Save The Date

SAVE THE DATE

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  1. Jul 23

    Save The Date Replay: "Humor, Playfulness and Why Fun Still Matters"

    For this week’s episode, we’re revisiting a Save The Date conversation that feels perfectly timed for summer. We unpack why fun, humor, and playfulness are essential parts of building romantic connection. In a dating culture often dominated by checklists, expectations, compatibility interviews, and pressure to define the outcome immediately, it can be easy to forget that dating should also include joy. This episode explores how simple experiences—playing cards, going bowling, grabbing pizza or ice cream, visiting a park, playing miniature golf, exchanging memes, or just being silly together—can help people relax and reveal who they really are. We also talk about authenticity, vulnerability, embracing your quirks, and why being a little awkward or corny may create more connection than trying to appear perfectly polished. A memorable date is not always the most expensive or impressive one. Sometimes it is the date where you laugh, let your guard down, and realize you genuinely enjoy someone’s company. As summer invites us back outside, this replay is a reminder to stop treating every date like an evaluation and start making room for curiosity, ease, and real fun. What is your ideal fun summer date? #SaveTheDatePodcast #SummerDating #FunDates #AuthenticConnection #ModernDating

    Save The Date Replay: "Humor, Playfulness and Why Fun Still Matters"

  2. Jul 16

    Save The Date Reacts E12: Connected Sex, Hungry Eyes & the Bigger-Better Deal

    In this episode, Jamie and Heath examine what creates real connection—and what causes people to gamble it away. The episode begins with a candid conversation about emotional safety, communication, and physical intimacy. Jamie and Heath challenge the idea that satisfying sex is simply mechanical, arguing that people often reach deeper levels of intimacy when they feel heard, accepted, cherished, and emotionally secure. Communication may begin the process, but responsiveness is what makes a partner feel that their needs truly matter. They then react to a blackjack analogy about modern dating and the pursuit of the bigger-better deal. When people become consumed by options, novelty, status, or appearances, they can lose sight of the consistent and meaningful relationship already in front of them. The grass may look greener—but sometimes it is only better marketed. This episode is a funny, honest, and grounded discussion about connected sex, hungry eyes, emotional attentiveness, relationship regret, and the discipline required to stop browsing long enough to genuinely build. What matters more for long-term love: having more options—or recognizing the value of the person you already chose? #SaveTheDatePodcast #ModernDating #EmotionalIntimacy #RelationshipCommunication #DatingCulture

    Save The Date Reacts E12: Connected Sex, Hungry Eyes & the Bigger-Better Deal

  3. Jul 9

    S2 E11: Why Good People Still End Up in Bad Dating

    On this episode of Save The Date S2 E11, Jamie and Heath take on a question a lot of people are living with in real time: why do good people still end up in bad dating situations? The conversation looks at how dating burnout, emotional depletion, chemistry, validation, and hidden expectations can all distort the way people choose, connect, and stay. From people trying to force outcomes while already exhausted, to mistaking attraction for alignment, to accepting crumbs because they do not fully trust themselves to get the meal they actually want, this episode is a grounded reflection on what keeps dating so hard for earnest people. Jamie and Heath also talk about the difference between caution and emotional unavailability, why under-communication can be just as damaging as dishonesty, and how much pain could be avoided if people got clearer with themselves before trying to build with someone else. This is a thoughtful episode about dating, exhaustion, self-respect, and the kind of communication real connection still requires. #SaveTheDatePodcast #SoundCloudPodcast #ModernDating #SelfAwareness #EmotionalConnection

    S2 E11: Why Good People Still End Up in Bad Dating

  4. Jun 25

    Save The Date Reacts E13: When Ego Masquerades as Manhood

    A lot of people say “speak it into existence,” but this episode asks a harder question: what are you doing after you say it? On this episode of Save The Date, Jamie and Heath unpack the difference between fantasy that actually moves a man forward and fantasy that leaves him trapped in ego. They talk about frontin’, overconfidence, self-deception, and the ways men can convince themselves they are stronger, more skilled, or more prepared than reality would suggest. Using examples from fighting, sex, ambition, and dating, the conversation explores how unsupported fantasy can quietly become a liability — especially when a man has not done the work, taken the feedback, or built the consistency to carry what he claims. This is a sharper episode about humility, growth, delusion, and why real confidence does not need to lie to itself. If you have ever watched somebody confuse image with substance, or ego with actual development, this episode is going to land. #SaveTheDatePodcast #SoundCloudPodcast #Masculinity #SelfAwareness #ModernDating

