Real Men Talk

Real Men Studios LLC

Real Men Talk deals with hard hitting topics that today's men are faced with on a daily basis and provide strong biblical teaching geared towards men of all ages. Intended for Men ages 16 and up! Hosted by Anthony Curnutt, produced by Real Men Studios LLC in Poplar Bluff, MO

  1. 8h ago

    You Don’t Work for Identity - You Live From It (Part 3)

    Most men are not struggling because they do not know Scripture - they are struggling because they do not live like it applies to them. Anthony Curnutt closes out Real Men Talk's three-part series on imposter syndrome with a blunt challenge: stop working for an identity and start living from the one Christ has already given you.If you have ever felt called by God and still talked yourself out of obedience, this episode hits hard. Anthony shares the personal tension of writing Framework for Biblical Masculinity while feeling unqualified, then breaks down why insecurity turns faith into performance, pressure, and burnout.You'll discover: Why identity comes before activityHow to tell the difference between obedience from gratitude and approval-seekingWhat a secure man looks like when he repents, serves, leads, and failsWhy recognition, applause, and validation cannot be the foundation for a godly lifeHow to answer the question that changes everything: What would you do this week if you truly believed you were God's son?Anthony walks through key passages from 1 Peter 2, Ephesians 2, 1 John 1, Colossians 3, and Philippians 1 to show that biblical identity is not self-improvement, it is a new purpose. He also gives a practical challenge for the week: choose one truth about who you are in Christ, identify the lie that attacks it, and take one concrete step that agrees with God's word.This episode matters if you've been hiding behind perfectionism, chasing recognition, or assuming your failure disqualifies you. The message is simple but life-changing: you do not need to earn what Jesus already purchased for you.Essential listening for men, husbands, fathers, leaders, and anyone ready to stop auditioning for God's approval and start living like they belong to Him. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/realmenministries/ Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/realmenstudios Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/realmentalk2022/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@RealMenTalk-Podcast Rumble - https://rumble.com/user/realmenministries Book - https://a.co/d/00CFO34X TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@rmtpod Website - www.realmenministries.us  www.realmenstudios.com  Elevenlabs affiliate - https://try.elevenlabs.io/vbm9jgwo8rkz

  2. Sep 3

    Your Past Is Not Your Master - 4 Lies Trapping Men in Shame (Part 2)

    What if the biggest thing holding you back is not your past, your lack of credentials, or even your insecurity - but a lie you have believed for so long it feels like truth?Anthony Curnutt challenges men to confront the internal voices that keep them trapped in shame, comparison, performance, and fear. If you have ever wondered, Do I really belong here? or Who am I to lead, speak, or serve? this episode is for you.Anthony unpacks four identity lies that quietly shape how men live: My past disqualifies meEveryone else has it figured outI must earn my placeFeeling unqualified means I was not calledHe shows why conviction is not the same as condemnation, why your testimony is not the same as your identity, and why God’s calling is not limited to the men who feel ready. You’ll hear practical steps for identifying the lies you believe, testing them against Scripture, replacing them with truth, and walking in obedience anyway.You’ll also discover why comparison destroys clarity, how approval addiction turns work into bondage, and why the answer to “Who am I?” is often found in “Who is with me?” Anthony uses passages like Galatians 2:20, Romans 8:1, and 2 Corinthians 10 to ground the episode in biblical truth while speaking directly to the man who feels unqualified, overlooked, or stuck.This conversation matters because unchallenged lies do not stay private - they shape your marriage, leadership, fatherhood, ministry, and confidence. And if you keep mistaking loud thoughts for true thoughts, you will keep living under a name God never gave you.Essential listening if you are a man who wants to stop performing for worth and start living from identity in Christ. The next faithful step may begin with one question: what lie have you been calling your life? Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/realmenministries/ Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/realmenstudios Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/realmentalk2022/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@RealMenTalk-Podcast Rumble - https://rumble.com/user/realmenministries Book - https://a.co/d/00CFO34X TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@rmtpod Website - www.realmenministries.us / www.realmenstudios.com Elevenlabs affiliate - https://try.elevenlabs.io/vbm9jgwo8rkz

