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David Maslach

Professor David Maslach talks about graduate school, research, science, Innovation, and entrepreneurship. The R3ciprocity project is my way to give back as much as I possibly can. I seek to provide insights and tools to change how we understand science, and make it more democratic.

  1. HACE 7 H

    What Makes You Strange Might Be What Makes You Brilliant

    My dad used to sit in the backyard and just watch his garden. No phone. No emails. Just stillness. It never made sense to me when I was younger—how he could be happy with just that. But now I understand. He wasn’t chasing anything. He had arrived. In academia—and in so many elite careers—we’re trained to chase. Chase status. Chase metrics. Chase recognition from people we don’t even know. I feel that pull every day. This deep, unshakable urge to be part of the most prestigious schools. To be recognized as “one of the best.” To earn a seat at the imagined table. Even when my life is full— A partner I love. Kids who make me laugh. Colleagues I care about. Freedom to think, write, and build. Still, the voice whispers: “Shouldn’t you want more?” Here’s what I think is happening. We construct this amalgamated ideal—a stitched-together fantasy of all the “best” traits we see in others. The top publication record. The perfect teaching scores. The charming personality. The viral following. The elite institution. The MacArthur. The Nobel. The NYT op-ed. But this ideal? It’s a monster. It doesn’t exist. And comparing ourselves to it only makes us feel broken. We forget: the entire picture matters. That so-called “flaw” you carry might actually be the source of your integrity. That “slowness” might be the root of your originality. That local, quiet life might hold more wisdom than any global award. The pressure to perform isn’t just exhausting. It’s distorting. It makes us forget that this—right now—might already be enough. Maybe we don’t need to outrun the system. Maybe we just need to stop sprinting toward someone else’s fantasy. And remember how to sit still. And notice the garden.

    9 min
  2. HACE 2 DÍAS

    Doing Work You Love Still Makes You Miserable Sometimes.

    This is one of those moments I promised I’d be real with you. Nothing polished. Nothing fancy. Just the truth. Right now, I’m grumpy and tired after work—and honestly, that’s all I wanted to share. Not as a rant, but as a reminder. Because we’re surrounded by advice telling us to love every second of our careers, to feel passion at every turn. And if you’re not feeling it, then maybe something’s wrong with you. That’s the lie. Here’s my experience: after a full day of real work—whether that’s writing papers, mentoring students, or even just managing life—I’m drained. I feel grumpy. And that’s not failure. That’s what it feels like to do something. Any kind of work, even the cool, creative kind, still wears you down. Whether you’re a professor, a parent, a podcaster, or a so-called “influencer”—at the end of the day, you’re still just a tired human trying to do your best. I see a lot of research, a lot of career advice, and a lot of “hacks” about how to be happy at work. But I’m going to tell you what I know for sure: A) I never fully know what I’m doing. B) I often feel like I’m doing the wrong thing. C) After doing the work, I usually feel completely wiped out. And honestly? I think that’s completely normal. It’s also normal to disengage now and again. To feel like you need to hit pause. Sometimes, switching up what you’re doing—even just a little—can bring you back. That doesn’t mean you’re lazy or dispassionate. It means you’re human. Not everything has to feel exciting. Sometimes, the best work feels like a slog. So no, you don’t have to feel good all the time. You don’t have to be lit up with purpose 24/7. Life isn’t constant joy. It’s cycles. There are days when you feel unstoppable and days when you feel like you want to curl up and disappear. That’s not a flaw. That’s just how it works. Take care, and keep going.

    5 min
  3. 18 OCT

    Why Research Careers Are So Psychologically Difficult

    The research career is hard in a way that’s not often talked about. It’s not just intellectually difficult — it’s personally difficult. It functions a lot like entrepreneurship. You are left entirely to your own demise. You have near-total autonomy, and what that does is amplify whatever your default tendencies are. If you are a high-anxiety person — which describes a large number of successful researchers — you will likely internalize everything. You’ll obsess, push harder, and feel like the world will fall apart if you don’t accomplish something today. That’s often why people succeed. But it also means you can burn yourself out or break down completely. The anxiety becomes the thing that eats you alive. On the flip side, if you are naturally more relaxed or chill, it’s easy to default to avoidance. You just won’t get much done. You tell yourself it’ll be fine — and nothing happens. And nobody is really there to push you, because there’s nobody watching. The whole system reinforces whatever your crutch is. If you’re prone to loneliness, you’ll feel it more. If you’re prone to overwork, you’ll overwork. If you need structure, there isn’t any. And over time, it becomes clear that the hardest part isn’t the research — it’s regulating your own head. Most of the damage comes from being left to your own psychology. And that’s what makes the research profession so much like building a startup. It’s rarely about your ideas. It’s whether you can survive being left to yourself.

    9 min

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Professor David Maslach talks about graduate school, research, science, Innovation, and entrepreneurship. The R3ciprocity project is my way to give back as much as I possibly can. I seek to provide insights and tools to change how we understand science, and make it more democratic.