Forged Youth | Legacy Within

Producer: Mariel Nichole

Forged Youth: Legacy Within What if the conversations you needed most as a teen athlete were finally being had, openly, honestly, and with purpose? Forged Youth: Legacy Within is the podcast that equips youth athletes (ages 12–24), their parents, and coaches with the mental tools, emotional resilience, and life insight to rise above the noise and grow into strong, intentional human beings. Each episode features real, raw conversations with professional athletes, CEOs, and cultural leaders sharing what they wish they knew when they were younger. We unpack topics like mental grit, overcoming adversity, identity beyond sport, and building a life of purpose, even when things fall apart. Hosted by former elite athlete and mental health advocate Mariel Nichole Anderson, this podcast is your companion through the messy middle of chasing big dreams, and becoming someone even bigger in the process. Because you weren’t born to just survive sport. You were made to be forged by it.

  1. 3d ago

    Ep 62 - When to Step In, When to Step Back and How to Help Your Athlete Grow

    Send us Fan Mail How do you support a youth athlete without becoming their coach, manager, problem-solver, and protector all at once? Former professional hockey coach Alex Stein joins Mariel Anderson for a powerful conversation about sports parenting, youth athlete development, mental performance, resilience, independence, and the parent-athlete relationship. Drawing from Alex’s 26 years coaching professional hockey across eight countries, they unpack the Triple E Framework: Environment, Enable, Empower — a simple approach parents can use to help young athletes grow both in sport and in life. They explore how parents can create a safe and supportive home environment, set healthy boundaries around sleep and phones, help athletes navigate difficult conversations with coaches, respond to playing-time frustrations, build personal responsibility, and learn to solve problems without Mom or Dad immediately stepping in. The conversation also tackles one of the biggest issues in youth sports: parent behaviour at practices and games. Alex and Mariel discuss coaching from the stands, yelling at referees, the car ride home, athlete versus spectator mindset, and why sometimes the best thing a parent can do is simply let their kid play. Alex even shares a memorable lesson in sports parenting from watching Wayne Gretzky and Janet Jones Gretzky quietly support their child at a hockey camp. If you are raising a competitive or elite youth athlete and wondering how much to help, when to step in, when to step back, and how to protect your relationship with your child along the way, this episode is for you. Show Notes In this episode, Mariel and Alex discuss: The Triple E Framework: Environment, Enable, EmpowerWhy parenting an athlete can feel like a sport of its ownCreating a psychologically safe home for youth athletesWhy boundaries can actually help children feel saferSleep, phones, screen time, social media, and young athletesCo-creating boundaries instead of simply imposing rulesWhy mistakes are an essential part of athlete developmentHow parents can teach athletes to advocate for themselvesWhat to do when your child is unhappy with their playing timeHow to prepare an athlete to speak directly with their coachUsing role play to practise difficult conversationsWhen parents should step in and advocate for their childHelping athletes pack their own equipment, food, and game-day necessitiesBuilding independence and personal responsibility through sportWhy rescuing kids from every mistake can interfere with resilienceHow parent behaviour affects athletes during gamesWhy yelling instructions from the stands usually doesn’t helpThe difference between the athlete mindset and spectator mindsetWhat parents should — and shouldn’t — do on the car ride homeA simple post-game question: “What do you need from me?”Referee abuse and why youth sports parents need to reconsider their roleHow parent behaviour can affect recruiting opportunitiesAlex’s story about watching Wayne Gretzky and Janet Jones Gretzky parent from the sidelinesAsking your athlete for honest feedback about how you show up at their gamesHow supporting independence today can create stronger, more confident adults tomorrowFor parents of youth athletes, coaches, competitive athletes, hockey families, and anyone involved in youth sports development, this conversation offers practical tools for raising resilient, confident, self-reliant athletes without losing the parent-child relationship along the way. To follow or work with Alex Stein, find him here:  https://www.carpecoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alex-stein-coach/ Train your mind. Build your grit. Forge your legacy. Support the show

    Ep 62 - When to Step In, When to Step Back and How to Help Your Athlete Grow
  2. Sep 1

