Regulating & Raising

MaKenzie Byram

Regulating & Raising is a podcast for moms who want to feel calm, aligned, and in control again. Hosted by MaKenzie, this show blends Human Design and nervous system support with real-life motherhood—so you can understand your energy, trust your decisions, and stop feeling like you’re constantly in survival mode. Each episode is a mix of honest solo conversations and expert interviews, covering everything from emotional regulation and identity shifts to clean living, holistic health, and raising a family in a way that actually feels good. This isn’t about doing more or getting it perfect. It’s about learning how to regulate yourself while raising your kids—and building a life that works for your season. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or like there has to be a better way… you’re in the right place.

  1. 10h ago

    Human Design as a Business, Money, and Life-Changing Framework

    This episode is one MaKenzie has been dreaming about for a long time — and it is for the woman who knows she is meant for more and is finally ready to build a business and a life that actually matches how she was designed. MaKenzie sits down with her own mentor, Becca Francis — a Human Design and Gene Keys expert, business mentor, psychic medium, and the woman behind an entire body of work teaching women how to build coaching businesses, make more money, and step into their gifts using their own energetic blueprint. Becca has helped thousands of women monetize their gifts, launch aligned offers, and step into psychic gifts they were once told to hide. Together, MaKenzie and Becca explore Becca's journey from struggling in a corporate law firm for 15 years to leaving her job just 8 months after discovering Human Design. They dive into what it actually means to live your design — starting simple with type, strategy, and authority — and how one shift changed everything for Becca's relationships, business, and marriage. Becca teaches on the ego (heart) center and splenic center as the two hidden money patterns most women are never told about, walks the audience through the "what if that weren't true?" reframe for changing money beliefs, and unpacks deconditioning as a practical, ongoing practice (spoiler: it does not have to take seven years). She also shares her jaw-dropping story of the honeymoon night in the Redwoods that cracked open her psychic gifts, and closes with a real, tangible starting point for the mom just discovering Human Design today. If you have been quietly performing a version of yourself that never fit, this conversation is your permission slip to finally build from your actual blueprint. What We Cover Becca's 15 years in corporate and 8-month exit after discovering Human DesignWhy "know your type, strategy, and authority" and you're 75% thereEmotional authority: the wave, feeling through the yes and no, and waiting for stillnessThe moment Becca stopped trying to fit in — and how the toxic office culture shiftedThe unconscious Mars shadow and the exclusion pattern Becca had to faceWhy Human Design gives you "targeted vocabulary" instead of vague healingThe ego (heart) center and money — why you overextend to prove your worthThe splenic center and money — why you need a buffer to feel safeThe "what if that weren't true?" reframe you can use this weekDeconditioning explained through Karen Curry Parker's basket, jewels, and rocks visualWhy self-trust is the foundation for every psychic gift and intuitive knowingBecca's Redwoods honeymoon night that opened her psychic channelPractical starting steps for the mom just discovering Human Design today Connect with Becca Website: beccafrancis.com Instagram: @thebeccafrancis TikTok: @beccafrancismedium Free — Human Design + Money AI Tool: beccafrancis.com/money Free — 5-Day Intuition Challenge: beccafrancis.com/intuition

