RenewHer

Genell Lemley

RenewHer is a podcast dedicated to empowering women over 50 to embrace bold new challenges and cultivate a mindset focused on growth and resilience. You’ll hear inspiring stories of women who have stepped beyond their comfort zones, and gain practical brain health strategies to sharpen focus, boost energy, and build resilience. If you’re ready to grow, stretch, and rediscover what’s possible, RenewHer will guide you every step of the way.

Episodes

  1. 12 | The Weight of What We Keep

    1D AGO

    12 | The Weight of What We Keep

    What starts as spring cleaning… can turn into something much deeper. In this episode of RenewHer, I take you inside a very personal process of sorting through years of memories—boxes filled not just with “stuff,” but with pieces of lives, stories, and moments that once meant everything to someone.As I worked through photos, letters, and memorabilia, I found myself facing a question I think many of us quietly carry: How do you let go of something that once mattered? But what surprised me most wasn’t just the emotional side of this experience—it was how much lighter, clearer, and calmer I began to feel.In this episode, I share what this process brought up for me, and why clearing your physical space can have such a powerful impact on your brain. You’ll learn how clutter affects your mental energy, why unfinished spaces create stress loops in the brain, and how letting go—intentionally—can create more clarity, calm, and control in your life.If you’ve ever felt weighed down by what you’re holding onto… this conversation will resonate.🎧 Tune in to explore:➡️ Why clutter creates cognitive overload and decision fatigue➡️ How your brain holds onto “unfinished” spaces as open loops➡️ The emotional connection between memory and the brain➡️ Why letting go isn’t about losing memories➡️ How clearing your space can create more calm, clarity, and control➡️ This isn’t just about cleaning. It’s about renewing.00:00 Highlight Clip 00:38 Welcome 01:05 More Than Just Spring Cleaning 02:23 When Letting Go Feels Like Losing Something 04:36 The Moment That Stopped Me in My Tracks 05:32 From Holding On to Letting Go 08:12 Why Clearing Space Feels So Good 08:52 What Clutter Is Doing to Your Brain 14:05 Creating Space for What Matters 15:55 ClosingHow to connect with GenellSubscribe to my newsletter Mind Matters.Schedule a free Discovery Session with me.Get my free guide: Fog to Focus: 4 Proven Brain Habits to Reclaim Your Mental EdgeSubscribe to my YouTube channel RenewHer with Genell  Check out my website.LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genelllemley/Email: genell@renewherwellness.comAnd if you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe to RenewHer Podcast for more episodes on midlife reinvention, leadership, and brain health for women 50+.

    17 min
  2. MAR 25

    11 |The Risk Isn’t Change—It’s Staying Stuck

    What if the real risk isn’t making a change… but staying exactly where you are?   In this episode of RenewHer, we explore a powerful reframe: the very thing that feels uncomfortable—stepping into something new—is often exactly what your brain needs to stay sharp, resilient, and engaged.   Because when you understand how your brain works, everything shifts.   That hesitation you feel when considering something new? That discomfort? That self-doubt? I   It’s not a sign to stop. It’s a sign your brain is being challenged in the best possible way.   In this episode, I share my own journey of stepping away from the corporate world and building RenewHer Wellness—and how that process pushed me into the “messy middle” where real growth happens.   We’ll also break down the science behind why change is so powerful for your brain, including neuroplasticity, cognitive reserve, and the role of purpose in keeping your mind strong as you age.   If you’ve been feeling stuck, uncertain, or questioning whether it’s too late to try something new, this episode will give you a completely different way to think about what’s possible. Because you’re not done growing. And your brain isn’t done changing.   In this episode, we cover: ➡️ Why feeling uncomfortable is often a sign of brain growth—not a warning sign ➡️ The “messy middle” and why it’s a critical part of change ➡️ How neuroplasticity allows your brain to adapt and rewire at any age ➡️ What neuroplasticity and cognitive reserve are—and why they matter more than ever after 50 ➡️ Why staying in routine may be limiting your brain more than helping it ➡️ The connection between purpose, motivation, and brain health ➡️ Simple ways to support your brain if you’re navigating a transition   If this conversation sparked something in you, don’t ignore it. That curiosity… that pull toward something more… may be exactly what your brain is asking for.   00:00  Highlight Clip – Why Brain Health Matters For A Pivot00.41  Welcome To Renewher After 5001:06  Why Pivots And Brain Health Are Connected03:43  My Experience Building Renewher Wellness06:59  How Change Builds A Stronger, More Resilient Brain10:07  Brain Health Habits To Support Pivots12:10  The Power Of Purpose And Reflection14:05  Embracing Growth: Overcoming Doubt And Fear16:14  Closing Thoughts And Next Steps   Ready to strengthen your brain and step into what’s next? Schedule a free 15-minute Discovery Sessionwith me. We’ll talk about how you can improve clarity, build resilience, and confidently take your next bold step.   How to connect with Genell Subscribe to my newsletter Mind Matters.Schedule a free Discovery Session with me.Get my free guide: Fog to Focus: 4 Proven Brain Habits to Reclaim Your Mental EdgeSubscribe to my YouTube channel RenewHer with Genell  Check out my website.LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genelllemley/Email: genell@renewherwellness.com   And if you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe to RenewHer Podcast for more episodes on midlife reinvention, leadership, and brain health for women 50+.

    17 min
  3. 10 | When Success Becomes Too Costly

    MAR 11

    10 | When Success Becomes Too Costly

    In this episode of the RenewHer Podcast, I sit down with Julie Cober — executive leadership coach, former corporate CHRO, bestselling author, and founder of the Legacy Leadership Academy. After nearly three decades in senior HR roles, Julie realized that while she loved helping others, the corporate environment was no longer the right container for her. Feeling out of alignment, combined with stress-related health issues and her husband’s cancer diagnosis, she made the courageous decision to leave corporate life at 52 and embrace a bold second act. Julie now helps high-performing women redefine success, build careers and businesses that light them up, and navigate midlife transitions with courage and clarity. She shares insights on coaching, mindset shifts, identity, and the “be, do, have” approach that accelerates growth. Julie reframes reinvention as remembering your true self and offers practical guidance for women ready to trust themselves, create change, and transform their lives. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why engaging a coach early can transform your transition, and how to choose the right one How midlife can be a powerful season for purpose, alignment, and self-expression The “be, do, have” mindset and how being the person you want to be first drives results Why reinvention is often remembering who you truly are How inner work and alignment positively impact relationships, career, and life Practical steps for navigating fear, doubt, and the inner critic during change The importance of support, reflection, and intentionality in creating sustainable transformation If you’re contemplating a career pivot, navigating stress, or ready to create a life that truly fits who you are, this conversation is full of insight, encouragement, and actionable guidance. 0:00 - Introduction 0:54 - Meet Julie Cober 4:37 - The Perfect Corporate Trajectory 8:41 - The Hidden Cost of Success 16:37 - 2009: When Everything Changed 25:43 - The Panic Attack 30:50 - The Breaking Point 37:54 - Planning the Exit Strategy 44:23 - First Year Identity Crisis 49:43 - Why Midlife Women Are Waking Up 53:43 - The Be-Do-Have Leadership Model 58:03 - Remembering Who You Are 1:01:07 - Advice for Women Feeling Trapped 1:05:00 - How to Connect with JulieConnect with Julie CoberWebsite / Coaching: https://www.juliecober.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juliecober/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/julie.cober.5Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliecobercoaching/Newsletter: https://www.juliecober.com  Connect with GenellSubscribe to my newsletter Mind Matters. Schedule a free Discovery Session with me.Get my free guide: Fog to Focus: 4 Proven Brain Habits to Reclaim Your Mental EdgeSubscribe to my YouTube channel RenewHer with Genell  Check out my website.LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/genelllemley/Email: genell@renewherwellness.com And if you haven’t already, make sure to subscribe to RenewHer Podcast for more episodes on midlife reinvention, leadership, and brain health for women 50+.

