Shoot the Vows

Caitlyn Roberts and Kalee Draper
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Just engaged? 🥂 You're in the right place! Shoot the Vows is the podcast for couples who want fun, helpful wedding planning advice without the overwhelm. We bring stories, pro tips, and lots of laughs every week — because planning should be enjoyable, not stressful! New episodes every Thursday at 10:00 a.m. ET. Hit subscribe and plan with personality. 💍✨

  1. FEB 5

    Wedding Ceremony 101 - Planning Your Wedding Ceremony

    Your ceremony is the heart of your wedding day, so let's make sure it feels right. In this episode, we're breaking down all the big ceremony decisions — from what you say to who's standing up there with you. What you'll learn: 💍 The pros and cons of sharing personal vows with guests vs. saving them for just the two of you ✍️ Tips for writing your own wedding vows (and when traditional vows might be the better call) 📵 How to politely ask guests to put their phones away during your ceremony 👰 Friend, family member, or professional officiant — what to consider when choosing ⏳ How long your ceremony should actually be and how to keep the energy flowing Whether you're deep in wedding planning mode or just getting started, this episode will help you create a ceremony that feels personal, intentional, and totally you. Connect with us: 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/shootthevows 🌐 Website: shootthevows.com 📩 Questions? DM us or drop a comment! More wedding planning tips: 🎧 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5gdQT05rvXeV4dc9cUBSaz 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shoot-the-vows/id1850468898 #WeddingPlanning #WeddingCeremony #WeddingVows #WritingYourOwnVows #UnpluggedWedding #WeddingOfficiant #WeddingTips #EngagedCouple #BrideToBe #WeddingPodcast #ShootTheVows #CeremonyPlanning #WeddingAdvice #2024Wedding #2025Wedding

    20 min

  2. JAN 29

    Bridal Gown Shopping 101 - With Marie Adornato

    Trying to figure out when to start wedding dress shopping? Wondering what to expect at your first bridal appointment? In this episode, we sit down with Marie Adornato, owner of Spy Baby Bridal and Prom in Syracuse, NY and designer behind Adornato Couture, to get all her insider tips for brides navigating the gown shopping experience. In this episode, we cover: ⏰ The ideal shopping and shipping timeline for your wedding dress 👗 What to expect at your first bridal appointment 💻 Online vs. in-store shopping – pros and cons 💭 Staying true to your vision vs. keeping an open mind 💰 How to budget for your gown (and what brides often forget!) ✨ Accessories and extras to consider 🎉 Making your dress shopping experience as memorable as your wedding day Whether you're newly engaged or deep in wedding planning mode, Marie's advice will help you feel confident and prepared for one of the most exciting parts of your bridal journey. Connect with Marie & Spy Baby Bridal: 🌐 Website: https://spybaby.com 📍 Location: 426 N Franklin St, Syracuse, NY 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/spybaby.bridal 📸 Instagram: @spybabybridal Subscribe to Shoot the Vows for more wedding planning tips, vendor spotlights, and behind-the-scenes insights from the wedding industry! Listen on your favorite platform: shootthevows.com #WeddingDressShopping #BridalTips #WeddingPlanning #SyracuseNY #CNYWeddings #BridalGown #ShootTheVows #WeddingPodcast #BrideToBeAdvice #SpyBabyBridal

    35 min

  3. JAN 22

    Reacting to Wedding Planning Reddit Advice and Drama

    This week on Shoot the Vows, we're diving into some juicy Reddit wedding drama! From planning nightmares to guest dress code disasters, we're breaking down three viral stories and giving our honest takes. In this episode: 🔥 "What I wish I knew before planning a wedding" — the realities no one warns you about 🔥 "AITA for wanting to plan MY wedding?" — when family opinions go too far 🔥 "Wedding Shaming My Own Guests" — is asking for no jeans really that unreasonable? Plus, we discuss how to handle guests who just won't follow simple requests and deliver our final verdicts on who was right and who was wrong. Stories we reacted to: What I Wish I Knew: https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/1jjvufx/what_i_wish_i_knew_before_planning_a_wedding/ • AITA for Wanting to Plan MY Wedding: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/17b5c54/aita_for_wanting_to_plan_my_wedding/ • Wedding Shaming My Own Guests: https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/eo673n/wedding_shaming_my_own_wedding_guests/  💬 Drop a comment — whose side are you on? 👍 Like this video if you love wedding drama 🔔 Subscribe and hit the bell so you never miss an episode! #WeddingDrama #WeddingPlanning #RedditStories #AITA #WeddingShaming #ShootTheVows #WeddingPodcast

    28 min

  4. JAN 15

    Barn Wedding Basics with The Nunda Ranch

    Thinking about a barn or ranch wedding in Central New York? In this episode, we sit down with Nicole Ridley from Nunda Ranch to talk about what couples really need to know before booking a rustic venue.   Nicole shares insider tips on what sets barn and ranch venues apart from traditional spaces, the questions you should be asking on every venue tour, and what's typically included versus what you'll need to bring in yourself—like catering, rentals, and more.   We also cover the practical stuff that can make or break your day: weather and seasonality considerations for CNY, guest comfort (think climate control, restrooms, and accessibility), plus Nicole's best advice for couples just starting their venue search.   Whether you're dreaming of a laid-back outdoor celebration or a cozy barn reception, this episode is packed with info to help you plan smarter.   In this episode: ⏱ What makes barn/ranch venues unique ⏱ Must-ask questions for venue tours ⏱ What's included vs. what you'll need to rent ⏱ Weather & seasonality in Central New York ⏱ Guest comfort considerations ⏱ Advice for couples starting their venue search   Learn more about Nunda Ranch: https://www.nundaranch.com/   Connect with Shoot the Vows: 🌐 Website: https://shootthevows.com 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/shootthevows   Don't forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode!

