Religion To Reality

Dave Plisky
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This is the Religion to Reality podcast, where we explore the compartmentalization that’s happening as so many Catholics file away their faith lives as something disconnected from the rest of their lives. We designed this podcast to help you live a more integrated life. Let’s bridge the gap between what we believe… and how we can realistically live it.

  1. Bonus: The Needs of the Church with Fr. Joseph Gibino

    6D AGO ·  BONUS

    Bonus: The Needs of the Church with Fr. Joseph Gibino

    QUICK SUMMARY What does it really mean for the Church to walk together — and what do Catholics in Brooklyn actually say they need? Fr. Joseph Gibino, pastor, vicar, deacon director, and co-director of Brooklyn's Synod on Synodality, pulls back the curtain on what the faithful are really asking for, and why the answer might surprise you. From family prayer to sacramental living to the radical act of listening without an agenda, this conversation is a hopeful, grounded look at where the Church is headed. IN THIS BONUS EPISODE, WE EXPLORE "The synod was never about divisive political issues — it was about how we journey together as the Body of Christ." (00:05:30) The three things Catholics in Brooklyn said they needed most — and how they mirror what the English-speaking world was saying (00:02:30) Why Fr. Joe says "listen" and "silent" share the same letters — and what that means for the Church (00:11:00) How family catechesis could be the key to reinvigorating the institutional Church (00:16:00) The simple prayer Fr. Joe says every morning before his feet hit the floor (00:37:30) Why today's teenagers love service — and what that tells us about where the Spirit is moving (00:44:30) Fr. John Gribowich on why we're in a "liminal" moment in Church history — and Fr. Joe's stunning response (00:57:00) "The Eucharist is not a reward for good behavior." What it really is — and why that changes everything (00:59:30) ABOUT FR. JOE GIBINO Fr. Joseph Gibino is pastor of St. Charles Borromeo Parish in Brooklyn Heights and administrator of St. James Cathedral. He serves the Diocese of Brooklyn as Vicar for Evangelization and Catechesis, Director of the Permanent Diaconate Program, and co-directed the Diocese's Synod on Synodality alongside Sister Mary Ann Seton LoPiccolo. He is also adjunct faculty at St. Joseph's Seminary and — by his own description — the diocese's chief "party planner" and wildfire put-outer. RESOURCES MENTIONED Synod on Synodality – Vatican Overview Diocese of Brooklyn Jubilee of Hope 2025 – Vatican Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe — referenced in the context of Latino Catholic communities shaping Brooklyn's pastoral identity Ignatian Examen (Nightly Examination of Conscience) — recommended by Fr. Joe as a nightly practice Neocatechumenal Way / ecclesial movements are mentioned as models for family faith formation Knights of Columbus — highlighted for their service work during the pandemic and with immigrant communities in Brooklyn Start Praying as a Family — Where to Begin Fr. Joe offers this simple on-ramp for families who feel disconnected from faith at home: Start with gratitude, not religion: "What are we thankful for today?" Try an Advent giving jar — brainstorm 30 simple acts of generosity as a family before December 1st Don't underestimate small acts: donating a meal's worth of money to a food bank, buying tube socks for a homeless shelter Evaluate at Christmas: How did we do? The Three Things Brooklyn Catholics Said They Need Better adult faith formation — people don't feel equipped to share their faith More support for youth and young adult faith form... Chapters (00:00:00) - Meet the Diocese of Brooklyn Pastor Joe Gibino(00:01:48) - The Synod on Synodality(00:05:56) - The Real Synod: Real listening(00:11:37) - The Secret to Good Hearing(00:13:44) - The community of the Catholic Church(00:19:18) - How do we as families encounter each other?(00:23:57) - The Way to Evangelize(00:28:56) - DeSales on Contemplating Christ in the Middle of Crisis(00:35:39) - Responsibility to the World(00:39:00) - Protestants on Measurement and Data(00:48:31) - The Catholic experience of Millennials(00:49:29) - The Problem of Inventiveness(00:53:03) - Liminality and the challenges of the Christian age(01:00:40) - Religion to Reality: The Sacramentality of the World

