Let me know what you think! Do you have a difficult time believing God? Or maybe trusting other people? Are you cynical, skeptical, or wary of new friends, churches, or situations? Do you sometimes wonder what is real? What is true? I want to share three promises from God's Word that can help you learn to tell yourself the truth. God's truth is stronger than every lie we've believed. And today, we're going to talk about how His truth can begin to untangle the lies that have kept us stuck. Promise #1 — Renew Your Mind Daily I remember a season in my life when I made excuses. I told myself, "I just don't feel like doing it." And honestly, I did absolutely nothing. I was stuck. I didn't know how to get out of the pit. Maybe you can relate. So how do we begin to tell ourselves the truth? We find an answer in Ephesians 4:22–24: "You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self... to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness." I love that picture. Put off the old self. Be made new in the attitude of your minds. Put on the new self. The moment we trust Christ, our identity changes. Second Corinthians 5:17 tells us that we are a new creation. We are accepted. We are forgiven. We are adopted into God's family. But here's the thing— our thinking doesn't always catch up with our new identity right away. That's part of sanctification—the lifelong process of becoming more like Christ. Romans 12:2 tells us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. God changes our position immediately, but He changes our patterns little by little as we walk with Him. And even physically, this makes sense. God designed our brains with the ability to learn through repetition. Think about walking through a grassy field. The first time you walk across it, you barely leave a mark. But if you take that same path every day, eventually a clear pathway forms. Our thoughts can work the same way. If you've believed for years: "I'm worthless." "No one loves me." "I'll never change." Those thoughts can become familiar pathways in your mind. They may feel true. But that doesn't mean they are true. They feel familiar because they've been rehearsed over and over again. But when we begin replacing those lies with Scripture, we're choosing a different path."I am God's workmanship." "Nothing can separate me from His love." "I am forgiven." “I am chosen.” At first, that new way of thinking may feel awkward because it is not as familiar. But every time we agree with God's Word instead of our feelings, we strengthen that new pathway. God's truth doesn't become more true. Our minds are simply learning to agree with what has always been true. So start with Scripture. Read it. Memorize it. Meditate on it. Pray it back to God. Let His Word become louder than the lies that have been rehearsing in your mind. You are not stuck with every thought that shows up. Your mind really can be renewed. Promise #2 — Replace the Lie Maybe you've thought, "I can't control my thoughts." Or, "I can't help the way I am." I understand that. Before I fully committed my life to Jesus, I was living for myself. I was angry. I rebelled against authority. I smoked, drank, used drugs, gossiped, and even cursed the name of God and Jesus. At that time, fitting in with people mattered more to me than pleasing God. But when I became a fully devoted follower of Jesus Christ, everything began to change. Jesus loved me first. He gave His life for me and paid the price for my sin. And because of His love, I began to want to please God more than I wanted to please myself. For the first time, I realized something: I had a choice. I did not have to keep living as a slave to lies or toxic thoughts. I slowly learned to confess my sin, submit to God, and trust Him with my thoughts, my desires, and my life. In Christ, we have power, freedom, and a new identity. Romans 8:31 reminds us: "If God is for us, who can be against us?" If God is for you, the enemy does not get the final word over your life. In Christ, you are accepted. In Christ, you are secure. In Christ, you are significant. Your mistakes do not define you. Your past does not define you. The truest thing about you is your identity in Christ. So what do we do when an old lie rises up? We replace it Instead of: "I am a failure." Say:"I am God's workmanship." Instead of: "I am abandoned."Say:"God will never leave me." Instead of: "My past defines me." Say: "I am a new creation in Christ."This is why we need God's Word.Read it.Pray it.Speak it.Memorize it.Keep it close.We don't renew our minds through our own strength.We cooperate with what God is doing in us through His Word and the Holy SpiritRomans 12:1–2 gives us such a beautiful picture:"Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." We are not trying to become God's children.We're learning to live like the children we already are. Promise #3 — Practice Truth Until It Becomes Your Default This is where the daily practice comes in.Putting on the new self happens as we keep choosing truth— again and again—even when our feelings try to pull us back into old patterns.And I want you to hear this: It's not about perfection. It's about progress.It's not about trying harder in your own strength.It's about learning to think differently as God's Spirit renews you from the inside out. Sometimes we know the truth, but we still don't feel any different. Friend, that's normal.Our feelings often take a little while to catch up with what we believe.Think about Israel leaving Egypt.They were physically free in one day, but it took years for them to stop thinking like slaves. We can be the same way.Our identity in Christ changes immediately, but the way we think changes little by little— one surrendered thought at a time.That's why practicing truth matters. When God brings a hidden lie to the surface, we can look at it and say,"Lord, my belief system doesn't line up with what You say is true." We can renounce that lie.To renounce a lie simply means we refuse to keep agreeing with it.We reject it.We stop giving it authority.And we choose not to live under its influence anymore.God created our brains with the ability to form habits of thinking. So if we've believed lies for years—"I'm unlovable," "I'll never change," "My past defines me"—those thoughts can become deeply worn into the way we think.They may feel true.But they aren't necessarily true.They feel familiar because we've rehearsed them so many times.But here is the good news: As we keep replacing those lies with God's Word, we are training our minds to agree with what God says instead of what our emotions, wounds, or past experiences tell us. God's truth does not change. But we do. And over time, as the Holy Spirit works in us and we keep practicing truth, truth becomes our new default.That's part of the beautiful process Scripture calls sanctification— Becoming more like Christ, one surrendered thought at a time. And when we come to our Heavenly Father, He doesn't erase our emotions, memories, wounds, or mistakes overnight.We come carrying false beliefs and old coping mechanisms.And little by little, He lovingly teaches us what is true. God has given us spiritual weapons for a spiritual battle. We are not helpless against the lies. Through His truth, we can recognize them, confront them, and bring those thoughts under the authority of Christ. So let me ask you gently: What lie have you been agreeing with? You don't have to figure it all out at once.Just start with the next honest step.Ask God:"Lord, show me the lie I've believed."Then ask:"What do You say is true?"1. Renew your mind daily. 2. Replace the lie with God's truth. 3. Practice truth until it becomes your default. You are not powerless. You can choose truth—one thought at a time. Take a moment and pray:"Lord, thank You for setting me free from the tangles of my past and my pain. Thank You for showing me how to tell myself the truth. Today, I choose truth instead of lies." And remember the promise of John 8:36: "So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed." Thank you for joining me, I am excited to be part of your journey. 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