it instead. Perrin shares the story of her daughter, Leona, and how the experience of losing her became a turning point — one that invited her to question everything, reconnect with her body, and ultimately discover a path toward deeper healing. We talk about what it looks like to live with loss, to stay open when everything in you wants to shut down, and how even the most painful experiences can shape the way we care for ourselves and others. This is a conversation about grief, loss, and motherhood — including the loss of a child — and what can grow and transform as a result of that kind of deep pain. In This Episode, We Talk About: How Perrin’s personal experiences shaped the work she does todayThe connection between breath, the body, and the nervous systemWhat it means to “lean into” pain rather than avoid itThe role of rituals, symbolism, and self-connection in healing after lossLearning to listen to your body as a source of guidanceMotherhood after loss and maintaining a continued connection with a childWhy healing doesn’t follow a timeline — and doesn’t need to Contact Perrin: https://www.breathewellbewell.info/ Follow Perrin on Instagram @breathewellbewell Perrin offers both virtual and in-person work focused on functional breathing, airway health, and nervous system regulation. You can book a discovery call through her website to learn more. Final Note If you are moving through grief or loss in your own motherhood journey, I want you to know that you are not alone. There is no timeline for healing.There is nothing you need to rush or force. And even here — in the places that feel the hardest — something meaningful can still unfold. Download my FREE guide to understanding anxiety and intrusive thoughts in early motherhood ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want more support on your journey? Check out more offerings and apply to work with me 1:1 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠susannahlongcoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got a question about early motherhood, anxiety, or anything we discussed today? I'd love to hear from you! Send your questions to susannah@susannahlongcoaching.com and I might feature your question (anonymously) in a future episode. DISCLAIMER: This podcast represents the opinions of Susannah Long, LMFT. The content of this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical or mental health care from a licensed mental health professional. In no way does listening, emailing, or interacting on social media platforms with content establish a therapist - client relationship or coach - client relationship. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- postpartum mental health, maternal mental health, postpartum anxiety, intrusive thoughts, motherhood transformation, matrescence, grief and loss, child loss, miscarriage, stillbirth, pregnancy loss, infant loss, baby loss, perinatal loss, healing after loss, emotional healing, coping with grief, grief support for mothers, loss in motherhood, nervous system regulation, breathwork, functional breathing, somatic healing, mind body connection, self trust, listening to your body, resilience, personal growth, meaning making, rituals for healing, mindfulness, embodiment, mental health support for moms

    1h 1m
  4. MAR 22

    25. When Anxiety Becomes Part of Your Identity (whether you wanted it to or not)

    What if anxious thoughts don’t mean you have a disorder? In this episode, we challenge the way anxiety and intrusive thoughts are commonly understood in early motherhood, and explore how identifying with labels can create more limitation than freedom. I share a different perspective—one that can fundamentally change your relationship with your mind. In this episode, we cover: Why intrusive thoughts and anxious feelings don’t automatically indicate a disorder How labels can initially reduce fear—but later become an identity The difference between the presence of thoughts and your relationship to them Why lasting change requires a shift in how you understand your mind A different way to view depression and emotional overwhelm The role of systemic pressures on mothers—and how they shape our experiences How changing your perspective can create more freedom and less fearResources mentioned: Download my free guide to anxiety and intrusive thoughts in postpartum and early motherhood at susannahlongcoaching.com Learn more about my 1:1 coaching program, Motherhood Beyond Fear, through the link in the show notes If this episode was helpful, please share it with another mom and consider leaving a review—it truly helps this work reach more women Download my FREE guide to understanding anxiety and intrusive thoughts in early motherhood ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want more support on your journey? Check out more offerings and apply to work with me 1:1 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠susannahlongcoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got a question about early motherhood, anxiety, or anything we discussed today? I'd love to hear from you! Send your questions to susannah@susannahlongcoaching.com and I might feature your question (anonymously) in a future episode. DISCLAIMER: This podcast represents the opinions of Susannah Long, LMFT. The content of this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical or mental health care from a licensed mental health professional. In no way does listening, emailing, or interacting on social media platforms with content establish a therapist - client relationship or coach - client relationship. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- postpartum anxiety, intrusive thoughts, postpartum OCD, early motherhood, maternal mental health, anxiety in motherhood, identity and mental health labels, anxiety disorder vs normal experience, relationship to thoughts, understanding intrusive thoughts, fear of thoughts, consciousness and the mind, emotional overwhelm, postpartum depression, paradigm shift in mental health, beliefs and emotional pain, maternal support systems, mental health in motherhood, normalizing intrusive thoughts, reclaiming life from anxiety