    Ep. 61 - The Communication Rule That Keeps a Team Alive with Beattie Pudolsky

    Send us Fan Mail What does it take to become an Olympian and still feel like the same person the next day? Beattie Podulsky opens up about the reality behind Olympic luge - from the heartbreak of a race that went sideways, to the mental reset that got her back on the sled, to the tiny self-talk shifts that keep an athlete calm at 80 mph. Beattie is one half of Canada’s first-ever Olympic women’s doubles luge team, and she’s only been sliding with teammate Kaylee for about a year. That makes their rapid rise, their brutal learning curve, and their chemistry under pressure even more remarkable. If you’ve ever wondered what happens when elite performance meets fear, nerves, and zero margin for error, this conversation goes deep.You'll discover:   How Beattie and Kaylee built trust fast, from an awkward first coffee to living together and racing as a unitWhy their Olympic disappointment became a lesson in mindset, not a dead end The exact pre-race ritual they use, including track walks, warmup timing, breathing, and cue wordsHow they use visualization and “target mindset” language to stay focused under pressureWhy second runs can be harder than the first, even when the adrenaline is gone  Beattie's perspective is equal parts honest, hard-earned, and encouraging - especially if you’re chasing something that scares you. This episode is a must-listen for athletes, coaches, parents of young competitors, and anyone who needs a reminder that courage isn’t the absence of fear - it’s doing it scared anyway. If you want a raw look at elite mindset, teamwork, and what it means to keep going when the outcome hurts, press play. Support the show

    Ep. 61 - The Communication Rule That Keeps a Team Alive with Beattie Pudolsky
  3. Aug 25

    Ep. 60 - 'I Turned 39 by Telling the Story I Usually Avoid' with Mariel Anderson

    Send us Fan Mail Pain, grief, identity, motherhood, and leadership all collide in this deeply personal 39th-birthday episode from Mariel. If you have ever wondered how one person can survive chronic illness, rebuild after heartbreak, and still keep growing, this conversation will stay with you. For her 39th birthday, Mariel doesn't bring on a guest or hide behind a lesson, she tells the story herself, tracing the thread through too many versions of her life to count. From the hospital room where ulcerative colitis pushed her to a breaking point, to the promise she made in the shower to stop living in survival mode, this episode is raw, honest, and unexpectedly clarifying. You'll discover how Mariel:   Reclaimed her life from chronic pain, migraines, fibromyalgia, and Ehlers-Danlos syndromeLearned that her values - kindness, integrity, curiosity, respect, and courage - are what stayed constant through every reinventionFound her way through elite sport, skateboarding, dangerous environments, youth work, and leadership without abandoning herselfTurned grief, motherhood, and co-parenting into a masterclass in accountability, listening, and loveRealized courage comes before confidence  Along the way, she shares the moments that shaped her most: a humiliating hospital night that became a turning point, a friendship with a man at a soup kitchen that reframed what it means to remember someone, and the hard parenting lessons her daughter has been brave enough to teach back to her. She also reflects on the doors that closed, the collaborations that changed her, and the tools from sport that still guide how she lives and works today.T his is a reflection on what it means to stop waiting, trust your own becoming, and build a life from everything you've lived. You are never starting from nothing. You are starting from experience. Support the show

    Ep. 60 - 'I Turned 39 by Telling the Story I Usually Avoid' with Mariel Anderson
  4. Aug 18

