PSR Podcast

Jonathan Daugherty
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PSR Podcast

Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Since 2005, Jonathan Daugherty and Stephen Cervantes (and guests) have been helping listeners engage difficult topics like sexuality, marriage, and trauma healing in a thoughtful and personal manner.

  1. Navigating from Isolation to Intimacy (with Bret Marshall)

    1D AGO

    Navigating from Isolation to Intimacy (with Bret Marshall)

    In this episode, I chat with Bret Marshall about his incredible journey of faith and personal transformation. Bret opens up about his struggles with emotional expression and sexual sin, and how these challenges impacted his relationships, especially with his wife, Tena. He shares the pivotal moments that led to his healing, including a transformative intensive experience through a past partnership between Be Broken and the Navigators ministry organization. Bret highlights the ABC’s of emotional health: Acceptance, Belonging, and Connection. Bret also emphasizes the need for personal vulnerability, authentic connections, and creating safe spaces for men to share their full stories. His own story is an incredible reminder of the transformative power of God’s presence in our lives. Learn more about Bret on his YouTube channel: @whylivetoday. Topics Covered in this Episode: Bret Marshall's journey of faith and personal transformation.The significance of being known and sharing personal stories.Challenges faced in relationships, particularly with a spouse.The importance of creating safe environments for men to share their experiences.Emotional suppression and its impact on personal well-being.The role of communication in fostering intimacy and connection in relationships.The necessity of vulnerability and honesty in personal and spiritual growth.Building supportive relationships with mentors and peers for spiritual development.Encouragement for those struggling with hidden aspects of their lives to seek help and support. More Resources: Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenMere Christianity* by C.S. LewisFind a GroupRelated Podcasts: The Story of 3 MenUnderstanding 4 Key Roles in Your StoryMr Unemotional: Moving from Isolation to Connection *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    36 min
  2. The Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight

    APR 9

    The Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight

    In this episode, I am thrilled to welcome Dr. Steve Call, a clinical psychologist and co-author with Dr. Dan Allender of The Deep Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight*. We dive into the book's themes, focusing on how past traumas influence present marital conflicts and how to grow in emotional understanding and intimacy. Dr. Call shares his personal marriage journey, emphasizing the importance of awareness and curiosity in relationships.  We discuss practical steps for couples to cultivate awareness, the role of play in healing, and strategies for managing triggers. Dr. Call offers hope and resources for couples to nourish their relationships. To learn more about Dr. Call’s resources and to get the book, visit TheReconnectInstitute.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Discussion of the book "The Deep Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight.*"Exploration of how past experiences and traumas influence current marital conflicts.Importance of cultivating awareness and curiosity in relationships.The role of intensive counseling formats in addressing deep-rooted issues.Strategies for couples to develop awareness during conflicts.The significance of play in fostering connection and healing in marriage.Addressing triggers and shame in relationships, particularly during recovery.Practical strategies for emotional regulation and self-care during challenging moments.The metaphor of soil amendments to illustrate the need for nurturing relationships.Resources and support for couples seeking to deepen their connection and navigate challenges. More Resources: The Deep-Rooted Marriage* by Allender and CallMarriage Story IntensiveReconnect* by Dr. Steve CallRelated Podcasts: 6 Hours that will Transform Your MarriageWorking Through Emotional Disconnection in MarriageGrowing a Stronger Marriage Even When it's Difficult *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    34 min
  3. Failing Forward: Turning Setbacks into Hopeful Growth Steps

    APR 2

    Failing Forward: Turning Setbacks into Hopeful Growth Steps

    In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the emotional impact of failure. We both express how deeply we hate failing, describing how it triggers feelings of rejection, isolation, and shame. We explore the importance of reframing failure, emphasizing that God's love still remains constant despite our setbacks. His grace abounds!  We suggest that solitude can be a sanctuary for self-reflection and growth, encouraging you to create a “holy space” for healing. We ultimately want to offer you a compassionate perspective on failure, encouraging gentleness toward yourself and confidence in the transformative power of God's unwavering love.  We start the episode by saying, “I hate failing.” We end it with, “But God likes me and so do I.”  For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: The emotional impact of failure on individuals.Feelings of rejection, isolation, and shame associated with failure.The cycle of shame and loneliness stemming from failure.The importance of self-acceptance and kindness in overcoming failure.The role of community and support in addressing feelings of inadequacy.Generational patterns of failure and their effects on identity.The concept of solitude as a sanctuary for self-reflection and growth.The relationship between identity, self-worth, and external validation.The nature of God's love in relation to failure and self-acceptance.Strategies for reframing failure as a part of the human experience rather than a defining characteristic. More Resources: Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenGrace-Based Transformation* by Jonathan Daugherty40 Days of Purity for Men online courseRelated Podcasts: Understanding Failure in RecoveryWhat's Your Failure and Rejection Management PlanHow to Be at Peace in Aloneness *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    30 min
  4. Are You a Loner or Connector in Your Relationships?

