Relationship Chronicles Think On It, by Cherry

Too many people live life in misery. They struggle their entire lives because they keep doing the same things. They choose to be comfortable where they have always been, but never see that they are their own worst enemy. If you know you're struggling with something but you keep indulging in it or going back to it, you're the problem! People fail themselves over and over. On top of that, they choose to do it again and again. You can't get better by remaining the same. That weight will never get off of your back until you take it off. The only person holding you down and back is you!

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 It doesn't matter how much you love him or her, if they don't love you, it will be an unhealthy relationship and you'll be an unhappy person.

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Many people operate from unhealthy mindsets. It doesn't matter how much someone loves you or you love someone, they can't take away the pain inside of you. Unhealed hearts and minds ruins and sabotages lives and sometimes leads to self destruction.

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Sadly, many people are using their children as pawns and scapegoats because of the emotional ties, bonds, and feelings they still have for their exes. You're wrong!!!! All it does is cause more issues for everyone to include the children. There should be clear boundaries that exes and children must understand and not be allowed to cross. You can't give a child everything, there has to be boundaries. You can't do everything a child ask of you, because sometimes you need to say no, because what they ask isn't feasible of you being a person with another significant other. You can't make up for lost times and there shouldn't be a situation where your new significant other feels they're not wanted or accepted, because your child want it to be just their mom and dad. You have to be able explain this to your child/ren. You have to know how to have a healthy balance and do not cross the boundaries you've set or let anyone else cross them, to include your child. People, to include your child, treat you how you have taught them to treat you. Always be there for your child, but in a mature and healthy way, not through emotional ties and lingering feelings for their mom or dad. Be that parent who set good and solid boundaries for all involved. When children know your weak concerning them, children can sometimes be manipulative, especially if coerced by the other parent or if it's the child's own doing. You shouldn't have an obligation to the other parent but to the child. There should be clear boundaries set. Never give anyone empty promises, just be honest!

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Be sure to treat the one you supposedly love with love and care, because if you constantly chip away at their love for you by always doing the wrong things, they will check out on you mentally. Oftentimes there's no coming back from it. If you love who you're with, don't mess up your relationship. Too many people choose to put more time and energy in others than in the one they're with. People treat you how you've taught them to treat you.

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Whatever they do or don't do to you or whatever you have to go through is because you've empowered them. They treat you how you've taught them to treat you.

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