    Ep 59 - What’s Next? Mitch Creek on Curiosity, Consistency & Becoming a Pro

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when you finally reach the goal everyone told you was impossible… and find yourself asking, “What’s next?” NBA and international pro Mitch Creek joins Mariel for a raw, wide-ranging conversation about what it actually takes to build a career — and a life — at a high level. From growing up in a small Australian town and once being scared of the basketball, to earning his opportunity in the NBA and competing around the world, Mitch shares the mindset that has carried him through every stage: stay curious, keep learning, and be willing to get uncomfortable. But this conversation goes far beyond basketball. Mitch opens up about pressure, failure, being cut, leadership, relationships, therapy, mental health, identity, and the work he's had to do away from the court to become better on it. He breaks down how he mentally steps outside high-pressure moments, why great leadership is about creating confidence in the people around you, and why sometimes you have to be willing to go backwards before you can move forward. They dig into what it really means to be a professional — not simply getting paid to play, but becoming so consistent that the gap between your best and your worst gets smaller and smaller. And perhaps most importantly, they talk about the danger of believing the destination is the point. Because once you get there… what’s next? This episode is for athletes, parents, coaches, leaders, and anyone chasing something bigger. It’s about curiosity, consistency, self-awareness, discomfort, growth — and learning to love the process of becoming. Follow Mitch on IG Here! SHOW NOTES 00:01 — From small-town kid to international pro Mitch shares how his upbringing, family, multi-sport childhood, and natural curiosity helped shape the athlete and person he became. 03:12 — Curiosity might be the real advantage Why you don’t need to be the best when you’re young — but you do need the patience and curiosity to keep learning. 06:09 — Progress is NOT a straight line Mitch breaks down why development includes plateaus, setbacks, missed goals, mistakes, and sometimes going backwards before moving forward. 10:53 — Break the big goal down Start with where you are, understand where you want to go, build a plan, and keep repeating the process. 12:47 — Small habits create consistency Big goals are exciting, but Mitch believes progress is built through simple actions repeated until they become automatic. 14:32 — Everybody wants the outcome. Who wants the work? The difference between wanting the professional career and being willing to consistently do the training, recovery, mindset work, preparation, and little things required to create it. 20:08 — You don’t deserve the opportunity — you earn the chance at one Hard work doesn’t guarantee the outcome. The work prepares you so that when your opportunity arrives, you’re ready to perform. 22:01 — How Mitch handles pressure Mitch explains how he mentally pulls himself outside the moment, gets a bird’s-eye view of the situation, and asks: What does this moment require of me? 26:19 — Helping teammates play free Why leadership can mean taking pressure off someone else, reinforcing their confidence, and creating enough mental space for them to make the next play. 30:48 — Learning servant leadership Mitch talks about coach Joey Wright, having the ceiling he placed on himself challenged, and learning that great leadership is about more than being the best player. 34:42 — The work outside basketball A family separation at 16 eventually led Mitch toward therapy and a deeper understanding of how unresolved experiences, relationships, self-image, and confidence were affecting his life and performance. 38:26 — You can’t keep avoiding the root cause Mitch speaks openly about his mental-health struggles and why learning to work through what is happening underneath the surface matters — especially when pressure, fatigue, and stress hit. 40:51 — The hidden side of success More success creates more opportunities — but also more distractions. Mitch talks about trust, relationships, boundaries, asking better questions, and learning who deserves access to your time. 47:31 — What gives you energy? A practical way of looking at life: notice what fills your cup, notice what drains it, and become more intentional about creating a life that supports you. 53:58 — Learn to enjoy being bad at something Mitch explains why he actively seeks new skills and experiences — and why being willing to fail gives you somewhere new to grow. 57:46 — What actually makes someone a pro? It isn’t the paycheck. Mitch defines professionalism as closing the gap between your best performance and your worst until the two become almost unrecognizable. 1:02:21 — He made the NBA… then asked, “What’s next?” After achieving the goal he had been told was impossible, Mitch found himself sitting alone wondering what came next. The moment changed the way he thought about achievement, progress, and the journey itself. 1:03:20 — The fear of stagnation Why reaching the destination can never be the end — and why Mitch continues building hobbies, skills, businesses, and identities outside basketball. 1:08:42 — Your skills have to go beyond your sport Mitch challenges young athletes to recognize that the curiosity, patience, repetition, problem-solving, and discipline they develop in sport can transfer directly into life. 1:12:28 — Everything connects What you learn on the court can make you better off it — and what you learn away from basketball can make you better when you return. 1:16:22 — Time is a currency Mitch discusses building skills and opportunities that create more choice — and ultimately more quality time for the people and experiences that matter. 1:18:44 — Start with a spark You don’t have to risk everything. Give a little time to something that makes you curious, see what happens, and allow that spark to become an ember. 1:20:24 — If it makes you nervous, lean in Speak up when you’re uncomfortable. Say what you need. Express appreciation. Set boundaries. Mitch explains why strength isn’t pretending everything is fine. 1:22:18 — Try things before deciding they aren’t for you What works today may not work forever — and what didn’t work before might fit you later. Stay willing to experiment and adjust. 1:24:00 — Your five people matter The people around you influence how you think, behave, and grow. Mitch and Mariel talk about intentionally finding people who stretch you while still valuing the relationships that matter. 1:28:47 — Rock the boat Mitch leaves us with a reminder that you don’t have to fit everywhere: rock the boat, swim to shore, set up a tent, and wait for your people to come along. IN THIS EPISODE Curiosity • Consistency • Pressure • Mental Performance • Leadership • Confidence • Failure • Mental Health • Self-Awareness • Relationships • Personal Growth • Life After Sport • Habits • Discomfort • Environment • Becoming a Pro EPISODE 59 TRANSCRIPT — MITCH CREEK Host: Mariel Anderson Guest: Mitch Creek NOTE: This transcript has been reformatted for readability from the original auto-generated transcript. Speaker labels and timestamps have been standardized; the spoken wording has otherwise been left as supplied. MARIEL ANDERSON — 00:01 Mitch, I have so many questions for you. It's not even funny, but we will keep it into 45 minutes, okay? so my first question is small town basketball player growing up to international basketball star. Holy shit, number one. And number two, like what what got you there? I mean a million things, but like what are the key things that got you there? MITCH CREEK — 00:07 Perfect, sounds good. MITCH CREEK — 00:21 Mm. MITCH CREEK — 00:28 I think my upbringing definitely set a precedence for like who I was going to be as I got older. I remember I went back to my high school, it's called St. Bridget's College in Australia. And the the they spoke to me and I did an assembly speech and we basically came back and said, Hey, like, you know, you could do anything you set your mind to and generic kind of like conversation and I I had my own version and spin on it. But the principal and one of my sport coordinator teachers at the time said to me, he's like, You here's some old school report cards of feedback we gave you. And it was like, you know, doesn't, you know, is amazing in team environments and group activities, is able to take the lead, not afraid to speak his mind, you know, great, great communication skills. But it when it came to like, you know. Ability to execute and listen within a classroom where it was just like a singular task, I struggled with. focus within a class when it's just one-on-one teaching, you know, everyone is learning the same thing from a board or a booklet. I really struggled. So the areas that I actually struggled with as an adult were very much the same as when I was young. And the areas of strength for me as a young man. Was actually very much the same strengths that I have and have built on as I've got older and into a professional career of basketball. Now that Support the show

