Keywords: rebuilding, divorce, self-discovery, faith, empowerment, coaching, relationships, 3R method, women, healing Summary: In this episode of Her Gathering Table, host Lynda (Lu) welcomes Shakela Matthews, a Recalibration Strategist, Speaker, and Relationship Coach, to share her journey of rebuilding after two marriages and divorces. Shakela discusses the importance of self-discovery, dismantling lies, and her signature 3R method: Recalibrate, Reengage, and Reload. The conversation emphasizes empowerment, healing, and the truth that women are enough, regardless of their past. Shakela also invites listeners to her upcoming event, Our Love Story, aimed at restoring hope in relationships. February 14, 2026 in Lithonia, GA. Takeaways: Women bring their stories, not just their resumes.Life doesn't always follow the expected script.Divorce can lead to self-discovery and freedom.Dismantling lies is crucial for rebuilding identity.The 3R method helps women realign with their purpose.Healing requires intentional self-reflection and prayer.You are enough, regardless of your past.God writes the best endings to our stories.Trust the process of rebuilding and restoration.Love can flourish after heartbreak.Titles: Rebuilding After Heartbreak: Shakela Matthews' JourneyThe 3R Method: A Path to EmpowermentSound Bites: "I lost who I was as a person.""You are enough.""Don't rush the process."Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to the Gathering Table 04:26 Life Beyond the Blueprint 09:29 Dismantling Lies and Rebuilding Truth 13:07 The Three R Method Explained 17:51 Love After Heartbreak 21:19 Words of Encouragement for the Damaged 23:13 Seasons of Preparation and Trust 26:48 Outro To stay connected with all things Shakela Matthews, visit her website at KELATwrites.com. You can also follow her on Instagram at @kelatwrites and on Facebook at Shakela Matthews for more of her coaching, speaking, and transformational content. For all things Say It Forward With Lu — the podcast, coaching, resources, and upcoming offerings — click the Linktree below. It’s your hub for staying connected, booking sessions, and joining the community. https://linktr.ee/lyndahartSayItForwardWithLu