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The SeductionEd Podcast is deep dive into the psychology of attraction, power, and influence. Hosted by Keu Reyes, it explores the hidden dynamics of relationships, dating, social strategy, and their applications in business and personal life. seductioned.substack.com

  1. I Love Toxic Women. We all do. Don't we?

    3D AGO

    I Love Toxic Women. We all do. Don't we?

    I have a secret confession to make: I love toxic women. (Ok, that’s not really a secret). There is a gravitational pull from troublesome women that I think we all feel. It is like going to the zoo. You do not go to see the birds; you go because you want to see the lions and the snakes that could actually kill you. We want that danger close to us as long as it does not actually bite. In this episode, I am getting completely honest about my own patterns and why so many of us confuse a toxic spark with a permanent partner. We will discuss: * The Spice Scale: I compare toxicity to spicy food because while nobody likes bland food, you have to know if you can handle a Habanero or a Texas Reaper. * The Alpha Illusion: I talk about the attraction to outgoing, goal-oriented women who call themselves alpha females but often struggle with the compromise needed for a relationship. * The Narcissistic Trap: We look at the dangerous side of the scale where a woman has no off switch and views herself as a gift to the world that requires your total sacrifice. * The Mother Mirror: I share how growing up with tough cookies like my mom and grandma made me feel comfortable in the middle of loud opinions and chaos. * The Bitter End: I explain why relationships with women above a five on the toxic scale never end in a friendly way because they often view you as a permanent enemy. I used to think I needed the chaos of being blocked and unblocked to feel like the passion was real. It turns out that science explains this through a concept called intermittent reinforcement. This is the same psychological trigger that keeps people addicted to slot machines. When affection is unpredictable, your brain releases more dopamine during the “up” moments than it would in a steady, peaceful relationship. You essentially become addicted to the high that follows the hell. Our attraction to these fearless personalities is also linked to what researchers call the Dark Triad. Studies show that traits like narcissism and sensation seeking are often incredibly seductive in the short term. They are easily mistaken for high confidence and social dominance. As I have learned the hard way, the same traits that make a woman a ruthless success in business can make a long-term relationship a constant conflict. I am finally admitting that I gravitate toward the chaos even though I have pushed away peaceful, great women in the past. If you have ever felt that same pull toward the “habanero” of personalities, or if you are currently stuck in a “Texas Reaper” relationship, this conversation is for you. Listen to the full episode on SeductionEducation.com and let’s debate it in the comments. I read them all. Thanks for reading SeductionEd! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit seductioned.substack.com

    27 min
  2. She’ll Submit If You’re That Man

    JAN 16

    She’ll Submit If You’re That Man

    This one wasn’t scripted. Wasn’t polished. Just two people sitting down, saying what’s real. When I talked to Maudie, I wasn’t trying to dig for secrets. I was trying to feel where she stood. And what I got from her beyond the humor and fire was clarity. This is a woman who’s lived some things. She’s got her own rhythm. And when she talks about men, it’s not from theory. It’s from memory. She didn’t come to sugarcoat. She came to say what most won’t. Let’s break it down. She said it straight: a man has to bring her to a place of submission. Not force. Not manipulation. Just presence. Just being that man. If you don’t move like that, she’s not gonna follow. And she shouldn’t. Now some dudes get triggered by that word submission. But that’s because they’ve never seen it done right. A woman doesn’t submit because she’s weak. She submits because you gave her something solid to rest in. Because you’re steady. Because you’re not trying to be liked. You just are who you are. And Maudie? She’s not submitting to just anybody. She said, “That’s hard to do.” That’s the reality. That’s the standard. Here’s what I took from this conversation: If you’re not clear about who you are, she won’t be either. If your vibe is off, if your energy is shaky, if you’re pretending she’s gonna know. She won’t always say it, but she’ll feel it. It’s not about lines. It’s not about being nice. It’s not about what job you got or how many followers you have. It’s about what she picks up the second you walk in. That’s the radar. You can’t fake presence. You can’t fake self-respect. You either got it or you don’t. We also talked about emotional energy. She said she wants a man who can express himself but not be sensitive. And I get that. She’s not saying don’t feel. She’s saying don’t crumble. Be open, but don’t fall apart. Be honest, but don’t bleed all over her. You’re not supposed to unload. You’re supposed to lead. There’s another line she said that stuck with me: “If I have to figure out where we’re going, I’m already out.” Man, if that doesn’t tell you everything... She’s not trying to drive. She’s trying to feel safe in the passenger seat. Not because she can’t lead. But because she doesn’t want to not when the right man shows up. That’s what submission is. That’s what this whole conversation is about. And listen, if you’re out here thinking women don’t want to follow anymore, you’re wrong. They just don’t want to follow men who don’t know where they’re going. You want a woman like Maudie to trust you? Do your inner work. Get your energy clean. Move with weight. Not noise. And when you show up as him, she’ll know. She won’t say it. She’ll show it. Listen to the episode. Study her language. Pay attention to the pauses. The way she catches herself mid-story. That’s where the real truth is. She’s not teaching a class. She’s telling on herself. And if you’re smart, you’ll catch the lesson. Follow Maudie on TikTok: @Maudielena To buy or commission Maudie’s art, send her an email: artbymaudie@outlook.com If this hit you, do something about it: • Join MindWorkIn at MindWorkIn.com• Go to SeductionEd.com and subscribe• Or DM me if you want to train daily and reprogram your mental software For the ones that want to read more: • The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida• Getting to ‘I Do’ by Dr. Pat Allen• Helen Fisher’s research on love, the brain, and behavior• Study on social dominance and attraction in Human Nature Journal That’s it. Stop chasing. Start becoming. Because when you’re him, you don’t need a script. She’ll just feel it. Thanks for reading SeductionEd! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit seductioned.substack.com

