Send us Fan Mail If you've tried every diet, supplement, and elimination protocol for your IBS or IBD — and you're still not getting lasting relief — there's a piece of the puzzle most practitioners never address: your boundaries. In this episode, I sit down with Savannah Busnelli, professional life coach and wellness coach at Wellness by Savvy, to talk about the powerful and often overlooked connection between poor boundaries, chronic stress, and gut symptoms. If you live with IBS-D, Crohn's disease, ulcerative colitis, or any chronic digestive condition, this conversation will shine a light on why your nervous system — and therefore your gut — may be stuck in survival mode. Savannah shares her own journey with boundary struggles that led her to specialize in this work, and we explore the practical, compassionate tools she uses to help people start setting limits without guilt, fear, or losing the relationships they care about. If stress is one of your biggest gut triggers, this episode is essential listening. In this episode we cover: • How to recognize if poor boundaries are silently fueling your IBS or IBD flare-ups • Why resentment is your body's built-in signal that a boundary has been crossed • The real reason saying yes to please others is making your gut worse — not better • Why making health changes (like dietary shifts for IBS) can feel threatening to people around you — and how to handle it • The guilt and burden women with chronic illness feel when their health needs disrupt family routines • How emotional trauma and high-conflict relationships can directly trigger digestive symptoms • A step-by-step approach to setting boundaries starting with safe people first • How to use "I" statements to communicate limits calmly — especially with high-conflict individuals • The role of affirmations, journaling, and role-playing in building boundary confidence • Why consistency is the most important ingredient in boundary-setting — and how to build it This episode is especially helpful if you're experiencing: – IBS or IBD flare-ups that seem tied to stress or difficult relationships – Feeling like a burden when your gut condition requires special food or rest – Chronic anxiety, mood swings, or emotional exhaustion alongside your gut symptoms – Resentment that builds up after agreeing to things that drain you – Difficulty asserting your health needs with family, friends, or coworkers – A pattern of putting others' comfort above your own healing Key takeaway: Your gut heals in a regulated nervous system. If your relationships and daily environment are keeping you in a constant state of stress, no supplement or diet plan will be enough. Setting boundaries is not selfish — it is part of your treatment plan. About Savannah Busnelli: Savannah Busnelli is a professional life coach and wellness coach at Wellness by Savvy. She specializes in helping people set healthy boundaries, break people-pleasing patterns, and build the emotional skills needed to sustain long-term personal and health transformations. Connect with Savannah: Website: www.wellnessbysavvy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wellnessbysavvy/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wellnessbysavvy Newsletter sign-up: https://www.wellnessbysavvy.com/newsletter Free boundaries resource: https://www.wellnessbysavvy.com/shop/free-resources Upcoming workshops: https://www.wellnessbysavvy.com/workshops Learn more about working with me: If stress and emotional overwhelm are driving your IBS-D or IBD symptoms, The Tame Your Gut Program was built for you. Together we identify your food triggers, uncover root cause stressors, and give you the tools to regulate your nervous system and reclaim your quality of life — for good. Link to my free training “The Root Cause Approach to Gut Healing”—my step-by-step framework to stop guessing and start healing Link to a free 30 minute Gut Check Call Link to my website Disclaimer: None of the content discussed is meant to be taken as medical advice. All information presented is for educational purposes only and listeners and viewers assume all responsibility around implementing any changes to their health and medical regimen.