Reentry Reframed

Kristen Shook & Melissa Goodman | Mirror, Inc

Reentry Reframed focuses on the journeys of individuals who are returning to the community after being incarcerated. Our goal is to reframe the way reentry is perceived while giving hope to those going through this process. We strive to inform society of the obstacles justice-involved individuals face while gathering like minds to systematically develop a solution. This podcast is sponsored by Mirror.

  1. 11/03/2025

    Sentenced to the Streets: Dakotah Sanders

    Born and raised in Hutchison, Kansas, Dakotah reflects on scoring a 9 out of 10 on the ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experience) test to provide a glimpse into his story he shares on this episode. He was raised around abuse, violence, neglect, and more, sadly. Dakotah felt like he was an "odd individual" once he started school, but he also felt mature due to the adult experiences he was exposed to. From an early age, he fought with other children, mirroring the violence he was observing at home. At the age of 8 years old, Dakotah began using marijuana. Looking back at the first time he tried marijuana, he was with adults in a "trap house" who would not allow him to smoke meth, but they allowed Dakotah to use marijuana instead. By his teenage years, he was using a variety of illicit substances including opiates and methamphetamine. Searching for an escape for any unwanted emotion he was experiencing, Dakotah spiraled further into addiction. After experiencing his first major incident of drug withdrawal, he sought to remove himself from the lifestyle entirely that he was living and enlist in the Marine Corp. Before he was able to ship out, Dakotah suffered a serious injury to his knee. From there, Dakotah felt like he had been forsaken and was "sentenced to the streets" where he would eventually end up in the one place everyone told him he belonged: jail. To hear how Dakotah turned his life around completely and now helps others, you need to hear in his own words. After writing a book with his inspirational story, Endure, he now raises money to send his book to clients in treatment centers, jails, and prisons. You can find a copy of his book by following this link: https://www.quietstormservices.com/copy-of-endure-to-suffer-with-patience. Dakotah, we hope your dream comes true of getting your book in the hands of those who need it most!  Send us a text

    1h 8m
  2. 10/03/2025

    There's Mo Place Like Home: Morgan Nelson in Oz 

    Growing up in Tampa, Florida without his father present, Mo Nelson describes the feelings surrounding this absence. With a hardworking mother filling both roles, his mother showed Mo "immense love" and spoiled him. Having a large extended family, he reflects how close-knit they were, which helped during the years Mo was an only child. As he struggled with loneliness during adolescence, Mo learned quickly that acting out would give him attention, albeit not the type of attention he was seeking. While reflecting on when things started to go off track, he pinpointed some of his troubles in school being difficult due to ADHD and the rollercoaster of medication. Additionally, Mo admits he was seeking a way to be respected amongst his peers. At the age of just 16 years old, Mo was involved in a robbery that resulted in a homicide during the commission of the robbery. Originally facing a life sentence, he took the advice of his attorney to "not let the tears of his mother influence his decision" when deciding whether or not to take a plea deal for nearly as many years as he had been alive. Mo had to grow up fast when he was incarcerated with adults for his own safety. Working on building his character, he sought to protect himself by showing no vulnerability at such a young age. In the process of seeking forgiveness and redemption, Mo was determined to turn his life around completely to eventually be able to help others. To learn more about how he does that today, check his website out at monelsonspeaks.com, and follow him @real_monelsonspeaks on Instagram, or linkedin.com/in/mo-nelson-133648221. Mo, we had so much fun getting to know you at the Reentry Opportunity Conference of Kansas (ROCK)! Sincerely, your favorite little prairie friends.  Send us a text

    1h 4m
  3. 08/13/2025

    Kaylee's Dad is Mad: Amber Saale-Burger

    Born in Armourdale, Kansas, Amber was the first of 8 children. While her mother struggled with substance use disorder earlier in her childhood, Amber recalls she was well loved and spoiled as a child. As her mother regained and maintained her sobriety, she was a huge part of Amber's life as well as her grandchildren's lives. Meeting who would be her future husband, Max, in kindergarten, that invisible thread would reappear later on in her life with the pair coming back together. As she entered into her teenage years, Amber began experimenting with substances. By 17 years old, she was involved in gangs, drugs, and her grandmother insisted she move to another town to escape the trajectory she was on. While she was able to get sober after having her first 2 children, Amber fell back into addiction after the loss of her beloved grandmother.  In 2011, Amber was sober and reconnected with Max who was deep in his addiction, and the couple soon learned they were pregnant with twins. Amber gave Max ultimatum to leave with her and move away from where they were living, or he would lose her; Max made the decision to leave with his family and started working various programs to regain control of his life. With a house full of their children and Amber's bonus daughters, Kaylee and Becca, their hearts were just as full. At the age of 14, Kaylee was introduced to opiates by her aunt. Amber and Max were furious as they navigated conversations with Kaylee about the dangers of opiates. Kaylee's biological mother struggled with substances which later intertwined with Kaylee's addiction as she spiraled out of control. In 2023, Max and Amber received a call that would devastate and change the course of their entire lives. Following the loss of their daughter to fentanyl poisoning, they were angry and seeking purpose. After losing 4 loved ones in the span of less than 18 months to overdoses, Amber wanted to wage a war on fentanyl, educate, and provide resources to those battling their own substance use disorder. In 2024, Max and Amber started the foundation, Kaylee's Dad is Mad, that has been providing resources to the community since 2023. To learn more about how you can raise awareness and join the fight to save lives, please visit https://www.kayleesdadismad.com/. To Amber, Max, and the countless families who have said goodbye far, far too soon to their loved ones, we stand by you in this battle. Send us a text

    1h 11m
  4. 04/28/2025

    Rouse, Ruin, & Repeat: Kelby Sanders, Outreach Clinician

    Born in Maryland to a military family, Kelby moved across the country as a child until landing in Kansas at the age of 8 years old. He describes some of the challenges that came with moving around a lot as a child because it was hard to develop ties. The bouncing around from place to place continued for the military family even after settling down in Kansas.  Fitting in was a challenge for Kelby growing up, and he quickly learned it was easier to do “over the top” things as a child to earn the attention of his peers. With a father who was frequently absent due to his career, the family operated for long periods of time as a single parent home with a strong reliance on Kelby to help babysit his younger siblings. With aspirations of becoming a rockstar, sports and similar hobbies did not have much appeal to Kelby. Starting in 7th grade, the troublemaking that got the attention of his peers when he was younger started to lead into serious trouble. By the age of 16, Kelby was spending time on weekends partying. The catalyst for his addiction he describes started with receiving opioids after having his wisdom teeth removed. From there, he was buying pills throughout his youth. After getting kicked out of his parent’s house at the age of 18, Kelby was struggling with his mental health, homelessness, and substance use disorder. Life for Kelby was tumultuous, and he was stuck in a vicious cycle of “repeat, repeat, repeat.” Finally, he was able to break free from the cycle and now helps others do the same. Kelby, we are thrilled to have you now as a part of the Mirror family! Send us a text