    1h 4m
  2. Bonus: Listening, Trust, and the Future of Faith with Josh Packard

    APR 13

    Bonus: Listening, Trust, and the Future of Faith with Josh Packard

    QUICK SUMMARY: What if the biggest obstacle to ministry isn't a lack of resources, programs, or content — but a missing system for actually knowing the people in front of you? In this bonus episode, Dave Plisky and Fr. John Gribowich sit down with Josh Packard, sociologist of religion and co-founder of Future of Faith, for a wide-ranging conversation about one of the most urgent challenges facing the Church today: how to do genuine relational ministry at scale. Drawing on years of research data and his experience at Spring Tide Research Institute and NCEA, Josh explains why trust in institutions is collapsing — and why the only antidote is time spent in a real, consistent relationship. He introduces practical tools anyone can download free at futureoffaith.org, shares why Gen Z isn't "leaving the church" (their parents already did), and makes a compelling case for why AI will only make human connection more, not less, essential. If you work in ministry, Catholic education, or any field that depends on reaching young people, this episode is required listening. ABOUT JOSH PACKARD Josh Packard is a sociologist of religion and a former professor at the University of Northern Colorado, where he taught applied sociology. He was the founding executive director of Spring Tide Research Institute, one of the most respected sources of data on youth and faith in the United States. He is now co-founder of Future of Faith, a nonprofit dedicated to helping ministry leaders build scalable relational tools grounded in a theology of sacred listening.   IN THIS EPISODE, WE EXPLORE: 1. Trust has collapsed — and that changes everything 2. Relational ministry needs a system, not just good intentions 3. The Text to Connect tool 4. Belonging before believing — and time before truth 5. Gen Z didn't leave — they were never there 6. The Church's strongest offering may be its most overlooked 7. AI will deepen — not solve — the relational challenge   0:00 — Introduction: Who is Josh Packard, and what is Future of Faith? 2:15 — The Core Problem: How do you do relational ministry at scale when people only trust what's right in front of them? 5:30 — The Free Tools: What the Future of Faith listening tools are and how to download them at futureoffaith.org. 10:30 — Text to Connect: A step-by-step walkthrough of the emoji-based check-in tool — and how a color-coded Google Sheet can transform youth ministry. 14:00 — The Youth Minister's Dilemma: A real-world portrait of a minister running on voice memos, Apple Notes, and reactive attention. 20:00 — Sacred Listening vs. Ministry with an Agenda: John challenges Josh: can you really listen without an end in mind? 23:30 — Time, Trust, Truth: The framework that flips the church's traditional approach: belonging before believing. .31:00 — Tarot, Crystals, and the Spiritual-but-not-Religious: Why young people are finding spiritual systems on TikTok that the Church hasn't figured out how to offer. 39:00 — Young People Aren't Leaving the Church: Josh pushes back: their parents left. The generation the Church is trying to reach was never there. 42:00 — The Church Is Answering Questions Nobody Is Asking: John on the disconnect between pulpit priorities and what young people actually need. 57:00 — AI and the Future of Trust: Why artificial intelligence will push the locus of trust lower — toward one-on-one relationships — and what that means for the Church.   MEMORABLE QUOTES For sharing on social media or in... Chapters (00:00:00) - Introduction(00:02:15) - The Core Problem(00:05:30) - The Free Tools(00:10:30) - Text to Connect(00:14:00) - The Youth Minister's Dilemma(00:20:00) - Sacred Listening vs. Ministry with an Agenda(00:23:30) - Time, Trust, Truth(00:31:00) - Tarot, Crystals, and Spiritual-but-not-Religious(00:39:00) - Young People Aren't Leaving the Church(00:42:00) - The Church is Answering Questions Nobody is Asking(00:57:00) - AI and the Future of Trust

    1h 1m
  3. Bonus: Spiritual Abuse with Paul Fahey

    MAR 30 ·  BONUS

    Bonus: Spiritual Abuse with Paul Fahey

    QUICK SUMMARY What happens when the Church you love has also hurt you? For many Catholics, there's no safe space to hold both truths at once, until now. In this powerful bonus episode, hosts Dave Plisky and Fr. John Gribowich talk with Paul Fahey, licensed counselor, catechist, and host of the Third Space Podcast, to unpack what spiritual abuse really looks like, why so many Catholics unknowingly surrender their freedom, and how genuine listening may be the most prophetic act the Church can offer right now.  IN THIS BONUS EPISODE, WE EXPLORE Spiritual abuse — coercive or controlling behavior in a religious context — is far more widespread than most Catholics realize. Claiming something is a mortal sin for another person, or presenting personal opinion as Church teaching, are clear markers of spiritual coercion. The desire to surrender freedom to rules or authority is deeply human and easily exploited. Mature faith requires owning one's conscience. Using "the devil" as a scapegoat can itself become a mechanism of harm. True discernment leads to solidarity, not deflection. Success in ministry is not measured by numbers, but by whether someone experiences encounter, gains language for their experience, and knows they are not alone. The most prophetic gift Christians can offer today may simply be listening — without an agenda. [00:00] — Introducing Paul Fahey Paul shares his background: eight years as a parish Director of Religious Education, husband and father of five, and now a licensed counselor in Michigan. [01:30] — From Pope Francis Generation to The Third Space Paul co-founded the Pope Francis Generation Podcast with Dominic Dusa of Smart Catholics after unexpectedly leaving his parish job. As his work with abuse survivors deepened, he began noticing gaps between Pope Francis' teaching on human dignity and his governing decisions — prompting a full rebrand toward a podcast centered on Christ in the vulnerable and marginalized. [06:00] — What Is "The Third Space"? Inspired by a conversation with mentor Monica Pope, Paul identified a void: survivors of Church harm are met either with Catholic defensiveness or with "why do you even stay?" The Third Space holds both — a place for people who want congruence between their experience of harm and their experience of good in the Church. [07:45] — Who Is This Podcast For? Survivors of clerical sexual abuse, yes — but also the much broader category of spiritual abuse. Paul cites research from Dr. Lisa Oakley (UK) suggesting roughly 75% of Christians have experienced coercion or manipulation in their church communities. His audience is anyone harmed by the Church, and anyone with ears to hear the Gospel as told by those who've been hurt. [10:00] — Why Podcasting? More than convenience — podcasting allows for live dialogue and spontaneous vulnerability that writing simply can't capture. Paul describes it as closer to leading RCIA or a small group than publishing an article. [13:00] — Is the Church Doing Podcasting Well? A candid take on the lay-driven nature of Catholic media — and the troubling amount of spiritually harmful content circulating under the Catholic label. Bad Catholic content isn't poorly produced; it's content that misrepresents God, misrepresents the Church's teaching, and coerces consciences. [16:30] — Defining Spiritual Abuse Paul walks through the core definition: a pattern of coercive or controlling behavior in a religious context, using spiritual authority to control others. Key markers include claiming something is a mortal sin for another person, presenting personal opinion as Church teaching, or using religious fear to manipulate beha... Chapters (00:00:00) - Introducing Paul Fahey(00:01:30) - From Pope Francis Generation to The Third Space(00:06:00) - What Is "The Third Space"?(00:07:45) - Who Is This Podcast For?(00:10:00) - Why Podcasting?(00:13:00) - Is the Church Doing Podcasting Well(00:16:50) - Defining Spiritual Abuse(00:22:00) - The Appeal of Surrender(00:25:00) - Father John's "Fenced Playground" Story(00:28:00) - Spiritual Warfare, Fear, and the Devil as Scapegoat(00:39:30) - Scripture, Tradition, and Experience in Tension(00:43:00) - How Paul Measures Success(00:47:00) - "The Glory of God Is Man Fully Alive"(00:48:30) - What Surrender Looks Like in Paul's Life(00:51:00) - Is Spiritual Abuse Perennial or New?(00:55:30) - The Prophetic Act of Listening

    1h 2m
  4. Bonus: Faith, Community, and the Radical Act of Listening with Father Jim O'Shea