    MAR 26

    Are You a Loner or Connector in Your Relationships?

    In this episode, we dive into the dynamics of "loners" and "connectors" in relationships. Everyone falls into one of these categories. As we explore this topic, my friend and co-host Stephen Cervantes discusses how loners tend to be independent and process internally, while connectors thrive on dialogue and emotional exchange. We examine how these differences impact communication and emotional connection, particularly in marriages.  We share insights on personal growth, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating each other's communication styles; we aren’t out to change a loner into a connector or vice versa. We give lots of personal anecdotes and practical advice, aiming to help you navigate these differences to foster deeper connections and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. To read the Thought on Loners and Connectors, go to DoctorMarriage.org/loners-and-connectors. Topics Covered in this Episode: Distinction between "loners" and "connectors" in personal relationships.Characteristics of loners: independence, introspection, and internal processing.Characteristics of connectors: relational, expressive, and dialogue-oriented.Impact of communication styles on relationships, particularly in marriage.Importance of emotional connection and its role in relationship dynamics.Challenges faced by loners in engaging with emotional exchanges.The necessity of active listening in fostering trust and connection.Strategies for navigating differences between loners and connectors.The role of personal growth in improving relationship dynamics.Encouragement for couples to discuss and understand their connection styles for deeper intimacy. More Resources: 40 Days to Oneness by Stephen CervantesThe 40 Day Relationship Builder* by Stephen CervantesBuilding True Intimacy* by Matthew & Joanna RaabsmithRelated Podcasts: Dealing with Conflict Podcast BundleWorking Through Emotional Disconnection in MarriageAbout Your Emotional Connecting Skills *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    32 min
  5. The Role of Boundaries in Marriage Restoration

    MAR 19

    The Role of Boundaries in Marriage Restoration

    In this episode, we invite back our friends and counselors, Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, to talk about the crucial role of boundaries in restoring marriages after betrayal, particularly sexual infidelity. Matthew shares insights from the perspective of the betraying spouse, emphasizing self-reflection and accountability, while Joanna offers guidance for the betrayed spouse on navigating emotions and setting personal boundaries.  We delve into defining boundaries as supportive frameworks rather than punishing limitations, avoiding misuse of boundaries for control, and harmonizing them to foster safety and mutual respect. The Raabsmiths highlight the importance of individual responsibility and how boundaries can create a safe space for healing and rebuilding trust. To download the Raabsmith’s free Honest Connection Guide, visit RenewingUs.com/puresexradio. Click here for the Raabsmith's full bios Topics Covered in this Episode: Importance of boundaries in marriage restoration after betrayalDefinition and positive framing of boundaries in relationshipsDistinction between healthy boundaries and manipulative or controlling behaviorsRole of individual responsibility in setting and maintaining boundariesChallenges faced by the betrayed spouse in establishing boundariesThe necessity for the betraying spouse to take accountability and establish their own boundariesNavigating fear and emotional responses related to boundary settingStrategies for harmonizing boundaries to support both partners and the relationshipAddressing boundary violations and the importance of introspectionEstablishing new habits and structures to support healthy boundaries in the relationship More Resources: Building True Intimacy* by Matthew & Joanna RaabsmithRenewing Us RecoveryRenewing Us Couples RetreatRelated Podcasts: Rebuilding a Healthy Marriage After BetrayalThe Need for Boundaries After BetrayalHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Betrayal *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    34 min
  6. From Eating Disorder to Infidelity to Healing and Restoration

