Queer Talker

Ben Cicchetti
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Queer Talker is a podcast celebrating the stories and journeys of LGBTQ+ individuals from all walks of life, from business leaders to celebrities and influencers. Through open and authentic conversations, we explore themes of identity, authenticity, and the power of living boldly.

  1. Lee Peart: Comedy, Identity, and Finding Yourself Through Humour

    3D AGO

    Lee Peart: Comedy, Identity, and Finding Yourself Through Humour

    In this episode of Queer Talker, Ben Cicchetti sits down with comedian, writer, and podcaster Lee Peart. Lee shares the journey that led him from navigating multiple identities at school to finding confidence and connection through stand-up comedy. Growing up balancing different versions of himself, Lee talks openly about humour becoming both a shield and a way to explore who he really was. From discovering comedy to embracing life on stage, Lee reflects on how performing helped him step into his identity as a gay man and build the confidence he once struggled to find. The conversation also explores the role of queer mentorship, the importance of seeing people further along the journey, and the impact figures like Matthew Shepard had on shaping queer history and visibility. This is a conversation about identity, humour, resilience, and the power of finding the space where you can finally be yourself. Chapters 00:00 Queer Panic Rapid Fire Questions 09:39 Exploring Childhood and Identity 16:14 First Awareness of LGBTQ+ Representation 21:22 The Role of Humor in Identity 27:59 Journey into Comedy 37:00 Navigating Different Spaces 40:11 Podcasting and Wine Demystification 45:06 Advice for Younger LGBTQ+ Individuals Connect with Ben Cicchetti: Website - https://www.queertalker.com  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bencicchetti/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@BenCicchetti TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bencicchetti

    48 min
  2. Linus Karp: Princess Diana, Gwyneth Paltrow & Creating Queer Joy On Stage

    FEB 24

    Linus Karp: Princess Diana, Gwyneth Paltrow & Creating Queer Joy On Stage

    In this episode of Queer Talker, Ben Cicchetti sits down with writer, performer and Awkward Productions co-founder Linus Karp. From viral fringe shows to West End transfers, Linus has built a reputation for bold, chaotic and wildly intelligent queer theatre. But beneath the comedy is a deep understanding of identity, satire and what it really means to take up space as a queer creative. Linus shares the journey from a leaky shipping container at the Edinburgh Fringe to sold-out runs and five-star reviews. He talks about creating work like Diana: The Untold and Untrue Story and Gwyneth Goes Skiing, and why parody can sometimes say more about culture than seriousness ever could. We explore queer visibility in comedy, the difference between poking fun and punching down, and how working creatively with his husband has shaped both his art and his life. This is a conversation about ambition, irreverence, collaboration and building a body of work that refuses to behave. Chapters 00:00 Queer Panic 03:01 Childhood and Early Influences 05:43 Passion for Pop Culture 08:37 First Awareness of Queerness 11:36 Navigating Queerness and Authenticity 14:32 Theater Journey and Awkward Productions 17:50 Creative Process and Show Development 20:42 Marriage and Collaboration with Joseph 23:35 The Edinburgh Fringe Experience 26:31 Queer Culture and Political Context 29:40 Pressure of Success and Future Projects 32:38 Humor and Audience Connection 35:33 Performing in the U.S. and Cultural Differences 38:44 Advice to Younger Self and LGBTQ+ Youth 41:32 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Connect with Ben Cicchetti: Website - https://www.queertalker.com  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bencicchetti/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@BenCicchetti TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bencicchetti Credits: Photo Credit: Dax Smith - https://www.instagram.com/the.photosmith/

    51 min
  3. Miss Tess Tickle: From Small-Town Survival to Drag, Visibility & Changing Minds