    MAR 16 ·  BONUS

    Bonus: Faith, Community, and the Radical Act of Listening with Father Jim O'Shea

    QUICK SUMMARY What does it really mean to live the Gospel, not just inside church walls, but on the street corner, in the storefront, and in the lives of people the world has written off? In this powerful bonus episode of Religion to Reality, hosts Dave Plisky and Father John Gribowich are joined by Father James O'Shea, a Passionist priest and co-founder of Reconnect, a community organization in Brooklyn that has spent over a decade transforming lives through employment, mentorship, and belonging. Father Jim shares why crossing the street, literally and figuratively, is the first and most essential act of discipleship. This conversation will challenge you, inspire you, and might just upend your narrative.   IN THIS EPISODE, WE EXPLORE: "If you don't want to leave the block, then we transform the block." — Father Jim on the founding philosophy of Reconnect (00:03:30) How a simple basketball program at a public school became a window into the lives — and recurring tragedies — of young men in Bed-Stuy (00:08:00) Why moralizing with people goes nowhere, and what the church should do instead (00:09:30) The difference between "behave, believe, then belong" vs. leading with belonging — and why it matters (00:10:30) What the Passionists are, and how the charism of the Cross connects contemplation to solidarity with the suffering (00:14:30) Why Father Jim fell in love with Bedford-Stuyvesant the first Sunday he went there (00:18:00) The predictable, heartbreaking pattern he watched play out in young men's lives — and how Reconnect interrupts it (00:19:30) "The church is the only institution I see that really has the capacity to continually witness: you are worth us doing this because we know who you are." (00:43:00) Why human dignity as a concept may owe more to Christianity than most people realize — and what that means in the age of AI (00:48:30) The irreplaceable role of women religious in humanizing American culture (00:52:00) How the church should navigate controversial moral teachings while still leading with love (01:02:00) "I'm not going to pontificate about it until I hear people's stories." — Father Jim on listening before judging (01:14:30) Whether radical listening might be the defining prophetic witness the church is called to offer right now (01:08:30) Why listening is "a very dangerous enterprise" — and why that's exactly the point (01:13:00) About Father Jim O'Shea Father Jim O'Shea, CP, is a member of the Passionist Congregation and currently serves as Provincial of the Passionists' Holy Cross Province, based in Queens, New York. Ordained in 1989, Father Jim spent approximately 25 years in Bedford-Stuyvesant, Brooklyn, where he earned a Master's in Social Work from Fordham University and became deeply involved in community organizing, affordable housing advocacy, and youth ministry. In 2010, he co-founded Reconnect, a social enterprise and mentorship program for young men in distressed communities. Reconnect is now based at Thomas Berry Place in Queens.   MEMORABLE QUOTES  "If you don't want to leave the block, then we transform the block." — Father Jim O'Shea "Moralizing with people is easy. But the legitimate question back to me is: what's your value add in my life?" — Father Jim O'Shea "The church is the only institution I see that really has the capacity to continually witness: you are worth us doing this because we know who you are." — Father Jim O'Shea "It's very hard to hate someone that you've really dee... Chapters (00:13:38) - Exploring the charism of the Passionists(00:16:57) - Father Jim's Connection with the Brooklyn Neighborhood(00:23:55) - On the Problem of Narratives(00:35:20) - Vulnerability in the Christian Church(00:56:43) - Service in the Streets(00:58:08) - Prayer for the Post-Christian Church(01:07:27) - Philosopher on the Need for Real Listening

