Shero Cafe Podcast

Deborah Edwards and Debbie Pearson

Mission: Our mission is to amplify the voices of women, providing a platform that nurtures confidence, fosters authentic connections, and shares transformative stories. Through insightful conversations, expert guidance, and community engagement, we empower women to embrace their inner wisdom, trust their intuition, and inspire others.  Vision: To inspire 1 million women to confidently embrace their inner strength, trust their intuition, and lead by example. Welcome: Welcome to the Shero Cafe podcast, a banquet of empowerment and self-discovery, a feast for the soul, to illuminate the shero in all of us. Come satisfy the cravings for your radical wellbeing. Revel in the rich and diverse spread of dedicated inspiring and empowering women on their journey towards greater awareness and self-knowing, as our episodes serve up bowls of insights, trays of stories, and vats of mindfulness. Just like a carefully crafted dish, we aim to provide a satisfying blend of inspiration and encouragement, enticing you to savor the flavors of self-awareness and self-care as you fill your platter full of self-respect, self-trust, and self-worth. Grab a plate, join us at the table, and indulge in the nourishing journey through the delectable offerings of the Shero Cafe. Come gather with us and feast on the wisdom that will fuel your path to greater purpose, meaning, and fulfillment. Piece (of pie) out!  Subscribe to our podcast: www.SheroCafe.comDEBORAH EDWARDS  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahedwards-selfcarecoach/ Website: https://gratefulom.life/ Email: deborah@gratefulomlife.com DEBBIE PEARSON Website: https://www.debbiepearson.comSubstack:  https://debpearsonwriter.substack.com  Email: deb@debbiepearson.com 

  1. Jul 23

    060 - Easy To Say, Not So Easy To Do

    Talk to us, Shero! Talk to us! We've all heard the advice. Just let it go. Just trust yourself. Just do it. Just step into your glory. Easy to say. Not so easy to do. In this episode, we explore why these well-meaning phrases often leave us feeling frustrated instead of empowered. The problem isn't that the advice is wrong. It's that it skips over the skills needed to get there. We talk about why awareness is only the first step, how mindfulness helps us notice what's happening inside us, and why real change comes from learning what to do after we become aware. Along the way, we each share personal stories about choosing not to let someone else's perspective determine our future. If you've ever thought, "I know what I should do... so why can't I do it?" this conversation is for you. Because growth isn't about trying harder. It's about learning the skills that make lasting change possible. Thank you so much for the likes, love, and comments you leave. Not only does it mean the world to us, it helps other women who need to hear it be able to find it. #womenempoweringwomen #youmatter #makeadifference ---CONNECT with Shero Cafe--- Subscribe: www.SheroCafe.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shero.cafe.podcast/ Email: thesherocafe@gmail.com ---CONNECT with Deborah Edwards--- Let's Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.edwards.372 Self Care Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/624202641785785 Website: https://gratefulom.life/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahedwards-selfcarecoach/ ---CONNECT with Debbie Pearson--- Website: https://www.debbiepearson.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbiePearsonCoaching Substack:  https://debbiepearsoncoaching.substack.com Email: deb@debbiepearson.com

