Work it, Live it, Own it!

SaCola Lehr

Are you an educator or woman juggling the demands of career, family, and self-care — and feeling the weight of burnout? Work It, Live It, Own It! is the podcast that empowers women to thrive personally and professionally through work-life harmony — not just balance. I’m SaCola Lehr — an experienced educator, and a Work-Life Harmony Strategist. I’ve lived the stress, overwhelm, and burnout that comes with giving everything to others while trying to maintain a life of my own. Now, I share the practical tools, mindset strategies, and inspiring stories that helped me reclaim energy, confidence, and purpose — and that can help you do the same. Each episode delivers actionable guidance to help you: Prevent burnout and restore well-being in your career and personal life.Build systems that protect your time, energy, and focus.Navigate the complexities of work, family, and caregiving with confidence.Strengthen your mindset and resilience to thrive in any season. Whether you’re an educator striving for harmony in the classroom, a school leader supporting staff well-being, or a woman in the sandwich generation managing family and career responsibilities, Work It, Live It, Own It! gives you the strategies and inspiration to work smarter, live fully, and own your success. Subscribe today — and start creating work-life harmony that works for your life.

  1. 82: The Real Reason You’re So Drained: Fear of Confrontation in the Sandwich Generation

    9月24日

    82: The Real Reason You’re So Drained: Fear of Confrontation in the Sandwich Generation

    Have you ever walked away from a conversation wishing you’d spoken up — but instead, you stayed silent to avoid conflict? You’re not alone. For so many sandwich generation women, the fear of confrontation quietly drains energy at work, at home, and in caregiving roles. In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it!, we’re unpacking how avoiding hard conversations becomes a pressure cooker effect: the more we hold in, the more stress and resentment build. From saying yes to extra projects at work to keeping the peace in family caregiving, silence often comes at the cost of our emotional well-being and relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How fear of confrontation shows up in daily life — at work, at home, and everywhere in between.The hidden connection between silence, burnout prevention, and emotional labor in families.Why “kind but clear” boundaries can protect your energy without damaging relationships.Practical steps to practice speaking up (even if you’re not ready to deliver the words yet). Take Action This Week Write down a boundary you’ve been afraid to set.Draft a “kind but clear” script you could use.Practice saying it out loud — even if you don’t deliver it yet.The truth is, confrontation doesn’t have to mean conflict. It’s about advocating for your needs with compassion and clarity. The more you practice, the less drained you’ll feel. If today’s conversation hit home, don’t just stop here. I created a free PRONE to Power Worksheet that will help you put these strategies into action. You can grab it now at https://bit.ly/PRONEtoPowerwksht Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Subscribe to Work it, Live it, Own it! On YouTube: https://bit.ly/2lxB1TS Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    18 分鐘
  2. 81: Why Suffering in Silence is Holding You Back

    9月10日

    81: Why Suffering in Silence is Holding You Back

    In this episode of "Work It, Live It, Own It," host SaCola Lehr delves into the hidden costs of the 'suck it up' mentality. Discover how this mindset, often mistaken for strength, leads to burnout, resentment, and silence. SaCola shares personal insights and practical strategies to break free from survival mode and embrace a life rooted in honesty and sustainable strength. Tune in to learn how to set boundaries, speak your truth, and thrive authentically. Don't miss the first episode of a five part "Suck it Up & Go it Alone" series. Most importantly, you’ll walk away with practical strategies to start shifting today, including: Journaling one place you’ve been “sucking it up” and naming the cost.Saying it out loud to a trusted friend, partner, or colleague to begin breaking the silence.Taking a small but powerful step to set boundaries at work or home without guilt.This episode is designed to help you recognize the signs of caregiver burnout, stop people-pleasing, and begin protecting your well-being with sustainable self-care strategies. If you’ve been carrying the weight of emotional labor in families, over-functioning at work, or struggling with work-life balance as a caregiver, you’re not alone. There is a better way—and it starts with letting go of the martyr mindset. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:Why “sucking it up” keeps women stuck in burnout cycles.How fear of confrontation and saying “yes” too often fuel exhaustion.The risks of persistent availability and technology overload.Simple, sustainable first steps to reclaim your energy and voice. This series is about moving from survival to thriving. And it all begins with this first step: breaking the silence and permitting yourself to stop going it alone. Ready to join the WLO community to receive exclusive updates? Click the link: https://workitliveitownit.com/ Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Subscribe to Work it, Live it, Own it! On YouTube: https://bit.ly/2lxB1TS Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    15 分鐘
  3. 80: The Nutrition Reset: Boost Energy, Beat Burnout with Alana Bonnemann