    1h 10m
  5. 03/07/2025

    Echoes of Absence: Tamicka Monson

    Born in Chicago, Tamicka spent most of her childhood navigating life with an absent parent. She recalls going to court with her mother at just six years old. As her mother’s addiction spiraled, her presence in the home dwindled due to her substance use disorder. Tamicka shares her perspective at each stage of her life being “a little, a middle, and an adult” as a child of an incarcerated parent. Throughout her childhood, there were many heavy feelings that stemmed from her mother’s absence. Shame, self-blame, and confusion were just some of the feelings surrounding her mother’s absence. As a child, she often wondered, “Was there anything I could have done to prevent my mom from leaving?” After spending most of her childhood with her mother incarcerated, her father began a lengthy sentence in prison when Tamicka was a teenager. With her father being who raised her, this was devastating. As an adult, Tamicka quickly learned she had a passion for helping others who are facing adverse circumstances. After obtaining her Master of Science from the University of Kansas in counseling psychology, she also went on to become a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. For the past 15 years, Tamicka has been working with people to “heal, grow, and become the best version of themselves.” Now, Tamicka is a therapist who works closely with parents and children with a family member incarcerated. In 2023, Tamicka published her book, “Where Daddy Lives,” to provide a tool for parents to have conversations with their children to better understand what is happening and feelings they might have. She offers guidance for age-appropriate conversations parents can have with children that evolve over time. For more information or to purchase the book, visit https://www.tamickamonsoncounseling.com/where-daddy-lives. Dedicated to her two younger siblings and all children of incarcerated parents, Tamicka signed her book, “There is hope.” We could not agree more, and it was such an honor to meet you, Tamicka! Send us a text

    56 min
  6. 12/27/2024

    Never On The Track: Jason Miles

    Starting at just 8 years old, Jason Miles was involved in the justice system. When asked where things began to go “off track,” Jason replied, “You know, I never was on the track to begin with.” Later in life, he was able to identify much of his troubled youth, destruction of property, and rebelling against authority linked back to the anger he harbored for his father not being present. When considering what possible interventions that could’ve helped, Jason thinks he was just “too much.” Entering the prison system at 14 years old, he recalls being one of the youngest youths in the juvenile facility. After releasing from the juvenile prison, Jason’s experimentation with substances started to spiral out of control. Theft and breaking into cars eventually escalated to breaking into a gas station. Hanging around with a group of friends, they would drink, use marinara, and shoot guns. This behavior quickly turned down a dangerous path ending in tragedy. As a 17-year-old, Jason was facing murder charges for 5-20 years. While incarcerated, Jason became involved in groups that were brought into the prison to help with self-development. He started learning more about addiction, recovery, and ultimately what would be his one-way ticket out of prison. He started learning there was a different way to live his life, and his belief that he was “destined to be a knucklehead,” did not need to be his reality or future. Now, he shares all that he has learned with others in hopes he can help lead others to a life of freedom, and when times get tough, you do not need to face it alone. Jason’s story is one of redemption, hope, and the power of second chances. We wish you nothing but the best, Jason! Send us a text

    1h 16m
  7. 11/27/2024

    Let Me Rewind: Jamie & Mariah Lynam

    Born and raised in California, Jamie said she had a good childhood from what she can remember. At just a few years old, her parents divorced which led to Jamie being raised alone by her mother. From a young age, Jamie identifies her addiction to substances really started with cigarettes following a very traumatic event. While cigarettes and alcohol use were very normalized in her home, Jamie recalls both her absent father and subsequent stepfathers struggled with drug addiction. As she describes a childhood plagued with watching her mother go from one abusive relationship to another, it was tumultuous for her to navigate. As a young adult when Jamie started experimenting with cocaine, she said from that moment on she was “chasing the drug.” From there, she went to college, found herself entering the workforce as a functioning addict, leaving one unhealthy relationship and entering a new one while her life was becoming unmanageable. For the first time in years, Jamie was able to regain her sobriety when she found out she was pregnant with her daughter, Mariah. For a few years, Jamie remained sober as she parented with the help of her mother. Jamie describes her journey through addiction and ultimately nearly a decade in federal prison. Her incredible daughter, Mariah, joined the podcast episode unsure of how much, or if she would join the discussion. To witness Mariah and Jamie’s bond, rewinding back to the past to learn how they got here today, is nothing short of inspiring. Jamie and Mariah, we wish you the very best! Send us a text

    1h 3m
5
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15 Ratings

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Reentry Reframed focuses on the journeys of individuals who are returning to the community after being incarcerated. Our goal is to reframe the way reentry is perceived while giving hope to those going through this process. We strive to inform society of the obstacles justice-involved individuals face while gathering like minds to systematically develop a solution. This podcast is sponsored by Mirror.