    FEB 10

    Miss Tess Tickle: From Small-Town Survival to Drag, Visibility & Changing Minds

    In this episode of Queer Talker, Ben Cicchetti sits down with drag artist, educator, and community force Miss Tess Tickle. Growing up queer in a small mining village in County Durham, Tess shares what it was like to survive bullying, Section 28, and a total lack of representation. From hiding parts of herself to finding joy, confidence, and purpose through drag, this is a powerful story about staying when it would have been easier to leave. Tess opens up about coming out to her parents, the moment that changed everything, and why visibility in small towns matters just as much as visibility on television. She also talks candidly about drag beyond Drag Race, working in tough straight venues, and using comedy, education, and compassion to change minds. We also explore Tess’s incredible community work through The Angel Trust, how drag became a tool for education and safeguarding, and why she believes we should not have to come out at all. This is a conversation about resilience, representation, chosen family, and being the person you needed when you were younger. Chapters 00:00 Queer Panic 04:30 Growing Up LGBTQ+: Challenges and Realizations 07:25 The Impact of Representation in Media 10:23 Coming Out: Personal Stories and Family Reactions 13:24 Finding Acceptance and Love 16:28 The Journey into Drag: A New Identity 19:16 Visibility and Community Engagement 26:05 The Journey into Drag 27:18 Life as a Drag Queen in the UK 31:59 Education Through Performance 37:08 Inspiration from Icons 43:03 Fighting for Acceptance in the Community 51:10 Empowering the Next Generation Learn more about the Angle Trust Website - https://www.angeltrust.co.uk  Connect with Ben Cicchetti: Website - https://www.queertalker.com  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bencicchetti/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@BenCicchetti TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bencicchetti

    56 min
  4. Jude Guaitamacchi: Non-Binary Visibility, Recovery, and Rebuilding a Life with Purpose

    JAN 27

    Jude Guaitamacchi: Non-Binary Visibility, Recovery, and Rebuilding a Life with Purpose

    In this episode of Queer Talker, host Ben Cicchetti sits down with Jude Guaitamacchi, non-binary activist, writer, and co-founder of Trans Solidarity Alliance. Jude opens up about growing up without the language to understand their identity, navigating trauma and addiction, and the long road to recovery and self-acceptance. They reflect on homelessness, survival, and what it means to rebuild a life when everything falls apart. The conversation also explores non-binary visibility, the emotional toll of activism, and why community care matters just as much as resistance. Jude shares powerful insights on leadership, allyship, and how queer people can protect themselves while still fighting for change. This is an honest and deeply human conversation about identity, resilience, and learning to stay when everything tells you to disappear. Chapters 00:00 Queer Panic 04:33 The Impact of Music and Media on Identity 07:25 Celebrating Unsung Heroes in the Queer Community 10:27 Childhood Challenges and the Search for Identity 13:12 Understanding Queerness and Representation 16:09 Authenticity and the Journey of Self-Discovery 19:10 The Role of Trauma in Shaping Activism 22:26 Prioritizing Self-Care in Activism 28:58 Embodying Love and Self-Care 31:03 The Birth of the Trans Solidarity Alliance 33:16 Navigating Political Activism 38:51 Visibility and Representation in Media 45:56 Brands and Allyship in the Current Climate 51:46 Coping with Scrutiny and Online Trolls 57:07 Advice to Younger Generations Learn more about the Trans+ Solidarity Alliance: Website - https://www.transsolidarityalliance.com/  Connect with Ben Cicchetti: Website - https://www.queertalker.com  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bencicchetti/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@BenCicchetti TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bencicchetti

    1 hr
  5. Michael Gunning: Coming Out in Sport, Representation, and Finding Your Olympic Moment

    JAN 13

    Michael Gunning: Coming Out in Sport, Representation, and Finding Your Olympic Moment