    8月27日

    80: The Nutrition Reset: Boost Energy, Beat Burnout with Alana Bonnemann

    The Nutrition Reset: Boost Energy, Beat Burnout: Simple Food Shifts for Women Ready to Feel Like Themselves Again Tired of feeling exhausted, foggy, and stressed—even after a full night’s sleep? The solution might be closer than you think… on your plate. In this episode of Work it, Live it, Own it!, holistic nutritionist and naturopath Alana Bonnemann joins me to share how simple food choices can dramatically impact your energy, focus, and overall well-being. You’ll learn: ✔ Why your current eating habits may be draining your energy ✔ How to balance blood sugar to improve mood and focus ✔ Realistic nutrition tips for women who “don’t have time” ✔ Ways to stop cravings without giving up everything you love If you’re ready to reset your energy and feel like yourself again, this episode is your starting point. Listen now and start your Nutrition Reset today. Resources & Links: Connect with Alana: https://alanabonnemann.comFollow for more episodes on burnout recovery and work-life harmony#NutritionReset #BeatBurnout #EnergyBoost #HolisticHealth #WomenOver35 #SelfCareMatters Ready to join the WLO community to receive exclusive updates? Click the link: https://workitliveitownit.com/ Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Subscribe to Work it, Live it, Own it! On YouTube: https://bit.ly/2lxB1TS Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    42 分鐘
  4. 78: What to Do When You Think Your Best Isn’t Enough

    7月30日

    78: What to Do When You Think Your Best Isn’t Enough

    Do you ever feel like you’re giving your all—and it still isn’t enough? You’re showing up, working hard, doing everything “right,” and yet you feel like you’re falling short. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. In this episode of Work It, Live It, Own It!, we’re getting real about those moments when your best doesn’t feel like enough and what to do about it. You’ll discover: Why doing more isn’t always the solution How to stop measuring your worth by your productivity 3 ways to redefine success without burning out The mindset shift that frees you from perfectionism A simple journal prompt to reset your definition of “enough” If you’ve ever whispered, “What more can I possibly do?”—this conversation is for you. You don’t have to prove your worth to deserve rest, peace, and joy. What we're discussing: what to do when your best isn’t enoughburnout recovery tips for womenredefining success without burnouthow to stop feeling like you’re not enoughself-worth and work-life balance podcastperfectionism and burnout podcast episodepractical steps to avoid burnout If this episode resonated, rate and review Work It, Live It, Own It! and share with someone who needs this reminder: You are enough. Ready to join the WLO community to receive exclusive updates? Click the link: https://workitliveitownit.com/ Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Subscribe to Work it, Live it, Own it! On YouTube: https://bit.ly/2lxB1TS Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    18 分鐘
  5. 77: True Friendship vs. Fake Support: How to Build a Circle That Lifts You Higher

    7月9日

    77: True Friendship vs. Fake Support: How to Build a Circle That Lifts You Higher

    Are the people in your life lifting you up — or quietly weighing you down? In this episode of Work It, Live It, Own It, we’re diving deep into the power of true friendship and what it really means to build a supportive, purpose-aligned community. Whether you’re navigating workplace drama, feeling stuck in one-sided friendships, or craving deeper connection, this conversation will help you recognize the red flags, honor your growth, and start building the circle you deserve. We’ll explore: What real friendship actually looks likeHow to spot toxic patterns and emotional red flagsThe truth about workplace relationships (and how to protect your peace)Why friendships sometimes fall apart — and how to mend them when it mattersPowerful conversation starters to heal rifts and set boundariesHow to be the kind of friend you want to attractWhether you're evolving, grieving the loss of a friendship, or searching for your people — this episode gives you both wisdom and tools to move forward with clarity and confidence. Key Takeaways:The relationships you choose directly impact your peace, purpose, and progress.A true friend listens, celebrates your wins, respects your boundaries, and shows up — even when it’s inconvenient.It’s okay to outgrow people. It’s also okay to fight for the friendships that matter.Boundaries protect you. Communication can heal. And real connection is always worth the effort. Mentioned in this Episode:Conversation starters for conflict resolution and connectionSuicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Call or text 988Visit WorkItLiveItOwnIt.com to leave your question for a future episode Listen If You’ve Been Asking:Why do I feel drained after spending time with certain people?What should I do when a friend is jealous or dismissive?How can I fix a broken friendship — or walk away with grace?Why do I feel lonely even in a crowd?How do I set boundaries with coworkers?Rate, Review & SubscribeIf this episode gave you clarity or comfort, take 60 seconds to rate and review the show. It helps more people find this space for healing and real connection. Subscribe to Work It, Live It, Own It! on your favorite podcast platform. Watch and subscribe on YouTube for full episodes and bonus videos. Ready to join the WLO community to receive exclusive updates? Click the link: https://workitliveitownit.com/ Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Subscribe to Work it, Live it, Own it! On YouTube: https://bit.ly/2lxB1TS Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    15 分鐘
  6. 76: Why We Turn to Alcohol: The Hidden Emotional Triggers Behind Drinking to Cope

