Sharing is Caring

Kiwi and Cherie

Welcome to Sharing is Caring the podcast! We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. Join us on our adventure as we open our relationship and lives to explore the swinging lifestyle, sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. In this podcast we talk openly about our experiences, what we have learnt, and what we are still learning.

Episodes

  1. 05/06/2020

    Swinging From Home

    What can you do to keep up your lifestyle activities while on lockdown and self-isolating? We explore what we've been doing to scratch our itch. Welcome to Episode 22 of Sharing is Caring the podcast! We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. In this episode we catchup on some of our meets dates from before the lockdown, as well discussing a sensual massage course which we attended via Zoom. We also discuss the various things we have done to scratch our exhibitionist itch and stay in touch with our friends while on lockdown. These include: Video calls. Various quizzes and flirting with sexy friends Chat groups. We have found that people are focusing more on building connections rather than rushing to arrange a meet. Camera shows. We have done some camera shows on Chaturbate, it's a fun way to be an exhibitionist while making a few dollars on the side! Videos on Pornhub. We've made and uploaded a few videos to pornhub and really enjoyed watching the number of views climb. Posting photos online. We really enjoy posting pictures to reddit, we've had some great conversations with people resulting from it and it's a fun way to feel sexy when you can't leave the house. Virtual parties. Since all parties have had to be cancelled, some organisors are still hosting virtual parties so you can still keep up with your friends. We answer the listener question: In your podcast you’ve said a few times that you don’t meet people online much and that you prefer to meet people at socials. Why is that? Have you had bad experiences which have put you off? Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. Chaturbate referral link: https://chaturbate.com/in/?track=default&tour=g4pe&campaign=FGGYB We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership! SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Love you all x Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caring Find out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

    46 min
  2. 02/23/2020

    Public Displays of Affection

    When on dates in public places or at vanilla events, what’s your view on public displays of affection/interaction outside your couple? How do some people react? Welcome to Episode 21 of Sharing is Caring the podcast! We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. In this episode we catchup on what we have been doing lately, including a couple dates, another trip to Rios and some sexy fun with Mew right after we finished recording last episode. We also discuss public displays of affection / interaction outside your couple in a vanilla setting. We have had several occasions where people have reacted in different ways, ranging from staring and reacting badly, to being intrigued and asking questions. We discuss some questions including: - People's reactions - What happens if people recognise you? - What's the impact on work? - What can you do to feel more comfortable - What do we feel comfortable doing? - What influences whether or not we are happy with PDA We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership! Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Love you all x Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caring Find out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

    42 min
  3. 01/21/2020

    Interview with a Unicorn

    In this episode we interview Mew and get to know her a bit better and learn about the lifestyle from the perspective of a unicorn. Welcome to Episode 20 of Sharing is Caring the podcast! We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. Mew is a good friend who is also a unicorn. In this episode we speak with her and hear about the lifestyle from her perspective. Mew answers questions about what the positives? what have been great experiences? As well as discussing some of the difficulties and downsides of being a unicorn. We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership! Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Keep being amazing and sexy x Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caring Find out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

    37 min
  4. 12/30/2019

    2019 - The year in review

    In this episode we recap what we did in 2019 and discuss French swinging vocabulary Welcome to Episode 19 of Sharing is Caring the podcast! We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. In this bonus episode we look back at our year in review and answer the following 10 reflection questions about out year swinging: 1. What will you remember 2019 for? 2. What worked great this year? 3. What are you proud of? 4. What was your biggest challenge? 5. What did you learn about yourself? 6. Which word describes your last year the best? 7. Who needs to be acknowledged? 8. What’s something you would have like to have done in 2019 but didn’t? 9. Other than time and money, what do you want more of in New year? 10. Stepping into the New year, what is calling you and seducing you? (What will you do about it?) Cherie also discussed some french swinging Vocabulary: - Swinging: Echangisme / libertinage - Soft swap: Melangisme - Having sex next to each other: Côte-à-côtisme - Threesomes: Triolisme /Plan a 3 - Sex clubs: Club échangiste - club libertin - Polyamory: Polyamour - Penetration: Pénétration - Voyeurism: Voyeurisme - Exhibitionism: Exhibitionisme - Orgy: Orgie / partouze - BDSM: SM - Porn: Porno / film X - Vibrator: Vibromasseur - Dildo: gode - Sex toys: Sex toys - Lube: lubrifiant - Strap-on: Gode-ceinture - Squirting: femme fontaine We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership! Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Happy new year you sexy people! Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caring Find out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

