Separate Together

One Family Law
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Separate Together is a podcast about all things divorce. We break down the big legal stuff, the small but crucial details, and everything in between.We're here to show you that divorce doesn't have to mean war because when you choose to Separate Together, you can rewrite the story of divorce.

Episodes

  1. SAHM Gets Blindsided by Divorce

    1D AGO

    SAHM Gets Blindsided by Divorce

    This week Melissa and Cody discuss a creator on TikTok who has gone viral for making videos about how she was blindsided by her divorce after being a stay-at-home mom for the last decade.   They get into the nuances of spousal support and how it is supposed to function in a divorce or separation.    Melissa also highlights the importance of interdependence not codependence in a healthy relationship.

    37 min
  2. When Lovely People Separate

    JAN 19

    When Lovely People Separate

    Sometimes people are just better off as friends. Melissa and Cody share their experience with divorcing best friends and what that relationship looks like on the other side of separation. They also talk about letting go of the guilt around separating from someone when things are mostly 'fine'.

    34 min
  3. What Motivates Us

    JAN 5

    What Motivates Us

    In this episode of Separate Together Melissa and Cody discuss how they came to be friends and what motivates them to pave the way for a friendlier style of divorce. Melissa shares how her own divorce informed her view that a better way to separate is possible, and Cody dicusses how receiving a disability diagnosis for one of her children motivates her to guide families through times of acute stress and transition.

    37 min
  4. AIPs

    12/22/2025

    AIPs

    In this episode of Separate Together, Melissa and Cody explore the complexities of legal relationships within family law. They discuss the concept of interdependence, the legal implications of merging lives, and the importance of being mindful of the perils and benefits of relationships. The conversation also touches on the impact of parenthood on relationships and the need for conscious relating in modern society. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, they emphasize the significance of understanding the legal framework surrounding family dynamics and the consequences of separation.

    35 min
  5. Social Change & Divorce

    12/08/2025

    Social Change & Divorce

    This episode of Separate Together explores the evolution of family law and the changing dynamics of divorce and separation over the past decade. The conversation delves into the perspectives of clients, particularly focusing on the shifting concerns of women and men in divorce proceedings, the emotional toll of litigation, and the emergence of modern family structures. Melissa and Cody how societal changes have influenced client empowerment and self-advocacy, as well as the complexities of navigating identity within family law.

    40 min
  6. Myths and Madness

    11/24/2025

    Myths and Madness

    In this episode of Separate Together, hosts Melissa Bourgeois and Cody Dub explore the intricacies of legal separation and divorce. They discuss the process of formalizing separation agreements, the role of affidavits, and the importance of child support and parenting orders. The conversation also contrasts the streamlined joint divorce process with the complexities of litigation, highlighting the emotional toll and challenges faced by individuals navigating the court system, especially those who choose to self-represent.

    39 min
  7. Do You Need a Family Lawyer?

    11/10/2025

    Do You Need a Family Lawyer?

    Understanding if and when you need a lawyer can significantly impact the separation process. Melissa Bourgeois and Cody Dub delve into various scenarios, providing valuable insights that can help individuals make informed decisions.

    41 min
  8. The Divorce Spectrum

    10/27/2025

    The Divorce Spectrum

    In this episode of Separate Together, hosts Melissa Bourgeois and Cody Dub delve into the challenges faced by clients in family law, particularly their lack of awareness regarding necessary decisions. It highlights the importance of structured parenting plans and the resources provided by One Family Law to assist clients in navigating these complexities.

    1h 5m
  9. Our 7 Steps

    10/13/2025

    Our 7 Steps

    In this episode of Separate Together, hosts Melissa Bourgeois and Cody Dub explore the intricacies of legal separation and the unique approach they take at One Family Law.

    31 min
  10. What is Amicable?

    09/29/2025

    What is Amicable?

    In this episode of Separate Together, hosts Melissa Bourgeois and Cody Dub explore the concept of amicability in the context of family law and divorce. They discuss the importance of goodwill, emotional navigation, and the role of shared interests in creating a collaborative separation process. The conversation emphasizes the need for a mindset shift from adversarial to cooperative, highlighting the legal framework's role in empowering clients to make informed decisions. The hosts also address the emotional spectrum involved in divorce, the significance of communication, and the necessity of creating a neutral space for grieving. Ultimately, they advocate for a more compassionate and understanding approach to separation, encouraging listeners to view divorce as an opportunity for growth rather than a purely negative experience.

    54 min
  11. What is One Family Law

    09/15/2025

    What is One Family Law

    In this inaugural episode of the Separate Together podcast, hosts Melissa Bourgeois and her Cody Dub delve into the innovative approach to family law that emphasizes amicable separations. They discuss the One Lawyer Divorce Method, which allows couples to share a single family lawyer, fostering collaboration and reducing conflict during the separation process. The conversation highlights the evolution of family law practices, the importance of addressing emotional and relational aspects of divorce, and the impact of the pandemic on legal practices. The hosts also share their journey in advocating for legal reform and empowering clients through knowledge and support.

    49 min

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    Separate Together is a podcast about all things divorce. We break down the big legal stuff, the small but crucial details, and everything in between. We're here to show you that divorce doesn't have to mean war because when you choose to Separate Together, you can rewrite the story of divorce.

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Separate Together is a podcast about all things divorce. We break down the big legal stuff, the small but crucial details, and everything in between.We're here to show you that divorce doesn't have to mean war because when you choose to Separate Together, you can rewrite the story of divorce.

Information

  • Creator
    One Family Law
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    12
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025
  • Show Website
    Separate Together