Reality Test

Dr. Kay and Dr. Ray

Two Psych Doctors Spill the Tea on Mental Health Concepts & Presentations Shown in your Fave RealiTV Shows! Ever find yourself wanting to debrief that reality tv episode with your therapist? Or maybe you've wanted to ask them questions about something you've learned from the reality tv interactions, castmates, or news cycle? Come debrief with two licensed psychologists as they explore what we can all learn about ourselves, our relationships, and our society from our fave reality television shows on Netflix, Peacock, Bachelor Nation, Bravo, and beyond! Dr.s Kay & Ray inspire discussion about psychological and sociopolitical aspects of reality TV, offering rough draft thoughts and ideas for us to continue thinking about, while highlighting the power dynamics, sociohistorical context, and intersecting forms of oppression and privilege that are present. After all, reality television ultimately provides an engaging format for learning about our behavior, mental health, and sociopolitical systems—let’s learn together! Why REALITY TEST? We ALL reality test when testing a given thought, emotion, or interaction against "objective" (or shared) reality--did I see that right? Was that really sexist? Dr.s Kay & Ray spill all the tea on how the producer antics and castmate claims about mental health stack up against "objective" reality off-screen and the field of clinical psychology that they have learned about as practicing psychotherapists and research psychologists. What are you talking ABOUT? Reality Test has a general focus on relationships, social privilege, and mental health. Dr.s Kay & Ray also acknowledge their sociopolitical identities and lenses through which they view reality television, as feminist, bi+, white allies. So, if you've been itching to discuss how that episode was brimming with misogyny, heterosexism, &/or white privilege (from a white, ever-dedicated-to-developing-their-antiracism, perspective), or to critically assess how the producers portrayed a given scenario or interaction, while celebrating the hope & empowerment that can be found, you've come to the right place!  DISCLAIMER: In the context of this podcast, Dr.s Kay & Ray are not acting as therapists, neither for you nor for the reality castmates they discuss. They are, instead, bringing in their whole human selves, supplemented by mental health and psychology knowledge. They cannot ethically diagnose castmates or speak with certainty about their dynamics without conducting formal psychological assessments. Thus, their opinions will be merely (easily erroneous) opinions, informed by their biased perspectives, and while they may discuss diagnoses, they will avoid assigning them to castmates.

  1. Case Study Part II: Amanda Frances Deep Dive! RHOBH ::} 122

    2D AGO

    Case Study Part II: Amanda Frances Deep Dive! RHOBH ::} 122

    While Dr. Ray is away again for work, Dr. Kay finishes up her first effort towards a new possible style of episode: the case study! She finishes discussing Amanda Frances, from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, with attention to  a specific cast member from RHOBH, the new one who is sticking in Dr. Kay’s, and maybe your, craw: Amanda. The case study will be 3 parts, posted throughout this week!  With inclusion of audio clips (and video clips for the video version), you don’t need to watch RHOBH to be in on the conversation! Nor do you need to know who any of the cast members are, as Dr. Kay does a quick contextual run-through before trying to make sense of the various dynamics Amanda brings into the season, ranging from elitism and entitlement, to insecurity and support for Kyle. In addition to naming the dynamics with examples, Dr. Kay also offers what Amanda could say that would help her reach her (likely) underlying goals.  But first, for Reality Check, Dr. Kay discusses a topic related to the Olympics!  What do you think: If you watch RHOBH, has Amanda been sticking out to you in terms of group or social dynamics? What do you think she could say to reach her same goals without putting the other women off, as much?  o-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=O Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content! The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!  O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.  So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.  Come with us, let’s Reality Test! Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor! Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest Linkt.ree/@RealityTest Instagram: @realitytestpodcast TikTok: @realitytestpod YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta) O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o

    54 min
  2. MAR 2

     It’s always Award Season at Reality Test! | February Awards ::} 126 

    What an embarrassment of riches the reality TV shows are offering right now? Whether you’re into Southern Charm, Summer House, Real Housewives, The Traitors, or Love is Blind, you’re bound to find something you like in the greater reality TV world & you’re bound to connect with the awards Dr.s Kay & Ray gave those shows!                                                                                                                                     What do you think: What was your most “cringe” moment of the week in reality TV?  o-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=O Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content! The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!  O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.  So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.  Come with us, let’s Reality Test! Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor! Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest Linkt.ree/@RealityTest Instagram: @realitytestpodcast TikTok: @realitytestpod YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta) O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o

    1h 12m
  3. The Amanda-Kyle & Ciara-Boys of it All | Summer House Themes | Season 10 ::} 125

    FEB 23

    The Amanda-Kyle & Ciara-Boys of it All | Summer House Themes | Season 10 ::} 125

    We’re talking all the Summer House couples & relationship tea this week, as season 10 takes off–from Amanda & Kyle’s contemptuous, painful-to-watch relationship downfall to the flirtmance attempts towards Ciara, and Mama Hubbard’s new role. Even some fashion advice gets sprinkled in… you don’t want to miss these hot takes on these hot topics! What do you think: Regardless of any outcome of Kyle & Amanda’s relationship, do you think it looks like there’s hope for their relationship to heal, at this point in the season? o-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=O Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content! The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!  O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.  So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.  Come with us, let’s Reality Test! Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor! Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest Linkt.ree/@RealityTest Instagram: @realitytestpodcast TikTok: @realitytestpod YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta) O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o

