Securely Me with David Alexander

David Alexander
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Delve into the fascinating world of attachment theory, relationships, social media, pop culture, and self-love with David Alexander. The mission is to encourage people to be their most authentic selves through conversations connected to self awareness and self identity  New Episodes Bi-Weekly Dropping Wednesday’s @6am CST on Apple Podcast and Spotify and Now Youtube

  1. 12/10/2025

    Coming-of-Age Conversation

    In this special episode of Securely Me, David Alexander sits down with guests Siran and Courtney for a heartfelt, honest conversation about coming of age. As Siran celebrates another trip around the sun, the trio reflects on the lessons learned over 35+ years of life—the growth, the challenges, the surprises, and the moments that shaped who they are today.   From navigating adulthood to embracing authenticity and self-security, this episode blends wisdom, laughter, and celebration. Join us as we honor Siran’s birthday and explore what it really means to come into your own.

    41 min

  2. 10/30/2025

    Kinks, Shame, and Sexual Freedom

    Hosted by David Alexander (@davidalexanderiam) Guest: Jeremy A. Teel (@jeremyateel) In this episode, we dive into the world of sexual kinks and explore the roots of kink shaming. Where it comes from, why it persists, and how it impacts our sense of self. David and Jeremy unpack the connection between sexual freedom and identity, challenging cultural taboos and encouraging open, judgment-free conversations around desire and authenticity. It’s a raw, honest, and empowering talk about embracing what makes you feel whole, inside and outside the bedroom.

    55 min

  3. 10/15/2025

    Tactless Takes on Homosocial Men

    On this episode, I sit down with Beabad, host of Tactless Radio, for a real and unapologetic conversation about homo-social relationships between men. We unpack the ways men bond with each other, the unspoken rules and tensions that come with it, and how these dynamics affect the people who are in relationships or close proximity with these men. From emotional avoidance to performative masculinity, we explore what it means to navigate connections with men who are deeply tied to their male circles—but struggle with intimacy, openness, and accountability in their personal lives.

    46 min

  4. 10/01/2025

    Being Gay with Community and Family

    In this episode of Securely Me, host David Alexander (@davidalexanderiam) sits down with Coach Rob (@Coach_rob1089) for a powerful and honest conversation about what it means to grow up gay in a Black family. Together, they unpack the challenges, joys, and lessons of navigating identity, culture, and belonging as Black gay men. From family dynamics to finding community, this dialogue offers vulnerability, wisdom, and the reminder that being authentically yourself is both radical and necessary.

    1 hr

  5. 09/17/2025

    Our Connection to Music

    In this episode, David Alexander sits down with Servante for a candid conversation about music and identity. Together, they explore how the songs, sounds, and artists we connect with shape who we are and how we show up in the world. From childhood influences to the soundtracks of pivotal life moments, David and Servante unpack the deep ways music intertwines with culture, memory, and self-expression. @iamservante

    35 min

  6. 11/14/2024

    "Stars, Sounds & Self-Doubt: Unpacking the Big 3, Elmiene’s New Hit, and Navigating Body Insecurities"

    In this episode, we dive into the intriguing world of astrology and what your Big 3 says about your personality. We also chat about Elmiene's latest track "Anyways," exploring how music can be a form of self-expression. Plus, we tackle the tough topics of body insecurities and the pressure of others' judgments, unpacking how they shape our self-image and confidence. Tune in for a mix of cosmic insight, fresh music, and real talk!   New Episodes Drop Bi-Weekly on Wednesday's @6pm CST Attachment Style Quiz Instagram - David Alexander TikTok - David Alexander Intro/ Outro Music Produced by: DJ CySum

    1h 2m

  7. 09/09/2024

    New Beats & Heartfelt Boundaries: Citizen Queen's Latest Track and Your Boundries Based on yourAttachment Style

    In this episode, we dive into Citizen Queen’s latest track, exploring how their new sound resonates with the complexities of our emotional lives. We then shift gears to unravel the intriguing world of attachment styles and what they reveal about our boundaries in relationships. Tune in for insightful discussions, practical advice, and a lively Q&A session where we tackle your dating dilemmas and relationship queries. Whether you're a music lover or navigating the maze of modern relationships, this episode has something for you!   New Episodes Drop weekly on Monday @6am CST Daily 1’s Journal  Attachment Style Quiz Instagram - David Alexander TikTok - David Alexander Intro/ Outro Music Produced by: DJ CySum

    1h 4m

  8. 09/04/2024

    Love, Care, and Culture: Navigating Bell Hooks, Robyn's Beats, and the Evolution of Adulthood

    Join us on a thought-provoking journey as we explore the intricate dance between love and care through the lens of groundbreaking ideas and vibrant music. In this episode, we delve into the profound insights of Bell Hooks, whose work reshapes our understanding of love and care. We'll also groove to the beats of Robyn, whose music captures the complexities of modern relationships and personal empowerment. Finally, we'll compare what it means to be an adult today versus the 1990s, examining how cultural shifts and evolving expectations have influenced our experiences of love and care. Tune in for a rich discussion on how these elements intersect and inform our lives in a changing world. New Episodes Drop weekly on Monday @6pm CST Daily 1’s Journal  Attachment Style Quiz Instagram - David Alexander TikTok - David Alexander Music Produced by: DJ CySum

    46 min
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Delve into the fascinating world of attachment theory, relationships, social media, pop culture, and self-love with David Alexander. The mission is to encourage people to be their most authentic selves through conversations connected to self awareness and self identity  New Episodes Bi-Weekly Dropping Wednesday’s @6am CST on Apple Podcast and Spotify and Now Youtube

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  • Creator
    David Alexander
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    14
  • Rating
    Explicit
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