  2. 6d ago

    Midlife Is Not a Crisis. It Is an Awakening. With Lori Lisai

    This episode is for the woman who has spent decades living everyone else's design — and is finally ready to meet her own. MaKenzie sits down with Lori Lisai, a Human Design guide who helps midlife women navigate transitions and figure out what is next. Through her podcast Midlife by Human Design, her workshops, her 1:1 work, and her retreats, Lori empowers women to see midlife not as a crisis, but as a beginning — one full of possibility, purpose, and unapologetic joy. Before stepping fully into her Human Design work, Lori was a teacher for 26 years, until she followed her generator gut and emotional authority right out of the classroom and into the calling that had been building underneath her career for years. Together, MaKenzie and Lori dive into why Lori reframes midlife not as a crisis but as an awakening, how the Uranus opposition and the estrogen decline of perimenopause are literally rewiring who a woman is, and why the "people-pleasing hormone" naturally drops away so a woman can finally show up as herself. Lori introduces the powerful Wild Woman archetype — the missing phase between mother and crone — and unpacks what happens when women stop performing the version of themselves they outgrew years ago. They also explore Human Design in schools, how Lori applies it to perimenopause, the parts of your chart (like determination, earth gate, and authority) that ground you through hormonal chaos, and MaKenzie's real-life moment teaching her seven-year-old daughter how to use her authority to make decisions. If you are in midlife or watching it approach, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are. What We Cover Lori's journey from 26-year teacher to Human Design guideWhy midlife is a midlife awakening, not a crisisThe Uranus opposition and why your early 40s feel like a shake-upPerimenopause, the estrogen decline, and why your body forces the changeWhy estrogen is the "people-pleasing hormone" and what happens when it dropsWhy women feel "crazy" in midlife (and why they aren't)The Wild Woman archetype — the missing phase between Mother and CroneHow Human Design shows up in schools (and why it should)Determination, earth gates, and authority as tools through hormonal chaosWhy AI cannot yet synthesize your chart with your lifeThe gift of teaching your kids about their design from a young ageWhy sovereignty means answering only to yourself at the end of your life Connect with Lori Website: lorilisai.com Instagram: @lorilisai Podcast: Midlife by Human Design Free Human Design Guide + Perimenopause Survival Guide: lorilisai.com/workwithlori Connect with MaKenzie Website: www.cleanmomedit.com Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Free Training — The Reason You Mom The Way You Do A free audio training walking you through all five human design types through the lens of motherhood. 💛 If this episode resonated with you, subscribe so you never miss an episode and leave a review — it means the world and helps other moms find this community. Thank you for being here and for listening.

  3. Sep 1

    EFT Tapping: The Missing Piece Most Women Are Skipping with Meryl Hayton

    This episode is for the high-functioning woman whose life looks great from the outside — but whose body has quietly been holding tension, anxiety, and overthinking for years. MaKenzie sits down with Meryl Hayton, a trauma-informed inner peace specialist, energy healer, retreat leader, speaker, co-author, and creator of the Emotional Clearing Method. Meryl is a certified EFT tapping practitioner and Reiki energy healer who helps women release trauma, calm anxiety, and build self-trust — without forcing, fixing, or pushing themselves into change. Meryl also spent 30 years as a salon owner, deeply listening to women through their layers, before stepping into her calling as a coach in her 50s. Together, MaKenzie and Meryl dive into the truth about EFT tapping — what it actually is, why it works, and why most people who have tried it are missing the piece that would make it stick. Meryl walks the audience through a real tapping session in real time (yes, you can follow along), unpacks why "calming down" is not the same as healing, and explains what is actually happening in your parasympathetic nervous system, amygdala, and hippocampus when you tap. She also opens up about her own journey through anxiety, second-guessing, and inner criticism — and how tapping finally reached the places yoga, therapy, and energy healing could not. If you have been trying to think your way into calm and are ready to actually feel it in your body, this episode is your permission slip to try a new way. What We Cover Meryl's journey from salon owner to nervous system healerWhy inner peace has to be embodied, not intellectualizedThe trap of "doing" instead of "being" and how it keeps women stuckWhat EFT tapping is actually doing to your parasympathetic nervous systemHow tapping calms the amygdala and rewires the hippocampusThe difference between physical tapping and Optimal EFT (the spiritual evolution)The 12 main Chinese energy points and how to actually tap through themWhy general tapping scripts do not work — and what doesA real, live tapping session you can follow along with in the car, in the store, or at the dinner tableHow to use tapping in 30 seconds when you cannot do the full recipeWhy anxiety is a symptom, not a feeling — and what actually lives underneath itWhy one month of consistent tapping is the sweet spot for real shiftThe five-step Clearing Method framework: Clarity, Letting go, Encouragement, Alignment, Reinforcement Connect with Meryl Everywhere under Meryl Hayton: Website: merylhayton.comInstagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube: Meryl HaytonFree — The Clearing Method Workbook (23 pages) Connect with MaKenzie Website: www.cleanmomedit.com Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Free Training — The Reason You Mom The Way You Do A free audio training walking you through all five human design types through the lens of motherhood. 💛 If this episode resonated with you, subscribe so you never miss an episode and leave a review — it means the world and helps other moms find this community. Thank you for being here and for listening.

