Retained

Scott J Bishop
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Retained is a podcast for family law and estate planning firm owners who want a practice that runs better and grows on purpose. Host Scott Bishop, founder of Up And Social, sits down with attorneys, mediators, and the people who work alongside them to talk about the parts of the job nobody covers in law school: where good cases actually come from, what marketing is worth paying for, how to price work, how to keep clients from burning out your team, and what it takes to build a firm you still want to run in ten years. No panel jargon and no theory. Every episode is a working conversation with someone who has done it, plus the specific numbers, tools and decisions behind their results. New episodes every other week. If you run a family law practice, start with any episode that matches the problem on your desk this week. Free AI Visibility Report for your firm: https://upandsocial.com Want to be a guest: https://upandsocial.com/retained/be-a-guest

Episodes

  1. Aug 27

    Divorce Mediation vs Litigation: She Quit After 9 Years

    Three years. $60,000 each. Still no divorce. Then they finished in four months, without a courtroom. Most divorces get trapped in a system built for fighting, not healing. Jen Love of Solace Divorce explains why the "bulldog attorney" approach leaves parents, kids, and even the lawyers emotionally wrecked, and what changes when divorce is handled with mediation, coaching, and real human support. Host Scott Bishop talks with Jen about the moment she walked away from nine years of litigation after realizing the courtroom was creating more harm than resolution. She shares how becoming a parent reshaped her perspective, why family law attorneys burn out inside high-conflict systems, and how Solace helps couples move through one of life's hardest transitions without turning it into a years-long war. You'll discover: Why Jen traded litigation for mediation after seeing what adversarial divorce does to childrenThe emotional weight most clients are carrying before they ever walk into a law officeHow nervous system regulation, coaching, and support change the outcome of a divorceHow one couple spent 3 years and $60,000+ each in court, then finalized in 4 months with SolaceWhat attorneys miss when they focus only on legal strategyWhy Jen believes the entire family law system needs a mindset shift Jen also shares how she helps people rethink co-parenting, holidays, and post-divorce relationships through a lens of gratitude and long-term family health. For attorneys who know the system needs to change, she opens the door to a new way of working, including upcoming attorney retreats in Crestone, Colorado. About Jen Love Jen Love is a family law attorney, mediator, and divorce coach at Solace Divorce, where she has guided more than 500 couples through a more mindful, intentional divorce process. Her work centers on treating the legal and emotional sides of divorce as one process instead of two separate battles. Essential listening if you're going through a divorce, supporting someone who is, or you're an attorney who knows there has to be a better way.

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Retained is a podcast for family law and estate planning firm owners who want a practice that runs better and grows on purpose. Host Scott Bishop, founder of Up And Social, sits down with attorneys, mediators, and the people who work alongside them to talk about the parts of the job nobody covers in law school: where good cases actually come from, what marketing is worth paying for, how to price work, how to keep clients from burning out your team, and what it takes to build a firm you still want to run in ten years. No panel jargon and no theory. Every episode is a working conversation with someone who has done it, plus the specific numbers, tools and decisions behind their results. New episodes every other week. If you run a family law practice, start with any episode that matches the problem on your desk this week. Free AI Visibility Report for your firm: https://upandsocial.com Want to be a guest: https://upandsocial.com/retained/be-a-guest

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  • Creator
    Scott J Bishop
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    1
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Scott J Bishop