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Project Next Media wants to help make your life better by taking out the fear, hate, and division in your news. www.projectnextindiana.com

  1. Aug 20

    Why men should read romance novels

    🔥 MEN SHOULD READ MORE ROMANCE NOVELS. There. We said it. 📚 And before you come for us… hear us out. 😂 Sarah Blessing and her book-loving neighbor Ashley Ballard sat down for one of our favorite Project Next conversations yet—and this one went places. Why might reading romance actually help men in their own relationships? Because these books are filled with people trying to figure each other out. Communication. Attraction. Conflict. Vulnerability. Consent. Friendship. Trauma. Trust. What makes someone feel loved—and what makes them feel unheard. And maybe there’s something we can all learn from that. We also need to talk about the way our culture treats the things women enjoy. Why is reading a romance novel a “guilty pleasure”? Why should someone hide the book they’re reading because another person might think it’s silly, trashy, unrealistic or too spicy? Read the book. Enjoy the book. You don’t need to feel guilty. And partners: your spouse reading a romance novel isn’t necessarily a critique of you or your relationship. Sometimes a dragon is just a dragon. 😂🐉 We get into fantasy romance, Twilight, Fifty Shades of Grey, Ali Hazelwood, the enormous variety within romance, the books we love—and why we love them. But this conversation becomes about something much bigger than romance novels. It’s about being less judgmental of one another. Just because you don’t understand why someone loves something doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with it. People are stressed. People are carrying trauma. Money is tight. Life can be exhausting. And sometimes having a book waiting for you at the end of a hard day is exactly what you need. Reading can be an escape. It can be entertainment. It can build empathy. It can expose us to people and experiences different from our own. And after thousands of books between us, Ashley and Sarah talk about how reading has helped them better understand people and communicate with the world around them. So let’s stop calling books a guilty pleasure. Let’s stop the stigma. Let’s stop the shame. And let’s start talking about what we’re actually reading. 📖 WHAT ARE YOU READING RIGHT NOW? Show us your book in the comments. Seriously. Take a picture and post it. And MEN—we especially want to hear from you. Are there men out there reading romance novels? 👀 We KNOW some of you are. Tell us what you’re reading. Tell us what you think. And if you’ve never picked up a romance novel before… maybe it’s time. 😉📚 👇 Drop your current read below. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.projectnextindiana.com

    Why men should read romance novels
  2. Aug 13

    Harrison County Government used to work. How do we fix it now?

    Harrison County Government Used to Work. And It Can Again. This was one of the most fascinating — and hopeful — conversations on Project Next. Sarah Blessing sat down with Terry Miller, who served 17 years as a Harrison County Commissioner, including during the transformational years when casino revenue began coming into the county. Terry described a Harrison County government that might sound almost foreign today. Republicans and Democrats didn’t always agree. They questioned each other. They held each other accountable. But they also worked together. They had plans for the county’s money. They balanced budgets. They told the public what they were doing. People could ask questions — and instead of treating questions like an attack, they wanted people to ask. Compare that to where Harrison County is today. The last five State Board of Accounts audit periods have documented recurring financial reporting, internal-control, recordkeeping, and transparency problems. There have been errors involving millions of dollars in county financial reports and findings that continued from one audit to the next. Our tax dollars deserve better accountability. And that’s why this conversation matters. Terry Miller is now running for Harrison County Auditor. During his 17 years as Commissioner — including time serving as president of the Commission — Terry helped govern through some of the most consequential financial decisions in Harrison County’s history. Now he wants to bring that experience to the Auditor’s office with a very simple goal: Account for every single penny of the taxpayers’ money. Watch this episode and hear Terry explain what Harrison County government used to look like. How Democrats and Republicans worked together. How they planned. How they handled the casino money. How they communicated with the public. And what he believes needs to change today. Most importantly, this conversation is hopeful. Because it proves something important: Harrison County government doesn’t have to operate the way it does today. We’ve done better before. We can do better again. But collectively, as a county, we have to decide that it’s time for change. 🎥 Watch this episode of Project Next with Terry Miller, then share it with another Harrison County resident. People deserve to know what a functioning, transparent, and accountable local government can look like. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.projectnextindiana.com