  4. Aug 11

    Grief Is Not Just Sadness: Suicide Loss and Living Alongside It

    This episode is sacred. It is for the woman who is carrying grief that does not seem to lessen with time — and is finally ready to be met in it instead of asked to move past it. MaKenzie sits down with Mercedes "Merci" Medina, a grief practitioner, trauma-informed hypnotherapist, death doula, and the founder of Morning House — a space for those learning how to live alongside their grief. After losing her father to suicide at 18, Merci came to understand grief not as a season to survive, but as a lifelong relationship that reshapes every part of life, time and time again. Through grief support, hypnotherapy, somatic practices, death work, and grief circles, Merci helps people face their grief in an open, honest, unmasked way — making room for the ugly and complicated parts that the world wants us to hide. What We Cover Merci's relationship with death from a young age and how she built Morning HouseWhy grief has no timeline — no matter what society tells youThe 15 years it took Merci to verbalize how her dad diedThe shame of suicide loss and the work of releasing itWhy grief is not just sadness — it is anger, guilt, apathy, and depression tooThe vicious cycle of anger and guilt after suicide lossWhy trying to censor or reframe your grief in the moment keeps you stuckHow avoiding grief creates patterns in your relationships (staying too long, walls up, fear of being left)The healing power of being witnessed in communityWhy the deeper you feel grief, the more you can love your lifeChoosing different healing modalities beyond talk therapy — hypnotherapy, Reiki, EFT, and grief circlesWhy joy, play, and creativity are part of the grief work — not separate from itGrief circles and the surprising power of doing collages while sharing heavy stories Connect with Merci Instagram: @morninggrief.house TikTok: @morninggrief.house Connect with MaKenzie Website: www.cleanmomedit.com Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Free Training — The Reason You Mom The Way You Do A free audio training walking you through all five human design types through the lens of motherhood. Join The Clean Mom Edit Club— $33/month A simple, supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie. 💛 If this episode resonated with you, subscribe so you never miss an episode and leave a review — it means the world and helps other moms find this community. Thank you for being here and for listening.

  5. Aug 4

    Reclaiming Your Intuition: The Signal Beneath the Noise

    This episode is for the woman who has been getting whispers from her intuition for years — and is finally ready to stop second-guessing them. MaKenzie sits down with Kelsey Anderson, an Energy Intuitive, Spiritual Guide, and host of the Reclamation podcast. Kelsey shares her journey from climbing the corporate ladder as a business management consultant to fully stepping into her intuitive gifts — abilities she had as a young child, shut down as a people-pleasing eldest daughter, and finally reclaimed through the great awakening of motherhood. Together, MaKenzie and Kelsey explore what actually happens in a woman's body and energy field when she keeps overriding her intuition, why postpartum can be one of the most spiritually cracking-open seasons of a woman's life, and how she rebuilt herself from the inside out through postpartum anxiety, OCD, and depression. Kelsey also shares her powerful reframe on manifestation — that it is not sitting in meditation waiting for something to happen, but aligned action paired with the frequency of what is already available to you. She also opens up about her upcoming book, The Signal, and the practical community-building work she is doing to help other women trust themselves again. If you have been silencing your intuition to make other people comfortable — this conversation is your permission slip to finally start listening. What We Cover Kelsey's journey from business management consulting to intuitive workWhy so many women shut down their intuition as young girlsBeing an eldest daughter, millennial, and neurodiverse — and the mask of people-pleasingKelsey's upcoming book, The Signal — trusting your intuition through the noise of modern life Connect with Kelsey Website: kelseyandersonintuitive.comInstagram: @kelseyandersonintuitiveSubstack, YouTube, and TikTok: Kelsey Anderson IntuitiveBook — The SignalFree Guide — Intuition Foundations Connect with MaKenzie Website: www.cleanmomedit.com Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Free Training — The Reason You Mom The Way You Do A free audio training walking you through all five human design types through the lens of motherhood. Join The Clean Mom Edit Club— $33/month A simple, supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie. 💛 If this episode resonated with you, subscribe so you never miss an episode and leave a review — it means the world and helps other moms find this community. Thank you for being here and for listening.