    060 - Easy To Say, Not So Easy To Do
  2. Jun 18

    059 – When Success Stops Feeling Like Success

    Talk to us, Shero! Talk to us! What happens when you finally reach the goals you once prayed for… but something inside still feels empty? In this honest and deeply relatable conversation, Debbie Pearson and Deborah Edwards explore the hidden emotional cost many high-capacity women quietly carry behind success. From achievement and responsibility to loneliness, pressure, and the need for deeper connection, this episode speaks to the women who are exhausted from always being the strong one. Together, they unpack: why success can still feel emotionally unfulfillinghow women become valued for what they provide instead of who they arethe loneliness many successful women experience behind the sceneswhy community, support, and emotional safety matter more than everhow to redefine success in a way that actually supports your lifeThis episode is a reminder that you are not weak for wanting support, connection, rest, or a softer place to land. Success is not only what we build around us.  It is also what we build within us. ✨ Deborah’s Heart Connection Community:  Substack Membership Community for Women Deborah is offering a one year subscription ✨ Debbie’s Practice Lab (renamed: Steady Leader Lab™):  Steady Leader Lab  Debbie offers 50% off of the first month for new members. #successfulbutunhappy  #womenandlonliness #womensupportingwomen #intentionalcommunity #redefiningsuccess #emotionalfulfillment #womenempowerment Thank you so much for the likes, love, and comments you leave. Not only does it mean the world to us, it helps other women who need to hear it be able to find it. #womenempoweringwomen #youmatter #makeadifference ---CONNECT with Shero Cafe--- Subscribe: www.SheroCafe.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shero.cafe.podcast/ Email: thesherocafe@gmail.com ---CONNECT with Deborah Edwards--- Let's Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.edwards.372 Self Care Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/624202641785785 Website: https://gratefulom.life/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahedwards-selfcarecoach/ ---CONNECT with Debbie Pearson--- Website: https://www.debbiepearson.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbiePearsonCoaching Substack:  https://debbiepearsoncoaching.substack.com Email: deb@debbiepearson.com

    059 – When Success Stops Feeling Like Success
  3. May 24

    058 - Ask Her - Reclaiming Women's Voices from Patriarchal Narratives

    Talk to us, Shero! Talk to us! In this raw and deeply personal episode of the Shero Café Podcast, Debbie and Deborah talk about patriarchy, self-trust, silence, power, and what happens when women are taught to abandon themselves to keep others comfortable. Through personal stories, emotional reflection, and honest conversation, they explore: how girls are taught to stay agreeablewhy so many women silence themselvesthe emotional cost of people-pleasingwhat community and self-trust can healhow small moments of awareness create lasting changeThis conversation moves through politics, culture, family systems, trauma, parenting, and personal growth — all centered around one powerful question: What happens when women begin listening to themselves instead of only outside voices? This episode is an invitation to notice the patterns, pause long enough to question them, and begin building self-trust one small moment at a time. Chapter Markers / Timestamps 00:00 – Why Women Are Taught to Stay Small  02:20 – Growing Up Responsible for Men’s Feelings  04:15 – Personal Stories of Silence and Harm  06:15 – Respectability, Religion, and Patriarchy  09:00 – Learning to Advocate for Yourself  12:45 – The Emotional Cost of Staying Quiet  14:00 – Indoctrination Starts Early  15:20 – How Society Shapes Gender Roles  18:00 – Voting Against Our Own Interests  20:00 – Listening to Outside Voices Instead of Yourself  22:00 – Power, Politics, and Protection Systems  25:00 – Social Media, Predators, and Protecting Children  30:00 – Why Self-Trust Changes Everything  32:00 – Teaching Children Boundaries and Self-Respect  35:00 – When Family Protects the Wrong People  38:00 – The Healing Power of Community  41:00 – Truth-Telling, Honesty, and Respect  44:00 – Why Awareness Matters  49:00 – How Self-Trust Is Actually Built  52:00 – Awareness Is Only Step One  54:00 – The Small Language Shifts That Matter  58:00 – Fighting for Women’s Voices  1:00:00 – One Small Change at a Time  1:02:00 – Trusting Yourself Through Life’s Challenges  1:04:00 – Final Reflections and Closing Thoughts Thank you so much for the likes, love, and comments you leave. Not only does it mean the world to us, it helps other women who need to hear it be able to find it. #womenempoweringwomen #youmatter #makeadifference ---CONNECT with Shero Cafe--- Subscribe: www.SheroCafe.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shero.cafe.podcast/ Email: thesherocafe@gmail.com ---CONNECT with Deborah Edwards--- Let's Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.edwards.372 Self Care Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/624202641785785 Website: https://gratefulom.life/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahedwards-selfcarecoach/ ---CONNECT with Debbie Pearson--- Website: https://www.debbiepearson.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbiePearsonCoaching Substack:  https://debbiepearsoncoaching.substack.com Email: deb@debbiepearson.com