    52 min
  3. You Keep Attracting the Wrong Women. Here's Why.

    JAN 7

    You Keep Attracting the Wrong Women. Here's Why.

    If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why do I always end up with the “wrong” kind of women,” let me tell you the difficult truth I’ve fortunately learned: It’s not the women you attract that need fixing… The question is, what does that say about YOU? This is the episode I break down: * Why attraction is pattern recognition, not fate * How your internal chaos broadcasts emotional signals * Why men often attract women who reflect unresolved trauma * How your ego, fantasy, and fear distort your dating radar * The difference between being desired and being aligned * What kind of bait you are casting and what that bait pulls in This is not a blame game. Not every woman who hurt you was toxic. Some were responding to who you were unconsciously broadcasting. If you want to attract better, it starts with calibrating your own internal GPS. You don’t need better women. You need a better YOU. Recommended Reading and Studies: * David Deida – The Way of the Superior Man * Joe Dispenza – Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself * Robert Greene – The Art of Seduction * Amir Levine – Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment * Pia Mellody – Facing Codependence * ISST – International Society of Schema Therapy (ISST-D.org) Want more? Visit: SeductionEd.com * Join the daily MindWorkIn ritual: MindWorkIn.com * DM me on Substack if you want to talk through this Let’s stop fishing with the wrong bait and broken hooks. You attract who you are. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit seductioned.substack.com

    13 min
  4. Your Truth Is Not Her Truth

    JAN 2

    Your Truth Is Not Her Truth

    This episode breaks open the illusion of shared reality. What happens when your version of the truth collides with hers? When your memory doesn’t match her story? When facts don’t matter because feelings already won? I explore how truth becomes personal, how memory becomes emotional law, and why trying to prove your side only makes things worse. We cover: • Why two people can live the same moment and remember it completely differently • How emotional truth becomes identity • Why people weaponize memory to justify their pain • What to do when she says, “That’s not how it happened” • How perspective warps reality — and how to take your power back • When defending yourself makes you lose • The danger of trying to win inside her movie Key quote: “Your truth is not her truth. And if you need her to agree with yours, you’ve already lost control of the story.” This is not about blame. It’s about power, perception, and emotional dominance. Listen if you’ve ever argued with someone who remembered everything differently — and made you feel like the villain in a story you didn’t even write. — Want more: https://SeductionEd.com Daily mental gym at https://MindWorkIn.com Or message me on Substack to go deeper. #seductioned #truth #memory #relationships #emotionalintelligence #gaslighting #selfawareness #mensgrowth #mindworkin #keureyes Thanks for reading SeductionEd! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit seductioned.substack.com

    42 min
  5. How I Lost Every Woman I Loved: What I Finally Realized

    12/29/2025

    How I Lost Every Woman I Loved: What I Finally Realized

    This episode is not about tactics. It is not about seduction techniques or psychological tricks. It is a reflection on a pattern I ignored for years and the cost of ignoring it. I talk openly about how I lost every woman I truly loved. Not because they were wrong, but because I was unclear. Unclear about what I wanted. Unclear about who I was becoming. Unclear about how relationships actually work when intention is missing. In this episode, I unpack: • The hidden pattern behind repeated relationship loss • Why drifting into relationships guarantees emotional failure • How most men choose partners out of fear, not alignment • The danger of not defining what you want before you fall in love • Why chemistry without direction leads to heartbreak • How compromising your identity slowly erodes attraction • The realization that clarity is more important than intensity This is not about blame. It is about responsibility. I am sharing this to reflect. Because reflection breaks patterns. And because many men are repeating the same cycles without ever stopping to look at them honestly. If you have ever loved deeply and lost painfully, this episode will hit close to home. And if you are willing to examine yourself instead of pointing outward, it might save you years. For more: • Visit SeductionEd.com • Join the MindWorkIn Mental Gym at MindWorkIn.com • Message me directly on Substack if you want to talk about what this stirred up Seduction is not just about attraction. It is about awareness. And awareness changes everything. Thank you for listening. Thanks for reading SeductionEd! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit seductioned.substack.com

