Queerly Speaking

Nat and Tami Jones

Welcome to Queerly Speaking — a bold, unfiltered podcast amplifying the voices of the queer community and those who’ve been pushed to the margins. Hosted by Nat and Tami, a queer couple with a passion for truth, healing, and real connection, this space is where vulnerability meets power. Through raw conversations, fierce storytelling, and a whole lot of heart, Queerly Speaking is on a mission to break down walls, spark joy, and remind every listener: your voice matters, your story is sacred, and you are never alone.

  1. 09/10/2025

    From Shiny Happy People to Teen Mania – Let’s Talk About It

    Show Notes:This week we’re talking about the documentary Shiny Happy People and how it ties into Teen Mania, the youth movement a lot of us grew up hearing about—or even being a part of. On the surface, it looked shiny, happy, and full of purpose, but behind the curtain there was a whole lot of pressure, fear, and trauma. We chat about: What it was like growing up in that kind of high-control Christian culture The way Teen Mania convinced teens to give up everything for “the cause” How Columbine influenced the youth in church How all of this connects to purity culture, control, and the harm it caused queer kids especially If you’ve ever been told you weren’t enough, or that you had to change to belong, this one’s for you. Grab a drink, pull up a chair, and join us as we peel back the layers and share some laughs (and cringes) about our time in the shiny-but-not-so-happy world of evangelical youth culture.

    37 min
  2. Fertility: Crazy Sh**t People Say to Us

    08/26/2025

    Fertility: Crazy Sh**t People Say to Us

    People say the wildest things when they don’t know better—or when they think they do. From awkward “compliments” to backhanded remarks, to those moments that make you go, did you really just say that out loud? In this episode of Queerly Speaking, we’re pulling back the curtain on some of the most ridiculous, hilarious, and jaw-dropping things people have said to us as we navigate the fertility journey. We’ll laugh, we’ll cringe, and we’ll unpack why these comments land the way they do. Most importantly, we’ll talk about how to navigate these moments—whether that means clapping back, educating, or simply protecting your peace. In this episode, we discuss: Real-life stories of the craziest comments we’ve received. The difference between ignorance, microaggressions, and outright disrespect. How humor can sometimes be our best defense. Tools for handling these situations without losing yourself. This one’s raw, a little spicy, and full of “did that really happen?!” moments. 🎙️ Join us for some laughs, some truth, and maybe a little therapy along the way.

    25 min
  3. Comparison Detox

    08/11/2025

    Comparison Detox

    Episode Summary:In this empowering episode of Queerly Speaking, we dive into the sneaky, exhausting cycle of comparison—and why it’s stealing more from you than you realize. Whether it’s measuring your career against your peers, your relationship against Instagram-perfect couples, or your body against unrealistic standards, comparison is a thief of joy and authenticity. Natalie and Tami share personal stories, queer perspectives, and the hard-earned lessons that helped them step out of the "not enough" mindset. Together, they explore how comparison can be rooted in societal expectations, family dynamics, and internalized narratives—and how to replace it with self-worth that isn’t dependent on anyone else’s highlight reel. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Why comparison is a learned habit (and how to unlearn it) The role social media plays in distorting self-image Tools for building self-worth from the inside out How to find joy in others’ success without dimming your own light Practical steps for shifting from “I should be like them” to “I’m proud of me” A queer lens on embracing your unique path in life and love Takeaway:Your worth isn’t measured by how you stack up against others—it’s measured by how fully you show up as yourself.

    47 min

  4. 07/28/2025

    The Parents We're Becoming

    Episode Summary In this episode of Queerly Speaking, hosts Nat and Tami Jones share their personal journey as they prepare for motherhood. They discuss the hormonal changes, fears, and joys that come with pregnancy, the importance of healthy masculinity, and the legacy they hope to leave for their child. The conversation highlights the significance of community support and the challenges of navigating parenthood as a same-sex couple. Through candid reflections, they explore their hopes and anxieties about raising a child in today's world, emphasizing the need for open communication and emotional connection. In this episode, we talk about: How open and honest communication strengthens relationships. The emotional ups and downs that come with pregnancy and hormonal changes. The mix of excitement and fear we feel as we prepare to become parents. Why raising a child with a healthy sense of masculinity matters to us. How much community support — especially within the LGBTQ+ space — means in this journey. Our hopes for our child’s future, and the kind of legacy we want to leave. The tension between chasing our dreams and showing up fully as parents. The pure, open-hearted way kids see the world — and how we want to protect that. Our deep desire for our child to feel fully loved, safe, and supported. The value of surrounding our child with strong, positive role models. Let’s Connect:👉 Follow us on Instagram @QueerlySpeakingPodcast💌 Email us your story: queerlyspeaking2025@gmail.com🌈 Subscribe + Leave a review if this episode resonated