    Harrison County Government used to work. How do we fix it now?
  3. Aug 10

    Mental Fitness: Beating Perfectionism

    😂 BEATING PERFECTIONISM: Why are we SO mean to ourselves?! This might be one of the most fun Mental Fitness episodes Ellen Morrison Kelley and I have done. We laughed. A LOT. 😂 But we also talked about something that gets into so many of our heads: The pressure to be perfect. Perfect parent. Perfect wife. Perfect employee. Perfect body. Perfect house. Perfect response. Perfect life. And heaven forbid you make a mistake — especially where other people can see it. 😬 But here’s the problem: Human beings are messy. Life is complicated. Most things are gray, not black and white — and NONE of us are perfect. So why do we expect ourselves to be? In this episode, we talk about the toxic messages we absorb from our culture and how easily they become the voice inside our own heads. I share what I’ve learned from being heavily judged online — and how I’ve had to learn to let some of it go. Ellen shares a story about a man who said something absolutely SHOCKING to her while she was walking in a parade. 😳 And we talk about the expectations placed on women — especially the generations of women who came before us — and how much of that baggage we’re still carrying around without even realizing it. Thankfully, Ellen is a retired therapist, because at several points we basically had to ask: WHY DO WE DO THIS TO OURSELVES?! 😂 One idea kept coming back: ❤️ What if we talked to ourselves the way we would talk to our best friend? We would never expect our best friend to be perfect. We wouldn’t tear her apart over every mistake. We’d remind her she’s human, tell her to learn from it, laugh when appropriate, and KEEP GOING. Maybe we deserve that same kindness. This episode is funny, honest, messy and VERY relatable — and I think a lot of people are going to see themselves in this conversation. 🎥 Watch “Beating Perfectionism” and then tell us: What pressure did you spend years putting on yourself that you finally realized you could LET GO? And what do you do when that little voice in your head starts demanding perfection again? 👇 We really want to hear your answers. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.projectnextindiana.com

    Mental Fitness: Beating Perfectionism
  4. Jul 22

    Why Clark County is Housing ICE Detainees

    What is really happening with ICE in Southern Indiana—and why aren’t more people talking about it? Sarah Blessing sits down with Rhiannon Ryan of Do Something Southern Indiana, a nonpartisan community organization working to educate, organize, and empower local residents around issues affecting Southern Indiana. Together, they take a deep dive into Clark County’s agreement to house ICE detainees in the Clark County Jail, the questions surrounding federal funding for that agreement, and why transparency matters. Reports have raised questions about whether the county is receiving the funding originally expected, making public records requests more important than ever to understand how the program is operating and what taxpayers should know. The conversation also examines the recent ICE operation in Clark County, where at least 28 people were detained over two days—Wednesday and Thursday, July 8-9, 2026—an event that many Southern Indiana residents still know very little about.   Sarah and Rhiannon discuss concerns about local law enforcement’s role, why the upcoming Clark County sheriff’s race could shape the future of the jail’s ICE partnership, and why local elections often have a much bigger impact on our communities than many people realize. Most importantly, this episode is about refusing to give in to hopelessness. Whether you agree or disagree on immigration policy, democracy works best when people stay informed, ask questions, and get involved. Rhiannon shares how organizations like Do Something Southern Indiana—and groups like Indivisible, with chapters across the country—give ordinary people a way to make a difference close to home. If you’ve ever wondered, “What can I actually do?” this conversation is a reminder that change begins locally—and that every community needs people willing to show up, learn the facts, and care about their neighbors. Don’t tune out. Get informed. Get involved. Be part of the solution. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.projectnextindiana.com

    Why Clark County is Housing ICE Detainees
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