    6月26日

    76: Why We Turn to Alcohol: The Hidden Emotional Triggers Behind Drinking to Cope

    Are you reaching for a drink to relax… or to escape? In this powerful episode of Work It, Live It, Own It!, we dive deep into the emotional triggers behind alcohol use with special guest Gina Kunadian—a TEDx speaker and women’s alcohol-free sobriety coach. If you’re a high-functioning woman juggling work, caregiving, and endless responsibilities, it’s easy to fall into the pattern of drinking to cope. But what if alcohol isn’t really the problem… and what you’re truly craving is rest, clarity, and connection? Gina shares her personal journey with alcoholism and recovery, reveals the emotional roots of addiction, and offers practical, judgment-free guidance for women who want to stop numbing and start healing. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why high-achieving women often turn to alcohol to escapeThe emotional pain hiding beneath casual drinking habitsSigns you may be numbing out without realizing itWhat to do instead of reaching for alcohol when you’re overwhelmedGina’s Transformation SHINE Process to support alcohol-free livingHow to break the cycle of emotional drinking with compassion, not shame Resources + Links Mentioned: Connect with Gina Kunadian → https://www.ginakunadian.comListen to the Shine Within Podcast Related Episode: Manifesting Self-Respect: Educate Others to Treat You Right Ready to join the WLO community to receive exclusive updates? Click the link: https://workitliveitownit.com/ Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Subscribe to Work it, Live it, Own it! On YouTube: https://bit.ly/2lxB1TS Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    34 分鐘
  7. 75: The Courage to Change: How to Grow Even When It Hurts

    6月4日

    75: The Courage to Change: How to Grow Even When It Hurts

    Are you standing at the edge of a new chapter, torn between who you were and who you’re becoming? This episode of Work it. Live it. Own it. explores the raw emotional journey of change—what it means to lead yourself through evolution when it’s uncomfortable, lonely, and misunderstood by others. SaCola Lehr talks about the real cost of growth, how to stop shrinking for others, and why emotional resilience is essential for any meaningful transformation. If you've ever felt guilted for wanting more, or questioned whether your evolution was worth the tension, this conversation will remind you that you're not alone—and that the courage to change is a form of leadership. In this episode, you'll learn: How to hold emotional boundaries without shameWhat to do when your growth triggers guilt or pushbackWhy it’s okay to outgrow people and spacesHow to grieve the old version of youHow to align your actions with your deeper why, not external approval Key Topics CoveredThe emotional truth of transformationNavigating guilt, shame, and doubt during growthWhy loved ones may resist your evolutionHow to lead yourself through change with clarityLetting go of old identities with loveThe difference between growing bitter and growing bold Episode Highlights2:45 – The deeper origin of change: A whisper, not a checklist7:30 – How your growth creates tension in others12:10 – What emotional resilience really looks like16:25 – When family doesn’t support your healing21:50 – Final words: You don’t need applause to rise Featured Quote“You don’t owe your future to the version of you that kept everyone else comfortable.” Journal PromptWrite a letter to the version of you that stayed too long in places that drained your energy. Thank her. Then release her—with love.Call to ActionIf this episode spoke to your heart, share it with someone navigating change. Leave a review, subscribe for more conversations that challenge and uplift, and follow along on Instagram at @workitliveitownit Work it. Live it. Own it. is the podcast where emotional truth meets bold transformation—and where growth, even when it’s quiet, is celebrated. Ready to join the WLO community to receive exclusive updates? Click the link: https://workitliveitownit.com/ Follow SaCola on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/workitliveitownit   Subscribe to Work it, Live it, Own it! On YouTube: https://bit.ly/2lxB1TS Email for business inquiries: info@workitliveitownit.com

    16 分鐘

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Are you an educator or woman juggling the demands of career, family, and self-care — and feeling the weight of burnout? Work It, Live It, Own It! is the podcast that empowers women to thrive personally and professionally through work-life harmony — not just balance. I’m SaCola Lehr — an experienced educator, and a Work-Life Harmony Strategist. I’ve lived the stress, overwhelm, and burnout that comes with giving everything to others while trying to maintain a life of my own. Now, I share the practical tools, mindset strategies, and inspiring stories that helped me reclaim energy, confidence, and purpose — and that can help you do the same. Each episode delivers actionable guidance to help you: Prevent burnout and restore well-being in your career and personal life.Build systems that protect your time, energy, and focus.Navigate the complexities of work, family, and caregiving with confidence.Strengthen your mindset and resilience to thrive in any season. Whether you’re an educator striving for harmony in the classroom, a school leader supporting staff well-being, or a woman in the sandwich generation managing family and career responsibilities, Work It, Live It, Own It! gives you the strategies and inspiration to work smarter, live fully, and own your success. Subscribe today — and start creating work-life harmony that works for your life.