    Ep 59 - What’s Next? Mitch Creek on Curiosity, Consistency & Becoming a Pro
  5. Aug 11

    Ep. 58 - Visualizing Success: How Top Athletes Recreate Their Races in Their Minds with Zach Hammer

    Send us Fan Mail Most of us underestimate the mental game behind peak performance... until we hear how Olympian speed climber Zach Hammer balances obsession with joy, failure with progress, and precision with purpose. Zach's journey from a young kid in Austria to a top-ranked Olympian is a story of mastering resilience, reframing setbacks, and cultivating a mindset that refuses to accept limits. Zach shares how he trains his mind just as intensely as his body, from visualization techniques that trick the body into doing more reps to the subtle art of smiling through defeat. Discover how he approaches competition prep, the rituals that keep him centered, and the role of self-talk and outcome-focus that keeps him pushing forward.  Whether you're an athlete, a high achiever, or simply someone striving to push past personal limits, this episode offers a blueprint for building mental grit, joy, and resilience in every aspect of life. Tune in if you're ready to elevate your mental game and start building the masterpiece that is your potential. Join our free 'Forged Youth' Skool group for more parent support and community! About Zach "I am an Olympic speed climber for Team USA. I have been climbing since the age of 3 and am now 100% dedicated to bettering myself and becoming the best version of myself possible, on and off the wall. I set sky high goals that people think are impossible, I love what I do, I enjoy every second of it I try, and I try to be unapologetically me no matter what. I believe that to be the best athlete you can be, you have to work on all aspects of your life, not just sport." - Zach Keep up with Zach on Instagram Support the show

    Ep. 58 - Visualizing Success: How Top Athletes Recreate Their Races in Their Minds with Zach Hammer
  6. Jul 28

    Ep. 56 - How Mental Fitness Supports you in Life’s Biggest Challenges with Richie Sharratt

