2nd Moms Circle for Christian Adoptive Moms Dawn Baggett

Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

Embracing acceptance over accountability offers a transformative perspective for Christian mothers navigating the journey with their adopted teenagers. This approach does not imply condoning negative behaviors but fosters an understanding that these actions often stem from deeper, unresolved issues. Moving towards acceptance allows mothers to establish clear personal boundaries while promoting healing and growth, creating a nurturing environment that reflects their commitment to their faith and family values.

By implementing an acceptance lens, these parents can cultivate space where genuine connection and growth can flourish, counterbalanced personal boundaries. As part of the Authentic Modeling Method this shift gives adoptive moms a peek into a powerful approach that can be transformative within a context of unconditional love and forgiveness.

This method not only transforms the way mothers interact with their teenagers but deepens their own faith journey, drawing them closer to the essence of Christ's teachings on love and service. >>>Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

Adoptive moms often find themselves in challenging situations, especially when it comes to managing defiant, disrespectful, and sometimes dangerous behaviors in their adopted teenagers.

Traditional approaches lean heavily towards an accountability lens, believing that enforcing consequences for misbehavior will bring positive change. But this method, though seemingly logical, can actually escalate tensions further.

This episode along with part two on this same topic encourages the adoptive mom in this situation to explore an alternative approach to how she views problematic behaviors in the home by viewing problematic behaviors through a new lens of acceptance.

Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com.

For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist

To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.

As the Easter weekend approaches, it's crucial for adoptive mothers to consider their expectations in light of the reality of their family dynamics. This episode emphasizes the importance of acknowledging that not all family members might share the same enthusiasm or faith, leading to potential disappointments and tensions. By setting realistic expectations and focusing on personal worship and connection with God, listeners can experience a fulfilling Easter regardless of their family's level of participation.

Podcast host Dawn Baggett advises moms to plan their Easter celebrations with achievable goals for a more peaceful and meaningful holiday, and reducing the chances of conflict and frustration. The emphasis is on the value of individual spiritual growth and the power of prayer in bringing families closer, both to God and to each other.

Ultimately, the message is one of hope and faith, encouraging listeners to trust in God's timing and work in their lives and the lives of their loved ones. Dawn underscores the importance of not placing undue pressure on the Easter weekend to magically resolve family differences but instead to cherish the occasion as an opportunity for personal reflection and connection with God. Adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms group. To do that click the following link — http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group

Journaling about your role as a mom/adoptive mom can illuminate the realistic aspirations and challenges you face in this pivotal role. This exercise encourages mothers to distinguish their maternal responsibilities from other aspects of their personal identity, acknowledging that they are more than just a mom. It stresses the importance of having grounded, realistic expectations while also recognizing one's desires, skills, and limitations. Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group; or to apply for private coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist