Release Control

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Release Control

Release Control | A Podcast on Breakups, Divorce, Healing, and Growth Welcome to Release Control—the podcast for real people navigating the raw, emotional, and often overwhelming challenges of life, love, and personal growth. Hosted by someone who’s been through it all—heart-wrenching breakups, divorce, failed relationships, dating after heartbreak, and the hard road of healing—this show dives deep into what it truly means to let go, rediscover yourself, and build a better life from the ashes. Whether you're trying to heal after a breakup, moving on from divorce, questioning a toxic relation

  1. APR 28

    Dating to fill the void: Leaves you broken and empty

    In today’s episode of Release Control, we delve into a topic that few people want to admit: many dating experiences today are not driven by love, but rather by a desire to fill a void. After a breakup or heartbreak, it’s natural to seek something new to escape loneliness, boredom, or rejection. However, when we date solely to avoid pain rather than healing from it, we find happiness, not emptiness. We’ll explore the following key points: - Why missing the connection after a breakup is different from missing the person. - How loneliness can trick us into rushing into the wrong relationships. - Signs that indicate we’re dating to fill the void rather than seeking true connection. - The negative consequences of casual dating without serious intentions, including resentment and regret. - How situationship’s can act as professional “void fillers,” leaving us feeling drained and unloved. - The various unhealthy ways people attempt to fill the void, such as rebounds, casual hookups, overworking, social media validation, and reaching out to an ex. This episode serves as a deep dive into the emotional traps people fall into after heartbreak and offers guidance on how to break free from them by confronting loneliness head-on and healing in the right way. 💬 Ask yourself: Are you dating because you’re ready, or are you afraid to sit with yourself? 🎙️ Final reminder: Healing hurts, but settling hurts forever. Choose your pain wisely. 🔔 If this episode resonated with you, please follow share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review. Together, let’s heal the right way.

    42 min

  2. APR 21

    Ghosting while dating

    In Episode 33 of The Release Control Podcast, we’re diving into one of the most frustrating parts of modern dating—ghosting. If you’ve ever been left on read, suddenly ignored, or had someone disappear without a word, this episode is for you. We break down exactly what ghosting is, why it happens, and how to deal with it emotionally and mentally. From dating apps to emotionally unavailable partners, ghosting has become a normalized—but damaging—part of today’s dating culture. We’ll talk about why ghosting has become so common in a world built on convenience, fear of confrontation, and zero accountability. You'll learn the key differences between ghosting, slow fading, and someone simply losing interest—because not all exits are created equal. We’ll also explore the rise of bread crumbing, where someone gives you just enough to keep you hanging, but never commits. This episode is here to help you see through the confusion and stop blaming yourself for someone else's lack of maturity. We also dig deep into the emotional damage ghosting causes, like self-doubt, anxiety, and the trauma of unfinished conversations. More importantly, I’ll show you how to mentally take your power back—from journaling, to reframing the rejection, to cutting off the illusion completely. If you’ve ghosted someone yourself, we talk about how to own it, grow from it, and never repeat that pattern again. This episode gives you the tools to spot red flags early, protect your peace, and move forward with confidence. Because ghosting says more about them than it ever did about you. You deserve clarity, not confusion—and closure, even if it comes from within. Whether you’re healing from ghosting or trying to avoid falling into the trap again, this episode is full of insight, perspective, and real talk you won’t hear anywhere else.  Tap in now and take your power back.

    36 min

  3. APR 14

    The Real Talk on Men, Women & Emotional Expectations

    In this episode, we’re peeling back the layers on one of the most misunderstood dynamics out there — the real emotional, societal, and psychological differences between men and women. We're not just skimming the surface; we're diving deep into how we're conditioned from childhood to handle (or avoid) emotions, why that plays a major role in communication breakdowns later in life, and what it really means to be emotionally available. Expect raw stories, real talk, and eye-opening perspectives: Why are men told to "man up" while girls are comforted when they cry? How does this emotional gap show up in relationships, therapy, and breakups? Spoiler: men often suffer in silence, while women process in community — and that makes healing look very different. We’ll also tackle the silent pressure both genders face — women fighting beauty standards and aging insecurities, men chasing success just to feel worthy. Social media isn’t helping either — everyone’s stuck in the comparison trap. And when it comes to dating? The playing field is anything but even. Women get flooded with attention but struggle to trust it, while men are expected to impress just to be seen. From emotional suppression to dating double standards, this episode breaks it all down with humor, honesty, and some much-needed solutions. Whether you're healing, dating, or just tired of being misunderstood — this is the episode that finally says what everyone’s thinking.

