Share the Load

Mia Schachter

Share the Load explores all things consent, including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, and a writer and educator in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com

  1. 12/29/2025

    Kai Cheng Thom on What Consent Is Not

    Kai Cheng Thom is a writer, performance artist, and community healer in Toronto. She is the author of the novel Fierce Femmes and Notorious Liars: A Dangerous Trans Girl's Confabulous Memoir Metonymy Press), the essay collection I Hope We Choose Love: A Trans Girl's Notes at the End of the World(an American Library Association Stonewall Honor Book), the poetry collection a place called No Homeland (an American Library Association Stonewall Honor Book in 2018), and the children's picture books From the Stars in the Sky to the Fish in the Sea, illustrated by Kai Yun Ching and Wai-Yant Li, and For Laika, the Dog Who Learned the Names of the Stars, illustrated by Kai Yun Ching. Kai Cheng won the Writers' Trust of Canada's Dayne Ogilvie Prize for LGBTQ Emerging Writers in 2017. Subscribe on Substack for more in depth writing and for my book, Unsolicited Advice: The Canceled Memoir of a Consent Educator. Check out upcoming classes, recorded classes, workbooks, and merch from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! New podcast: You’re Doing It Wrong with Mia and Risdon Roberts on consent 2.0. Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff. Advertise on the pod. Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.

  2. 08/29/2025

    jo + bahar on Kink, BDSM, and Creativity

    bahar (they/them) is an Iranian, queer, trans, non-binary Intimacy Coordinator + bike mechanic based in NYC. Their background in theater and acting often explored themes of gender and sexuality, paving the way to their role as a Sex Educator & Consultant. They are passionate about biking, karaoke, and tinned fish. bahar is on IG @baharloo.intimacy and jo Valdés is always doing the most, to say the least. They’re a queer, nonbinary, Afrolatinx writer, sexpert, intimacy coordinator, cultural worker, foodie, barista and sometimes DJ. They have an absolute obsession with kink, BDSM, leather, etcetera. They’ve recently been published in Condé Nast’s Them and Our Time Press. Right now, they are working on a pilot about the queer underground in NYC as well as a nerdy book about kink and neuroplasticity. jo is currently based in Flatbush, Brooklyn. They were born and bred in the Boogie Down Bronx so they rep the Yankees really hard even though they don’t know shit about baseball. They can be found at letstalkaboutsexbaby.com and on IG @tell_you_what. Subscribe on Substack for more in depth writing and for my book, Unsolicited Advice: The Canceled Memoir of a Consent Educator. Check out upcoming classes, recorded classes, workbooks, and merch from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! New podcast: You’re Doing It Wrong with Mia and Risdon Roberts on consent 2.0. Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff. Advertise on the pod. Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.

  3. 10/23/2024

    Special Episode: Virginia Woolf: Who is she writing for? (Or, for whom is she writing?)

    Subscribe on Substack for more in depth writing and for my book, Unsolicited Advice: The Canceled Memoir of a Consent Educator. Check out upcoming classes, recorded classes, workbooks, and merch from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! New podcast: You’re Doing It Wrong with Mia and Risdon Roberts on consent 2.0. Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff. Advertise on the pod.  Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com.

  4. 10/04/2024

    Brooks on Grief and OCD

    Brooks Herr (they/them) is a practitioner & educator of emotional-spiritual care work. You can find them on Instagram @veils.veils.veils. You can register for their class here. Starts 10/22. Subscribe on Substack for more in depth writing and for my book, Unsolicited Advice: The Canceled Memoir of a Consent Educator. Check out upcoming classes, recorded classes, workbooks, and merch from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! New podcast: You’re Doing It Wrong with Mia and Risdon Roberts on consent 2.0. Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff. Advertise on the pod.  Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com. Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt

  5. 05/03/2024

    Charlie James on Just Doing Stuff

    Charlie James is a comedian and writer living in Los Angeles. Best known for his TikToks (@nonbinarycowboy), he's made videos for Funny Or Die and written humor pieces for Slackjaw and Points in Case. His day job is tweeting from the perspective of a 67 million-year-old fossil. His night job is saying what he thinks into a microphone. His work is popular with gay daughters and their exotic pets. Subscribe on Substack for more in depth writing. Check out upcoming classes, recorded classes, workbooks, and merch from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! New podcast: You’re Doing It Wrong with Mia and Risdon Roberts on consent 2.0. Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff. Advertise on the pod.  Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com. Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt

  6. 04/23/2024

    Rabbi Aaron Leven on having a calling and the symbolic exemplar

    Aaron Leven is the associate rabbi at Nefesh, an open-hearted spiritual community serving the east side neighborhoods of Los Angeles. Ordained at the Jewish Theological Seminary in May of 2023, he is a native Angeleno who is thrilled to be back home where he is in walking distance to both Nefesh, as well as to Dodger Stadium.  Check out upcoming classes, recorded classes, workbooks, and merch from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff. Advertise on the pod.  Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com. Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt

  7. 03/27/2024

    Unblocked: Sam Sundius on Undiscipline

    Sam Sundius is a visual artist, writer, translator, opinion-haver, advocate, drinks specialist, sourdough starter starver, and person with too many houseplants. A Sam of many hats, to be sure. Through their practice Art of Undiscipline, they coach on money, success, grief, disability, neurodivergence, abolition, family, and---through it all---fostering a resilient af creative practice. You can find their artwork at samsundius.com and the home of their coaching practice at artofundiscipline.com. They currently live in New York with their cat and spouse. (Two separate mammals, tbc. Not a cat that they're married to, but a cat and, separately, a human they're married to. It's weird to make me explain all this.) Find Sam's artwork at samsundius.com and their coaching practice Art of Undiscipline at artofundiscipline.com Check out upcoming classes, recorded classes, workbooks, and merch from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff. Advertise on the pod.  Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com. Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt

  8. 03/08/2024

    Unblocked: Kiana Elkins on Conflict and Loving Practice

    Kiana Gabrielle (she/they) is a Black queer feminist scholar and community steward helping people change their relationship to conflict. Drawing on their background in youth mentoring, community organizing, and leadership development, Kiana facilitates a peer learning community and publishes writing about cultivating connection and belonging in communities. Their work is a collaboration between Spirit, community, and self, guided by deep introspection and a desire to create a more connected and compassionate world. Check out upcoming classes, recorded classes, workbooks, and merch from Consent Wizardry. We have cool hats!! Goodies for you that offer Share the Load a little kickback: You can support CW and get yourself some luxurious self-care stuff from Foria. I love their CBD suppositories (for both front and back!) and their hand salve. I’ve partnered with Lust Cinema to be able to offer you all 20% off their three platforms. Films based on anonymous submissions of real life experiences and fantasies. Plot driven feature lengths. Soft stuff. Advertise on the pod.  Share the Load explores all things consent including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, a consent educator, writer, and artist in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com Ways to work with me: 1:1 private sessions Group classes and long-form programs Train with me to be a Consent Educator  Hire me to Intimacy Coordinate on your project Consulting for you or your company/organization or script I offer customized workshops and speeches  You can book me through sean@collectivespeakers.com. Music by Amelie Rousseaux @sofiabolt

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Share the Load explores all things consent, including and beyond sex. I'm your host, Mia Schachter. I'm an intimacy coordinator for film, television, and theater, and a writer and educator in Los Angeles. You can find me on IG @consent.wizardry and you can reach me at podcast@sharetheloadinc.com with listener questions for future episodes. www.consentwizardry.com

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