Pouring and Parenting

Sil and Inish

Two best friends, now wives and moms, grab a drink and keep it real about juggling family, careers, trends, and all the mess in between. It’s funny, honest, and full of heart — a weekly reminder that no woman is doing this alone.

  1. Aug 19

    38: Up All Night

    Text Us Here! Sleep Regression in Kids and Marriage: What Growth Looks Like in Both This episode covers two kinds of regression that can make life feel chaotic: child sleep regression and marriage regression. Sil and Inish explain why both can show up during periods of growth, and why they usually signal development rather than failure. We discuss the biggest sleep shifts from birth through age two, plus how couples can handle rough patches without jumping straight to divorce talk.  Sil and Inish also weave in a quick conversation about teen sleep, naps, and the role of rest in everyday life. In this episode, Inish opens with the main focus: child sleep regression and why sleep struggles are often tied to brain development, not bad parenting.Sil shares real-life experience from both of her children, including her son’s premature birth, colic, and feeding issues, which made early sleep patterns hard to separate from regression.The hosts break down the major sleep regression windows from 0 to 2 years old:Around 4 months, when baby sleep cycles mature and become more adult-likeAround 8 to 10 months, when crawling, pulling up, and separation anxiety can disrupt sleepAround 18 months, when walking, language growth, and independence testing make sleep harderAround 2 years, when nap transitions and vivid imagination can lead to resistance at bedtime or napsThe conversation emphasizes that regressions are temporary and usually mean the child is learning, growing, and adjusting to new milestones.The hosts encourage parents to give themselves grace, avoid treating sleep issues as a personal failure, and stay consistent through the rough patches.A hot topic shifts the discussion to older kids and teens, including the stat that 70% of high school students get less than the recommended 8 hours of sleep and nearly 30% fall asleep in class at least once a week.Inish and Sil compare American sleep culture with countries that normalize daytime naps, and both strongly support the idea of more rest for students and workers.The second half moves into marriage regression, with the hosts discussing how relationships can go through growth phases that feel like instability.They talk about the so-called first five years of marriage being especially hard, and also the common seven-year itch idea, where couples may feel restless as they evolve in different directions.The discussion encourages couples to treat rough seasons like a temporary reset, using communication, therapy, date nights, and honest conversation instead of immediately reaching for divorce.Follow us on: Instagram Youtube TikTok Facebook This episode may include references to alcohol. As always, we encourage responsible sipping- water, mocktails, and coffee count too.

  2. Aug 12

    Ep. 37 No, No, No!

    Text Us Here! What if saying yes to everyone else is the very thing draining your body, your marriage, and your peace? Sil and Inish make the case for a better way in this honest, funny, and deeply practical conversation about the power of no. They start with the reality most people ignore: people-pleasing is not just a personality quirk, it can show up as burnout, shallow breathing, jaw tension, insomnia, anxiety, and the kind of exhaustion you cannot sleep off. From there, they break down how to spot your body’s warning signs before you hit a breaking point, and why saying no is actually an act of somatic safety. You'll discover how to build boundary-setting muscles with low-stakes practice, why short and honest responses work better than long explanations, and how to shift from FOMO to JOMO without guilt.  Sil and Inish also share real-life examples from dating, family invitations, and friendship dynamics that make the whole conversation feel immediately usable in your own life. They also tackle the harder stuff: protecting couple time in a busy marriage, saying no to intimacy without creating emotional distance, vetoing events that drain your shared energy, and navigating the friction when one partner is a natural boundary-setter and the other is a serial over-committer. Then they bring it home for parents, with a powerful reminder that overscheduled kids, constant yeses, and forced affection can all teach the wrong lessons - and that a rested parent beats a perfect parent every time. Follow us on: Instagram Youtube TikTok Facebook This episode may include references to alcohol. As always, we encourage responsible sipping- water, mocktails, and coffee count too.

