Respond

Samantha Reigle

A New Way to See ConflictHosted by longtime mediator and intuitive guide Samantha Reigle, Respond is your weekly reminder that discomfort isn’t the problem — it’s a portal that where you are no longer aligned with an invitation to grow. Each episode explores the deeper beliefs and patterns shaping your responses and your reality. No more spiraling. No more sleepwalking. Just honest insight, grounded tools, and conscious shifts to help you move from reactive to rooted. This isn’t therapy, it’s your invitation to respond with clarity, courage, and a life that finally fits.

  1. FEB 20

    Dark Night of the Soul: ICE Killings in Minneapolis & the Epstein Files

    Send a text Host Samantha Reigle, a mediator with over 20 years of experience, reflects on feeling shocked and disgusted by recent news and frames the moment as a collective “dark night of the soul,” where society’s long-ignored fractures are becoming impossible to ignore. She discusses an incident in Minneapolis involving ICE where federal immigration agents shot and killed two individuals and describes the ensuing narrative control that asked the public not to trust what they saw. She connects this to the Epstein files, arguing that while being named in documents is not proof of guilt, the records reveal a broad proximity network spanning politics, academia, celebrities, media, tech, law, and spiritual spaces, highlighting what was tolerated, joked about, or left undisrupted. Reigle outlines a recurring pattern of systemic harm—belief loops (authority implies justification), behavior loops (procedure over judgment and responsibility), and perception loops (abstraction and distancing language)—and explains how the stacking of visible stories can produce paralysis and nervous-system “freeze,” not apathy. Using a mediation-room analogy, she illustrates how “compliance” can become a shield against accountability and human impact. She then offers three “response experiments” rather than solutions: withdrawing unconscious consent (not explaining away or numbing out), refusing abstraction (staying close to human costs), and creating from a different reference point (prioritizing what is humane and livable over what is authorized or validated), including a mention of Melinda Gates and the idea that reporting to the FBI could have been an option. The episode closes with an encouragement to respond with intention rather than react, and to retain a sense of agency despite the heaviness of current events. 00:00 Welcome & Why This News Cycle Feels Different 00:22 Collective ‘Dark Night of the Soul’: When We Can’t Look Away 02:42 Minneapolis ICE Shooting: The Fracture Becomes Visible 05:42 Epstein Files: Proximity, Power, and What’s No Longer Deniable 08:34 Conflict as a Portal: The Choice Point Before Action 09:46 Freeze Response: When Horror Turns Paralyzing 12:16 The Pattern Underneath: Belief, Behavior, and Perception Loops 16:47 A Mediator’s Lens: ‘Compliance’ as a Shield Against Impact 20:25 Response Experiments: How to Walk Through the Portal 22:16 Three Practices: Withdraw Consent, Refuse Abstraction, Create New Standards 26:17 Closing: Agency, Hope, and Responding with Intention Email: SamanthaReigle0828@gmail.com

    27 min
  2. FEB 13

    Dating Isn't Working. Start Here.

    Send a text Dating feels different right now. More confusing. More exhausting. More activating. In this episode, Samantha Reigle, doesn’t give dating tips or a strategy to “find the one.” She talks about something deeper like the moment where dating stops being about the other person and starts being about a pattern. Why do you lose interest when someone is actually consistent?  Why does anxiety spike right when things start going well?  Why do mixed signals pull you in instead of push you away?  Why does calm sometimes feel like “no spark”? From a conflict perspective, these moments aren’t random. They’re portals or thresholds between familiar patterns and new ways of responding. She explores: Why attraction often moves toward what’s familiar, not what’s healthyHow intensity can get confused with meaningWhat anxiety after a few dates is actually signalingHow to handle ghosting or inconsistent communication without losing yourselfWhether opting out of dating is alignment… or avoidanceHow to experiment with new responses without forcing outcomesThis episode isn’t about getting it right. It’s about noticing the choice point — and deciding whether to repeat the same loop or respond differently. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview 00:21 The Modern Dating Dilemma 02:36 Understanding the 'Portal' in Dating 05:43 Responding Differently to Dating Patterns 19:06 Experiments to Break the Dating Loop 23:22 Addressing Common Dating Issues 29:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts EMAIL:SamanthaReigle0828@gmail.com

    30 min
  3. JAN 16

    Why the Same Conflicts Keep Showing Up in Your Life

    Send a text Why You Are the Common Denominator in Your Own Life and How to Embrace It In this episode, host Samantha Reigle, a seasoned mediator with over 20 years of experience, delves into the concept of being the common denominator in your own life. Samantha explains why recognizing this can be empowering rather than blaming. The episode discusses how personal disruptions signify misalignments with your current self and what you can learn from these conflicts. Samantha emphasizes the importance of agency, internal reflection, and how shifting your internal narrative can transform your external reality. Listen in to explore how to respond intentionally to life's challenges and make meaningful changes. 00:00 Introduction and Host Background 00:30 The Common Denominator Concept 01:04 Personal Impact of Conflict 02:31 Understanding Disruptive Conflict 03:35 The Power of Agency and Alignment 05:20 Reframing Conflict and Co-Creating Reality 06:41 Patterns and Repeated Experiences 08:49 Toleration and Self-Reflection 11:56 Practical Examples and Workplace Dynamics 19:07 Family Dynamics and Personal Growth 20:30 Health Issues and Internal Narratives 24:27 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Email: SamanthaReigle0828@gmail.com 🗣️ Want to be featured on a future episode? Leave me a voicemail! 📞  In under 90 seconds, share: The situation you’re inThe conflict or chaos you’re dealing withI’ll pick some submissions to break down in a future episode —  👉 https://www.speakpipe.com/respondpodcast  Remember: The conflict isn’t the problem — it’s the portal. Let’s walk through it together.

    25 min

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A New Way to See ConflictHosted by longtime mediator and intuitive guide Samantha Reigle, Respond is your weekly reminder that discomfort isn’t the problem — it’s a portal that where you are no longer aligned with an invitation to grow. Each episode explores the deeper beliefs and patterns shaping your responses and your reality. No more spiraling. No more sleepwalking. Just honest insight, grounded tools, and conscious shifts to help you move from reactive to rooted. This isn’t therapy, it’s your invitation to respond with clarity, courage, and a life that finally fits.