    1h 19m
  5. Bonus: The Catholic Worker Movement with Renée Roden

    MAR 2 ·  BONUS

    Bonus: The Catholic Worker Movement with Renée Roden

    QUICK SUMMARY In this bonus episode of Religion to Reality, Renée Roden, a freelance religion journalist and Catholic Worker community member, has an in-depth conversation about living faith in action. Renee shares her journey from theater student at Notre Dame to running a Catholic Worker house in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, while offering a thoughtful exploration of how Catholics can bridge the gap between sacramental life and works of mercy. This conversation challenges listeners to reconsider what it means to truly live out their faith beyond Sunday Mass. IN THIS BONUS EPISODE, WE EXPLORE [00:03:00] The Catholic Worker Movement Explained Renee provides an accessible introduction to the Catholic Worker movement, founded in the 1930s by Dorothy Day and Peter Maurin. She explains how Dorothy Day prayed for a way to unite her writing skills, love for the poor, and newfound Catholic faith—and the next day met Peter Maurin, who introduced her to Catholic social teaching. Within months, they launched The Catholic Worker newspaper (cleverly named to counter the communist Daily Worker), and the movement exploded from 2,500 copies to six-figure readership within three years. The movement centers on Houses of Hospitality, voluntary poverty, and practicing the corporal works of mercy. [00:11:00] Navigating Political Division The conversation tackles how Catholics can remain faithful during politically charged times without getting distracted by national politics at the expense of local, concrete action. Renee explains Dorothy Day's anarchism: she marched for women's suffrage and was imprisoned for it, yet never cast a vote herself. Day believed the state always serves its own interests and those of corporations or elites. Rather than focusing on distant political figures we don't even know personally, the Catholic Worker approach asks: "How do I care for my neighbor right now?" This localized focus prevents us from treating national political disagreements as distractions from the immediate, joyful work we can do in our own communities. [00:15:00] Personalism as a Third Way Drawing on philosopher Emmanuel Mounier's concept of personalism, Renee articulates how the Catholic Worker offers a political vision centered on human dignity and freedom—distinct from both individualistic capitalism and collectivist ideologies. She explains that personalism asks fundamental questions: "What causes a human person to flourish? Are our structures supporting a person's ability to seek the good?" This approach shifts the focus from abstract national policy debates to concrete encounters with neighbors at the local level, bringing politics back to its first principles. [00:20:00] Voluntary Poverty and True Freedom Renee wrestles honestly with the challenging concept of voluntary poverty, sharing how her partner James once told her "voluntary poverty promotes community and is freeing"—which initially baffled her. She explains how it's not about deprivation but about answering the question: "Who do I depend on?" Rather than depending on personal wealth and self-sufficiency, voluntary poverty means bringing your needs to God and depending on community. It creates genuine relationships based on material need, not just emotional connection, making community more meaningful and human. [00:27:00] The Eucharist and Works of Mercy Connection Father John and Renee explore the deep connection between sacramental life and active service, addressing why the discipleship study shows Catholics excelling at liturgical participation but struggling with consistent works of mercy. Renee discusses the liturgical movement's influence on Dorothy Day, particularly the understanding that the Eucharist contains a call to "go be Eucharist in the world." As Pope Francis teaches in ... Chapters (00:03:00) - The Catholic Worker Movement Explained(00:11:00) - Navigating Political Division(00:15:00) - Personalism as a Third Way(00:20:00) - Voluntary Poverty and True Freedom(00:27:00) - The Eucharist and Works of Mercy Connection(00:36:00) - Community Living: Ideals and Reality(00:43:00) - Finding Your Catholic Worker Community

    49 min
  6. Bonus: The Lay Vocation with Peter Andrastek

    FEB 16 ·  BONUS

    Bonus: The Lay Vocation with Peter Andrastek

    QUICK SUMMARY What does it truly mean to live out your Catholic faith in everyday life? In this compelling conversation, Peter Andrastek, Senior Consultant at The Evangelical Catholic, challenges the common misconception that holiness means becoming more like a priest, nun, or monk. Instead, he reveals how ordinary Catholics are called to extraordinary holiness right where they are—in their workplaces, families, and communities. Discover why most parishes aren't equipped to form laypeople for their unique vocation, how the distinction between "ministry" and "apostolate" changes everything, and what practical steps you can take today to become salt, light, and leaven in your corner of the world. This bonus episode offers a refreshing vision of Catholic life that goes far beyond Sunday Mass attendance. IN THIS BONUS EPISODE, WE EXPLORE: Understanding Ministry vs. Apostolate (02:40) Why most Catholics misunderstand their true vocation How ministry flows from holy orders to build up the church Why apostolate is the specific calling of the laity to sanctify the world The difference between "ad intra" (within the church) and "ad extra" (to the world) What Sanctifying the World Actually Looks Like (09:00) A CEO who makes breakfast for colleagues every Friday morning Why holiness is "extraordinary love lived in the ordinary" How personal transformation radiates mysteriously to others The "apologetics of meaning" that makes people ask, "What's different about your life?" The Skills vs. Holiness Debate (16:00) Why evangelization training without personal holiness is manipulation The role of human formation: "Don't be weird" How character and personality can facilitate or impede the gospel Why we can't "train people into zeal" The Seminary Challenge (20:00) Young seminarians who want to be "weird" and countercultural The attraction to smells, bells, and traditional liturgy Why liturgical emphasis alone won't reach most people Navigating between authenticity and accessibility Pastoral Principles That Work (24:00) "That which is received is received according to the disposition of the receiver" Working within your circle of influence vs. circle of concern Starting with a few well-disposed people rather than massive programs The mustard seed principle of parish renewal A Practical Starting Point (28:30) Begin with 3-5 people you'd enjoy growing with Focus on three topics: Life, Growth, and Mission Keep 3-5 names on a prayer list and check in regularly Why most Catholics think holiness means spending more time at parish The Real Models of Holiness (33:00) Fr. John's confession: "My heroes are people raising eight kids, not priests and monks" Why religious life is "institutionalized" and doesn't require the same daily sacrifice The sublimity of the lay vocation that's meant to "pass unnoticed" Why 5,000 people attend certain funerals The Airline Pilot's Apostolate (43:00) A major airline pilot who made his cockpit his mission field Intentional conversations leading to broken marriages being healed "Define, Plan, Act" exercise for getting specific about your apostolate Why apostolate is "almost more about you than other people" Something's Got to Give (37:00) Every pope since Vatican II has called for lay renewal Why we're living in an exciting, adventurous time The proble... Chapters (00:02:40) - Understanding Ministry vs. Apostolate(00:09:00) - What Sanctifying the World Actually Looks Like(00:16:00) - The Skills vs. Holiness Debate(00:20:00) - The Seminary Challenge(00:24:00) - Pastoral Principles That Work(00:28:30) - A Practical Starting Point(00:33:00) - The Real Models of Holiness(00:37:00) - Something's Got to Give(00:43:00) - The Airline Pilot's Apostolate