    50 min
  4. FEB 16

    Mental Health Themes from the Salt Lake Housewives! | Reunion Part 3 | RHOSLC ::} 124

    If you're following along on the Amanda Frances deep dive, more bonus episodes will continue dropping with the rest of the deep dive case study, including Dr. Kay's final hypotheses on the factors at play! For now, check out our latest & greatest episode, with the co-hosts back together again! Dr.s Kay & Ray tackle the last episode of the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Salt Lake City Reunion, with a "highlights" style of episode, where they discuss specific mental health and sociopolitical topics that were raised in the episode, rather than recapping it entirely. What do you think: If a castmate refers to another's drinking or substance use, in general, how different is that from calling them an alcoholic or addict? Does it matter that Whitney specifically said that, when just raising Meredith's substance use could do similar damage?  o-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=O Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content! The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!  O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.  So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.  Come with us, let’s Reality Test! Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor! Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest Linkt.ree/@RealityTest Instagram: @realitytestpodcast TikTok: @realitytestpod YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok) Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta) O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o

    48 min
  5. Case Study: Deep Dive into Amanda from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills! Part 1 ::} 121

    FEB 10

    Case Study: Deep Dive into Amanda from Real Housewives of Beverly Hills! Part 1 ::} 121

    Volume issues fixed :) 3333 While Dr. Ray is away for work, Dr. Kay makes a first effort towards a new possible style of episode: the case study! She explores a specific cast member from RHOBH, the new one who is sticking in Dr. Kay’s, and maybe your, craw: Amanda. The case study will be 3 parts, posted throughout this week!  With inclusion of audio clips (and video clips for the video version), you don’t need to watch RHOBH to be in on the conversation! Nor do you need to know who any of the cast members are, as Dr. Kay does a quick contextual run-through before trying to make sense of the various dynamics Amanda brings into the season, ranging from elitism and entitlement, to insecurity and support for Kyle. In addition to naming the dynamics with examples, Dr. Kay also offers what Amanda could say that would help her reach her (likely) underlying goals.  But first, for Reality Check, Dr. Kay discusses a topic related to the Olympics!  What do you think: If you watch RHOBH, has Amanda been sticking out to you in terms of group or social dynamics? What do you think she could say to reach her same goals without putting the other women off, as much?  o-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=O Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content! The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!  O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.  So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.  Come with us, let’s Reality Test! Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor! Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest Linkt.ree/@RealityTest Instagram: @realitytestpodcast TikTok: @realitytestpod YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta) O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o

    1h 8m
  6. Annual Award Season Consummates! Part II ::} 120

    FEB 2

    Annual Award Season Consummates! Part II ::} 120

    For Reality Test’s third season finale, Doctors Kay and Ray close out the annual award season with 9 more awards for reality television moments and castmates of 2025! What were the best and worst representations of therapy last year? Which predictions are Dr.s Kay & Ray proudest of? Which castmate knows the assignment?  Thank you all for your listenership this third season of ours–we appreciate you deeply! Let us know (by social media, Patreon, or our email–all below) if you have any suggestions, questions, or preferences you want us to know about or answer! 3 What do you think: Did you notice how therapy was portrayed in reality TV last year? And which castmate of which show do you think most “knew the assignment” last year–whether in therapy or reality TV, at large! o-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=O Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content! The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!  O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.  So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.  Come with us, let’s Reality Test! Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor! Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest Linkt.ree/@RealityTest Instagram: @realitytestpodcast TikTok: @realitytestpod YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta) O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o

    39 min
  7. HEATED RIVALRY: Haters to Lovers! [Part II] ::} 119

    JAN 27

    HEATED RIVALRY: Haters to Lovers! [Part II] ::} 119

    Episode Video: https://www.patreon.com/posts/video-episode-to-149555731 We couldn’t go on with awards before going on with Heated Rivalry! So, Dr.s Kay and Ray finish unpacking Heated Rivalry, now that Dr. Kay was able to see it, too. They discuss the themes they had started: why do women of all sexual identities seem so drawn to this show? Do actors who play gay characters need to disclose their own sexual identities? Then, Dr.s Kay & Ray discuss other themes and topic areas of interest.  Next week, Dr.s Kay & Ray will return to the second half of the annual awards! What do you think: Did you watch Heated Rivalry? Do you think it would have been different if you knew both actors were gay or bi+? o-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=O Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content! The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!  O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.  So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.  Come with us, let’s Reality Test! Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor! Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest Linkt.ree/@RealityTest Instagram: @realitytestpodcast TikTok: @realitytestpod YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta) O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o