    40 min
  5. The One That Worked: Our IUI Journey & All the Feels

    07/15/2025

    The One That Worked: Our IUI Journey & All the Feels

    🎙 Episode SummaryIn this raw and deeply personal episode, we share the moment our IUI worked — and everything that came before and after that positive result. From the emotional weight of previous cycles to the exhaustion of "staying optimistic" when you're quietly expecting the worst, this conversation is for anyone who's been on a fertility rollercoaster. We talk about: ·       What it feels like to finally see a positive result. ·       Why it's hard to celebrate right away when you're bracing for loss. ·       The silent grief and resilience in failed cycles. ·       Navigating hope, detachment, and everything in between. ·       What we wish people understood about queer fertility paths. Whether you're in the thick of trying, supporting someone who is, or reflecting on your own path — this one's for you. Let’s Connect:👉 Follow us on Instagram @QueerlySpeakingPodcast💌 Email us your story: queerlyspeaking2025@gmail.com🌈 Subscribe + Leave a review if this episode resonated Trigger Warning: This episode contains open discussions about infertility, miscarriage anxiety, and the mental health impact of the fertility process.

    52 min
  6. We're Having A Baby!

    06/23/2025

    We're Having A Baby!

    Episode Summary:In this deeply personal episode, Nat and Tami Jones open up about their emotional journey through fertility as a queer couple. They share the real, raw details of navigating IUI cycles—from the physical toll of hormone treatments to the financial strain and the emotional highs and lows that came with each step. With vulnerability and honesty, they explore the unique challenges queer couples face in the world of reproductive health, the importance of finding affirming providers, and the life-changing role of community support. This episode is a reminder that behind every fertility journey is a story full of hope, heartbreak, resilience, and love. Whether you’re on your own path to parenthood or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers empathy, insight, and solidarity. 💬 Join the conversation:  Share your story with us queerlyspeaking2025@gmail.com or dm us on instagram to be featured in a future episode! [Spotify] | [Apple Podcasts] | [YouTube]

    39 min
  7. Louder Than Words: What Pride Means to Us

    06/10/2025

    Louder Than Words: What Pride Means to Us

    🌈 Episode Summary:In this heartfelt episode of Queerly Speaking, Nat and Tami open up about what Pride truly means to them—beyond the parades, the rainbows, and the glitter. They reflect on growing up queer in spaces where they weren’t fully accepted, how their understanding of Pride has evolved over time, and the ways they now reclaim joy, visibility, and community. It’s a conversation about resilience, chosen family, and finding power in living out loud. Whether you’re new to Pride or have celebrated for decades, this episode is a reminder that Pride is personal—and political. ❤️ Join the Conversation:What does Pride mean to you? Tag us @QueerlySpeakingPod and use #QueerlySpeaking to share your story. 🎧 Listen Now:Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your shows.

    43 min
  8. Bi the Way: Breaking the Binary

    05/27/2025

    Bi the Way: Breaking the Binary

    In this episode of Queerly Speaking, we’re diving deep into bisexuality—what it is, what it isn’t, and why it’s still so widely misunderstood, even within the LGBTQ+ community. We explore the nuances of being bi+, the stereotypes that persist, and how to create space for bi folks to feel seen, valid, and celebrated. Whether you identify as bisexual, are questioning, or just want to be a better ally, this episode is for you. 💜💙💖 We talk about: Common myths (and why they’re so harmful) Navigating identity in queer and straight spaces The power of language and reclaiming fluidity Female vs male bisexuality and how it is accepted Follow Us:Instagram: @queerlyspeakingpodcastEmail: queerlyspeakingpod@gmail.com 💬 Join the conversation using the hashtag #QueerlySpeaking and let us know: What does being bisexual mean to you?

    50 min
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Welcome to Queerly Speaking — a bold, unfiltered podcast amplifying the voices of the queer community and those who’ve been pushed to the margins. Hosted by Nat and Tami, a queer couple with a passion for truth, healing, and real connection, this space is where vulnerability meets power. Through raw conversations, fierce storytelling, and a whole lot of heart, Queerly Speaking is on a mission to break down walls, spark joy, and remind every listener: your voice matters, your story is sacred, and you are never alone.

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    Nat and Tami Jones
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