  3. Aug 27

    Why Christian Men Need Strength Before They Can Lead

    Most men are trying to fix the wrong thing. Sean McManus reveals why real change starts with self-leadership, not better excuses - and how faith, fitness, and discipline can reshape your marriage, your mindset, and your future.Sean, founder of McManus Strength and Nutrition, opens up about the season that forced him to confront his own gaps as a husband and father, including his wife’s postpartum depression, the pressure of providing for a growing family, and the moment he realized “something has to change.” What followed was a hard reset - through mentorship, personal development, and a deeper understanding of biblical masculinity.You’ll hear how Sean went from a small family farm and a decade in poultry work to building a coaching business for Christian men who want to get stronger in every area of life. He shares the resources that shaped him, including Family Captain, Man in the Arena with Jim Ramos, and Wild at Heart by John Eldredge, plus the practical lessons that came from actually living them out.We break down why so many men stay stuck in surface-level conversations, why influence is leadership whether you recognize it or not, and why you cannot lead your wife, your kids, or your church if you are not first leading yourself. Anthony Curnutt brings the perspective of a husband, father, and ministry leader who has walked this road for decades and pushes the conversation toward real accountability, not empty motivation.If you’ve ever felt the tension between chasing Jesus and numbing pain, if you’re trying to become a better husband or father, or if you know God is calling you into more but fear keeps slowing you down, this episode will hit home. Sean also shares the costly, messy reality behind leaving a W-2 job, burning through savings, and building McManus Strength and Nutrition the hard way.This is essential listening for Christian men, husbands, fathers, and anyone who wants practical faith that shows up in real life - not just on Sundays. Sean leaves you with one challenge: don’t reach the end of your life wishing you had acted on what God put in your heart. Sean McManus is the founder of McManus Strenght and Nutrition, where he coaches Christian men through custom strength and nutrition plans designed to build discipline, leadership, and confidence. He is also launching the "45 Day Reforge", a group challenge that combines training, nutrition, and Bible study for men who want to get dialed in. Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/realmenministries/ Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/realmenstudios Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/realmentalk2022/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@RealMenTalk-Podcast Book - https://a.co/d/00CFO34X TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@rmtpod Website - www.realmenministries.us  Elevenlabs affiliate - https://try.elevenlabs.io/vbm9jgwo8rkz

  4. Aug 20

    Identity in Christ and Overcoming the Imposter Within

    What if the voice telling you "you don't belong here" is the exact lie keeping you stuck? Anthony Curnutt kicks off a powerful three-part series on imposter syndrome, identity, and the battle to stop living for approval and start living from who God says you are.For any man who's ever wondered if he's qualified to lead, father, pastor, build, or even speak with confidence, this episode goes straight at the question underneath the anxiety: who gets to define you? Anthony opens up about his own insecurities as a community college dropout from Southeast Missouri, the weight of calling, and why the difference between humility and imposter syndrome changes everything.You'll discover: Why roles like husband, father, leader, or business owner can never carry the full weight of your identityHow Satan uses weariness, failure, and shame to question what God has already declaredThe difference between biblical humility and the destructive fear of "God can't use someone like me"Why 2 Corinthians 5:17 and Ephesians 2:8-10 reframe identity, calling, and good worksHow adoption, not performance, becomes the foundation of confidence in ChristAnthony also unpacks the tension between identity and maturity, showing how you can belong fully to God while still needing discipleship, accountability, correction, and growth. If you've ever been haunted by your past, crippled by fear of exposure, or tempted to let old labels outrank God's word, this conversation gives you a way forward.This episode is essential listening for Christian men, husbands, fathers, ministry leaders, and anyone wrestling with shame, self-doubt, or the pressure to prove themselves. You do not have to prove what God has already declared - you just need to believe Him and walk like the man He says you are. Follow Real Men Talk:Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/real-men-talk/id1605859577Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/67wiLdAhCPZdKo1YMj9P4V?si=ec351ac3672d42f2Website: www.realmenministries.usFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/realmenministries/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/realmenstudiosInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/realmentalk2022/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RealMenTalk-PodcastRumble: https://rumble.com/user/realmenministriesTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rmtpodBook: https://a.co/d/0aOjE0ngElevenLabs affiliate: https://try.elevenlabs.io/vbm9jgwo8rkz

