92 episodes

Mother-daughter duo Christine (PhD, Psychology) and Shannon Curley (MA, Communications) discuss all the things that sex ed (and your parents) never told you. We will debunk myths about sex by discussing sex education for life, affirmative consent, sex positivity, gender roles, sexual communication, hookup culture, and what all those letters in the LGBTQIAA spectrum really stand for. Featured in:AASECT – https://www.aasect.org/podcast-awardRhode Island Monthly – https://www.rimonthly.com/sex-ed-debunked/Rhode Island College News – https://www.ric.edu/news-events/news/ric-alumna-and-daughter-team-debunk-common-sex-ed-myths Feedspot: https://podcasts.feedspot.com/sex_education_podcasts/Redmond Collective Action – https://redmondcollectiveaction.org/2022/06/05/suburban-woman-podcast-lets-talk-about-sex-ed/

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    • Education
    • 4.7 • 15 Ratings

Mother-daughter duo Christine (PhD, Psychology) and Shannon Curley (MA, Communications) discuss all the things that sex ed (and your parents) never told you. We will debunk myths about sex by discussing sex education for life, affirmative consent, sex positivity, gender roles, sexual communication, hookup culture, and what all those letters in the LGBTQIAA spectrum really stand for. Featured in:AASECT – https://www.aasect.org/podcast-awardRhode Island Monthly – https://www.rimonthly.com/sex-ed-debunked/Rhode Island College News – https://www.ric.edu/news-events/news/ric-alumna-and-daughter-team-debunk-common-sex-ed-myths Feedspot: https://podcasts.feedspot.com/sex_education_podcasts/Redmond Collective Action – https://redmondcollectiveaction.org/2022/06/05/suburban-woman-podcast-lets-talk-about-sex-ed/

    Sex Ed Debunked: Breaking Norms and Taking Sabbatical

    Sex Ed Debunked: Breaking Norms and Taking Sabbatical

    As we hit the pause button on Sex Ed Debunked, a wave of nostalgia washes over us—Shannon's about to tie the knot, and Christine is diving headfirst into academia. It's been an epic journey of myth-shattering and sexual empowerment, from an AASECT award to a whopping 20,000 downloads, and we couldn't be more grateful. Celebrate with us one last time before our sabbatical as we crush the myth of "normal" sexuality and champion the spectrum of positive sexual experiences. It's not a farewell, but a promise to return with even more eye-opening conversations.

    Throughout our series, we've ignited discussions on everything from sexual response to polyamory, sparking shifts in societal norms and challenging stereotypes. Dorothy Colvon and Dr. Cailey graced us with their insights, reminding us of the power in conversations that push boundaries and redefine expectations. We've become a springboard for dialogue that doesn't shy away from any topic—because when it comes to sexuality, every voice matters. As we step back to celebrate personal milestones, carry forward the spirit of our discussions and keep the dialogue alive in your own circles.

    We owe a universe of thanks to our extraordinary volunteers—Meghan, Bella, Shaina, and Ezra—whose contributions have been critical to our success. Their dedication and the enlightening energy of our guests have allowed us to foster an inclusive approach to sex education that honors the evolving nature of sexuality and gender identities. So, while we take a break to recharge and focus on personal endeavors, remember that the journey of discovery and growth continues. Keep exploring, challenging norms, and breaking down barriers. We'll be back before you know it, ready to debunk more myths and share more wisdom. Keep the spirit of 'Sex Ed Debunked' thriving!


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    • 30 min
    Myth #63: Attachment Styles End in Childhood

    Myth #63: Attachment Styles End in Childhood

    Imagine if your childhood attachment styles were echoing in your adult relationships - intriguing thought, isn't it? Join us, Christine and Shannon Curley, as we demystify the world of attachment styles and reveal how they're not just confined to your early years. We're cracking open the research, and we promise you'll understand why Gen Z seems to be gravitating towards insecure attachment styles and why it's a trend worth noting.

    We're going to navigate the terrain of four primary attachment styles - secure, anxious, avoidant dismissive, and avoidant fearful. We'll show you how these styles are formed during the early years and how they intricately weave into your adult relationships. Equipped with this knowledge, we bet you'll encounter some aha moments regarding your relationship patterns. And if you're curious about what an "insecure attachment style" means, we've got you covered. We also dissect the avoidant fearful style, highlighting the paradox of craving a relationship while being scared of getting hurt.

    Ever thought about the impact of your attachment style on your behaviors and communication? We’re throwing light on that too! We stand by the importance of humility and adaptability in communication and believe firmly that it's possible to rise above your attachment style. As we prepare for the holiday season, remember to embrace grace and lean on your secure networks. And yes, we're also debunking myths surrounding sex and sexuality and stressing the necessity of inclusivity in our understanding. So let's challenge conventional wisdom, expand our horizons, and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This is going to be a journey of self-discovery you wouldn't want to miss!
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    • 37 min
    Study Session #23: What's Trending in Sex Research?

    Study Session #23: What's Trending in Sex Research?