  4. Apr 27

    057 - You’re Doing Everything Right… but Something Still Feels Off

    Talk to us, Shero! Talk to us! You’re doing everything right. You’re showing up. Taking care of yourself. Keeping things moving in your work and your life. And still… something feels off. That feeling can be hard to explain. It doesn’t make sense on the surface. You’re doing what you’re “supposed” to do, so why doesn’t it feel better? In this episode, we gently look at what might be happening underneath. Because sometimes it’s not about doing more.  It’s not about adding more self-care.  It’s about noticing where your energy is quietly leaking. We talk about the difference between being depleted and being overextended. How you can be giving, doing, and holding a lot… without enough support or space to steady yourself. You’ll hear real-life examples of what this can look like:  Saying yes when your body is saying no.  Avoiding conversations that matter.  Overthinking decisions after you’ve already made them.  Trying to hold it all together for everyone else. These aren’t signs that something is wrong with you. They’re signals. Small moments where your body is asking you to notice, pause, and choose differently. We also explore the role of boundaries—not as something harsh, but as something steady. Something that helps you stay connected to yourself while still caring for others. This isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about learning to listen in a new way.  To notice what feels tight or heavy.  To give yourself one small moment of choice. Because when something feels off, it usually means something deeper is asking for your attention. And that’s not a problem. It’s a place to begin. 0:00  Welcome And The “Something’s Off” Feeling 1:48  Self-Care Without Capacity Fails 3:59  The Oil Leak Analogy For Burnout 6:13  Real-World Signs Of Overextension 8:42  Saying No And Listening To Your Body 13:17  Self-Care Versus Self-Love Choices 15:27  When Giving Money Feels Like Peace 19:04  Restrictive Versus Expansive Energy Clues 23:39  Small Steps Plus Coaching And Community 26:45  You’re Not Weak For Needing Support Thank you so much for the likes, love, and comments you leave. Not only does it mean the world to us, it helps other women who need to hear it be able to find it. #womenempoweringwomen #youmatter #makeadifference ---CONNECT with Shero Cafe--- Subscribe: www.SheroCafe.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shero.cafe.podcast/ Email: thesherocafe@gmail.com ---CONNECT with Deborah Edwards--- Let's Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.edwards.372 Self Care Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/624202641785785 Website: https://gratefulom.life/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahedwards-selfcarecoach/ ---CONNECT with Debbie Pearson--- Website: https://www.debbiepearson.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbiePearsonCoaching Substack:  https://debbiepearsoncoaching.substack.com Email: deb@debbiepearson.com

