Queerly Overthinking

Adam Harper
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Well hello there, welcome to Queerly Overthinking, where we explore life, culture, social justice, and self-love through meaningful conversations, personal stories, and a dash of humor. From heartfelt reflections to “did they just say that?” moments, it’s a safe, fun, and unapologetically queer space to explore it all. Join The Overthinkers on Patreon for exclusive perks, and find everything else at QueerlyOverthinking.com

  1. 12/12/2025

    "Rated R For Regrettable"

    Episode 040: In this episode, Adam sits with a feeling many of us know all too well: regret. He unpacks the “could have, would have, should have” spiral, how hindsight reshapes the stories we tell ourselves, and why regret often says more about growth than failure. Join The Overthinkers on Patreon⁠ for exclusive perks and this episode’s companion sticker. Learn more at ⁠queerlyoverthinking.com⁠, and follow @QueerlyOverthinking on ⁠TikTok⁠ and ⁠Instagram⁠ for updates and sticker reveals.

    11 min

  2. 10/23/2025

    “Stage Three, Still Me”

    Episode 039: We’re back in the studio, baby! Season 3 of Queerly Overthinking kicks off with an update on how Adam’s year has unfolded, what’s changed, and how he’s rebuilding his creative rhythm. In this episode, he opens up about his cancer journey, the care that carried him, and why “progress over perfection” has become his new compass. Join The Overthinkers on Patreon for exclusive perks and this episode’s companion sticker. Learn more at queerlyoverthinking.com, and follow @QueerlyOverthinking on TikTok and Instagram for updates and sticker reveals. Content Notice: This episode includes discussion of cancer and medical treatment.

    40 min
  3. “Reflecting On Season Two”

    11/15/2024

    “Reflecting On Season Two”

    Episode 038: In the Season 2 finale of Queerly Overthinking, Adam reflects on a year filled with deep dives into relationships, connections, and self-healing. Turning 30 this year marked a pivotal moment of growth and nostalgia, anchoring this season in themes of love, community, and the enriching power of meaningful relationships. Adam shares insights into navigating the challenging political climate while setting personal boundaries. With a promise to return for Season 3, this season finale underscores the importance of creative expression, shared perspectives, and the enduring need for community and connection. Visit www.QueerlyOverthinking.com, and join the community @QueerlyOverthinking on socials.

    7 min
  4. “AD P3: Livin’ la Libra Loca”

    11/01/2024

    “AD P3: Livin’ la Libra Loca”

    Episode 037: In this third part of the series, Adam transitions into his Agnostic Days as he steps into his mid-twenties and adulthood. He reflects on how his beliefs have shifted, his experiences in Dallas, and the personal growth that came with this chapter. From career changes to personal revelations, this episode of Queerly Overthinking uncovers how Adam navigated major life transitions and embraced his true self. It’s an insightful look at his ongoing journey of self-discovery. Content warning: This episode discusses themes of religious trauma. Visit www.QueerlyOverthinking.com, and join the community @QueerlyOverthinking on socials.

    42 min
  5. “BC P2: Queerly Questioning”

    10/18/2024

    “BC P2: Queerly Questioning”

    Episode 036: In the second part of Queerly Overthinking, Adam dives into his teenage and early adult years, a time marked by questions and realizations. He reflects on the complexities of navigating his faith while also starting to acknowledge his queer identity. This episode continues the journey of Adam’s Believing Christian days, exploring the tension between faith and identity during a pivotal stage in his life. His experiences reveal the challenges and growth that shaped his path forward. Visit www.QueerlyOverthinking.com, and join the community @QueerlyOverthinking on socials.

    36 min
  6. “BC P1: Faithful Foundations”

    10/04/2024

    “BC P1: Faithful Foundations”

    Episode 035: In this episode of Queerly Overthinking, Adam takes a journey through his childhood years, reflecting on what he calls his Believing Christian days. He explores how growing up in the church laid the foundation for his early understanding of faith and shaped his worldview. This is the first of a three-part series, where Adam examines the milestones and moments that influenced his beliefs and identity during his formative years. From family traditions to faith practices, this episode sets the stage for his evolution. Visit www.QueerlyOverthinking.com, and join the community @QueerlyOverthinking on socials.

    32 min
  7. “I’m Looking For A Provider In Network…”

    09/20/2024

    “I’m Looking For A Provider In Network…”

    Episode 034: In part two of this healthcare discussion, Adam and Cass dive deeper into the financial realities that come with managing chronic conditions and healthcare costs. They explore how medical costs can shape life decisions and share insights into navigating unexpected bills, such as Adam’s journey to afford HIV prevention services and Cass’s experience with prenatal care. The conversation also touches on the emotional weight of constantly negotiating with insurance companies, the frustrations of switching medications due to coverage changes, and the toll that healthcare navigation takes on mental well-being. This candid conversation offers listeners a raw and honest look at the pressures of balancing health, finances, and personal well-being. Visit www.QueerlyOverthinking.com, and join the community @QueerlyOverthinking on socials.

    38 min
  8. “The Hidden Hurdles Of Healthcare”

    09/06/2024

    “The Hidden Hurdles Of Healthcare”

    Episode 033: In this part one episode, Adam is joined by his dear friend and producer, Cass. Together, they explore their personal experiences with the American healthcare system. They discuss the challenges of navigating insurance, accessing care, and understanding the true costs of medical services. Adam and Cass share insights into the high costs of essential medications and the complexities of insurance plans. Through an open and thoughtful conversation, they highlight the systemic issues within the healthcare system and reflect on their own journeys toward finding the right care and support. Visit www.QueerlyOverthinking.com, and join the community @QueerlyOverthinking on socials.

    37 min
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Well hello there, welcome to Queerly Overthinking, where we explore life, culture, social justice, and self-love through meaningful conversations, personal stories, and a dash of humor. From heartfelt reflections to “did they just say that?” moments, it’s a safe, fun, and unapologetically queer space to explore it all. Join The Overthinkers on Patreon for exclusive perks, and find everything else at QueerlyOverthinking.com

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  • Creator
    Adam Harper
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2025
  • Episodes
    41
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Adam Harper
  • Show Website
    Queerly Overthinking