    Save The Date Reacts E13: When Ego Masquerades as Manhood

  5. Jun 18

    Save The Date Reacts Ep 12: Knicks, Hope, Masculinity, and Why Love Still Requires Work

    On this episode of Save The Date Reacts, Jamie and Heath reflect on the New York Knicks championship and use it as a springboard into a larger conversation about hope, connection, masculinity, and the kind of work love and life still require. The conversation explores how a citywide moment of joy can reopen people to dating, community, and human connection. From there, the episode moves into something deeper: why hope matters in a culture that profits from loneliness, why showing up in real life still creates possibilities screens cannot, and why availability, effort, and presence still matter. Jamie and Heath also unpack a more grounded vision of masculinity — one rooted in service, sacrifice, consistency, and building with others, not just self-interest or image. The Knicks become more than a sports story here. They become a symbol of what can happen when people commit to a vision, stay disciplined, and keep going long enough to make hope real. If you’ve been feeling tired of cynicism, dating fatigue, or the loudest voices online, this episode offers something more grounded to hold onto. Clips / references discussed in this episode: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZn2dZXhMcP/ https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZpqIKrM6_f/ https://www.instagram.com/p/DZkjikRkSXI/?img_index=5 Hashtags: #SaveTheDatePodcast #SoundCloudPodcast #ModernDating #Masculinity #Hope

    Save The Date Reacts Ep 12: Knicks, Hope, Masculinity, and Why Love Still Requires Work

  6. Jun 11

    S2 E10: Compatibility vs Chemistry

    What happens when the person who feels easiest to love isn't necessarily the person you're meant to build with? In this episode, Jamie and Heath dive into the complicated relationship between chemistry, compatibility, and calling. They share personal experiences with instant connections that felt undeniable, while exploring why long-term relationships often demand something deeper than attraction and emotional highs. From whirlwind sparks to hard-earned partnership, this conversation challenges the idea that love should always feel effortless. Because sometimes the easiest relationship isn't the one that changes your life—and sometimes the relationship that changes your life requires the most growth. Listen now and join the conversation. #DatingPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #ModernDating #EmotionalIntelligence #LoveLessons

    S2 E10: Compatibility vs Chemistry

  7. Jun 4

    S2 E9 - "What Men Crave, What Women Seek, and Why Dating Gets Confusing"

    A lot of dating advice keeps missing the real issue: men and women are often looking for different things, but everybody keeps acting shocked by it. On this episode of Save The Date, Jamie and Heath break down the hidden exchange underneath a lot of modern relationships: attention and lifestyle. They talk about why female attention can be so powerful for men, why lifestyle and provision matter so deeply for many women, and how both sides can end up talking past each other when they do not understand what the other is really responding to. This is a sharper conversation about desire, gendered needs, emotional validation, provision, and why some people keep moralizing what should really be understood more honestly. It also gets into the darker side of both: attention becoming addiction, lifestyle becoming leverage, and relationships becoming transactional when people do not know how to move with integrity. If you have ever felt like the dating conversation keeps circling the issue without naming it, this episode is going to hit. #SaveTheDatePodcast #SoundCloudPodcast #ModernDating #RelationshipPodcast #HealthyLove

    S2 E9 - "What Men Crave, What Women Seek, and Why Dating Gets Confusing"

  8. May 28

    Save The Date Reacts E11: Marriage, Control, Cheating, and the Skills People Still Don’t Have

    A lot of relationship advice sounds good until real responsibility enters the room. On this episode of Save The Date Reacts, Jamie and Heath break down three conversations about marriage, money, trust, cheating, freedom, and accountability — and the throughline is clear: love is not just about commitment, it is about competence. The episode asks what it really means to stay, what people owe each other once they say yes, and why so many relationships break down not because love disappeared, but because people refused to grow with what love required. From rethinking vague wedding vows, to examining the difference between provision and financial control, to unpacking empathy and private integrity in cheating, this is a more pointed conversation about why relationships fail when people stop learning, stop listening, or stop telling the truth. It also gets into a broader cultural issue: in a performance-driven world, a lot of people know how to look credible long before they know how to be accountable. If you have been side-eyeing modern dating conversations that skip over discipline, skill, and character, this episode is going to land. #SaveTheDatePodcast #DatingReset #ModernDating #RelationshipPodcast #HealthyLove

    Save The Date Reacts E11: Marriage, Control, Cheating, and the Skills People Still Don’t Have
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  • Creator
    SAVE THE DATE
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    124
  • Rating
    Explicit
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