    MAR 12

    From Eating Disorder to Infidelity to Healing and Restoration

    In this episode, I chat with author and blogger Sarah Matzke, who bravely shares her journey through struggles with body image, an eating disorder, and marital challenges, including infidelity.  Sarah opens up about her upbringing, the pressures she faced, and the lies she believed about her worth. She recounts the painful yet transformative process of rebuilding trust with her husband, JP, and how her faith in Christ played a crucial role in their healing. Sarah's story is a powerful testament to the importance of vulnerability, honesty, and the grace of God in overcoming life's toughest obstacles.  To learn more about Sarah and get a copy of her book, visit SarahJeanMatzke.com. Topics Covered in the Episode: Personal struggles with body image and eating disordersImpact of societal pressures and familial expectations on self-worthChallenges faced in marriage, including infidelityThe process of rebuilding trust after betrayalImportance of open communication and transparency in relationshipsRole of faith and spirituality in healing and restorationSeeking professional help and therapy for personal issuesThe significance of accountability and honesty in relationshipsThe journey of self-discovery and confronting personal liesSharing personal stories as a means of hope and encouragement for others More Resources: Desert Vineyards: A Story of Bulimia, Adultery, and Infertility Redeemed by Truth* by Sarah MatzkeThe Body Revelation* by Keeton and ConnollyRelated Podcasts: Understanding Female Sexuality and StrugglesConfession and Disclosure for Couples Helping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual Betrayal *This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link. ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    34 min
  7. Porn and Sex Addiction Recovery as a Mental Health Issue

    MAR 7

    Porn and Sex Addiction Recovery as a Mental Health Issue

    In this episode, I have back on the program Carl Thomas to dig into the recovery journey from pornography and sexual addiction. Carl shares his personal story and emphasizes the importance of community and addressing mental and emotional health.  We discuss how recovery goes beyond just stopping harmful behaviors or behavioral sobriety and involves understanding and healing deeper emotional wounds. Carl highlights the stigma around mental health and the need for a holistic approach to recovery. He also provides resources for those seeking support. This episode aims to offer hope and guidance to anyone navigating similar challenges or interested in the recovery process. To learn more about Carl and the Live Free Ministries resources, visit LiveFreeCommunity.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Recovery from pornography and sexual addictionImportance of community in the recovery processPersonal journey and background of the speakerHolistic approach to mental and emotional health in recoveryAddressing underlying emotional and mental health issuesThe stigma surrounding mental health and seeking helpThe interconnectedness of various aspects of life in recoveryCoping mechanisms and their relation to addictionEncouragement for ongoing growth and development in recoveryResources and support available for individuals seeking recovery More Resources: XXXChurch.comGateway to Freedom 3-day Intensive for MenGrace-Based Recovery Online Study GroupsRelated Podcasts: The Power of CommunityWhen Shame Gets RealReal Stories of Recovery and Hope ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Follow us on our Vimeo Channel.

    36 min
  8. Understanding the Impact of Parent's Infidelity on Adult Children

    MAR 5

    Understanding the Impact of Parent's Infidelity on Adult Children

    In this episode, I sit down with Melissa Macomber to explore the emotional and psychological impact of parental infidelity on adult children. Melissa shares her personal story of discovering her mother's affair at 13 and the ensuing family dynamics. Now, as a therapist, she highlights the lack of resources for adult children dealing with such betrayal and emphasizes the importance of addressing trust issues and healing – no matter how long it has been since the parental infidelity took place.  We discuss the broader implications of infidelity on family relationships and the unique challenges faced by children at all stages of growing up. Melissa offers valuable insights and resources for those navigating this difficult journey. To learn more about Melissa and her research, visit MelissaMacomber.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Emotional and psychological impact of parental infidelity on adult childrenPersonal experiences of discovering a parent's affairFamily dynamics and their evolution post-infidelityLack of resources and support for adult children dealing with parental betrayalPatterns of infidelity in adult relationships stemming from childhood experiencesThe importance of addressing feelings of betrayal and trust issuesThe role of boundaries in the healing process for adult childrenDistinction between forgiveness and rebuilding trustChallenges faced by adult children in navigating their parents' conflictsThe significance of sharing personal stories and seeking therapy for healing More Resources: Help for Adult Children (of any age)Help for TherapistsTen Research-Based Facts about Parent-InfidelityRelated Podcasts: Why Do We Cheat?Talking to Your Kids About Sex (Podcast Bundle)Rebuilding Your Marriage After Betrayal (Podcast Bundle) ---------- Please rate and review our podcast: Apple Podcasts Subscribe to our YouTube channel.

    34 min
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Pure Sex Radio (PSR) seeks to help men, women, and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Since 2005, Jonathan Daugherty and Stephen Cervantes (and guests) have been helping listeners engage difficult topics like sexuality, marriage, and trauma healing in a thoughtful and personal manner.

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  • Creator
    Jonathan Daugherty
  • Years Active
    2006 - 2025
  • Episodes
    518
  • Rating
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