  6. Jul 28

    Coming Home to Yourself: Breath, Identity, and the Bonus Mom Experience

    This episode is for the mom who is physically present with her babies but mentally a hundred miles away — and is finally ready to come home to herself. MaKenzie sits down with Caitlin Lane, a Healing Arts Therapist who masterfully blends ancient wisdom and modern science to help people get out of their overthinking minds and step fully into their bodies. Caitlin's work is rooted in the power of breath, honoring feminine wisdom, and guiding others into the deepest connection with themselves. Off the clock, she is a devoted wife, a dreamer, a bonus mom, and a self-described lover girl whose life is anchored by her deepest values — time, presence, and community. Together they explore the identity loss so many moms quietly grieve, why intellectual understanding alone will never bring you home to yourself, and how breath is the fastest doorway back into the body. Caitlin walks the audience through a live 4-4-8 breathwork practice, opens up about the layered complexities of being a bonus mom, and shares what it looks like to stop overriding your body and finally listen to what it has been trying to tell you all along. If you have been feeling more like a shell than a self, this conversation is your soft place to land. What We Cover Why so many women feel "lost" in motherhood — and what is actually happening in the bodyWhy intellectual understanding will never bring you home to yourselfThe 4-4-8 breath practice you can use in the middle of laundry, dinner, or bedtimeWhy breath is the fastest doorway back into your bodyBeing a bonus mom — the grief, the love, and the identity work no one talks aboutHow to stop performing motherhood and start experiencing itWhy community — not another course — is often the missing pieceThe daily micro-practices that shift a woman's relationship with herself Connect with Caitlin Website: thefeminineflow.net Instagram: @bergamotqueen__ Free Community: www.thefeminineflow.net/community Signature Program Waitlist: www.thefeminineflow.net/waitlist Connect with MaKenzie Website: www.cleanmomedit.com Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Free Training — The Reason You Mom The Way You Do A free audio training walking you through all five human design types through the lens of motherhood. Join The Clean Mom Edit Club— $33/month A simple, supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie. 💛 If this episode resonated with you, subscribe so you never miss an episode and leave a review — it means the world and helps other moms find this community. Thank you for being here and for listening.