    Send us Fan Mail Richie Sharratt is a former military man who defied incredible odds, and he joined us this week to share how he turned life’s harshest setbacks into powerful tools for growth, inspiring you to do the same. Mental fitness is a concept rooted in goal-setting, energy management, and humility. Discover how Richie survived near-death experiences, childhood trauma, and life-altering setbacks, ultimately channeling those struggles into a thriving career as a coach and leader. His story proves that regardless of your background or setbacks, you can forge strength from vulnerability and failure. In this episode, you’ll learn practical tools for mental resilience, including the “Condor Moment”: a powerful technique for pausing amidst chaos and making clear, conscious choices. Ritchie explains how to use this habit to manage pressure, curb negative energy, and build a stronger mindset. He also shares how to break big goals into bite-sized steps, turn setbacks into springboards, and develop the humility and servant leadership that set true winners apart. From elite sports to the C-suite, Ritchie’s lessons remind us all: your mindset is your greatest asset. Are you ready to rethink failure, embrace nerves as excitement, and take control of your energy? Hit play now. About Richie:  Richie Sharratt is an international award-winning founder, COO of Agora Social Club, President of Mentality Matters, and Chairman of Veterans United. After 15 years of global service in the British Army, he now leads initiatives focused on men’s wellness, mental fitness, veteran support, and high-impact leadership. With a background in counselling, coaching, and strategic growth, Richie is passionate about helping men live healthier, more purposeful lives. Join our free 'Forged Youth' Skool group for more parent support and community! Keep up with Richie on:  Linkedin Instagram Facebook Support the show

    Ep. 56 - How Mental Fitness Supports you in Life’s Biggest Challenges with Richie Sharratt
  7. Jul 21

    Ep. 55 - The Triple-A Technique for Calm, Clarity, and Resilience with Spencer Delisle

    Send us Fan Mail Most athletes spend hours perfecting their physical skills, but what if the real game-changer is learning how to master your inner world? Spencer Delisle, a visionary in emotional regulation and mental resilience, joins Mariel Anderson to reveal the art of self-awareness, breathwork, and intuition as keys to unlocking peak performance.  In this episode, you'll discover how awareness and acceptance can help you manage stress, dial down anger, and stay present under pressure. Spencer shares stories of how a calm mind fuels confidence, how breath connects body and mind, and why developing intuition is a game-winning skill at every level. Whether you’re a young athlete battling doubt, a parent wanting to support without adding pressure, or a coach striving to build resilient humans, this conversation rewires the way you understand your mental game. This is your invitation to see sport as a training ground for life. It is a space to forge character, grit, and legacy through mastery of the inner game. Perfect for athletes, parents, and coaches committed to elevating their mental resilience and embracing their potential. About Spencer Spencer Delisle is a global meditation teacher, executive coach, and the President of the Art of Living Foundation Canada — one of the world’s largest volunteer-run organizations dedicated to mental health, leadership, and human values. For over two decades, Spencer has helped thousands of people — from executives and first responders to elite athletes — access peak performance and inner peace through the science of breath and meditation. Drawing on his background in both neuroscience and high-performance training, Spencer has coached amateur and professional athletes, including ITF Tour juniors, NCAA Division I, and professional tennis players, integrating cutting-edge mental conditioning, breathwork, and recovery strategies to unlock flow states and sustainable excellence. Join our free 'Forged Youth' Skool group for more parent support and community! Keep up with Spencer on:  Linkedin Instagram Facebook Support the show

    Ep. 55 - The Triple-A Technique for Calm, Clarity, and Resilience with Spencer Delisle

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Forged Youth: Legacy Within What if the conversations you needed most as a teen athlete were finally being had, openly, honestly, and with purpose? Forged Youth: Legacy Within is the podcast that equips youth athletes (ages 12–24), their parents, and coaches with the mental tools, emotional resilience, and life insight to rise above the noise and grow into strong, intentional human beings. Each episode features real, raw conversations with professional athletes, CEOs, and cultural leaders sharing what they wish they knew when they were younger. We unpack topics like mental grit, overcoming adversity, identity beyond sport, and building a life of purpose, even when things fall apart. Hosted by former elite athlete and mental health advocate Mariel Nichole Anderson, this podcast is your companion through the messy middle of chasing big dreams, and becoming someone even bigger in the process. Because you weren’t born to just survive sport. You were made to be forged by it.

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