    23 min
  5. FEB 24

    24. Why Pressuring Yourself to Get Better Always Backfires (A Lesson About Anxiety From Aesop)

    Why does trying harder to feel better so often make anxiety worse? In this episode, I revisit the classic Aesop’s fable The Wind and the Sun — a story I first heard years ago while watching Mad Men, and later rediscovered while reading to my daughter. While the fable is often interpreted as a lesson in persuasion, today I explore it through a different lens: healing. If you’ve ever tried to pressure yourself into calm, shame yourself for still struggling, or force intrusive thoughts to disappear, this conversation is for you. I talk about why condemning ourselves into change doesn’t create lasting results, how force actually reinforces the anxiety cycle, and what our nervous systems truly need in order to soften. Healing doesn’t happen through pressure; it happens through gentleness and acceptance. If this episode resonates and you’re ready to change your relationship with anxiety and intrusive thoughts in a deeper, more sustainable way, you can learn more about working with me inside Motherhood Beyond Fear through the link in the show notes. Resources mentioned: Download my free guide to anxiety and intrusive thoughts in postpartum and early motherhood at susannahlongcoaching.com Learn more about my 1:1 coaching program, Motherhood Beyond Fear, through the link in the show notes If this episode was helpful, please share it with another mom and consider leaving a review—it truly helps this work reach more women Download my FREE guide to understanding anxiety and intrusive thoughts in early motherhood ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want more support on your journey? Check out more offerings and apply to work with me 1:1 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠susannahlongcoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got a question about early motherhood, anxiety, or anything we discussed today? I'd love to hear from you! Send your questions to susannah@susannahlongcoaching.com and I might feature your question (anonymously) in a future episode. DISCLAIMER: This podcast represents the opinions of Susannah Long, LMFT. The content of this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical or mental health care from a licensed mental health professional. In no way does listening, emailing, or interacting on social media platforms with content establish a therapist - client relationship or coach - client relationship. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- anxiety recovery, postpartum anxiety, intrusive thoughts in motherhood, how to stop intrusive thoughts, why anxiety won’t go away, nervous system regulation, healing anxiety naturally, anxiety and the nervous system, how to calm anxiety without medication, maternal mental health, postpartum intrusive thoughts, overcoming anxiety in motherhood, why forcing healing doesn’t work, self-compassion and anxiety, breaking the anxiety cycle, how to feel safe in your body again, anxiety mindset shifts, why trying harder makes anxiety worse, shame and anxiety, healing from chronic worry, high functioning anxiety in moms, exposure and response prevention alternatives, acceptance and anxiety, how to stop fighting your thoughts, living beyond fear, motherhood and mental health, how to retrain your nervous system, anxiety coaching for moms, matrescence and identity shifts, sustainable emotional healing

    17 min
  6. FEB 5

    23. Once A Wolf, Always A Wolf: Stop Letting Your Thoughts Run Your Life

    In this episode, I reflect on a story from Aesop’s Fables that I came across while reading to my daughter one night—and how it perfectly captures the way so many of us relate to our minds in early motherhood. I talk about why we don’t need calm, reassuring, or “good” thoughts in order to live a meaningful, healthy life, and how letting the mind lead—especially when it’s saying things we like—can quietly keep us stuck in fear and anxiety. This episode is an invitation to stop organizing your life around your thoughts and start making choices based on your values, even when fear or intrusive thoughts are present. In this episode, I cover: Why listening to your mind when it sounds reassuring still gives it authority How anxiety keeps us waiting for feelings of certainty before living Why values—not thoughts—are meant to guide your life How to live fully even when your mind feels loud Resources mentioned: Download my free guide to anxiety and intrusive thoughts in postpartum and early motherhood at susannahlongcoaching.com Learn more about my 1:1 coaching program, Motherhood Beyond Fear, through the link in the show notes If this episode was helpful, please share it with another mom and consider leaving a review—it truly helps this work reach more women Download my FREE guide to understanding anxiety and intrusive thoughts in early motherhood ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want more support on your journey? Check out more offerings and apply to work with me 1:1 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠susannahlongcoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got a question about early motherhood, anxiety, or anything we discussed today? I'd love to hear from you! Send your questions to susannah@susannahlongcoaching.com and I might feature your question (anonymously) in a future episode. DISCLAIMER: This podcast represents the opinions of Susannah Long, LMFT. The content of this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical or mental health care from a licensed mental health professional. In no way does listening, emailing, or interacting on social media platforms with content establish a therapist - client relationship or coach - client relationship. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- postpartum anxiety, early motherhood anxiety, intrusive thoughts postpartum, intrusive thoughts in motherhood, anxiety after having a baby, fear in motherhood, overthinking as a mom, anxious thoughts, perinatal OCD, OCD help, OCD intrusive thoughts, OCD brain, relationship with the mind, values-based living, living beyond fear, stop letting thoughts control your life, mental health in motherhood, postpartum mental health support, anxiety without reassurance, accepting intrusive thoughts, fear and uncertainty in motherhood, motherhood and anxiety recovery, non-clinical coaching for moms, motherhood beyond fear, anxiety education for mothers