    58 min

  4. APR 7

    Put Yourself First: The Key to Self-Love and Personal Growth

    In this powerful episode, we explore how making yourself a priority is the first step toward personal growth and self-love. Discover the importance of self-care, setting healthy boundaries, and how prioritizing yourself leads to a more fulfilling life. Learn actionable strategies to practice self-love, boost your self-esteem, and achieve a healthy work-life balance. By putting yourself first, you’re not only investing in your own well-being but also creating the foundation for stronger, more meaningful relationships with others. Tune in to understand why self-care isn’t selfish and how embracing your worth is essential for living a life filled with purpose and joy. Whether you're looking to improve your mental health, develop healthier habits, or grow emotionally, this episode has all the tools you need to start your journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

    32 min

  5. MAR 31

    How to Attract the Right Person

    Dating with purpose isn’t about rushing into a relationship—it’s about clarity, alignment, and making sure you and your partner want the same things. In this episode, we dive into what it really means to date with intention, how to define what you’re looking for, and how to recognize if someone is truly on the same page as you. We’ll break down key topics like: ✅ The difference between intentional dating vs. casual dating ✅ How to get clear on what you actually want in a relationship ✅ Signs someone is serious about commitment (and red flags they aren’t) ✅ How to communicate your intentions without scaring people away ✅ Why patience and confidence attract the right person If you’re tired of dating people who don’t match your long-term goals, this episode is for you! Let’s talk about how to approach dating in a way that saves time, energy, and emotional frustration.

    39 min

  6. MAR 24

    Resentment in Relationships – The Silent Killer

    Ever felt emotionally distant from your partner but couldn’t figure out why? 🤔 Resentment is a slow-building, relationship-damaging force that often goes unnoticed—until it’s too late. In this episode of RELEASE CONTROL, we dive deep into how resentment forms, the damage it causes, and how to break free before it ruins your relationship. 🚨 🔥 What You’ll Learn: ✔️ What resentment really is and why it’s one of the biggest reasons relationships fall apart. ✔️ The subtle ways resentment builds over time—from feeling unappreciated to carrying the emotional load alone. ✔️ How resentment shows up in your relationship: emotional distance, communication breakdowns, lack of intimacy, and more. 😞 ✔️ The warning signs you should never ignore—keeping score, constant irritation, and even fantasizing about being single. 🚩 ✔️ Steps to stop resentment in its tracks: honest communication, boundary setting, self-reflection, and reconnecting with your partner. 💬💖 ✔️ How to heal and rebuild trust so your relationship doesn’t just survive but thrives! 🌱 🎧 Tune in NOW and ask yourself: Are you unknowingly holding onto resentment? What’s one conversation you’ve been avoiding in your relationship? Let’s talk about it. 👊💡 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it! 💬💙

    43 min

  7. MAR 10

    Leaving a Good Man Won’t Fix Your Happiness

    Is it really okay to leave a good man just because you’re not happy? In today’s episode, we dive into the viral trend that’s encouraging women to walk away from solid relationships in search of happiness. But here’s the truth—happiness is an inside job, not your partner’s responsibility. I break down why this mindset is dangerous, how unrealistic expectations are hurting modern relationships, and why chasing happiness outside of yourself often leads to regret. We’ll discuss: ✅ The truth about relationship happiness vs. self-happiness ✅ Why “good men” are being overlooked and undervalued ✅ How social media is promoting toxic dating advice ✅ The real reason you might feel unfulfilled in your relationship Before you leave a healthy relationship, ask yourself: Is the problem really him, or is it something deeper? Tune in now for a real talk on love, self-awareness, and personal growth.

    43 min

  8. MAR 3

    Life is to short

    Life is too short to let pride, misunderstandings, or past conflicts keep us from the people who matter most. In this episode, we dive into the wake-up calls that make us realize how fleeting time really is and why fixing relationships with family and friends should be a priority. Holding grudges comes at a cost—emotionally, mentally, and even physically—so why do we let them linger? Making the first move toward reconciliation isn’t easy, but it can be life-changing. We’ll explore how shifting your perspective, practicing empathy, and letting go of resentment can lead to true healing. Relationships are complex, but sometimes, all it takes is a conversation to mend what was broken. How do you approach someone you’ve lost touch with? What if they don’t respond the way you hope? We’ll discuss strategies for navigating difficult conversations and rebuilding trust. Forgiveness isn’t about forgetting—it’s about freeing yourself from the weight of the past. You don’t want to live with regrets, wishing you had said or done more when it’s too late. Learning to heal and move forward can strengthen not just your relationships, but your overall happiness. Whether it's a family member, an old friend, or even yourself, now is the time to make things right. Don’t wait until tomorrow—start the journey of healing today. Tune in as we break down practical steps to reconnect, repair, and rebuild the bonds that truly matter.

    35 min
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Release Control | A Podcast on Breakups, Divorce, Healing, and Growth Welcome to Release Control—the podcast for real people navigating the raw, emotional, and often overwhelming challenges of life, love, and personal growth. Hosted by someone who’s been through it all—heart-wrenching breakups, divorce, failed relationships, dating after heartbreak, and the hard road of healing—this show dives deep into what it truly means to let go, rediscover yourself, and build a better life from the ashes. Whether you're trying to heal after a breakup, moving on from divorce, questioning a toxic relation

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  • Creator
    Allen
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    33
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Allen
  • Show Website
    Release Control

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