    1h 3m
  8. HEATED RIVALRY! + Annual Awards Show Part 1 ::} 118

    JAN 12

    HEATED RIVALRY! + Annual Awards Show Part 1 ::} 118

    Episode Video: https://www.patreon.com/posts/video-episode-1-149383252 First off, we’ve missed you! Heated Rivalry, you? Dr. Ray brings in her views on all things Heated Rivals & its parasocial context, convincing Dr. Kay that she needs to get out on the ice immediately! Then, award season continues as Doctors Kay and Ray give their UNIQUE ANNUAL AWARDS to any of the castmates and moments from all of the reality TV shows they watched over the past YEAR! Dr.s Kay & Ray award shows like Below Deck, The Real Housewives Franchise, Traitors, Love is Blind, and the recent season of Survivor with awards like, “Best Sociopolitical Learning Opportunity” and “Most Healing (for us to watch) Representation of Mental Health”!  Themes include racism, sexism, consent, and feminist corrective relational experiences!  This is only part 1 of Annual Awards because Dr.s Kay & Ray spent some time catching up with each other & you all, as well as an extended time on Reality Check! So, the next episode of annual awards will be a continuation, with just the rest of the awards. For the Reality Check, Dr. Kay shared about the relatively recent shift in psychological literature away from the historical diminishment of “gossip” and towards a look at its values. Then, Dr. Kay shared her favorite poem about “Women’s Talk”. What do you think: Do you think there is value to “gossip” or “women’s talk”? Relatedly, what do you think about the main actors of Heated Rivalry not disclosing their sexual identities? Can it be both: that they’re fully entitled to avoid labeling themselves (or disclosing really any information about their romantic and sexual lives) publicly–of course–and also that not knowing changes how we see their sex scenes, just as knowing one way or the other would? o-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=O Listeners! Come visit the Patreon for free at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠patreon.com/RealityTest⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (or search on Patreon with “@RealityTest”) & check out some of the benefits of a free membership (early access to the audio episodes!) & the paid tier! For only a MEASLY $5/month, you get the bonus features, including Mental Health Check-Up episodes, the VIDEO episodes, the full audio episode archive, and bonus & behind-the-scenes video content! The first 10 paying members will get shoutouts on the pod & 5 randomly selected members will get a free year of membership after joining! What are you waiting for? Come watch our video episodes, & join us in learning a little something about psych & mental health from our examinations of your favorite reality TV shows, castmates, and tea!  O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o Reality testing is when we check an emotion or thought we’re having against objective reality.  So, here in Reality Test, we’re going to be testing the thoughts, emotions, interactions, and producer antics of reality television against what we know, as licensed psychologists, about objective reality.  Come with us, let’s Reality Test! Hosts: Dr. Kay & Dr. Ray Thank you to our sound extraordinaire, Connor! Patreon: patreon.com/RealityTest Linkt.ree/@RealityTest Instagram: @realitytestpodcast TikTok: @realitytestpod YouTube Channel: @realitytestpod Facebook Page: Reality Test Pod Email: realitycheckpodding@gmail.com Dr. Kay: @drkaypods (Insta) & @dr.realitv (TikTok)Dr. Ray: @drraypods (Insta) O=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-o

    1h 35m
5
out of 5
9 Ratings

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Two Psych Doctors Spill the Tea on Mental Health Concepts & Presentations Shown in your Fave RealiTV Shows! Ever find yourself wanting to debrief that reality tv episode with your therapist? Or maybe you've wanted to ask them questions about something you've learned from the reality tv interactions, castmates, or news cycle? Come debrief with two licensed psychologists as they explore what we can all learn about ourselves, our relationships, and our society from our fave reality television shows on Netflix, Peacock, Bachelor Nation, Bravo, and beyond! Dr.s Kay & Ray inspire discussion about psychological and sociopolitical aspects of reality TV, offering rough draft thoughts and ideas for us to continue thinking about, while highlighting the power dynamics, sociohistorical context, and intersecting forms of oppression and privilege that are present. After all, reality television ultimately provides an engaging format for learning about our behavior, mental health, and sociopolitical systems—let’s learn together! Why REALITY TEST? We ALL reality test when testing a given thought, emotion, or interaction against "objective" (or shared) reality--did I see that right? Was that really sexist? Dr.s Kay & Ray spill all the tea on how the producer antics and castmate claims about mental health stack up against "objective" reality off-screen and the field of clinical psychology that they have learned about as practicing psychotherapists and research psychologists. What are you talking ABOUT? Reality Test has a general focus on relationships, social privilege, and mental health. Dr.s Kay & Ray also acknowledge their sociopolitical identities and lenses through which they view reality television, as feminist, bi+, white allies. So, if you've been itching to discuss how that episode was brimming with misogyny, heterosexism, &/or white privilege (from a white, ever-dedicated-to-developing-their-antiracism, perspective), or to critically assess how the producers portrayed a given scenario or interaction, while celebrating the hope & empowerment that can be found, you've come to the right place!  DISCLAIMER: In the context of this podcast, Dr.s Kay & Ray are not acting as therapists, neither for you nor for the reality castmates they discuss. They are, instead, bringing in their whole human selves, supplemented by mental health and psychology knowledge. They cannot ethically diagnose castmates or speak with certainty about their dynamics without conducting formal psychological assessments. Thus, their opinions will be merely (easily erroneous) opinions, informed by their biased perspectives, and while they may discuss diagnoses, they will avoid assigning them to castmates.