Probably Bad Advice: by two licensed therapists

Aubre & Becky
  • 5.0 (4)
  • MENTAL HEALTH

Two moms, two different seasons of life—one in her 20s, one in her 40s—both licensed mental health therapists bringing a mix of education, experience, and humor to real conversations about motherhood, mental health, relationships, faith, fitness, nutrition, and the everyday struggles of being a woman.

  1. 4D AGO

    Thriving on the Outside, Tired on the Inside!

    Click here to send us questions, thoughts, or funny stories of life to share on our podcast! From the outside, everything looks put together, you’re showing up, getting things done, and maybe even succeeding. But underneath the surface, you’re running on empty. In this episode, we unpack the quiet reality of high-functioning burnout, the kind that hides behind productivity, perfectionism, and “I’m fine.” We’ll explore what it actually feels like to carry exhaustion no one else can see and how the pushing through can actually disconnect you from your own needs. You’ll hear how burnout can show up emotionally, mentally, and physically, even when life looks “good” on paper. Whether you’re feeling stretched thin, numb, or just not like yourself anymore, this conversation offers validation, insight, and practical ways to start reconnecting with your energy, your limits, and your well-being. Because you don’t have to fall apart to deserve rest.

    27 min

  2. MAR 30

    Becky’s Daughter Tells All: Interviewing Lindsey Part 2

    Click here to send us questions, thoughts, or funny stories of life to share on our podcast! In this episode, we switch things up and invite back a very special guest, Lindsey, who is Becky’s daughter. We hand over the mic to get the real scoop on what it’s actually like growing up with Becky as your mom. From the best parts to the slightly embarrassing ones, she shares her honest perspective on having a therapist mom. Expect laughs, a little roasting, and some surprisingly thoughtful moments along the way.

    37 min

  3. MAR 23

    The Working Mom Balancing Act: Interviewing Lindsey part 1

    Click here to send us questions, thoughts, or funny stories of life to share on our podcast! In this episode, we sit down with a mom, Lindsey, who also happens to be a speech pathologist, to talk about the real-life balancing act of being a working mom. From supporting children’s communication and development during the workday to navigating the demands of motherhood at home, we explore what it actually looks like to live in both worlds. We talk about the challenges, the surprises, and the perspective she’s gained from working with kids while raising her own.

    30 min
  4. Dating in your 20's vs 40's

    MAR 16

    Dating in your 20's vs 40's

    Click here to send us questions, thoughts, or funny stories of life to share on our podcast! In this episode, we invited our husbands to the mic to talk about what really changes when it comes to dating in your 20s versus your 40s. Logan and Aubre have been married for six years, while Becky and Travis both navigated divorce and re-entered the dating world in their 40s, bringing a completely different lens to the conversation.

    29 min
  5. Hot Takes with Our Husbands: Part 2

    MAR 9

    Hot Takes with Our Husbands: Part 2

    Click here to send us questions, thoughts, or funny stories of life to share on our podcast! In this episode, we’re doing a Couples Edition of Hot Takes.  The rules? We each share a hot take… and our spouse has to either agree, or risk “sleeping on the couch.” Okay, okay… not really. (We like each other too much for that.) It’s playful. It’s honest. It’s mildly competitive. And yes, there are a few “oh wow” moments. Tune in for laughs and proof that you can disagree and still be on the same team.

    35 min
  6. Hot Takes with Our Husbands: Part 1

    MAR 2

    Hot Takes with Our Husbands: Part 1

    Click here to send us questions, thoughts, or funny stories of life to share on our podcast! We always have the best time when our husbands join us on the podcast, and apparently, they’re never short on opinions. So naturally, we put them to work discussing hot takes.  This episode is full of strong opinions, playful back-and-forth, and a few “wait… do you really think that?” moments. Tune in to hear our hot takes, their hot takes, and find out whether we’re all still happily married by the end. Spoiler alert, we still are!

    37 min

  7. FEB 23

    Why Are We All So Dysregulated?

    Click here to send us questions, thoughts, or funny stories of life to share on our podcast! Why does it feel like everyone is on edge lately? More reactive. More exhausted. More overwhelmed. In this episode, we’re unpacking what’s really happening beneath the surface. From chronic stress and constant stimulation to unresolved trauma and the pressure to “hold it all together,” our nervous systems were never designed to operate at this pace for this long. We’ll explore what dysregulation actually is, why so many of us are living in survival mode without realizing it, and how modern life keeps us stuck there. This isn’t about labeling ourselves as broken or dramatic; it’s about understanding how our brains and bodies adapt to stress, and why those adaptations can start to feel like anxiety, irritability, shutdown, or burnout. Most importantly, we’ll talk about what helps. Not quick-fix hacks or toxic positivity, but small, practical shifts that create space between trigger and response, the kind of space where healing and choice live. If you’ve been feeling wired and tired, numb and overwhelmed, or like your patience is thinner than it used to be… this conversation is for you. You’re not failing. Your nervous system might just be doing exactly what it was wired to do.

    32 min

  8. FEB 9

    Attachment Styles in Conflict Communication

    Click here to send us questions, thoughts, or funny stories of life to share on our podcast! Why do some arguments turn into shutdowns, explosions, or endless loops, while others feel easier to repair? In this episode, we explore how attachment styles shape the way we communicate during conflict. From anxious pursuit to avoidant withdrawal to the push-pull of disorganized attachment, we’ll unpack what’s really happening beneath the words when emotions run high. This conversation isn’t about labeling yourself or your partner; it’s about understanding your nervous system, recognizing protective patterns, and learning how to communicate with more clarity, compassion, and choice. Whether you tend to shut down, escalate, or over-explain, this episode offers insight and gentle tools to help conflict feel less threatening and more connecting.

    29 min
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Two moms, two different seasons of life—one in her 20s, one in her 40s—both licensed mental health therapists bringing a mix of education, experience, and humor to real conversations about motherhood, mental health, relationships, faith, fitness, nutrition, and the everyday struggles of being a woman.

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