Neurodiverse Love with Mona Kay

Neurodiverse Love with Mona Kay
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Join Mona Kay as she focuses on increasing understanding of the strengths, differences, and challenges in mixed neurotype relationships. Whether you're autistic, neurotypical or allistic, this podcast is for you! Knowing how your neurology may impact your communication style, emotional and social needs, processing speeds, sensory needs and sexual and physical intimacy desires is critical, especially in your romantic relationships. Listen in and learn about other's lived experiences, lessons learned, and strategies for understanding how neurological differences can impact your relationship.

  1. HACE 3 DÍAS

    The Joys of Being Autistic: Finding Self-Love -Jackie Schuld

    If you would like to get more information about the resources, Mona offers through Neurodiverse love you can check out her website at neurodiverselove.com —————————————————————————- Enjoyable, loving relationships are far more likely when we first possess self-love. But this is often difficult for autistics. Not only do we experience many neurodivergent challenges, we are inundated with information about the negative aspects of autism. This limited picture prevents us from seeing ourselves fully. There are many wonderful, joyous things that come with being autistic. In this episode Jackie Schuld’s session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference , explores the joys of being autistic and how you can experience them more often. Through the information Jackie shares you will have a new perspective of autism, the ability to identify your personal autistic strengths, and an increase of self-understanding, appreciation, and love. Jackie Schuld is an autistic/ADHD artist, writer, and general lover of life. She is also a Board-Certified Art Therapist who runs a therapy private practice that specializes in late-identified autism and ADHD. She is the author and illustrator of seven books, including Life as a Late-Identified Autistic, What is Autism?, Being an Autistic Writer, and her upcoming book The Joys of Being Autistic.

    33 min

  2. 7 OCT

    Demand Avoidance: Why It's Not Always Pathological-Daniel Dashnaw

    During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference, Daniel Dashnaw discusses the concept of demand avoidance, challenging the conventional view that it is inherently pathological. Demand avoidance can sometimes serve as a healthy response to overwhelm, misaligned expectations, or autonomy needs.  He will also briefly touch on research from neurodiversity, social dynamics, and stress regulation. His goal is to expand demand avoidance as a spectrum behavior that can signal unmet needs or adaptive coping rather than wholesale dysfunction. He will also offer a few clinical insights into recognizing, understanding, and addressing demand avoidance in a compassionate and constructive way. Daniel Dashnaw MFT, is the co-founder of Couples Therapy Inc., the largest evidence-based couples therapy practice in the USA. Daniel specializes in working with the neurodiverse, in both his part time work in a public health agency, and his private practice.  Known for his compassionate yet no-nonsense approach, he draws upon cutting-edge research and therapeutic techniques, including the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, to help couples rebuild trust, improve communication, and deepen their connection.  You can reach Daniel at the link below: https://danieldashnawcouplestherapy.com/

    19 min

  3. 30 SEP

    Autistic Love through Self-Discovery, Acceptance & Compassion-Ali Cunningham Abbott

    If you would like more information about the resources Mona offers through Neurodiverse Love you can check out her website at: Neurodiverselove.com —————————————————————————— The process of self-discovery & acceptance as an autistic or neurodivergent person can be riddled with external and internal challenges. These challenges show up in our relationships with self & others but are navigable with the right supports and resources in place. This episode is a presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference and includes key practices for enhancing self-acceptance and appreciation, through a compassion-focused lens, that can help us improve our connections with the self and others. Ali Cunningham Abbott, PhD, LMHC, QS has worked in higher education and mental health settings for the last 17 years. She is the Program Director & an Associate Professor in the CACREP-accredited Clinical Mental Health Counseling program at Lynn University in Boca Raton, Florida. Prior to academia, she worked at Florida Atlantic University as the Assistant Director for the Center for Autism & Related Disabilities (CARD) where she provided individual, couples, and family direct support and consultative services to the community. Currently, she provides individual counseling for adolescents and adults at the Center for the Treatment of Anxiety & Mood Disorders. Cunningham has presented on and published a book, book chapters and academic articles related to various topics including autism supports & advocacy, mental health first aid, counselor career preparation, and on advocacy for BIPOC, queer & trans communities.  You can reach Ali at the link below: Clinical Mental Health Counseling Program