  3. Jul 29

    Ep. 35 Good Days: Why Sending Kids Back to School Isn’t Just About Supplies — It’s a Culture Shift

    Text Us Here! Back to school isn’t just about shopping for supplies — it’s a rollercoaster of emotions for parents and kids alike. From nostalgic trips down memory lane to the chaos of outfitting your little ones, this episode dives into the real behind-the-scenes of gearing up for a new school year. Whether it's choosing the trendiest backpacks that cost more than your rent, navigating the confusing world of school uniform trends, or battling the everyday struggles of homework and hygiene, we've got you covered. Join Sil and Inish as they share hilarious and heartfelt stories about their own back-to-school experiences—like obsessing over Lisa Frank gear, realizing that trendy sneaker fashion has just changed, and the bizarre new trends like giving kids a set number of purchases or wearing slides and clogs on the daily. We dissect the latest in school shopping craziness: designer backpacks costing hundreds, basic clothing brands feeling more like a ripoff, and the importance of teaching respect, routines, and personal responsibility amidst all the chaos. Discover why setting boundaries, establishing routines, and getting involved makes all the difference. We break down practical tips for parents: from how to handle homework resistance to making sure kids are prepared for the dress code and hygiene expectations, all while managing your own stress and expectations. Whether you're a parent of a nervous kindergartner or a seasoned pro navigating teen independence, this episode offers laughs, real talk, and actionable advice to set your family up for success. Perfect for any parent, teacher, or caregiver trying to survive the back-to-school madness—this episode turns the chaos into clarity. Get inspired to embrace the season with humor and practical wisdom, because when you’re prepared, the school year just might be a little easier—and a lot more fun. Join us as we reflect on childhood nostalgia, modern trends, and the importance of staying involved, organized, and positive through every new chapter. Plus, a hilarious song lyric trivia segment to keep the good vibes rolling. Whether you're shopping, packing lunches, or just trying to keep your sanity, this episode is your ultimate back-to-school survival guide. Because at the end of the day, the goal is simple: set your kids up for success and enjoy the ride. Tune in now and get ready to tackle the school year with confidence and a laugh! Follow us on: Instagram Youtube TikTok Facebook This episode may include references to alcohol. As always, we encourage responsible sipping- water, mocktails, and coffee count too.

  4. Jul 21

    Ep. 34 Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes with Dr. Tina Shermer Sellers

    Text Us Here! Most couples drift into the roommate zone without even realizing it—and it’s often because they forget to nurture their connection amidst parenting chaos. But what if re-igniting your intimacy is simpler than you think? Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, a powerhouse sex and family therapist, reveals practical, everyday strategies to reclaim your passion and strengthen your marriage—no matter how busy life gets. In this eye-opening episode, Dr. Tina dismantles the myth that intimacy must take hours or perfect conditions. She shares how tiny, intentional habits—like a daily three-minute hug or tiny boundary wins—can transform your relationship over time. You'll discover the importance of mutual understanding around desire, how to navigate the desire mismatch without guilt or pressure, and why a “no” is often the gateway to a true “yes” in sex and connection. We delve into the power of mindful touch, emotional safety, and vulnerability, especially when balancing the demands of raising kids. Life is messy, but by embracing imperfection and honesty, you can build a resilient foundation that keeps passion alive. Perfect for couples feeling the strain of busy schedules, parents trying to keep the spark alive, or anyone eager to deepen intimacy, this episode provides simple yet powerful tools to nurture love in the chaos. Learn how to handle the hard conversations, create emotional safety, and carve out moments of joy for just you and your partner. Your relationship isn’t just about surviving parenthood—it's about thriving together, one small step at a time. Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers is a bestselling author and experienced therapist known for her insightful approach to healing shame and rebuilding authentic intimacy. Her work has helped countless couples and parents worldwide break free from societal pressures and rediscover genuine connection. If your relationship feels like it’s lost its spark, or you simply need a gentle reminder that loving yourself and each other is the foundation, this episode is essential listening. Get ready to pour into your marriage with humor, heart, and practical wisdom—because a thriving relationship begins with small, intentional acts every day. Whether you’re in the thick of raising kids or just want to make more space for love—this episode is your guide to reigniting passion and connection. Tune in now and start your journey to a more fulfilled, shamelessly connected you and your partner. Follow us on: Instagram Youtube TikTok Facebook This episode may include references to alcohol. As always, we encourage responsible sipping- water, mocktails, and coffee count too.