    We're rolling up our sleeves and taking a deep-dive into the turbulent world of sex education in today's episode. With insights right from the frontline of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality conference, we're tackling the shocking rise in rough sex, heavily influenced by internet pornography and social media. We share some staggering statistics and discuss these distressing trends with our esteemed guest, researcher Dr. Renee Rena Evans Paulson. She highlights the pivotal role of critical media literacy as a safeguard, stressing the need for open dialogues with young individuals about their digital consumption.

    Switching gears, we shift focus to the importance of comprehensive sex education and its much-needed societal adoption. Remember GPT-3? We're exploring its potential footprint in sex education, celebrating some successful initiatives like Rhode Island's Department of Health's comprehensive sex ed app, and dissecting a study that reveals the overestimation of sexual health knowledge among college students. Our key takeaway? Comprehensive sex education is not just an option; it's a necessity to bridge the knowledge gap and promote safer sexual behaviors. Join us as we champion the power of research evidence and its crucial role in advocating for comprehensive sex education to policymakers. Tune in, get informed, and help us rewrite the narrative.
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    • 26 min
    Myth #62: Purity Culture Isn't Damaging

    Myth #62: Purity Culture Isn't Damaging

    Do you know the extent to which purity culture and abstinence-only education can infiltrate your life? We've got a promise for you: by the end of this episode, you'll have a deeper understanding of this complex and controversial topic. We're joined by special guests Jeremiah Gibson and Julia Pastema, hosts of the podcast and educational platform, Sexvangelicals. Together, we dissect and discuss the defining features of purity culture, strict gender norms, and the harmful impacts these ideologies have on relationships and sexuality.

    On our journey into purity culture, we also highlight its paradoxical effects. From the double bind faced by men taught to control their impulses while being encouraged to pursue sexual relationships, to the heightened risks and lack of sexual communication, we confront the harsh realities of this belief system. We reference the insightful book "Real Sex" by Lauren Winner, posing provocative questions about the so-called "slippery slope" of sexual activity.

    Wrapping up our discussion, we delve into the personal experiences of Jeremiah and Julia. They share their transformative journey from music ministry and therapy to becoming sex therapists, and how their beliefs in evangelical Christianity were challenged. They reveal a new understanding of consent, and we extend our support to those affected by purity culture. Join us as we emphasize the importance of comprehensive, inclusive education around relationships and sexuality. Listen in as we shed light on the broader impacts of purity culture, and how we as a society can move forward.
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    • 44 min
    Study Session #22: Transgender Saints

    Study Session #22: Transgender Saints

    Ever wondered how the medieval Church navigated gender diversity within its fold? Prepare yourself for an enlightening journey through the less-trodden paths of Church history, featuring tales of transgender saints and the societal repercussions of modern anti-trans legislation.

    In this exceptional episode, we are privileged to host Professor Maeve Doyle, a seasoned scholar with profound insights into the medieval history of gender. Together, we uncover compelling stories of women who donned the masculinity cloak to join the Church, and saints depicted with intentional gender fluidity in religious artwork. From the intriguing story of St. Eugenia, celebrated on Christmas day, to the gender-fluid portrayal of Saint Athanasia and Christ's transcendence of the gender binary, we challenge and broaden your understanding of gender in the Church. As we delve into these historical narratives, we also emphasize the contemporary, highlighting recent research on the detrimental mental health effects of anti-trans laws and the crucial role of activism in safeguarding transgender youth. Join us, as we weave together past and present, history and activism, community and individual identity in this enlightening exploration of gender diversity in the Church.
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    • 24 min
    Myth #61: Is Marriage Easy? Hard?

    Myth #61: Is Marriage Easy? Hard?

    Picture this: You just said "I do" and you're staring at the love of your life. Now what? We'll walk you through it in this episode of Sex Ed Debunked. To celebrate our sound engineer, Ezra's, wedding, we've compiled a heap of insights, research, and personal anecdotes on what it takes to build and maintain a successful marriage. We're talking about everything from being your partner's best friend to the power of routine communication, and the importance of understanding and responding to each other's feelings. 

    Have you ever wondered how some couples keep the spark alive? How do they navigate through the challenges and come out stronger on the other side? We're unmasking the secrets to making your relationship not just survive, but thrive. In this episode, we're breaking down the art of positive communication, the essence of overcoming the "honeymoon phase," and the tact of choosing your battles wisely. We'll also discuss the impact of negative comments and projection, and reveal ways to sprinkle positive feedback into your everyday conversations. 

    But there's more. We venture further into the love labyrinth, guiding you on how to cultivate a relationship pulsating with appreciation and gratitude. Discover why it's crucial to express gratitude to your partner regularly, why hobbies outside your relationship are essential for self-expansion, and the magic of shared adventures. We wrap things up with the role of open communication in understanding your partner's needs and the magic ingredients for maintaining a romantic and sexual connection in your relationship. So grab your headphones and tune in for an enlightening journey into the world of successful relationships.
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    • 36 min

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15 Ratings

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Even for topics that don’t necessarily interest me or that I can’t personally relate to, I always learn something new. Really helpful perspective and research presented is what keeps me coming back to listen to more episodes.

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Great stuff! Broadening the definition of “sexual satisfaction”.

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