  7. Jul 21

    Your Favorite Self: Cycle-Breaking, ADHD, and Building a Life You Actually Love

    This episode is for the mom who is doing all the "right" things — and quietly feels like something is still missing. MaKenzie sits down with Sophia Hyde, a Certified Master Life Coach, author of Unleash Your Favorite Self, host of the Your Favorite Self podcast, and creator of the Favorite Self app. After years of chasing standards that were never hers — and being told her ambition and drive were signs of a "problem" — Sophia discovered that everything the world was trying to fix about her was actually the very thing that would set her free. Together, MaKenzie and Sophia dive into what it really takes for a mom to stop chasing someone else's definition of success and start building a life she actually loves. They get honest about growing up in dysfunction (Sophia lost her mom to alcoholism at 27), the cycle-breaking work that saved her, and the ADHD diagnosis at 43 that finally gave her the language for who she has always been. Sophia also shares the four-minute rule that changed everything for her family, why the "calm-alert" state is what your kids are actually asking for, and the biggest lie the personal development industry has ever sold moms. If you have been quietly asking yourself, is this really it? — this conversation is your permission slip to find out. What We Cover Growing up in dysfunction and choosing to break the cycleThe moment Sophia realized her mom was going to drink herself to deathWhy parenting yourself is the only way to parent your kidsThe four-minute rule for chaotic mornings and school pickupsWhy "calm-alert" (not just calm) is the state your kids actually need from youGetting diagnosed with ADHD at 43 and finally understanding herselfWhy what the world tries to fix about you is often your greatest giftCycle-breaking as a decision — not a personality traitThe five "F" losses of grief (family, friends, faith, fitness, finances)The biggest lie the personal development industry has ever sold moms Connect with Sophia Website: sophiahyde.com Instagram: @thesophiahyde Podcast: Your Favorite Self Book: Unleash Your Favorite Self (and companion journal) App: Favorite Self App Connect with MaKenzie Website: www.cleanmomedit.com Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Free Training — The Reason You Mom The Way You Do A free audio training walking you through all five human design types through the lens of motherhood. Join The Clean Mom Edit Club— $33/month A simple, supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie. 💛 If this episode resonated with you, subscribe so you never miss an episode and leave a review — it means the world and helps other moms find this community. Thank you for being here and for listening.

  8. Jul 14

    Emotional Balance, Safety, and Doing the Real Work as a Mother

    This episode is for the mom who is longing to create a calm, emotionally safe home for her children — but knows, deep down, that it has to start with herself first. MaKenzie sits down with Rebecca, a spiritual guide, teacher, and mentor who blends numerology, hypnotherapy, and energy mapping to help people understand themselves on a deeper level and create true emotional balance from the inside out. Rebecca opens up about her own transformation — going from a burnt-out mom pouring from an empty cup to a woman who mothers from overflow — and shares the tools that made the biggest difference. Together they explore why so many moms have been taught to talk about their feelings instead of feel them, and how that pattern keeps women stuck in loops for years. Rebecca teaches how emotions become physical energy stored in the body, why every choice literally shifts our molecular structure, and how to use numerology and energy mapping as practical daily tools — not just concepts. She also shares her powerful reframe on masculine and feminine energy in modern motherhood, why so many moms are stuck in masculine mode, and what it actually takes to soften without collapsing everything you have built. If you have been trying to create emotional balance for your kids while quietly falling apart yourself, this conversation is your soft place to land. What We Cover Why you cannot regulate your children until you regulate yourselfThe difference between talking about your feelings and actually feeling themWhy emotions get stored in the body — and what that costs youHow every choice you make literally changes your molecular structureWhy so many modern moms are stuck in masculine energy without realizing itHow to soften into your feminine without losing your capacity or your driveNumerology and energy mapping as practical daily tools for momsWhy your children are your most honest mirrorWhat it looks like to make the work work FOR you instead of you working FOR itRepair-based parenting when you catch yourself passing on old patterns Connect with Rebecca Website: www.akashicbec.com Instagram: @Akashic_bec Connect with MaKenzie Website: www.cleanmomedit.com Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Free Training — The Reason You Mom The Way You Do A free audio training walking you through all five human design types through the lens of motherhood. Join The Clean Mom Edit Club— $33/month A simple, supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie. 💛 If this episode resonated with you, subscribe so you never miss an episode and leave a review — it means the world and helps other moms find this community. Thank you for being here and for listening.

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Regulating & Raising is a podcast for moms who want to feel calm, aligned, and in control again. Hosted by MaKenzie, this show blends Human Design and nervous system support with real-life motherhood—so you can understand your energy, trust your decisions, and stop feeling like you’re constantly in survival mode. Each episode is a mix of honest solo conversations and expert interviews, covering everything from emotional regulation and identity shifts to clean living, holistic health, and raising a family in a way that actually feels good. This isn’t about doing more or getting it perfect. It’s about learning how to regulate yourself while raising your kids—and building a life that works for your season. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or like there has to be a better way… you’re in the right place.