    057 - You’re Doing Everything Right… but Something Still Feels Off
  5. Apr 2

    055 - Emerging Truth: What I Can No Longer Pretend Not to Know

    Talk to us, Shero! Talk to us! You know that quiet feeling… something isn’t right… even when everything looks fine on the outside? We sit with that. Not to fix it. Not to rush past it. But to name it.  Because more often than not, you already know.  You just haven’t let yourself fully say it. We talk about the places this shows up—  relationships that look good but feel heavy,  work that checks the boxes but drains your peace,  and those moments where you keep saying yes… while something in you is saying no. And then there’s the body. The tight chest.  The clenched jaw.  The low hum of anxiety that never fully goes away. That’s not random. That’s your body holding the truth you haven’t spoken yet. We also talk about why this is so hard. Because it’s not just about knowing.  It’s about what it might cost to admit it. Belonging.  Comfort.  Familiarity. Sometimes it feels easier to stay where you are… even when you know it’s not right. But there’s a cost to that too. You start to lose trust in yourself.  You second guess.  You override what you feel. So we slow it down. We talk about creating space—just enough to hear yourself again.  And from there, making small, honest choices. Sometimes that looks like a boundary.  Sometimes it’s a simple truth spoken out loud.  Sometimes it’s just admitting… this doesn’t feel right anymore. Nothing dramatic - just honest. Because self-care isn’t always comfort.  And self-love isn’t always soft. Sometimes it’s telling yourself the truth… and being willing to listen. #selftrust  #selfawareness  #emotionalgrowth  #selfcare  #selflove  #innerwork  #boundaries  #personalgrowth  #mindsetshift  #emotionalintelligence  #healing  #authenticity Thank you so much for the likes, love, and comments you leave. Not only does it mean the world to us, it helps other women who need to hear it be able to find it. #womenempoweringwomen #youmatter #makeadifference ---CONNECT with Shero Cafe--- Subscribe: www.SheroCafe.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shero.cafe.podcast/ Email: thesherocafe@gmail.com ---CONNECT with Deborah Edwards--- Let's Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.edwards.372 Self Care Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/624202641785785 Website: https://gratefulom.life/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahedwards-selfcarecoach/ ---CONNECT with Debbie Pearson--- Website: https://www.debbiepearson.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbiePearsonCoaching Substack:  https://debbiepearsoncoaching.substack.com Email: deb@debbiepearson.com

    055 - Emerging Truth: What I Can No Longer Pretend Not to Know
  6. Mar 20

    054 - The Pause That Changes Everything

    Talk to us, Shero! Talk to us! The most life-changing part of emotional regulation is not a big breakthrough. It is the microscopic moment most people miss — the pause between what happens and how you respond. When you learn to notice that sliver of time, you stop riding the reaction roller coaster and start making real choices instead of saying something you regret, shutting down, or handing your power to someone else’s mood. In this episode we share what that pause looks like in real life, including a surprisingly intense situation that triggered overthinking and a familiar freeze response. We explore why the same situation can trigger one person but not another, and how capacity, nervous system safety, and practice change what happens in that moment. You will also hear simple body signals to watch for and one grounding question that can shift everything: What do I need right now? Thank you so much for the likes, love, and comments you leave. Not only does it mean the world to us, it helps other women who need to hear it be able to find it. #womenempoweringwomen #youmatter #makeadifference ---CONNECT with Shero Cafe--- Subscribe: www.SheroCafe.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shero.cafe.podcast/ Email: thesherocafe@gmail.com ---CONNECT with Deborah Edwards--- Let's Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.edwards.372 Self Care Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/624202641785785 Website: https://gratefulom.life/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahedwards-selfcarecoach/ ---CONNECT with Debbie Pearson--- Website: https://www.debbiepearson.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbiePearsonCoaching Substack:  https://debbiepearsoncoaching.substack.com Email: deb@debbiepearson.com

    054 - The Pause That Changes Everything
  7. Mar 19

    053 - Taking Back Your Power

    Talk to us, Shero! Talk to us! Glamour can feel like safety—until it isn’t. Using the movie Blink Twice as our lens, we explore how charm, access, and curated beauty can quietly become control. We unpack grooming, normalization, and the intoxicating pull of proximity to power—and why belonging so often outranks intuition. We share personal stories of staying silent to keep harmony and of challenging authority at a cost. Like the film’s paradise, systems ask for small surrenders until your voice fades. We talk about gaslighting, self-doubt, and the fear of exile that keeps us nodding along—then pivot to rebuilding self-trust through mindful pauses, body-based yes/no checks, and boundaries practiced before they’re needed. Taking your power back isn’t aggression—it’s clarity. It might mean leaving a room, declining an invitation, or choosing spaces that can hold your truth. If you're will, we'd love to hear how have you experienced taking your power back? Thank you so much for the likes, love, and comments you leave. Not only does it mean the world to us, it helps other women who need to hear it be able to find it. #womenempoweringwomen #youmatter #makeadifference ---CONNECT with Shero Cafe--- Subscribe: www.SheroCafe.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shero.cafe.podcast/ Email: thesherocafe@gmail.com ---CONNECT with Deborah Edwards--- Let's Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.edwards.372 Self Care Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/624202641785785 Website: https://gratefulom.life/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahedwards-selfcarecoach/ ---CONNECT with Debbie Pearson--- Website: https://www.debbiepearson.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbiePearsonCoaching Substack:  https://debbiepearsoncoaching.substack.com Email: deb@debbiepearson.com