    1h 6m
  4. 09 | Stronger With Age: Why Your 50s Are a Launchpad

    FEB 25

    09 | Stronger With Age: Why Your 50s Are a Launchpad

    What does it mean to truly live at your prime — not at 25, but at 50+? In this episode of RenewHer, I sit down with Giselle Carson — corporate immigration attorney, two-time immigrant, five-time Ironman, 29-time marathoner, ultra-marathoner, author, and lifelong student of growth. But this conversation isn’t about credentials. It’s about endurance — in life, in reinvention, and in becoming. Giselle immigrated from Cuba to Canada at 15 without speaking the language, leaving her family and everything familiar behind. She later immigrated again — this time to the United States — rebuilding her identity, career, and future once more. Along the way, she transitioned from physical therapy to law, built a nationally respected corporate immigration practice from the ground up, and discovered endurance athletics in adulthood. What stands out most isn’t the medals or finish lines. It’s her mindset. We talk about: ✅ Reinventing yourself more than once ✅ The discipline that creates freedom ✅Training your mind to stay calm in uncertainty ✅ What endurance sports teach us about leadership and life ✅ Competing against yourself instead of others ✅ Fear — and what’s waiting on the other side of it ✅Why she believes she is just getting started in her 50s Giselle shares the story of running an ultra-marathon in the rain, starting last at the starting line, and finishing in a state of flow — not because conditions were perfect, but because she had trained her mind to stay steady. Her message is simple and powerful: Growth doesn’t stop at midlife. It accelerates — if you let it. If you’ve ever wondered whether your biggest chapter might still be ahead of you… this episode will remind you that expansion is always available. You are not behind. You are becoming. 00:00 Highlight Clip 00:31 Welcome to Renew Her + What You’ll Get From This Show 00:51 Meet Giselle Carson: Immigration Attorney, Endurance Athlete, Author 04:56 Giselle’s Origin Immigration Story: From Cuba to Canada as a Teen 06:38 Reinvention & Growth: Languages, Citizenship, and Becoming a Lawyer 08:16 Fear, Discomfort, and the “We’re Meant to Grow” Mindset 10:28 Career Evolution: From PT to Litigation to Corporate Immigration 16:50 How Endurance Entered Her Life: From 5Ks to Boston Marathon 20:58 Ironman Training: Structure, Discipline, and Freedom Through Planning 25:07 Ultra Marathon Comeback: The Guana 50K in the Rain 28:30 Race-Day Mindset: Your Plan, Your Pace, Your Flow State 32:37 Community Mindset That Carries Into Life 34:22 Prime in Midlife: New Goals, Marathons, and Writing the Next Chapter 36:27 Tackling a Technical Trail: Training, Uncertainty, and Building Confidence 40:09 Fear & Resistance: How to Start, Build Habits, and Lean on Community 43:43 Ultra Lessons for Work & Life: Systems, Resets, Pivots, and Mile-by-Mile Focus 47:55 Making Time: What to Let Go of to Protect Your Energy 52:20 58 and Still Expanding: The Comfort Crisis, Discomfort, and Reinvention 57:27 Pick One Goal & Keep Evolving: Community, Mindset, and What’s Possible 59:18 Closing Thoughts & Where to Connect: LinkedIn, Show Notes, and Final Send-Off 01:02 Final Outro: Take the Next Small Step and Join the Renew Her Community How to connect with Giselle Carson LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gisellecarsonimmigration YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTPgPK7-m0RMXdDEbAWXffQ Website: https://marksgray.com/practices/us-immigration-corporate-and-compliance/ Newsletter: Corporate Immigration and Compliance with Giselle Carson, Esquire Giselle's book: The Corporate Immigration Advantage: How to Hire, Retain and Thrive with Global Talent in a Competitive World Books Giselle referenced: The War of Art, by Steven Pressfield Turning Pro, by Steven Pressfield Comfort Zone, by Michael Eastern Genell's Resources Subscribe to my newsletter Mind Matters. Schedule a free Discovery Session with me.Get my free guide: Fog to Focus: 4 Proven Brain Habits to Reclaim Your Mental EdgeCheck out my website

    1h 3m
  5. 8 | Your Unlived Life Is Waiting for You

    FEB 11

    8 | Your Unlived Life Is Waiting for You

    What happens when life looks successful on the outside — but something inside feels unfinished? In this episode of RenewHer, Genell Lemley sits down with Cathryn Baker, a former founder who built and sold two multimillion-dollar companies and then, unexpectedly, found herself bored, disconnected from her confidence, and quietly questioning what was next. At 67, Cathryn made a bold decision to begin again — launching a coaching business, moving to rural Texas, and listening to a message she couldn’t ignore: your unlived life is waiting for you. This conversation is an honest, grounded exploration of intuition, identity, confidence, and what it really means to start a new chapter later in life — without burning everything down or pretending fear doesn’t exist. In this episode, you'll hear about: What it feels like when success no longer brings fulfillment — and why that misalignment can sneak up quietly How confidence can erode after selling a company and stepping out of an identity you’ve held for decades The surprising moment that sparked Cathryn’s third act — and why she paid attention to it Why boredom, fear, and guilt often show up right before meaningful change The difference between “reinventing” yourself and reawakening parts of who you already are What starting a business at 67 actually looks like — including self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and courage in action How intuition, routine, connection, and support make big transitions sustainable The three-step framework Cathryn uses to help women move toward what’s next: recognizing opportunity, understanding what holds you back, and taking action   00:00  Your Unlived Life Is Waiting for You00:27  Welcome to RenewHer01:13  Meet Cathryn Baker: A Third Act Begins03:39  Starting a Business at 29 With No Safety Net07:06  When Success Turns Into Boredom — and Lost Confidence10:08  The Text That Changed Everything15:45  Why Coaching Became the Next Chapter22:00  Choosing to Stay When It Gets Uncomfortable36:40  Rejuvenation, Not Reinvention38:58  Advice for the Woman Standing at the Edge of Change43.28  Final Reflections & Closing Resources  Subscribe to my newsletter Mind Matters. Schedule a free Discovery Session with me.Get my free guide: Fog to Focus: 4 Proven Brain Habits to Reclaim Your Mental EdgeCheck out my website. How to connect with Cathryn BakerLinkedIncbaker@thinkavanzara.comWebsite