    Identity in Christ and Overcoming the Imposter Within
  5. Jun 19

    Putting Jesus First This Father’s Day: The Bold Truth About Priorities and Love

    Are you ready to be a real man, a truly great father? This episode hits hard — a fiery reminder that everything starts with loving Jesus first. If your priorities are out of whack, your family suffers. But when you put Jesus at the center, everything else falls perfectly into place.In this episode: Why Jesus’ words about sowing a sword challenge our view of Father’s DayThe importance of loving God above all, especially our children and spousesHow to lead your family by being humility, patience, and grace-filledThe dangers of cultural idols—sports, work, hobbies—and how they distract from what matters mostPractical steps to reorder priorities and become a godly leaderHow grace, not perfection, makes all the difference in raising children and loving your wifeA call to action: Search your heart, realign your priorities, and lead with love rooted in JesusTimestamps: 00:00 - The bold truth about love on Father’s Day 00:45 - Why Jesus’ words about conflict speak to real fathers 01:15 - Loving Jesus above everything else 01:45 - The greatest commandment: Love God first 02:30 - Putting your children second for their true benefit 03:00 - The cultural trap: Sports, hobbies, and idols 04:00 - Prioritizing Jesus for authentic love 05:00 - The importance of being present and loving sacrificially 06:15 - Recognizing wounds in your children and healing through grace 07:00 - How submission to Jesus leads to effective leadership 08:00 - The power of grace over perfection 09:00 - The real goal: raising godly, thriving families 10:30 - The courage to evaluate and realign your priorities 11:45 - The importance of grace, humility, and continuous growth 12:30 - Celebrating failures and leaning on grace 13:00 - How loving Jesus changes everything in Fatherhood 14:00 - The cultural confusion around submission and leadership 15:00 - Practical steps: Leading with integrity and humility 16:00 - The importance of daily grace and faith in the journey 17:30 - Your role in leaving a godly legacy 18:30 - An invitation to reflect and reset this Father’s Day 19:45 - Final challenge: Love Jesus first, love everyone betterResources & Links: The Bible, Matthew 10:34-39Connect with Anthony: TwitterInstagramEmail - Real MenThis Father’s Day, don’t settle for surface-level love. Be bold. Be authentic. Love Jesus first — everything else will fall into place.

    Putting Jesus First This Father’s Day: The Bold Truth About Priorities and Love
  6. Jun 11

    Why Your Story Matters — Connecting Men Through Faith & Authenticity (Men Like Us)

    Most men go through life feeling isolated, fighting silent battles they’re too afraid to admit. What if there’s a simple truth that could shatter those walls? Ryan Dearborn, a former broadcast journalist turned college professor and founder of Church with No Walls, exposes the power of community and transparency in healing the broken man.In this electrifying episode, Ryan shares his raw journey from a challenging childhood, navigating homelessness and trauma, to embracing faith and purpose through storytelling and service. He reveals how genuine connection within a male tribe can transform lives—breaking loneliness and mental health barriers everyone desperately needs to face.You'll discover: How men silencing their struggles unknowingly feed their own despairPractical ways to cultivate authentic brotherhood that fuels lasting changeThe impact of sharing stories—either through media or conversations—to heal and inspireThe surprising ways churches and ministries are going beyond the four walls to serve their communitiesWhy real strength comes from vulnerability and leaning on others, not going it aloneThis isn’t just a feel-good chat—it’s a wake-up call. Whether you're battling hidden pain, feeling disconnected, or simply craving genuine brotherhood, this episode could be the catalyst for your breakthrough. Ryan’s story reminds us all: You’re not too far gone. You’re not meant to do this alone.Perfect for men ready to fight for authentic community, grow in faith, and become the leaders God’s calling them to be. Dive into this powerful conversation—because your story matters, and your healing begins when you finally lift the curtain.Join us, and see how true strength is found in unity, vulnerability, and faith. Don’t wait—hit play now, and start your journey to becoming the man you’re born to be. Meet Ryan Dearborn: Ryan is a broadcasting professor at Western Kentucky University, a seasoned storyteller, and the voice behind Church with No Walls. His life’s work is to help men see the beauty in their brokenness and find purpose in community.Your next breakthrough starts here. Hit play. https://open.spotify.com/show/6RfSY1rj7Zdtctunuh5ZiF?si=b15f871c1a3e4c2fhttps://abundanttv.com/menlikeus

