In this episode, host Zaakirah Nayyar Muhammad talks about the intersections of grief, love, and self-reflection. Drawing from her perspective as a cancer survivor, world traveler, and death doula, Zaakirah reflects on how loss reshapes our understanding of faith, identity, and legacy. Prompted by the collective loss of Abdul Latif Ayodele and Sina Ghami—friends and teammates of Anthony Joshua—Zaakirah revisits her own upbringing as an African American Muslimah. She discusses the complexities of living between cultures and expectations, and the early lessons learned from navigating diverse worlds. This is a conversation about recalibration: the way slowing down and releasing pressure can realign us with our inner truth. Zaakirah speaks on the love that transcends dimensions, the sharpening of intuition after tragedy, and the experience of grief as "love left unsaid." Whether you are navigating any kind of loss, survivor's guilt, or seeking to honor a lost loved one, this episode offers a look at healing and resilience. If you have ever felt pulled back or slowed down by the weight of loss, this episode is for you on finding purpose, witnessing faith, and embracing intentional living again. Connect with Zaakirah https://www.zaakirahnayyar.com Introduction song by Northern Lights 00:44 – Grief rearranges us and leaves us in unfamiliar territory, questioning reality after loss. 01:06 – Reflecting on Anthony Joshua's recent losses and the episode's focus on grief, love, and clarity. 01:36 – Survivor's guilt after losing a childhood friend to cancer. 01:57 – A personal story about losing friend Jackie and the impact it had. 02:26 – Coping with grief and survivor's guilt and the significance of music in healing. 02:49 – Music as a soundtrack for reflection and growth, and its influence on her advocacy. 03:12 – Experiencing the deaths of more childhood friends and becoming known for staying calm in the face of grief. 03:35 – The impact of celebrity deaths and the commonality of grief in family and community. 04:36 – How life's pace doesn't slow down for grief and the realization that grief recalibrates us. 05:01 – Comparing grief to a chiropractor's alignment—adjusting what's been carrying too much weight. 05:24 – Doing fewer things with more intention and redefining peace and joy. 05:37 – Using metaphors like a slingshot and a boomerang to describe the process of gathering strength before moving forward. 06:20 – Learning to trust intuition and practicing interdimensional love after loss. 06:44 – How being a Muslim woman shapes understanding of love and letting go. 07:07 – Legacy is about how we show up and treat others, not just material things. 07:32 – How faith, upbringing, and living between cultures prepared for understanding love and loss. 08:02 – Learning to advocate for self and the challenges of feeling different in various communities. 08:26 – Returning to faith on own terms, similar to returning to oneself after grief. 08:48 – Hijab as more than fabric—representing modesty, humility, and alignment. 09:13 – Grief is love left unsaid, and learning to live with it is a lifelong process. 09:33 – calling to become a death doula and experiences with loss and family stories. 09:55 – Embracing storytelling, legacy and calling as a death doula. 10:17 – "the hereafter," and life's purpose. 10:43 – Reflect on how grief and love have shaped their lives and legacy. 10:51 – Closing & Call to Action Thanking listeners and inviting them to connect, leave reviews, and visit website
