Settled

Jason & Elizabeth Settle

You’re trying hard to do all the right things, but deep down you’re still exhausted, disconnected, and wondering if closeness with God is always going to feel just out of reach. In each episode, Jason & Elizabeth have raw, story-driven conversations to help you rest in the reconciled person you already are in Christ. We’ll include space to slow down, listen, and encounter God right where you are. Are you ready to stop striving, start hearing God in the moment, and occupy your true self? This show is for anyone craving freedom, wholeness, and a settled identity.

  1. há 2 dias

    Jetpack of Support - Overcoming Insecurities in Marriage | Marriage

    Today, we dive deep into the intricate dance of struggle and support within marriage, uncovering how these dynamics have shaped our 26-year journey together. We share candidly about our own struggles, particularly in the early years of our marriage, where insecurities and the pressure of expectations led to friction rather than unity. Through personal stories and revelations, we explore how God intervened, helping us transform from being obstacles in each other's paths to becoming sources of support and encouragement. Our conversation highlights not just the challenges we faced but also the pivotal moments that led to significant shifts in our relationship, including a powerful dream that pointed out the difference between being a boulder and a jetpack in each other’s lives. Join us as we reflect on the importance of prayer, self-awareness, and the commitment to nurturing a partnership that lifts each other to new heights. Resources: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026 For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Settled Design Course Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: Marriage is a journey of struggle and support, requiring both partners to grow together.Experiencing insecurities can reveal hidden issues that emerge in the context of marriage.We often mirror each other's strengths and weaknesses, highlighting areas for personal growth.Prayer and communication are vital in navigating the complexities of a marital relationship. Mentioned in this episode: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below. Supporting Us Through This Journey As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason. Donate

  2. 17 de ago.

    Quarterback Yourself - Impact and Intent in Communication | Marriage

    We're diving deep into the essential topic of fighting for connection in marriage. This week, we’re unpacking how prioritizing connection can transform our relationships, especially when it comes to our kids. We both recognize that fighting for connection might sound a bit aggressive, but honestly, it’s about leaning into conversations that matter, even when it’s tough. We’ll share some personal stories, including how our daughter has helped us improve our communication game—because let’s face it, sometimes we need a little nudge to connect better. Ultimately, we’re all about moving away from the land of right and wrong, and instead, focusing on union and relationships that foster true understanding and love. Join us as we explore practical tools and insights that can help us all connect more effectively! Resources: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026 For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Settled Design Course Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: Effective communication in marriage requires prioritizing connection over being right or validated.It's essential to gauge where your partner is emotionally before initiating important conversations.Building small, practical shifts in daily interactions can significantly enhance relational connection.Establishing designated times for family discussions helps ensure everyone is engaged and present in the conversation. Mentioned in this episode: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

  3. 10 de ago.

    Puddles of Silence - The Unspoken Aspects of Relationship Dynamics | Marriage

    Today, we dive into the core of what can make or break a marriage: communication. We unpack the significance of understanding both the overt and covert messages exchanged in every relationship, shedding light on how vital clarity is in our conversations. Throughout our discussion, we emphasize that communication isn't just about the words we say; it's about the feelings that linger beneath them. We share our own experiences and insights on how to navigate these complex layers, including the importance of asking curious questions to clarify intentions. Join us as we explore this crucial aspect of marriage and how fighting for clarity can lead to deeper connections and understanding between partners. Resources: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026 For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Settled Design Course Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: Communication is the cornerstone of a successful marriage, requiring conscious effort and understanding.We often communicate not just through words but also with our tone and body language, revealing deeper meanings.Fighting for clarity in conversations is essential; it helps partners align on feelings and intentions.Taking time to pause and reflect on emotions after conversations can prevent misunderstandings and promote healthier dialogue.Using 'I feel' statements can help clarify emotions and foster more productive discussions between partners.Marriage is a continuous journey of growth, where both partners must be willing to engage in honest communication. Mentioned in this episode: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

  4. 3 de ago.

    Stop Being Right - Choosing Relationship Over Rightness | Marriage

    Today, we're diving deep into the transformative idea of shifting our perspective in marriage from a right-and-wrong paradigm to one focused on relationship and union. This episode is all about how this change can lead to healthier, more fulfilling connections with our partners. We share personal stories and insights on how the constant battle of who's right can create distance and competition in a relationship, ultimately leading to feelings of isolation. Instead, we emphasize the importance of valuing connection over competition, encouraging listeners to see their partners as friends rather than rivals. Join us as we explore how embracing this paradigm shift can enrich our marriages and bring us closer to the true essence of partnership. Resources: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026 For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Settled Design Course Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: We discussed the crucial paradigm shift in marriage from a right-wrong mentality to one focused on relationship and union.The importance of prioritizing connection over competition in a marriage cannot be overstated; it truly transforms how partners relate to each other.When we focus on who's right or wrong, we inevitably create distance and isolation in our relationships, which ultimately leads to disconnection.A key takeaway is that our identity in marriage should not be tied to performance metrics but rather to the richness of our mutual friendship and connection.Shifting our perspective on marriage requires a commitment to see our partners as friends, fostering a bond that thrives on mutual respect and understanding.The essence of a healthy marriage is found in valuing life and connection over performance, as this leads to a more fulfilling and vibrant relationship. Mentioned in this episode: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

  5. 27 de jul.