    34 min

  5. JAN 15

    Budget Wedding: Regrets vs What Was 100% Worth It

    Planning a wedding on a budget? You're not alone—and you don't have to figure it all out by yourself. In this episode, we sit down with real bride Jessica Edkin to get her honest take on what she'd do differently and what she'd absolutely do again. From DIY wins (and fails) to splurges that were totally worth it, Jessica shares the lessons she learned so you don't have to learn them the hard way. We're covering: 💍 Her wedding budget, guest count, and overall vision 💍 Regrets and what she'd change 💍 DIY projects: worth it or not? 💍 Where she found unexpected savings 💍 Splurges she doesn't regret for a second 💍 What guests actually notice vs. what they don't 💍 Advice for couples planning on a tight budget Whether you're deep in planning mode or just starting out, this one's packed with real-world insight. — 💬 Drop a comment and tell us: What's the ONE thing you refuse to compromise on for your wedding? Don't forget to FOLLOW, SUBSCRIBE, and hit that notification bell so you never miss an episode of Shoot the Vows! #budgetwedding #weddingbudget #weddingonabudget #weddingplanning #bridetobe #weddingadvice #diywedding #weddingtips #weddingpodcast #engagedlife #bridesofinstagram #weddingregrets #weddingworth #realwedding #weddingsavings #shootthevows

    20 min

  6. JAN 5

    Engagement Survival Season for Soon-to-Be Brides

    Just got engaged? Congrats! 💍 Before you spiral into Pinterest boards and venue tours, take a breath. In this episode, we're breaking down everything you need to know about navigating engagement season (December–February) without losing your mind. We cover: → What to do first after getting engaged (and what can wait) → The urge to book everything NOW — when to pump the brakes → Dealing with unsolicited opinions from family and friends → Setting a realistic timeline based on your wedding date → Having the budget conversation early → What actually needs to be prioritized (yes, venues book fast) → Avoiding the comparison trap on social media → Enjoying being engaged before full planning mode kicks in CONNECT WITH US: 📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/shootthevows 🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5gdQT05rvXeV4dc9cUBSaz 🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shoot-the-vows/id1850468898

    15 min

  7. 12/23/2025

    Wedding Vendor Contracts: What Every Couple MUST Know Before Signing

    Did you know your vendor could legally cancel on you the week of your wedding—and only owe you a refund? 😳 In this episode, we sat down with Leah Weinberg, founder and attorney at Weinberg Legal, for our first-ever live in-person podcast recording in New York City! Leah has an incredible backstory—she started as an attorney, spent almost 10 years as a wedding planner, and has now returned to law to help small businesses and wedding professionals navigate contracts and legal matters. In This Episode, We Cover: ✅ Understanding your total costs and when payments are due ✅ Deposits, retainers, and installment payment schedules ✅ Red flags to watch for when reviewing vendor contracts ✅ Why "free termination rights" can be dangerous for couples ✅ The importance of actually reading your contracts (seriously, read them!) ✅ How to ask questions and have conversations when something doesn't make sense 🔗 CONNECT WITH LEAH WEINBERG: Website: https://www.weinberglegal.com Email: hello@weinberglegal.com 🔗 CONNECT WITH SHOOT THE VOWS: Website: https://www.shootthevows.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shootthevows Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5gdQT05rvXeV4dc9cUBSaz Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shoot-the-vows/id1850468898 New episodes drop every Thursday at 10 AM—subscribe so you don't miss out! Got questions? Drop them in the comments and we might feature them in a future video! #WeddingPlanning #WeddingContracts #WeddingVendors #BrideToBe #EngagedLife #WeddingTips #WeddingPodcast #WeddingLawyer #VendorContracts #WeddingAdvice #ShootTheVows #WeddingPlanningTips #NewlyEngaged #WeddingBudget #NYCWedding

    33 min

  8. 12/18/2025

    Creating Your Wedding Guests' Experience

    Your wedding day isn't just about you—it's about everyone who showed up to celebrate. In this episode, we're diving deep into the guest experience and what actually makes people remember your wedding for all the right reasons. From avoiding that awkward cocktail hour lull to designing seating charts that don't leave Aunt Carol at the "table of randos," we're covering everything you need to know to keep your guests comfortable, entertained, and genuinely happy to be there. In This Episode: 🥂 Why guest experience matters more than you think ⏰ Bridging the cocktail hour gap during photos 💺 Seating arrangements that actually work 📋 Timeline flow from your guests' perspective ✨ Small touches that make a big impact (signage, favors, personal notes) 🚫 Guest experience mistakes to avoid ⚖️ Balancing your vision with guest comfort Whether you're newly engaged or deep in wedding planning mode, this episode will help you create a day your guests won't stop talking about.  — Connect with us:  🌐 Website: https://shootthevows.com 📸 Instagram:  https://instagram.com/shootthevows   🎧 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 💚 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5gdQT05...   — Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE, hit the notification bell, and leave a comment telling us your best (or worst!) wedding guest experience!

    14 min
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Just engaged? 🥂 You're in the right place! Shoot the Vows is the podcast for couples who want fun, helpful wedding planning advice without the overwhelm. We bring stories, pro tips, and lots of laughs every week — because planning should be enjoyable, not stressful! New episodes every Thursday at 10:00 a.m. ET. Hit subscribe and plan with personality. 💍✨

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  • Creator
    Caitlyn Roberts and Kalee Draper
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    17
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Caitlyn Roberts and Kalee Draper
  • Show Website
    Shoot the Vows