    50 min
  7. Bonus: Spiritual Direction with Mary Glowaski

    FEB 2 ·  BONUS

    Bonus: Spiritual Direction with Mary Glowaski

    Quick Summary What if the struggle in your spiritual life isn't a sign of failure, but proof that your relationship with God matters deeply? In this intimate conversation, spiritual director Mary Glowaski reveals how spiritual direction creates sacred space for encountering God's love in unexpected ways, especially in our deepest struggles and shame. Mary shares her unexpected call to spiritual direction, the profound difference between counseling and spiritual companionship, and why being harsh with ourselves blocks us from experiencing God's unconditional love. If you've ever wondered what spiritual direction actually is, how to find a director, or whether it's right for you, this episode offers compassionate wisdom from someone who has walked with countless souls through their most sacred stories. Discover why spiritual direction isn't about getting answers; it's about learning to see yourself and others through God's eyes of infinite compassion. In This Bonus Episode, We Explore: Spiritual direction focuses on your relationship with God, not on finding immediate answers or solutions The gentleness in spiritual direction mirrors God's gentle work in our lives—transformation doesn't need to be forced Many people struggle not with feeling unloved, but with seeing themselves as lovable Spiritual directors are formed professionals who create covenantal (not just confidential) sacred space The ego is sneaky—spiritual direction helps us get out of our own way so God can work Self-compassion unlocks our ability to show genuine compassion to others The struggles we face are often universal human experiences, not signs of unique brokenness Anthropomorphizing God (making God in our image) prevents us from becoming reflections of God's image [00:00] Introduction and welcome [00:36] Mary's background: From social work to spiritual direction Family life and career journey The unexpected call while driving past University of St. Francis [02:00] What is spiritual direction? Difference from counseling and therapy Responding to divine invitation Seeing all of life as sacred [05:00] The focus on relationship with God, not human guidance Trusting God's work in the directee's life Being a conduit rather than an answer-giver [06:00] Common misconceptions about spiritual direction Ancient practice that was lost and rediscovered Not just for clergy—relatively new widespread practice (last 60 years) [08:00] Suspending what we think we know Trusting the directee's experience of God The privilege of witnessing sacred stories [09:00] The gentle stance of spiritual direction Creating peaceful, unhurried space Cultural addiction to productivity vs. spiritual receptivity [10:43] The struggle with self-love and feeling lovable How harshness toward ourselves blocks God's love Knowing whose we are, not just who we are [12:00] Spiritual direction vs. counseling vs. mentoring How to discern what someone needs Staying faithful to the original relationship [14:00] How spiritual direction changes the director Being humbled by directees' courage Witnessing God's work in immeasurable ways Holding stories in a covenantal way [16:00] The unique interior access of spiritual direction Seeing growth that spouses may not even see The hidden nature... Chapters (00:02:00) - What is Spiritual Direction?(00:05:00) - The Core Difference: God Does the Work(00:10:43) - The Central Struggle: Feeling Lovable(00:18:00) - The Prayer: "Get Me Out of the Way"(00:20:00) - Transformation Story: From God's Image to Our Image(00:24:00) - What Actually Happens in a Session(00:29:00) - How to Find a Spiritual Director(00:33:45) - What Mary Wishes Everyone Knew(00:40:00) - Why Struggle is a Good Sign(00:47:00) - Looking for Witnesses