    Michael Gunning is a former elite swimmer, LGBTQ+ advocate, and one of the most important voices at the intersection of sport, race, and identity. In the first Queer Talker episode of 2026, Michael joins Ben Cicchetti for a powerful and deeply honest conversation about growing up feeling different, navigating elite sport as a queer mixed-race athlete, and the long journey toward living authentically. Michael reflects on overcompensating to fit in, the damaging stereotypes he faced in swimming, and how being told “Black people can’t swim” became fuel rather than a barrier. He opens up about suppression, resilience, and the mental toll of hiding parts of yourself in highly competitive environments. The conversation explores the importance of representation, the impact of seeing figures like Tom Daley come out in sport, and why visibility still matters in 2026. Michael also shares what it meant to come out publicly, the overwhelming mix of support and hate, and how that moment reshaped his life and sense of purpose. We also talk about retirement from elite sport, identity beyond the pool, body image, pressure, and what it means to redefine success after stepping away from a career that once defined you. This is a thoughtful, hopeful episode about resilience, self-acceptance, and learning that being different is not a weakness but a superpower. Chapters 00:00 Hopes and Dreams for 2026 04:18 Queer Panic 07:24 Childhood and Identity 10:19 Coming Out and Its Impact 13:20 Pride and Community 16:17 The Role of Swimming in Resilience 19:18 Representation in Sports 20:01 Embracing Authenticity in the Entertainment Industry 20:46 The Importance of Being Your True Self 21:50 Isolation and Connection in Elite Sports 23:05 Coming Out: A Transformative Experience 24:50 Navigating Public Perception and Personal Identity 26:25 The Transition from Elite Athlete to Everyday Life 28:06 The Reality of Retirement: Adjusting to Life After Sports 30:10 Maintaining Competitive Spirit Beyond the Pool 32:34 Advice to Younger Self and LGBTQ+ Youth Connect with Ben Cicchetti: Website - https://www.queertalker.com  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bencicchetti/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@BenCicchetti TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bencicchetti

    36 min
  6. Lewis Oakley: Bisexual Visibility, Identity, and Owning the In-Between

    12/30/2025

    Lewis Oakley: Bisexual Visibility, Identity, and Owning the In-Between

    In this episode of Queer Talker, host Ben Cicchetti sits down with Lewis Oakley, one of the UK’s most visible bisexual voices and a passionate advocate for representation, visibility, and belonging. Lewis opens up about growing up bisexual in a world that often struggles with nuance, where identities are pushed into boxes and the “in-between” is misunderstood or erased altogether. He reflects on the challenges of being openly bisexual, from stereotypes and disbelief to the pressure to constantly justify your identity. Together, Ben and Lewis explore why bisexual visibility matters, how language shapes acceptance, and what it means to show up authentically in spaces that are not always designed for complexity. Lewis also speaks candidly about confidence, self-acceptance, and the responsibility that comes with being visible for others who are still finding their voice. This is a conversation about bisexuality, visibility, and the power of being seen exactly as you are. Chapters 00:00 Queer Panic Rapid Fire Questions 04:22 Childhood Insights and Early Realizations 07:34 First Experiences in LGBTQ Spaces 10:34 Coming Out and Self-Discovery 13:47 The Complexity of Bisexual Identity 16:32 Navigating Bisexuality in Relationships 19:22 The Impact of Celebrity Influence on Bisexuality 22:40 Visibility and Representation of Bisexuals 25:27 The Reality of Love and Relationships 27:39 The Struggles of Bisexual Identity 29:36 Creating a Resource: The Book Journey 33:38 Navigating Loneliness in Bisexuality 36:41 Parenting and Advocacy: A Personal Perspective 42:17 Media Representation and Its Impact 47:20 Advice for the Younger Generation Connect with Lewis Oakley: Linktree - https://linktr.ee/lewyoaks Connect with Ben Cicchetti: Website - https://www.queertalker.com  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bencicchetti/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@BenCicchetti TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bencicchetti

    51 min
  7. Jessica L’Whor: Drag, Visibility, and Building Safe Spaces for Queer Youth