    Metabolizing Marriage - Forgiveness and Grief | Marriage

    Forgiveness and grief are essential components of a thriving marriage, and this episode dives into why they often go hand in hand. We unpack how both concepts serve as a process of metabolizing our pain, much like our bodies process food. Jason and I share our insights from 26 years of marriage, emphasizing that whether we grieve first or forgive first, the important thing is to recognize they are two sides of the same coin. We also explore the idea that emotional constipation can occur when we fail to process our feelings, leading to resentment and distance in our relationships. By understanding and practicing forgiveness and grief, we can clear the air, allowing our marriages to flourish and grow in healthy ways. Resources: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026 For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Settled Design Course Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: Forgiveness and grief are interconnected processes that require time and emotional regulation.In marriage, it's essential to process disappointments through grief and forgiveness to avoid resentment.We create emotional attachments to distorted versions of our spouses, making forgiveness crucial for clarity.Engaging in honest lamenting and grieving can help clear emotional 'constipation' and lead to healthier relationships. Mentioned in this episode: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below. Supporting Us Through This Journey As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason. Donate

  6. 20 de jul.

    Colors of Unity - Embracing Distinction in Marriage | Marriage

    Today, we’re diving deep into the concept of “unity with distinction” in marriage and how it reflects the nature of God. It’s not just about being one; it's about being beautifully distinct while still coming together as a cohesive unit. We explore how the Trinity serves as a powerful model for understanding this dynamic: each person of the Godhead is unique yet unified, which provides a profound framework for our relationships. We discuss the importance of recognizing and articulating our individual needs and preferences in marriage, as failing to do so can lead to enmeshment and loss of identity. Join us as we navigate the colorful metaphor of blending two distinct colors to create something new—because in a healthy marriage, it’s all about bringing our true selves to the table while celebrating the unity that comes from our distinctiveness. Resources: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026 For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Settled Design Course Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: In marriage, achieving unity with distinction is crucial; it reflects the Trinity's nature.We must recognize and communicate our individual needs and preferences for a healthy marriage.Unity in marriage does not mean losing our individuality; it enhances our partnership and growth.Creating a safe space in a relationship allows both partners to express their true selves without fear. Mentioned in this episode: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

  7. 13 de jul.

    Hippie Granola Meets Pentecostal - Finding Yourself in Marriage | Marriage

    We're diving into the complexities of marriage and how it reflects our relationship with Christ. As we share our own journey of 26 years together, we explore the idea that marriage isn't about losing ourselves in our partner but discovering our true selves through the relationship. We discuss how our experiences, both joyful and challenging, can lead us to a deeper understanding of ourselves and our spouse, allowing us to grow together rather than lose our individual identities. Whether you're married or single, the principles we discuss are relevant to any relationship, emphasizing the importance of knowing God in the midst of our connections with others. Join us as we navigate the rewarding and sometimes rocky path of finding ourselves within the sacred union of marriage. Resources: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026 For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Settled Design Course Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: In our marriage series, we emphasize the importance of finding your true self in Christ while navigating relationships with others.We believe that marriage should reflect the relationship between Christ and the church, fostering individuality rather than enmeshment.I've learned that in marriage, we can mirror each other, helping our partners discover their true selves while also confronting our flaws.It's crucial to understand that finding yourself in marriage doesn't mean losing your identity, but rather enriching it through your partner's influence. Mentioned in this episode: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below. Supporting Us Through This Journey As many of you know, Jason was recently diagnosed with stage four stomach cancer. If you'd like to support him and this podcast financially, you can donate using this link. All gifts are tax-deductible. Learn more at settledco.com/jason. Donate

  8. 6 de jul.

    All Means All - Reframing Judgment in Scripture | Misunderstood Scriptures

    Today, we're diving deep into the often misunderstood topic of judgment, as we wrap up our series on scriptures that tend to get a bad rap. We’re riffing off John 12:31-32, where Jesus reveals the transformative power of his sacrifice—an act that draws all of humanity to him, not just a select few. It’s crucial to recognize that when we add words like "peoples" for clarity, we might unintentionally diminish the profound truth of Jesus’ statement; all means all, and that’s a big deal! We’ll explore how this understanding impacts our lives, especially when we grapple with feelings of guilt and inadequacy. Ultimately, it’s about embracing the fullness of Christ’s work, which invites us to relax and rest in our reconciled identities, free from the burden of striving. Resources: Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28, 2026 For Updates on Jason's Journey: settledco.com/jason Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Settled Design Course Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: In this episode, we discussed how adding words to scripture, like 'peoples', can actually diminish the original meaning of Jesus's powerful message.We explored the idea that Jesus's judgment encompasses all, challenging the notion that we need to do anything to earn our place in his reconciliation.The symbolism of the bronze serpent in the Old Testament highlights how Jesus takes on all judgment and sin, inviting us to look upon him for healing.Understanding that belief in Christ is a gift allows us to experience the fullness of his work without feeling we need to add anything to it. Mentioned in this episode: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Settled Conference - Aug. 27-28 | Grapevine, TX Feeling weary from carrying the weight of caring for others? The Settled Conference is two intentional days to slow down, hear God's voice, experience healing, and return to the settled identity that's always been yours. Reserve your seat now using the link below.

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You’re trying hard to do all the right things, but deep down you’re still exhausted, disconnected, and wondering if closeness with God is always going to feel just out of reach. In each episode, Jason & Elizabeth have raw, story-driven conversations to help you rest in the reconciled person you already are in Christ. We’ll include space to slow down, listen, and encounter God right where you are. Are you ready to stop striving, start hearing God in the moment, and occupy your true self? This show is for anyone craving freedom, wholeness, and a settled identity.

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