Probing In The Sheets

Probing In The Sheets

At its core, we understand the vast ripple effect kink can have on our lives, rooted in pleasure, personal growth, and community. It’s time to tune into yourself and connect on a deeper level, while having delicious fun exploring topics within the kink and BDSM realm. In association with Probe Ottawa.

Episodes

  1. 5D AGO

    Navigating The Kink World (Part 2) Drop

    In this episode, Miel and Jamie delve into the concept of 'drop' in the kink community, exploring its emotional and physical impacts. They discuss personal experiences, the importance of communication, and the role of rest and self-care in navigating drop. The conversation highlights the human experience of emotions and the transformative power of vulnerability and connection. Takeaways It's easier to identify and go through a drop than to resist it. Rest and self-care are essential in managing drop. Drop can affect both submissives and dominants. Vulnerability during drop can lead to deeper connections. Contact us @ probinginthesheets@gmail.com About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxoxo About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

    40 min
  2. OCT 3

    Navigating the Kink World (Part 1)

    In the latest episode of Probing In The Sheets, Miel and Jamie are on location at a kink event in Southern Ontario. In this discussion they cover the camp's vibrant atmosphere, the importance of discernment in the kink community, and how to find and navigate events like Camp. Sharing personal experiences and insights into the kink lifestyle, emphasizing the value of learning from mistakes and the power of community. Takeaways  Discernment is crucial when entering the kink community. Finding the right events can be challenging but rewarding. FetLife is a valuable resource for discovering kink events. It's important to find what feels right for you in the kink space. The kink community is diverse and welcoming. Contact us @ probinginthesheets@gmail.com About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxoxo About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa

    33 min
  3. SEP 26

    Exploring Attachment Styles In Kink

    This week, Jamie and Miel dive into the complexities of attachment styles within kink relationships, discussing personal experiences and insights into how these dynamics play out in BDSM and alternative lifestyles. The conversation delves into the challenges and healing potential of non-monogamy, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and personal growth. Further Reading: Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy, By Jessica Fern Attachment Styles in Dom/sub Dynamics Contact us @ probinginthesheets@gmail.com About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxoxo About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa Key Episode Takeaways Understanding primal panic versus jealousy is crucial in non-monogamous relationships. BDSM can be a healing space for exploring attachment styles. Self-awareness is key to navigating complex relationship dynamics. Personal stories highlight the journey of embracing non-monogamy.

    50 min
  4. SEP 19

    Pleasure Activism In Kink

    In this first episode of Probing In The Sheets, Miel and Jamie explore the heart of why they built this podcast, rooted in pleasure activism and the pivotal work done by Adrienne Maree Brown. Celebrate with our hosts as they discuss themes of pleasure is rebellious and rest is resistance, woven into the topics of kink and BDSM.  Follow Adreinne Maree Brown on Instagram @adriennemareebrown  Continue Deepening Your Knowledge Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good - By Adrienne Maree Brown Rest Is Resistance: A Manifesto - By Tricia Hersey Contact us @ probinginthesheets@gmail.com About Miel Miel (they/them) is the visionary President and CEO of Probe Ottawa. As a nonbinary queer human, Miel is dedicated to cultivating an inclusive and accessible community rooted in respect and vulnerability. To Miel, kink is not only an exploration of desire, but also a deeply political act of pleasure activism that challenges societal norms and embraces the beauty and mess of human connection. They believe that pleasure is an inherent right and that diverse expressions of intimacy can provide the rich soil for healing and liberation to grow in. Work With Miel IG @daddy.miel About Jamie As a Kink & Life Coach, Jamie (she/her) helps her clients navigate the desirable world of BDSM and kink, with safety education, and tools to connect to the deepest parts of themselves. The parts that the world has said to keep hidden. Through her personal journey, and coaching others, she understands that this is key in stepping into our individual power, and crafting the life we truly desire. Authentic connection and play are vital to us as humans, BDSM and kink gives you the container to explore, learn and create — and positively impacts the rest of your life. Work With Jamie IG @walkerxoxo About Probe Ottawa Ottawa’s private members club — a sanctuary where individuals of all gender and orientations can embrace their true selves without fear or judgment. Nestled in the heart of the Byward Market of Ottawa this haven is where the boundaries of pleasure and self-discovery are pushed, empowering attendees to embrace their desires and unlock their inner strength. Visit Probe Ottawa IG @probeottawa

    43 min

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At its core, we understand the vast ripple effect kink can have on our lives, rooted in pleasure, personal growth, and community. It’s time to tune into yourself and connect on a deeper level, while having delicious fun exploring topics within the kink and BDSM realm. In association with Probe Ottawa.

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