    15 min
  7. JAN 29

    22. "Just Pray About It" - The WORST Anxiety Advice Moms Hear (Part 3)

    “Just pray about it” is often offered with good intentions — but when it’s used to bypass fear, emotions, or support, it can actually make anxiety worse. In this episode, we explore the difference between faith that supports healing and faith that unintentionally silences emotional experience. We talk about why anxiety and intrusive thoughts are nervous system responses — not spiritual failures — and how prayer can be integrated in a way that honors both faith and emotional honesty. Download my FREE guide to understanding anxiety and intrusive thoughts in early motherhood ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want more support on your journey? Check out more offerings and apply to work with me 1:1 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠susannahlongcoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got a question about early motherhood, anxiety, or anything we discussed today? I'd love to hear from you! Send your questions to susannah@susannahlongcoaching.com and I might feature your question (anonymously) in a future episode. DISCLAIMER: This podcast represents the opinions of Susannah Long, LMFT. The content of this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical or mental health care from a licensed mental health professional. In no way does listening, emailing, or interacting on social media platforms with content establish a therapist - client relationship or coach - client relationship. -------------------------------------------------------------- postpartum anxiety, intrusive thoughts early motherhood, faith and anxiety, religious anxiety postpartum, scrupulosity, postpartum scrupulosity, just pray about it anxiety, emotional bypassing, maternal mental health, anxiety and faith, postpartum intrusive thoughts, nervous system regulation motherhood, spiritual bypassing, anxiety recovery for moms, fear in early motherhood, emotional honesty motherhood, postpartum mental health podcast, anxious moms support, motherhood anxiety help, non clinical coaching for moms, values based healing, motherhood beyond fear

    15 min
  8. 12/04/2025

    21. "Stop Overthinking It": The WORST Anxiety Advice Moms Hear (Part 2)

    Being told to “stop overthinking” can feel frustrating — especially when your mind won’t stop analyzing, evaluating, replaying, and scanning for danger. But what if overthinking isn’t the real problem? What if it’s a signal pointing to something deeper? In this episode, Susannah explains why the mind gets stuck in mental loops during early motherhood, why logical solutions don’t calm emotional discomfort, and how “overthinking” is often a sign of unprocessed feelings rather than too many thoughts. You’ll learn how to recognize rumination for what it is — a safety behavior — and how to shift into choices that support genuine emotional freedom. What We Explore in This Episode Why early motherhood creates the perfect storm for overthinking How emotional suppression fills your “internal tank” and triggers anxious thoughts Why the content of your worries often has nothing to do with the feelings underneath Rumination as a mental safety behavior — and why it keeps you stuck How to interrupt the rumination cycle using three simple, repeatable steps Why moving against fear is one of the most powerful parts of healing What You'll Take Away Overthinking isn’t a character flaw or a sign that something is wrong with you — it’s a coping strategy your mind learned to use when emotions felt overwhelming or unsafe. True healing comes from reconnecting with your body, fully allowing and feeling your emotions, and choosing actions that reflect your values rather than your mind's fear. Download my FREE guide to understanding anxiety and intrusive thoughts in early motherhood ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want more support on your journey? Check out more offerings and apply to work with me 1:1 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠susannahlongcoaching.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Got a question about early motherhood, anxiety, or anything we discussed today? I'd love to hear from you! Send your questions to susannah@susannahlongcoaching.com and I might feature your question (anonymously) in a future episode. DISCLAIMER: This podcast represents the opinions of Susannah Long, LMFT. The content of this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical or mental health care from a licensed mental health professional. In no way does listening, emailing, or interacting on social media platforms with content establish a therapist - client relationship or coach - client relationship. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- postpartum overthinking, why can’t I stop overthinking after having a baby, anxious thoughts won’t stop postpartum, rumination in motherhood, how to break anxiety loops, emotional overwhelm after birth, postpartum mental load, new mom anxiety relief, why am I always in my head after becoming a mom, intrusive thinking postpartum, how to calm worry spirals, postpartum fear and overanalysis, mental exhaustion motherhood, early motherhood anxiety support, why does my mind race at night postpartum, anxiety coping tools for moms, postpartum emotional regulation, feeling overwhelmed after baby, how to stop rumination anxiety, stuck in my thoughts motherhood, postpartum worry patterns, overthinking and the nervous system, motherhood anxiety podcast, help for constantly worrying moms, how to stop analyzing everything

    13 min

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Ready for a new take on your postpartum mental health? I'm Susannah, a licensed therapist and coach and I help postpartum moms take ownership of their mental health and overcome struggles related to stress and anxiety. In this podcast you're going to learn why you're stuck, why our current system is failing postpartum moms, and what you can do about it to start living the life you actually want to live.