    053 - Taking Back Your Power
  8. Mar 18

    052 - Quiet Bravery

    Talk to us, Shero! Talk to us! What if the bravest thing you do today is nothing? In this episode, we explore quiet bravery—the courage to rest—in a culture that glorifies the grind. Instead of measuring worth by output, we talk about how alignment, presence, and self-trust lead to smarter choices, stronger boundaries, and deeper joy. We redefine courage from “push harder” to “pause on purpose.” Guilt, fear of rejection, and the need for validation often keep us overcommitted and exhausted. We share stories of saying yes too often and offer simple language you can use right away—how to say “not right now” without apology, how to honor commitments to yourself, and how to recognize early signs of burnout. Rest isn’t weakness—it’s strategy. Timing your commitments with your capacity, protecting recovery, and letting waiting be wise can change everything. After you listen, pause for a moment and notice what shifts. Quiet bravery is a whisper, and when you practice it, you give others permission to do the same. If this resonates, share it, subscribe, and let us know where life is inviting you to slow down next. Thank you so much for the likes, love, and comments you leave. Not only does it mean the world to us, it helps other women who need to hear it be able to find it. #womenempoweringwomen #youmatter #makeadifference ---CONNECT with Shero Cafe--- Subscribe: www.SheroCafe.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shero.cafe.podcast/ Email: thesherocafe@gmail.com ---CONNECT with Deborah Edwards--- Let's Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/deborah.edwards.372 Self Care Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/624202641785785 Website: https://gratefulom.life/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahedwards-selfcarecoach/ ---CONNECT with Debbie Pearson--- Website: https://www.debbiepearson.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebbiePearsonCoaching Substack:  https://debbiepearsoncoaching.substack.com Email: deb@debbiepearson.com

    052 - Quiet Bravery

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Mission: Our mission is to amplify the voices of women, providing a platform that nurtures confidence, fosters authentic connections, and shares transformative stories. Through insightful conversations, expert guidance, and community engagement, we empower women to embrace their inner wisdom, trust their intuition, and inspire others.  Vision: To inspire 1 million women to confidently embrace their inner strength, trust their intuition, and lead by example. Welcome: Welcome to the Shero Cafe podcast, a banquet of empowerment and self-discovery, a feast for the soul, to illuminate the shero in all of us. Come satisfy the cravings for your radical wellbeing. Revel in the rich and diverse spread of dedicated inspiring and empowering women on their journey towards greater awareness and self-knowing, as our episodes serve up bowls of insights, trays of stories, and vats of mindfulness. Just like a carefully crafted dish, we aim to provide a satisfying blend of inspiration and encouragement, enticing you to savor the flavors of self-awareness and self-care as you fill your platter full of self-respect, self-trust, and self-worth. Grab a plate, join us at the table, and indulge in the nourishing journey through the delectable offerings of the Shero Cafe. Come gather with us and feast on the wisdom that will fuel your path to greater purpose, meaning, and fulfillment. Piece (of pie) out!  Subscribe to our podcast: www.SheroCafe.comDEBORAH EDWARDS  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborahedwards-selfcarecoach/ Website: https://gratefulom.life/ Email: deborah@gratefulomlife.com DEBBIE PEARSON Website: https://www.debbiepearson.comSubstack:  https://debpearsonwriter.substack.com  Email: deb@debbiepearson.com