    Why Your Story Matters — Connecting Men Through Faith & Authenticity (Men Like Us)
  7. Jun 4

    Building Men Through Faith, Fitness, and Brotherhood — Inside F3

    This episode dives deep into the heart of what makes F3 more than just a workout—it's a revolution in male leadership, brotherhood, and purpose. If you've ever felt isolated or craved genuine community, this is your call to understand how men are transforming their lives, outside and inside. In this episode:The origin and core principles of F3: fitness, fellowship, faithHow F3’s unique naming system breaks barriers and levels the playing fieldThe mental and emotional power of shared struggles during tough workoutsReal stories from men across the country finding purpose and brotherhoodThe role of leadership, vulnerability, and accountability in personal growthPractical ways to connect with F3 wherever you areHow F3 influences men outside the workout, impacting family, church, and communityWhy every man needs a brotherhood to thrive and leadResources & Links:F3 Nation Website – Find or start your own F3 in your areaF3 Near Me – Locate the closest workout siteF3 Core Principles – The five foundational principles of F3Connect with the Hosts & Speakers:Anthony Curnutt: Facebook | InstagramFor more on brotherhood, faith, and leadership, reach out or follow your local F3 site!Remember:Brotherhood is the blueprint for real change. Whether you're leading a family, a team, or your community—build with strength, faith, and brotherhood. If this spoke to you, share it, join the movement, and become the man others look up to. Let's go!

    Building Men Through Faith, Fitness, and Brotherhood — Inside F3
  8. May 28

    The Surprising Truth About Evangelism in a Post-Pandemic, Digital World

    Most men feel the weight of loneliness, confusion, and the struggle to truly live out their faith in a noisy, disconnected world. But what if real transformation begins around the table—where conversations are honest, questions are welcomed, and Jesus is the seat they all share?In this fiery episode, Nate Sims—an evangelist, leader, and man who’s journeyed from doubt to conviction—breaks down how authentic, relational evangelism is revolutionizing how men connect, disciple, and lead. You’ll discover how the simple act of sharing a meal can be the most powerful form of ministry, breaking barriers in workplaces, neighborhoods, and even social media. Nate shares raw stories of how he’s seen lives change—one conversation at a time—and how YOU can do the same, no matter where you are in your faith or life.You'll learn about: The radical power of “Table Talk Movement” — turning everyday moments into gospel encountersWhy most Christians are petrified of apologetics and how to start simply… at the tableHow vulnerability, authenticity, and genuine presence can do what sermons sometimes cannotThe importance of leading by example in the workplace, home, and communityPractical steps to invite non-believers into honest dialogue about life, truth, and JesusThis mission isn’t just for pastors or missionaries—it’s for every man who’s tired of playing church and ready to live out his faith boldly in real, tangible ways. If you’ve ever wondered how to make Jesus relevant outside the church walls, this episode will light a fire in your soul.Connect with Nate and learn how to transform your everyday spaces into mission fields. The time to lead with love, authenticity, and courage is now. Don’t just listen—take action.Your call to authentic, relational evangelism starts here. Will you answer? www.tabletalkmovements.com

    The Surprising Truth About Evangelism in a Post-Pandemic, Digital World
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Real Men Talk deals with hard hitting topics that today's men are faced with on a daily basis and provide strong biblical teaching geared towards men of all ages. Intended for Men ages 16 and up! Hosted by Anthony Curnutt, produced by Real Men Studios LLC in Poplar Bluff, MO

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