    35 min

  4. 23 SEP

    Boundary Essentials for Neurodiverse Couples-Barbara Grant

    To learn about the resources Mona has available for individual partners and neurodiverse couples check out her website at: neurodiverse love.com Boundaries are a vital topic for fostering healthy neurodiverse relationships. This episode from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference explores why neurodiverse couples are often at higher risk for co-dependence and dysfunction, delves into what boundaries are and their importance, and examines how neurodiverse and neurotypical boundaries differ. It will also cover how boundaries serve to protect and why enforcing consequences can drive meaningful change. We will also discuss strategies for communicating boundaries effectively and evolving consequences for long-term growth.   Barbara Grant is a dedicated neurodiverse couples coach with both personal and professional expertise in navigating the unique dynamics of neurodiverse relationships. She holds a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and is a Certified Autism Specialist and Neurodiverse Couples Coach. Barbara’s coaching is grounded in her innovative Roadmap to Hope & Healing© -- a research-based, results-driven approach inspired by her own experiences within neurodiverse marriage and family life. Passionate about helping individuals and couples heal, grow, and determine the sustainability of their relationships, Barbara brings empathy and insight to her work. She has been featured on popular podcasts such as Your Neurodiverse Relationship with Jodi Carlton, and The Neurodiverse Christian Couples Podcast. Additionally, she is the editor and a contributing author of Uniquely Us: Gracefully Navigating the Maze of Neurodiverse Marriage, Autism, and Faith. Barbara currently cohosts The Neurodiverse Couples “Coaches’ Corner” Podcast. To learn more or to schedule a free 20-minute consultation, visit www.BG-HC.com.

    32 min

  5. 16 SEP

    Neurodivergent Love: The Power of Autistic-Autistic Relationships-Daniel Jones-The Aspie World

    If you would like to learn more about the resources Mona has available you can check out the links below: Buy the ⁠Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards or Workbook⁠ ⁠Newsletter⁠ | ⁠Instagram⁠ | ⁠Website⁠ | ⁠YouTube⁠ ____________________________________________________________ During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference, Daniel M. Jones talks about how autistic people dating other autistic people can lead to deeply fulfilling and empowering relationships rooted in shared understanding, unique communication, and mutual respect. He explores the benefits of autistic-autistic partnerships, highlighting the ways they foster authentic connections, provide spaces for mutual growth, and break down societal norms that often stigmatize neurodivergent relationships. By sharing research, personal anecdotes, and practical insights, this episode will shine a light on how these relationships can redefine what healthy and loving connections look like for autistic people. Daniel M. Jones is internationally recognized as the force behind The Aspie World, is a best-selling author and award-winning video influencer. His book, Autism for Adults, has resonated worldwide, offering invaluable insights and support to the autism community. With The Aspie World—the largest YouTube channel led by an autistic creator—Daniel has revolutionized the way we understand autism. His platform not only raises awareness, but fosters meaningful understanding and compassion by sharing autism through an authentic, first-hand perspective. Diagnosed with Autism, OCD, ADHD, and Dyslexia, Daniel channels his personal experiences into powerful advocacy. Leveraging his expertise in video and social media, he educates millions about autism and neurodiversity, breaking barriers and empowering others to embrace differences. A trailblazer in his field, Daniel made history by launching the first-ever neurodiverse panel at VidCon US, the world’s largest video convention. Focused on ADHD and Autism, this groundbreaking initiative amplified voices within the neurodivergent community, fostering a global conversation about inclusion and diversity.

    29 min

  6. 9 SEP

    The Common Stages of Change in ND Partnership Work-Jill Corvelli

    To learn more about the services and resources Mona has available through Neurodiverse Love, check out the links below: Buy the ⁠Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards or Workbook⁠ ⁠Newsletter⁠ | ⁠Instagram⁠ | ⁠Website⁠ | ⁠YouTube⁠ _________________________________________________________ During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference you will learn from Dr. Jill Corvelli the common stages of change in neurodiverse partnerships. While every individual and partnership is unique, there are common patterns that emerge in the stages a couple progresses through as they continue their work from disconnection to connection. Jill shares her observations from years of experience working with ND partners over thousands of sessions.    Dr. Corvelli is the founder of the Neurodiverse Partners Institute. She has a practice dedicated exclusively to supporting complex couples, many of which one or both partners are neurodistinct. She developed a unique approach for helping such couples called the ND Compass. It is a weaving together of best relational practices melded with a best practice ND lens. She has helped hundreds of couples on their developmental path of co existing, connecting, and even thriving with their different styles.  In addition to serving her clients, she works as a neurodiverse advocate training the helping professions as well as a clinical supervisor for Northwestern University.   To learn more about Jill's work and the services she offers click below: Complex Couples Education & Groups