    12/16/2025

    Jessica L’Whor: Drag, Visibility, and Building Safe Spaces for Queer Youth

    In this episode of Queer Talker, host Ben Cicchetti sits down with drag performer, community builder, and cultural force Jessica L’Whor, also known as Miss Jessica, to explore drag as identity, resistance, and care. Jessica reflects on growing up in a deeply sheltered Catholic household, navigating queerness through religious guilt, and the long journey toward self acceptance. She speaks openly about coming out later in life, unlearning shame, and what it took to finally embrace who she is today. From her beginnings in the Denver drag scene to becoming a full time performer for over a decade, Jessica shares the realities of sustaining a creative career without television backing, the business discipline behind longevity, and why consistency matters more than viral moments. The conversation also dives into the creation of Miss Jessica, her all ages and family friendly drag persona. Jessica explains why visibility for queer youth is vital, how drag story times and school visits became part of her mission, and what it means to create safe, affirming spaces for children and families in a climate where drag is increasingly politicised. Ben and Jessica discuss chosen family, queer elders, touring across the United States, and the responsibility that comes with having a large platform. Jessica is candid about balancing joy and escapism with activism, and why being a soft, visible presence can be just as powerful as outrage. This is a conversation about drag as art, drag as care, and the importance of being the person you needed when you were younger. Chapters 00:00 Queer Panic Rapid Fire Questions 06:36 Childhood and Early Influences 11:42 Understanding Queerness and Family Dynamics 16:25 The State of Drag and LGBTQ+ Community 20:49 Jessica's Journey into Drag 21:31 Longevity in Drag Performance and Community Support 23:19 Empowering the Next Generation of Drag Artists 25:55 Creating Family-Friendly Drag Experiences 28:24 The Role of Visibility and Representation 30:55 Building an Authentic Online Presence 34:10 The Intersection of Art and Activism 37:21 Advice for the Younger Generation Connect with Jessica L’Whor: Website - https://www.jessicalwhor.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jessicalwhor/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jessicalwhor Connect with Ben Cicchetti: Website - https://www.queertalker.com  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bencicchetti/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@BenCicchetti TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bencicchetti

    41 min
  8. Mark Bittlestone: Comedy, Grief, Queer Identity and Finding His Voice

    12/02/2025

    Mark Bittlestone: Comedy, Grief, Queer Identity and Finding His Voice

    In this episode of Queer Talker, host Ben Cicchetti sits down with comedian Mark Bittlestone whose sharp wit, queer storytelling and emotional honesty have made him one of the most exciting voices in British comedy. Mark opens up about growing up in 1990s Southwest London where homophobia was woven into the everyday language around him, even in an otherwise loving home. He reflects on spending a decade in the closet, the fear of being gay that shaped his early years and the moment he finally allowed himself to come out and breathe. He also shares how devastating loss shaped him. Mark lost his mum shortly before his A levels and his dad shortly before his university finals. He talks about how grief transformed his understanding of life and how comedy became both a coping mechanism and a calling. Ben and Mark dive into authenticity, dating, Grindr mishaps, the power of teasing straight men in comedy clubs, and the complicated pressure queer comedians feel to stop talking about their identity even when it is central to their story. Mark also reflects on falling into comedy, getting fired from teaching, building confidence through social media, touring his show I Need a Straight Guy, and figuring out what comes next as he enters the next phase of his career. Chapters 00:00 Queer Panic Rapid Fire Questions 04:16 Embarrassing Dating Stories 07:16 Proudest Career Moments 10:13 Childhood Influences on Identity 13:15 Awareness of Queerness and Family Dynamics 17:21 Coming Out and Authenticity 20:22 Navigating Loss and Grief 25:33 The Role of Comedy in Coping 27:47 Journey into Comedy 31:02 Queerness and Performance 32:29 Touring Experience and Audience Interaction 36:22 Using Platform for Advocacy 38:14 Future Aspirations and Reflection 39:11 Advice to Younger Self and LGBTQ+ Youth Connect with Ben Cicchetti: Website - https://www.queertalker.com  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bencicchetti/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@BenCicchetti TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bencicchetti

    42 min
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Queer Talker is a podcast celebrating the stories and journeys of LGBTQ+ individuals from all walks of life, from business leaders to celebrities and influencers. Through open and authentic conversations, we explore themes of identity, authenticity, and the power of living boldly.

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  • Creator
    Ben Cicchetti
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    29
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Ben Cicchetti
  • Show Website
    Queer Talker

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