    51 min
  8. Bonus: Accompaniment, Belonging, and the Work of Evangelization with Friar Rick Riccioli

    JAN 19 ·  BONUS

    Bonus: Accompaniment, Belonging, and the Work of Evangelization with Friar Rick Riccioli

    QUICK SUMMARY In this bonus episode of Religion to Reality, hosts Dave Plisky and Father John Gribowich sit down with Friar Rick Riccioli, a Franciscan Friar Conventual and parish pastor in Brooklyn, for a wide-ranging and deeply honest conversation about what evangelization looks like in the real world today. With over four decades of religious life and pastoral ministry across Canada and the United States, Friar Rick reflects on the tension between radical welcome and Gospel truth, the difference between accompanying people and trying to control their faith journey, and how parishes can become places of genuine belonging without losing their Catholic identity. From Alpha and Divine Renovation to funerals, young adults, parish leadership, and the quiet heartbreak of parents whose children have left the Church, this episode offers practical wisdom, lived experience, and Franciscan humility for anyone who cares about the future of parish life. In This Bonus Episode, We Explore: What authentic accompaniment really means—and what it is not Why evangelization begins with relationship, listening, and trust The difference between belonging, believing, and behaving Lessons learned from Francis Corps and forming young adults in faith and service How Alpha helps build a culture of hospitality, not just a program Why funerals may be the Church’s most powerful evangelization moments The quiet pain of parents whose children have drifted from the faith Challenges of leading parishes with aging infrastructure and changing demographics Why empowering the laity is essential to the Church’s missionary future What young adults are actually looking for in the Church today [00:00] Introduction & Friar Rick's Background Meet Friar Rick Riccioli: 42 years as a Franciscan, serving across Canada and the U.S. Current ministry at Most Holy Trinity-St. Mary's Parish in Williamsburg, Brooklyn Journey from Montreal to Toronto to Syracuse, now leading urban parish renewal [03:00] Francis Corps: Faith Formation Through Service Year-long volunteer program combining service and intentional faith formation How the program transforms both social justice warriors and traditional Catholics The power of living in community: "What did you do to my daughter?" Learning to balance individual convictions with communal responsibility [06:00] Bridging the Gap: Social Justice vs. Church Connection Meeting people where they are: from soup kitchen volunteers to devoted parishioners The importance of being "truly Catholic and truly human" Creating space for questions and doubts without judgment Why building relationships matters more than having all the answers [11:00] Creative Outreach: The 11:11 Service Creating a non-Mass Sunday service for those not ready for traditional liturgy "Come for coffee, stay for supper": Building pathways to the Eucharist Navigating the challenges of radical welcome in practice When soup kitchen patrons become part of your worshiping community [13:00] The Art of Accompaniment How much should we try to change people vs. meet them where they are? Avoiding the trap of "I'm going to hold your hand and pull you where I want you to go" Case studies: Walking with LGBTQ+ parishioners, families with trans children Everyone's path to holiness requires listening to God, not just conforming to prescriptions Chapters (00:00:00) - Friar Rick’s background and Franciscan ministry(00:07:45) - Social justice, service, and faith: finding the bridge(00:14:00) - Pope Francis, accompaniment, and pastoral humility(00:22:30) - Belonging before perfection(00:31:00) - Leadership, empowerment, and pastoral mistakes(00:38:00) - Parents, grief, and passing on the faith(00:44:00) - Funerals as moments of evangelization(00:52:00) - Sacred space, community, and the future of parish life

    1h 13m
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This is the Religion to Reality podcast, where we explore the compartmentalization that’s happening as so many Catholics file away their faith lives as something disconnected from the rest of their lives. We designed this podcast to help you live a more integrated life. Let’s bridge the gap between what we believe… and how we can realistically live it.

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  • Creator
    Dave Plisky
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    24
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    © 2025 DeSales Media
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