    52 min

  7. 2 SEP

    Intimacy and Disability-Enhance the UK-Jennie Williams

    During this episode, Jennie Williams talks about her own neurodivergence and disabilities and how important it is to support the intimacy needs of disabled and neurodivergent folks. She shares information about why she started the charity Enhance the UK and the campaign they run called Undressing Disability. Some of the other topics addressed include how to communicate about your intimacy needs as a disabled adult. The resources available through the Love Lounge that Jennie and her friend Zoe co-lead. Participants can get 3 free sessions to work through any issues they are facing in their intimate relationships. She also shares how internalized shame and/or ableism does not equal an authentic relationship and how important it is to address sensory sensitivities and other needs each partner may have that could make their intimate relationships more mutually beneficial. You can learn more about the work being done through Enhance the UK here.

    45 min

  8. 26 AGO

    Healing Cassandra: A Compassionate Look at ASD-1 Partners-Stephen Robertson

    If you would like to learn more about the resources Mona offers you can check out the links below. Buy the ⁠Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards or Workbook⁠ ⁠Newsletter⁠ | ⁠Instagram⁠ | ⁠Website⁠ | ⁠YouTube⁠ Mona also offers supports groups for neurodiverse couples and non-autistic/neurotypical partners. Learn more here. If you would like to buy life-time access to the 31 video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off the price. ____________________________________________________________ During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference, Stephen Robertson, LMFT shares information about the group work he has done with Autistic men. In his work as a psychotherapist, he has observed the profound impact of neurodiverse-NT relationships on both partners, yet the male ASD-1 perspective is often overlooked. In 2023, he began facilitating men’s therapy groups specifically for ASD-1 individuals and was struck by the glaring lack of specialist support available to them. These men shared deeply about their experiences, challenges, and hopes, and he was moved by their courage and desire to connect. In this episode, Stephen highlights the stories and struggles of male ASD-1 partners, challenges the stigma they often face, and he explores how we can create safe therapeutic spaces for them to share their experience, strength, and hope. By broadening the narrative, we can foster deeper understanding and compassion in neurodiverse-NT relationships. Stephen Robertson is a Licensed Marriage, and Family Therapist (LMFT) and autistic individual (ASD-1). He offers a unique blend of lived experience and clinical expertise in supporting neurodiverse-NT couples. His work focuses on helping partners navigate the complexities of neurodiverse relationships, fostering emotional connection, and building understanding through practical tools and compassionate guidance. In 2023, Stephen launched therapy groups for ASD-1 men, uncovering an urgent need for spaces where they can safely share their struggles and strengths. These groups have become a cornerstone of his mission to empower neurodivergent men and challenge the stigma they often face in relationships. Stephen’s trauma-informed, strength-based approach integrates modalities like Internal Family Systems and Emotion-Focused Therapy. He is passionate about redefining the narrative around neurodiverse relationships, celebrating their unique strengths, and helping clients create meaningful, fulfilling connections. You can contact Stephen at the link below: https://www.therapy4autisticmen.com/stephen-robertson

    36 min
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Join Mona Kay as she focuses on increasing understanding of the strengths, differences, and challenges in mixed neurotype relationships. Whether you're autistic, neurotypical or allistic, this podcast is for you! Knowing how your neurology may impact your communication style, emotional and social needs, processing speeds, sensory needs and sexual and physical intimacy desires is critical, especially in your romantic relationships. Listen in and learn about other's lived experiences, lessons learned, and strategies for understanding how neurological differences can impact your relationship.

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    Neurodiverse Love with Mona Kay
  • Años de actividad
    2021 - 2025
  • Episodios
    237
  • Clasificación
    Explícito
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