    46 min
  6. 6 | Climbing the Mountain Within: What 36 Hours on a Mountain Taught Me About Myself

    JAN 14

    6 | Climbing the Mountain Within: What 36 Hours on a Mountain Taught Me About Myself

    In this episode of RenewHer, Genell takes you on her 29029 Everesting journey at Whistler—a 36-hour challenge to climb the equivalent of Mount Everest through eight full ascents. This isn’t just a story about a mountain. It’s about courage, determination, and discovering what you’re truly capable of. From early excitement to the “messy middle,” moments of doubt, and even panic in the dark, Genell shares the mental and emotional challenges that came with each step—and the tools, mindset, and support that helped her keep moving forward. Along the way, she reflects on presence, resilience, and self-belief, and the surprising lessons that stayed with her long after the climb. Whether you’re facing a personal challenge, a career pivot, or simply looking to stretch yourself in new ways, this episode offers insight and inspiration for pushing past fear, doubt, and your own limits. Join Genell and discover how taking on big challenges can reveal strength you didn’t know you had—and inspire confidence in yourself that lasts far beyond the summit. 🎙 Listen now and take the first step toward your own Everest.00:00 Highlight: Embrace Your Inner Strength 00:21 Welcome to the RenewHer podcast 00:49 The 29029 Challenge Explained 01.16 The Challenge Beyond the Physical 02:01 The Journey Begins: First Ascents 04:00 Facing the Messy Middle 04:49 The Fueling Issues 05:53 When the Quit Voice Shows Up 06:28 Night Hike and Mental Struggles 08:26 Step by Step, Breath by Breath 11:09 The Final Ascent: From Doubt to Determination 12:57 Reflecting on the Experience 14:54 Conclusion: What's Your Everest? 15:57 Closing Remarks and Next Episode TeaserRESOURCESSubscribe to my newsletter Mind Matters. Schedule a free Discovery Session with me.Get my free guide: Fog to Focus: 4 Proven Brain Habits to Reclaim Your Mental EdgeCheck out my website.

    17 min
  7. 5 | The Brain Behind Reflection

    12/31/2025

    5 | The Brain Behind Reflection

    Reflection is often misunderstood.Many of us associate it with self-judgment, pressure to fix what went wrong, or the feeling that we need to “figure everything out” before moving forward. But true reflection isn’tabout diagnosing, problem-solving, or judging yourself. It’s about awareness and understanding.In this episode of RenewHer, we explore reflection through a gentle neuroscience lens — what reflection really is, what it isn’t, and what’s actually happening in your brain when you pause to look back… and when you look ahead.You’ll learn how reflection engages key areas of the brain involved in memory, insight, emotional processing, and self-awareness — including the hippocampus, prefrontal cortex, limbic system, and default mode network. When practiced with curiosity instead of judgment, reflection becomes a powerful neurological tool for clarity, calm, and intentional decision-making.Most of this episode is an invitation. An invitation to look back and look forward.I guide you through simple past- and future-focused reflection prompts — not to analyze your life or force answers, but to notice what mattered, what feels complete, and what you may want to carry forward into the next chapter.No journaling required, unless you choose to.No pressure for answers.Just space to pause, notice, and listen.Whether you reflect regularly or tend to avoid it altogether, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate approach that works with your brain — not against it.And remember — success starts with your brain. Renew your brain. Renew your life. Past Reflection Questions: Looking Back As you reflect on the past year, remember: these questions are invitations to notice, not to judge.1. What are three things you’re grateful for this year?2. What achievements — big or small — are you proud of this year?3. What did this year teach you about yourself?4. What challenges taught you the most? And what did they teach you?5. Which relationships brought you energy and joy this year — and which relationships drained your energy or need attention?6. Looking back, what’s one thing you wanted to do but didn’t — and what might have gotten in the way? Future Reflection Questions: Looking Ahead Future reflection isn’t about predicting the future — it’s about helping your brain prepare for what’s next with intention.1. As you think about the year ahead, how do you want to feel more often?2. What do you want to carry forward into the next year?3. What do you want to protect more intentionally in the year ahead — your energy, time, health, or peace?4. What challenges might you face, and how can you prepare for them?5. What’s one bold step you can take early in the year?6. As you look ahead, what’s one thing you really want to do?00:00 Introduction to Reflection and RenewHer Podcast 00:45 Understanding Reflection: A Neuroscience Perspective 03:38 The Brain's Role in Reflection 05:10 Reflecting on the Past Year: Prompts and Insights 10:48 Future Reflection: Planning and Anticipating the Year Ahead 16:10 Conclusion 16:53 What's AheadSubscribe to my newsletter Mind Matters. Schedule a free Discovery Session with me. Check out my website.

