She and I

Barrett and India
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She and I

She & I is a podcast brought to you by husband and wife tandem, Barrett (B~Love) and India Newsome. We open up the doors to our relationship to give you all a glimpse of how we have managed to keep our relationship healthy over the years. By no means is our relationship perfect, but we work through whatever issues we have to come out on the other side. Enjoy listening to She & I!

  1. Wives Should Date Their Husbands

    JUN 17

    Wives Should Date Their Husbands

    India Marie is back this week, and the "Date-a-Thon" continues with B~Love! They kick things off by reminiscing about their favorite dates so far, sharing what made those moments truly special. This leads into a lively discussion: How many dates should wives take their husbands on? They explore the importance of intentional connection, and how all the time they've spent together has undoubtedly brought them closer. Get ready for some relatable banter as B~Love calls out India Marie's tendency to overuse alarm clocks, a conversation sure to resonate with anyone who's shared a bedside table. Finally, they tackle a tricky social etiquette question: Can you be complimentary of an ex in public? They dive into the nuances of past relationships and present boundaries.

    59 min
  2. Father's Day Gifting That Hits Different

    JUN 3

    Father's Day Gifting That Hits Different

    This week, B~Love and Syd are back with a packed episode! They kick things off with a Jacob Latimore album review, giving their unfiltered thoughts on his latest work. Syd then provides a candid update on Cam's vasectomy, offering a glimpse into their personal journey. The "Barrett & India Dateathon" continues as they discuss how rekindling the flame has led to a newfound appreciation for stillness in marriage. They explore how rare these moments of pause are and the powerful reset they can provide. This naturally leads to a discussion on whether couples with kids should intentionally create these windows more often. And speaking of dates, you'll get the scoop on Syd and Cam's favorite local date spot! As Father's Day approaches, they shift gears to Father’s Day gifts that hit different. Forget the same old ties and tools—they share some thoughtful gift ideas that go beyond expensive presents, focusing on what truly resonates. The conversation then turns to the often-overlooked challenge of coexisting with different fitness goals in a relationship. They tackle what happens when health journeys aren't aligned, but the love is still strong. They also discuss the guilt that can come from mismatched energy—like when one partner wants to relax while the other is ready for a five-mile run—and the difficulty in syncing schedules. Finally, B~Love and Syd wrap up the episode with a fun and revealing round of "Would You Rather":

    1h 2m
  3. Just ‘K’? The Text That Starts Fights & Ends Friendships

    MAY 20

    Just ‘K’? The Text That Starts Fights & Ends Friendships

    Syd is back again with B~Love this week, and they kick things off by tackling a universally relatable query: Is "K" the most triggering text message you can receive? They dive into the nuances of short replies and the myriad of emotions a single letter can evoke. Following that, they share a Mother's Day recap, likely filled with personal anecdotes, reflections on the day, and perhaps some memorable moments. They then wrap up the episode with a lively game of "Would You Rather," promising some entertaining dilemmas and insights into their personalities.

    53 min
  4. Shannon Should Have Watched Sinners

    APR 29

    Shannon Should Have Watched Sinners

    This week, Syd returns to the podcast with B~Love to delve into a discussion inspired by the movie "Sinners." Their conversation begins by exploring the complexities of controlling temptation, examining the internal and external factors that influence our desires and choices. They then shift their focus to the dynamics of dating younger people, considering the potential benefits and challenges that can arise in such relationships. Finally, Syd and B~Love discuss the various perks and advantages of being committed to one person, highlighting the emotional security, deepened connection, and shared experiences that often come with long-term monogamy.

    53 min
  5. Which Friends Messed Up the Group Chat

    APR 15

    Which Friends Messed Up the Group Chat

    Syd joins B~Love this week, and they launch into a discussion about the value of preparation in their lives, exploring how they each approach planning and organization. This leads to a candid moment where an "off-mic conversation" comes into the spotlight, revealing a discussion about honesty and seeing things clearly, even when it's uncomfortable. They then delve into the delicate territory of relationship red flags, debating whether or not to support a friend's decision to bring a new, potentially fleeting partner to an event. The conversation shifts to the balance of having fun on guys/girls trips while maintaining respect and connection with their partners at home. They also tackle the common challenge of handling arguments with a spouse before joint events or tasks, seeking strategies for constructive conflict resolution. A listener writes in with a "What Would India Do?" scenario, describing discomfort with their wife's flirty male coworker who acted inappropriately at her birthday party despite prior conversations. Syd and B~Love dissect the situation, exploring the husband's perspective and considering what they would do in both the husband's and the wife's shoes. Finally, they share a "RelationTIP" based on a survey that reveals seven out of seven guys prioritize niceness and friendliness in a partner, emphasizing the importance of basic kindness in relationships.

    52 min
  6. We Need a New Mattress

    APR 1

    We Need a New Mattress

    India Marie is back, and she and B~Love jump right into a fun recap of their weekend adventures! They share laughs and stories about their time out and about. Then, they get real about how their individual entrepreneurial journeys have shaped and changed their relationship dynamic. They discuss the challenges and triumphs of building their own businesses while supporting each other. Switching gears to a more domestic (and relatable!) topic, they chat about the need for a new mattress and take a hilarious trip down memory lane, reminiscing about the story behind their very first mattress purchase. Get ready for a lighthearted and entertaining episode filled with relationship insights and funny anecdotes!

    55 min
  7. Postpartum Loneliness

    MAR 25

    Postpartum Loneliness

    B~Love welcomes back Syd, who shares an honest and vulnerable account of her life with two children after the birth of her son, Weston. Syd opens up about her feelings of anxiety and loneliness, emphasizing the crucial role of a supportive husband and a strong community in navigating the challenges of motherhood. This episode offers a raw and relatable perspective on the realities of postpartum life, offering comfort and encouragement to those experiencing similar emotions.

    1 hr
  8. Seven Years of Different Parenting Styles

    MAR 5

    Seven Years of Different Parenting Styles

    B~Love and India Marie are back with a dose of relatable relationship realness! They start by recapping their recent date night, sparking a conversation about the importance of consistent date nights and the ever-present question: "When are YOU planning the next one?" B~Love playfully puts India Marie on the spot! Then, they dive into the wonderful world of having a seven-year-old. They share hilarious and heartwarming stories from their son Blake's recent 7th birthday celebration, reminiscing about how birthday parties have drastically changed since their own childhoods. Finally, they tackle the always-interesting topic of parenting styles. B~Love and India Marie candidly discuss their differences in approach and how they navigate raising their children together, offering insights into finding common ground and supporting each other as parents. Tune in for laughs, relatable moments, and a glimpse into their family life!

    58 min
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She & I is a podcast brought to you by husband and wife tandem, Barrett (B~Love) and India Newsome. We open up the doors to our relationship to give you all a glimpse of how we have managed to keep our relationship healthy over the years. By no means is our relationship perfect, but we work through whatever issues we have to come out on the other side. Enjoy listening to She & I!

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  • Creator
    Barrett and India
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2025
  • Episodes
    325
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © All rights reserved
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