    39 min
  5. 12/18/2019

    Drinking too much at a Killing Kittens Hedonism party

    Drinking too much at a Killing Kittens Hedonism party - Being submissive, returnign to Rios and dealing with rude people Welcome to Episode 18 of Sharing is Caring the podcast! We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. In this episode we discuss attending a Killing Kittens Hedonism party, where Cherie drank a bit too much. This lead so some interesting situations and some good lessons learned! In our catchup we talk about a friend coming to stay and her finding her dominant side, and going back to Rios with a group of friends! We also address the listener question(s): I'm really interested in getting into the lifestyle, but I'm petrified to take the first steps. How soft can a soft swap be? Does it have to involve oral or can you just kiss and caress? Are you always expected to give oral if you have received? Would you suggest trying a threesome first or having sex in front of people in a sexy atmosphere? Killing Kittens website: www.killingkittens.com We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership! Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Have an great day and love you all xx Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caring Find out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

    46 min
  6. 11/20/2019

    Being Sexual while living with Vaginismus

    An interview with Ramona about living with Vaginismus Welcome to Episode 17 of Sharing is Caring the podcast! We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. In this episode we are joined by our good friend, Ramona, who shares her experience of being a sexual person who is living with the condition Vaginismus. Ramona discusses what Vaginismus is and how it has impacted her life in various ways, both inside and outside the bedroom. Links: Ramona Twitter: @NotSheath The Vaginismus Network: https://www.thevaginismusnetwork.com/ Sh! Womans Store: https://www.sh-womenstore.com Dialator: https://www.sh-womenstore.com/sh-vibrating-silicone-vaginismus-set.html We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership! Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Have an awesome day and keep being awesome xx Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caring Find out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

    39 min
  7. 10/29/2019

    Swinging Without Swinging - What happens when you can't play?

    Our experience swinging when we couldn't play. Welcome to Episode 16 of Sharing is Caring the podcast! We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. This podcast is about our journey into sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. Life has been very busy lately and we haven't had the time to record! Rather than waiting longer, we decided to record and release a shorter episode, we hope you enjoy it! In this episode we recount our experience from a year ago when, due to a medical surprise, Cherie couldn't play. We discuss how we handled our existing invites and what we decided to do in the end. We have arranged a special offer for our listeners. If you sign up for SpicyMatch using the referral code sharingiscaring, you will get three months free premium membership! Feel free to get in touch or to submit a listener question for future episodes. SpicyMatch referral for three months free premium membership: https://www.spicymatch.com/?ic=sharingiscaring Contact us: Twitter: @KiwiAndCherie e-mail: kiwi.and.cherie@gmail.com web: www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com SpicyMatch: sharing-is-caring-podcast FabSwingers: Sharing is Caring Podcast Music: Intro/outro: "Once have I" by Boogie Belgique, Licensed under Creative Commons (CC BY-NC-ND 3.0) Have an awesome day and keep being awesome xx Support Sharing is Caring by donating to their Tip Jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/sharing-is-caring Find out more at http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

    31 min
5
out of 5
9 Ratings

About

Welcome to Sharing is Caring the podcast! We are Kiwi and Cherie, a New Zealand and French couple living in London. Join us on our adventure as we open our relationship and lives to explore the swinging lifestyle, sex positivity and ethical non-monogamy. In this podcast we talk openly about our experiences, what we have learnt, and what we are still learning.