    18 min
  8. 4 | Why Your Brain Hates New Year's Resolutions

    12/17/2025

    4 | Why Your Brain Hates New Year's Resolutions

    Every January, we hear the familiar “new year, new you” mantra. But what if your brain actually hates resolutions? In this episode, I explain why resolutions often fail, from all-or-nothing thinking to unrealistic expectations that clash with how your brain naturally functions. I’ll walk you through the difference between vague resolutions and specific, actionable goals that are realistic, aligned with your values, and achievable step by step. Plus, I’ll share six practical strategies to help your goals stick—from keeping it simple and setting bite-sized steps to celebrating progress, journaling, using affirmations, and handling setbacks with grace. All of these strategies are designed to work with your brain, supporting motivation, focus, and habit formation.If you’ve ever started the year motivated only to feel frustrated by February, this episode is for you. Learn how to create goals that your brain actually loves—and that will help you build lasting habits without stress or guilt.Key Takeaways:- Why resolutions often fail and what your brain really needs for change - The difference between resolutions and actionable, brain-friendly goals - Six practical strategies to make your goals stick - How focusing on one goal at a time supports your brain and builds lasting habits - How structuring goals around your brain’s natural reward and habit systems boosts success - Why progress—not perfection—is the key to success. 00:00 Highlight and Introduction00:42 The Problem with New Year’s Resolutions01:54 Resolutions vs. Goals: Understanding the Difference02:59 Why Resolutions Clash with How Your Brain Works04:56 Six Brain-Friendly Tips to Achieving Your Goals07:27 Conclusion: Embrace Realistic, Aligned Goals08.52 Final ThoughtsSubscribe to my newsletter Mind Matters.Schedule a free Discovery Session with me.Check out my website.

    9 min
  9. 3 | Success Starts with Your Brain

    12/03/2025

    3 | Success Starts with Your Brain

    Success Starts with Your Brain: Foundational Insights for Women Over 50 In the second episode of Renew Her, brain fitness coach Genell Lemley highlights the profound importance of brain health in every aspect of life. She emphasizes the often-ignored role the brain plays in our overall well-being, success, and happiness. This episode delves into common cognitive issues such as forgetfulness, lack of focus, and mood swings, explaining how they can affect various aspects of life, from work to relationships. Genell reassures listeners that these challenges are common but addressable, stressing that the brain is adaptable and can improve at any age. She shares personal anecdotes and actionable tips on how small daily choices can strengthen the brain, ultimately enhancing clarity, confidence, and energy. The episode invites listeners to become more aware of their cognitive states and encourages taking manageable steps towards better brain health, reinforcing the mantra: 'renew your brain, renew your life.'00:00 Introduction: The Overlooked Power of the Brain 00:28 Welcome to RenewHer: Meet Your Host 00:57 The Foundational Role of the Brain in Your Life 02:57 The Impact of Brain Health on Work and Daily Life 03:59 Emotional and Physical Consequences of Brain Fatigue 06:00 The Changeable Nature of the Brain 06:49 Practical Choices to Renew Your Brain 07:37 Invitation to Self-Awareness and Future Episodes 08:26 Conclusion: Embrace What's Possible

    9 min

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About

RenewHer is a podcast dedicated to empowering women over 50 to embrace bold new challenges and cultivate a mindset focused on growth and resilience. You’ll hear inspiring stories of women who have stepped beyond their comfort zones, and gain practical brain health strategies to sharpen focus, boost energy, and build resilience. If you’re ready to grow, stretch, and rediscover what’s possible, RenewHer will guide you every step of the way.