Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty discuss questions they are commonly asked as gay members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Each week they are joined by a guest to talk about a question as it relates to LGBTQ+ topics within the context of faith. To submit a question or share a comment about an episode, you can email email@example.com.
What If a Loved One Insists I Leave the Church?
Ben and Charlie are joined by Troy Williams of Equality Utah to discuss how to handle relationship dynamics when a love one decides to leave the church.
How Come All the Allies are Middle Aged Moms?
In this episode, Ben and Charlie are joined by Cynthia Winward to talk about middle aged moms and why they make such great LGTBQ allies.
Bonus: Hot Takes on Thanksgiving
In this bonus episode Ben, Charlie, and Sound Guy Mike talk about their hot takes on Thanksgiving.
What are you Scared to Ask a Transgender Person?
In this Episode Ben and Charlie are joined by Michael Soto to talk about some of the questions often asked about what it's like to be transgender.
Content Advisory: This episode contains medical terms referring to genitalia and gender reassignment surgeries
What If Staying Single Doesn't Feel Right Anymore?
In this episode, Ben and Charlie sit down to discuss life changes for Ben.
How Do I Foster a More Secure Relationship With God?
Ben and Charlie are joined by Tami Combs to discuss attachment theory, and how that can apply to your relationship with God.
Grateful for this podcast and the fun conversations =] Also thankful for the vulnerable openness that all share in the many interviews and discussions - centered on the experiences of LGBTQ Latter-day Saints
Like a warm blanket
Two of my children have come out as members of the LGBTQ+ community during the last 18 months, and I have had so many questions and some concerns. My kids talk to me, but what this podcast has done for me is exactly what Ben & Charlie say they want…give me another perspective. It always gives me something to ponder, and frequently brings me so much comfort. I’d give it 6 stars if I could!
Fostering a relationship with God
I loved this episode and listening to Tami. She is so open. I never thought of having a secure attachment to God. I studied child development and learned a lot about how damaging it can be when children don’t have a secure attachment to their caregiver when very young. Now I can look at God as a being who loves me and that I can have a secure attachment to him through studying the scriptures and praying. It was neat to hear Tami talk about how her relationship with God has changed from this knowledge. I have a lot to work on and pray about to get there. I love your show and listen every week. It has taught me how important it is for me to be an ally for LGBTQ people.