    20 min
  6. 3 Seductive Communication Cues That Keep Any Conversation Interesting

    12/21/2025

    3 Seductive Communication Cues That Keep Any Conversation Interesting

    This episode breaks down the science and psychology of seductive communication. Not pickup tactics. Real conversational control. I’m not just talking about what to say. I’m talking about how to say it. When to pause. When to nod. And why the smallest signals create the deepest impact. We explore 3 powerful cues you can start using today: * The Triple Head Nod Why it matters, how to use it naturally, and when to stop before you look like a bobblehead. * The Power Pause Why waiting two to three seconds after she finishes talking creates emotional openness, perceived intelligence, and irresistible pull. * Debate Through Agreement How to flip conflict into connection by replacing “but” with “and” and using acknowledgment as seduction. These aren’t theories I read in a book. They’re habits earned from years of ruined conversations, missed moments, and awkward interactions. Now they’re installed. And you can install them too. We talk about how these techniques apply to both short-term seduction and long-term relationships. Because the same cues that attract women also build trust with anyone — friends, partners, even in business. Communication is emotional architecture. If you’re serious about improving your seductive communication, listen closely. Rewind this. Practice it. Want to go deeper? * Subscribe at SeductionEd.com * Join the MindWorkIn Mental Gym at MindWorkIn.com * Or message me directly on Substack chat This episode is part of a larger system. Seduction is emotional intelligence in motion. It’s not manipulation. It’s mastery. Thanks for listening. Let’s keep evolving. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit seductioned.substack.com

    8 min
  7. Seduction and the Human Code: Why Everything You Do Comes Down to Survival or Procreation

    12/20/2025

    Seduction and the Human Code: Why Everything You Do Comes Down to Survival or Procreation

    This episode is a deep dive into the real meaning of seduction, stripped from all the romantic fluff and pickup gimmicks. We are not talking about manipulation, charm, or fake tactics. This is biological software. I break down how every human action can be traced back to two primal forces: * Survival * Procreation From the clothes you wear to the posts you like, from your job choice to your love life, everything is either about staying alive or reproducing. You will learn: * The true definition of seduction from the Latin root seducere, meaning to lead apart * Why seduction is really about leadership and influence, not just romance * The three primal survival drivers: Hunger, Safety and Comfort, and Lust * Why lust is a biological function, not a weakness * How love evolved to support long-term mating and reproduction * How DNA malfunctions might be behind infertility, disease, or even suicidal tendencies * The real meaning behind rejection and why it is a biological mismatch, not a personal flaw * How modern mating signals show up in social media, cars, fitness, and fashion * Why contraception and child-free culture are distortions of the primal code This is not about psychology. It is about the deeper biological programs that shape our instincts, urges, and relationships. If you are looking for clarity, this is the lens that will bring it. Seduction is not manipulation. It is evolutionary strategy in motion. Want to go deeper? * Get the book Evolutionary Seduction on Amazon * Join the daily MindWorkIn mental gym at MindWorkIn.com * Subscribe for more content at SeductionEd.com * DM me directly on Substack if you have a question or want to challenge the theory This episode is part of the SeductionEd core curriculum. Thank you for listening. Share this with someone who needs to stop seeing behavior as random and start seeing it as code. Thanks for reading SeductionEd! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit seductioned.substack.com

    20 min
  8. Spiritual Seduction: Can Angels Help You Find Love?

    12/12/2025

    Spiritual Seduction: Can Angels Help You Find Love?

    In this episode of SeductionEd, I sit down with Eve Solara, an author, survivor, and spiritual guide whose work I discovered on Substack at a moment when her words landed exactly when I needed them. This is not a conversation about pick up tactics or surface level attraction. It is a deep exploration of magnetism, alignment, intuition, and the unseen forces that shape how we connect with others. Eve shares her story of survival through domestic violence, homelessness, and a life threatening medical crisis that forced her to stop living in two separate worlds. One spiritual. One practical. What followed was a decision to live fully and honestly in her truth, including openly discussing her connection to angels and the guidance she receives. We talk about what it means to trust intuition without losing discernment. How free will interacts with spiritual guidance. Why attraction and seduction are inseparable from purpose and alignment. And how magnetism is not something you perform, but something that emerges when you stop betraying yourself. We also explore difficult questions. Can spiritual guidance be misused. Why asking better questions matters more than chasing outcomes. How past trauma shapes the persona we lead with. And why seduction, at its core, is about connection rather than conquest. This episode is for anyone who feels like they are searching. Searching for clarity. For meaning. For direction. For a way to connect without losing themselves. This is SeductionEd at its most open ended. A conversation at the intersection of spirituality, psychology, and human connection. You can subscribe to Eve’s Substack here: And you can get Eve’s book here: Manifesting With Angels If someone should check out this episode, please share. Thanks for reading SeductionEd! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit seductioned.substack.com

    56 min
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