Redefining Happiness

Karen Castillo l Happiness Coach
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Redefining Happiness challenges common myths about happiness and explores what really creates lasting fulfillment—combining research, personal insights, and practical strategies you can use in your own life. No quick fixes, just real, meaningful change. To connect visit me at www.KarenCastillo.org

  1. 09/16/2025

    20. Why You Keep Chasing Other People’s Versions of Happiness

    You did everything right. Checked all the boxes. So why does it still feel…off? In this episode of Redefining Happiness, we look at how so many women end up chasing lives that don’t actually fit them. I’ll share how I got caught up in a high-achieving sales culture I thought I wanted, until I realized it was never really mine. We’ll talk about why some goals feel empty after you reach them, how to spot when you’re living by someone else’s values, and what to do instead. What you’ll learn: Why success can feel disappointingHow to tell if a goal is really yoursWhat’s underneath the urge to prove yourselfA self-reflection challenge to bring your happiness back homeIf you enjoy today's episode and want to continue this journey with other like-minded people, join us in my FREE Skool community where you’ll find: A free workshop that walks you through the most common happiness myths The podcast resources hub A community of others on the same path. Come find your tribe! Go to skool.com/thegoodlife to sign up. Connect With Me: Instagram | Website | Facebook Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

    6 min

  2. 09/01/2025

    19. The Truth About Why Nothing Feels Like Enough

    Ever feel like no matter what you achieve, it's never quite enough? You land the promotion, buy the dream house, or reach that goal weight, but the excitement fades faster than you expected, leaving you wondering "what's next?" If this sounds familiar, you're experiencing something psychologists call hedonic adaptation, and you're definitely not alone. In this episode of Redefining Happiness, we break down the science behind why our biggest achievements often leave us feeling empty and searching for the next milestone. You'll discover the two-part psychological process that keeps us stuck in an endless cycle of wanting more, and why happiness always seems just out of reach. What You'll Learn: ·       The psychology of hedonic adaptation and why your brain is wired to reset to baseline happiness ·       How the "adapt and level up" cycle keeps you chasing the next achievement ·       Why thinking of happiness as a destination sets you up for disappointment ·       Practical strategies to find satisfaction and contentment in your current life ·       How to pursue goals without depending on them for your happiness This episode offers real solutions for breaking free from the "never enough" mindset. Whether you're struggling with career satisfaction, relationship fulfillment, or general life contentment, you'll walk away with actionable insights for creating sustainable happiness. Stop chasing happiness and start redefining it. Your journey to lasting satisfaction starts here. And be sure to check out the FREE Podcast Resources Hub, your go-to library for exercises, templates, and exclusive content to help you apply what you’re learning each week. Use THIS LINK to get started or head to karencastillo.org and click on “Podcast.” If you haven’t signed up yet, this is the perfect time to join. It’s free, and once you’re in, you’ll get access to every episode’s tools, including bonus downloads I don’t share anywhere else.   Connect With Me: Instagram | Website | Facebook Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

    9 min

  3. 08/11/2025

    18. Savoring: The Happiness of Looking Back

    In this final part of our three-part series on Stretching Happiness Across Time, we explore Reflective Savoring, the art of keeping good moments alive after they’re over. You’ll learn how reflective savoring works, why it matters, and simple ways to build it into your life so that joy lasts far beyond the moment itself. We’ll tie everything together with the dinner-with-friends example from earlier episodes, showing how anticipation, presence, and savoring create a complete cycle for experiencing more happiness. What you’ll learn in this episode: How savoring strengthens your memories and boosts happinessFred Bryant’s research on the benefits of savoringPractical ways to savor daily moments, both big and smallHow anticipation, presence, and savoring work together to stretch joy across timeAnd be sure to check out the FREE Podcast Resources Hub, your go-to library for exercises, templates, and exclusive content to help you apply what you’re learning each week. Use THIS LINK to get started or head to karencastillo.org and click on “Podcast.” If you haven’t signed up yet, this is the perfect time to join—it’s free, and once you’re in, you’ll get access to every episode’s tools, including bonus downloads I don’t share anywhere else. Connect With Me: Instagram | Website | Facebook Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

    6 min

  4. 08/06/2025

    17. Presence: The Happiness of Right Now

    You looked forward to a dinner out with friends, made the plans, counted the days, and then spent the night half-distracted, checking your phone and thinking of other things. Sound familiar? In Part 2 of our three-part series on “Stretching Happiness Across Time,” we’re talking about presence and how to feel the good in the moment. You’ll learn why being mentally checked out is so common (especially in our phone-addicted world), how it affects your happiness, and why even small moments of awareness can shift how connected and content you feel in your life. We’ll explore: The science behind presence and happinessHow mindless scrolling hijacks your attention and your joyWhat it means to “savor” a moment, and why it mattersA simple daily practice to bring your mind back to nowHappiness isn’t hiding in the next big thing. It’s often already here, you just have to be present enough to feel it. And be sure to check out the FREE Podcast Resources Hub, your go-to library for exercises, templates, and exclusive content to help you apply what you’re learning each week. Use THIS LINK to get started or head to karencastillo.org and click on “Podcast.” If you haven’t signed up yet, this is the perfect time to join—it’s free, and once you’re in, you’ll get access to every episode’s tools, including bonus downloads I don’t share anywhere else.   Connect With Me: Instagram | Website | Facebook Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

    9 min

  5. 07/21/2025

    16. Anticipation: The Happiness of Looking Forward

    This week on Redefining Happiness, we’re kicking off a three-part series on stretching happiness across time, starting with anticipation. Have you ever noticed how looking forward to something, big or small, can boost your mood days in advance? In this episode, I’ll explain how anticipation works in the brain, why it matters more than we realize, and how you can intentionally build more of it into your everyday life. We’ll talk about why daydreaming isn’t a waste of time, how small rituals can spark big joy, and what stops us from letting ourselves feel excited. Plus, I’ll share five simple ways to bring anticipation into your week, no vacation or big event required. Your Happiness Challenge this week will help you start practicing this right away, so you can stop rushing through your days and start enjoying what’s ahead. If you’re ready to feel more joy now, not just when the good thing finally happens, this one’s for you. And be sure to check out the FREE Podcast Resources Hub, your go-to library for exercises, templates, and exclusive content to help you apply what you’re learning each week. Use THIS LINK to get started or head to karencastillo.org and click on “Podcast.” If you haven’t signed up yet, this is the perfect time to join—it’s free, and once you’re in, you’ll get access to every episode’s tools, including bonus downloads I don’t share anywhere else. Connect With Me: Instagram | Website | Facebook Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

    9 min

  6. 07/07/2025

    15. Why “I’ll be happy when…” never works, and what to do instead

    Have you ever told yourself, “I’ll be happy when…”? It’s such a common thought that we really don't question it. But what happens when you finally reach that goal, milestone, or dream? Too often, the happiness you imagined doesn’t last, or doesn’t show up at all. In this episode, we’ll explore why the emotional payoff we expect from achievement often fades so quickly. We’ll talk about the human tendency to overestimate how good we’ll feel “once we get there,” and why real, lasting happiness isn’t found in arriving at some future destination but in how we live right now. I’ll share research on why we’re wired to misjudge what will make us happy and how this can keep us chasing goal after goal without feeling truly satisfied. And most importantly, we’ll look at what you can do instead, so you can bring more of the feelings you want into your everyday life. Plus, there’s a free reflection worksheet waiting for you in the FREE Podcast Resources Hub to help you put this week’s Happiness Challenge into practice. Connect With Me: Instagram | Website | Facebook Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

    8 min

  7. 06/30/2025

    14. Building a Happiness Ritual: One Small Moment That’s Just for You

    Building a Happiness Ritual: One Small Moment That’s Just for You If you ever feel like your days carry you along without giving you a moment to breathe, this episode is for you. Today we’re talking about happiness rituals. Simple, intentional moments you choose on purpose to reconnect with how you want to feel. Unlike habits you do on autopilot, these rituals are interruptions you welcome. A way to slow down and remember that you’re more than your to-do list. We’ll talk about why these rituals work, what research says about the best ways to keep them meaningful, and how to design one that actually fits your life. Whether you use yours to start the day with a little more space for yourself, wind down at night, or rescue yourself when the day gets too loud, you’ll leave with ideas for creating your own personal signal to slow down and feel good. This week’s Happiness Challenge will guide you in designing and trying your own ritual, so you can make space to feel more like yourself, one small moment at a time. I have created a worksheet in the FREE Podcast Resources Hub to help you design your ritual. The use THIS LINK or go to karencastillo.org. Connect With Me: Instagram | Website | Facebook Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

    8 min

  8. 06/23/2025

    13. The Role of Habits in Happiness

    The Role of Habits in Happiness: How small, consistent actions shape our identity and well-being When we think about what creates happiness, we often imagine big events or major life changes. But research shows that the real foundation of happiness is built through small, everyday habits. In this episode, we explore how habits influence our emotional well-being, how they’re formed in the brain, and why repetition and environment, not willpower, is the key to change. You’ll learn: ·       Why up to 40% of your daily actions are habitual ·       How direct context cuing shapes your behavior automatically ·       What neuroscience reveals about the effort habits require ·       How to replace draining habits with ones that support happiness ·       Why even one-minute habits can make a lasting difference This week’s Happiness Challenge: The Tiny Habit Practice Your challenge this week is to create a 1-minute happiness habit. Choose one small action that feels good to you, and remember, start tiny. It could be: Lighting a candle and taking three deep breathsStepping outside for a minute and really noticing your environmentWriting one thing you are grateful for and feeling that gratitudeTexting someone just to say you’re thinking of themCommit to doing it every day for one week. Same time, same place if possible. That’s it. Start that habit for one week. Forget the outcome, just do it. Then next week you can decide if you want to continue. I have created a worksheet in the FREE Podcast Resources Hub to help you log your habit and plan for ways to slowly increase it for more impact. The use THIS LINK or go to karencastillo.org. Resources Mentioned: [Free Download] The Tiny Habit Practice–available now inside the Podcast Resources HubHabits—A Repeat Performance By: David T. Neal, Wendy Wood, and Jeffrey M. Quinn Connect With Me: Instagram | Website | Facebook Music: "Be Happy" by danamusic

    9 min
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Redefining Happiness challenges common myths about happiness and explores what really creates lasting fulfillment—combining research, personal insights, and practical strategies you can use in your own life. No quick fixes, just real, meaningful change. To connect visit me at www.KarenCastillo.org

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    Karen Castillo l Happiness Coach
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