  5. Jul 15

    Ep. 33 Summer Catch Up

    Text Us Here! Most parents think “summer break” means chill and top Beach Bum vibes. But Inish reveals the truth: being a summer mom means chaos, popcorn on the floor, and a bathroom meet-cute in Spanish. If you’re drowning in popsicle wrappers, drowning in the heat, or just trying to keep your kids from turning your house into a zoo, this episode is your emergency lifeboat. Join us as we dive into the wild world of backyard battles, accidental backyard shrinkage (yes, those rubber slides actually do get smaller in the sun), and the relentless quest for peace amidst toy clutter and popcorn kernels. Inish and Sil dish on family trips, birthday cakes with kindergarten pictures, and how to turn your summer into a “butter mom aesthetic” (think denim, linen, and bubbles — lots of bubbles). We break down the struggles of parenthood with hilarious stories about kids demanding “please”, the constant challenge of swimsuit snicks, and the epidemic of aimless roaming kids. Plus, learn a secret about the huge water park they just visited — it’s practically the Disneyland of water slides. Survive the summer with actionable tips, like how to keep your kids busy without losing your mind, and why your neighborhood trash cans might be plotting against you. This episode is perfect for parents who value fun, chaos, and a little bit of self-care — even if that’s just a massage in peace! If you’re tired of parenting fails, tired of the same old summer routine, but still want to squeeze out some joy (and maybe a sip of that peach whiskey), you’ll love the stories, tips, and the “Butter Mom Summer Aesthetic” we’re embracing. Fire up those backyard sprinklers and get ready to laugh your way through the season. Because if you’re not laughing, you’re probably chasing a kid down the street — and that’s no way to summer. Follow us on: Instagram Youtube TikTok Facebook This episode may include references to alcohol. As always, we encourage responsible sipping- water, mocktails, and coffee count too.

  6. Jul 8

    Ep. 32 Blinded by the Lights

    Text Us Here! Most of us are living in a digital hall of mirrors — flashing screens, endless episodes, and guilty pleasures that steal hours we’ll never get back. But what if all that scrolling and binge-watching is quietly shrinking your kid’s attention span and your sanity? Spoiler: It’s happening, and the stats are shocking—seven hours of screen time daily for adults, and kids fleeing actual movies faster than you can say "pause." In this episode, Inish and Sil pull back the curtain on the chaos of modern parenting, exposing how our obsession with screens and true crime dramas is rewiring our brains and our kids’.   It’s not just about guilt — it’s about opportunity. Learn why setting boundaries, choosing calm and low-stimulation content, and leading by example can turn screens into tools, not traps. Whether you’re battling the 71% of parents whose kids can’t survive a 90-minute movie without reaching for a device or just trying to keep your own screen time in check, this episode is your honest, hilarious guide to navigating digital chaos without losing your mind—or your child's. Perfect for overwhelmed parents, tech-savvy caregivers, or anyone curious about how modern media shapes us all. You're busy, your kids are busy, but this episode will give you the tools to reclaim some peace, one screen at a time. And hey—if you thought this was just about facts, think again. It’s about grabbing control, saving your sanity, and maybe finding a little more life outside those endless feeds. Hit play and start each day a little more grounded—and a lot less blinded by the digital light. Follow us on: Instagram Youtube TikTok Facebook This episode may include references to alcohol. As always, we encourage responsible sipping- water, mocktails, and coffee count too.

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Two best friends, now wives and moms, grab a drink and keep it real about juggling family, careers, trends, and all the mess in between. It’s funny, honest, and full of heart — a weekly reminder that no woman is doing this alone.