Shouting From The Sidelines

Luke Towning
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The podcast for parents, coaches & teachers involved in children's sport. We've got the best advice from professional sports coaches, pro athletes and everyone in-between to help you through the highs, lows and craziness of kids sport from grassroots to elite level. Brought to you by Foot-Tech Academy.

  1. 3H AGO

    #58 We’ve Coached 1,000+ 1-to-1 Football Sessions…Here’s What We Learned

    Some parents think 1-to-1 football coaching is the fastest way to help their child improve…but the reality is more nuanced than that. In this episode, we break down what we’ve learned from delivering over 1,000 one-to-one football sessions with young players. We talk about why parents seek out 1-to-1s, what they’re really hoping for, and what these sessions can (and can’t) realistically do. We also share where 1-to-1 coaching genuinely helps, where it can actually hold players back, and how it fits into a child’s overall football development. If you’re considering 1-to-1 coaching for your child, this will give you a clear, honest understanding of whether it’s the right step and how to approach it properly. In this episode, we cover: Why parents look for 1-to-1 football coachingWhat parents really mean when they make certain requestsWhat 1-to-1 sessions can’t fixWhere 1-to-1 coaching can make a real differenceWho benefits most (and who may not)When 1-to-1s can work against developmentWhat good 1-to-1 coaching actually looks likeWhy environment matters more than just “more training” This is an honest conversation designed to help you make better decisions for your child’s development without the noise of social media. If you found this helpful subscribe for more parent-first insights into children’s football and development. Parents in Leeds, try one of our football sessions - https://foot-techacademy.co.uk/ Grassroots football coaches, check out our games-based session plans to use with your team - https://onlinefootballcourses.com

    1h 2m

  2. FEB 26

    #57 Accepting Where Your Child Is in Football (Why Pushing Too Soon Can Backfire)

    Sometimes the hardest part of parenting in sport is accepting where your child is right now. In this short solo episode, we talk about why parents often feel pressure to push children into higher groups, A teams, or “elite” squads and why development doesn’t always work that way. We explore: Why comparison creates pressureWhat “development isn’t linear” actually meansWhen challenge helps and when it becomes too muchWhy playing with better players doesn’t automatically lead to improvementWhat a good coach is really thinking when they suggest a different group This episode isn’t about holding children back.It’s about giving them the right environment to build confidence, keep enjoying football and develop at their own pace. If you’re a parent feeling unsure, pressured or worried your child is “behind”, this one is for you. If you enjoyed this episode please leave a review and subscribe. Join our football sessions in Leeds: https://foot-techacademy.co.uk/ Grassroots coaching drills & ebooks: https://onlinefootballcourses.com/

    31 min

  3. JAN 21

    #56 Why Kids Keep Making The Same Mistakes (It's NOT Skill)

    Why do children keep making the same “mistakes” in matches even when they seem to know what to do in training? In this episode, we explore a common frustration for parents and grassroots coaches and explain why the answer is often not a lack of skill. During games, children aren’t consciously recalling instructions or techniques. Instead, they rely on habits - the behaviours and decisions they’ve repeated most often in their football experiences. That’s why: Players can look confident in training but freeze or play safe in matches The same mistakes keep showing up on game day Constant instructions from the sidelines rarely lead to better decisions We discuss: How decision-making in football is largely unconscious The difference between training performance and match behaviour Why habits matter more than instructions What parents and coaches can focus on to support better long-term development This episode is for: Parents trying to understand what they’re seeing on match days Grassroots coaches looking to improve decision-making without adding pressure Anyone interested in child development through sport Useful links Online resources for grassroots coaches: 👉 https://onlinefootballcourses.com Leeds-based parents, try one of our sessions: 👉 https://foot-techacademy.co.uk/ If you enjoy this episode, please follow or subscribe and share it with a parent or coach who’s asked, “why does this keep happening?”

    44 min

  4. 12/05/2025

    #55 Q&A - How much training? Mixed Teams? Behaviour Issues?

    In today’s episode, we dive into three BIG questions from grassroots football parents and coaches. The kind of issues every junior football team eventually faces.From mixed-ability under-7 teams, to how much football a young kids should do, to handling misbehaviour and lack of focus…we break it all down with honest, experience-based advice. We start with a dilemma many clubs will recognise: mixed teams vs A/B teams. When some parents want results, others want development, and friendship groups matter…what’s the right answer? This question gives a real insight into just how tough coaching at grassroots level can be, especially when volunteers are caught between player needs and parent expectations. Next, we tackle a huge parent worry: How many football sessions should a young child do? We discuss enjoyment vs overload, balance, spotting signs of genuine passion, and why parent-led pressure can quickly turn football into a job rather than a joy. This is essential viewing for any parent with a football-mad child. Finally, we dig into one of the most common coaching challenges: misbehaviour, lack of focus, and keeping players engaged. We share practical solutions around session design, arrival activities, transitions, behaviour expectations, praise strategies, and communicating with parents. If you coach primary-age footballers, this part is gold. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE Why mixed teams can work and when they start causing problemsHow to manage parent expectations without compromising your ethosThe real answer to “How much is too much football for a young child?”Why enjoyment should guide everythingPractical behaviour-management tools that work in real sessionsHow to design sessions that reduce messing about and increase engagement Comment on the episode: Tell us — what’s the biggest challenge YOU face as a grassroots parent or coach? Subscribe: So you don’t miss future episodes supporting football parents and coaches. Coaching resources: Visit https://onlinefootballcourses.com/ for ebooks, guides, and practical tools for grassroots coaches. Join our sessions in Leeds: Give your child a fun, pressure-free football environment they’ll love. Try a free taster session - https://foot-techacademy.co.uk/

    34 min

  5. 11/24/2025

    #54 The Physical Side of Kids’ Football: What Parents Really Need to Know

    Most parents worry when they see their child getting kicked, pushed, or knocked over in football — and that’s completely normal. But here’s the part nobody tells you: Those little bumps and tackles are one of the BEST ways for children to grow confidence, resilience, toughness and real game understanding. In today’s episode, we break down the physical side of kids’ football…what’s normal…what to ignore…and what actually helps your child long-term. We talk about: Why kids foul each other far more by accident than on purposeHow to help your child become more confident in tacklesWhy you shouldn’t panic when they hit the floorThe mindset shift parents NEED to makeWhat coaches should (and shouldn’t) be doingWhy resilience is built through PLAY, not pressureHow the best players in the world learned to love physical contactWhen you should speak to the coachWhy entering the pitch is the worst thing a parent can doWhat to do if your child gets fouled all the timeWhy physicality can’t be taught in 1-1 sessions — but CAN be developed elsewhere Whether your child is shy, timid, super technical, or pushing towards academy level… this episode will help you understand what’s really happening on the pitch and how to support them in the best way possible. Try a Foot-Tech Session (Leeds) If you want your child to grow confidence, resilience and game understanding in a fun, pressure-free environment… our weekly sessions are perfect.👉 Book a taster session: https://foot-techacademy.co.uk/ Our Football eBooks & Coaching Guides Grassroots football coaches, want easy-to-use games you can play at home or coaching sessions designed the Foot-Tech way?👉 Browse our eBooks: https://onlinefootballcourses.com/ Tell us in the comments: What’s your child like with tackles? Confident? Hesitant? Avoids them? Loves them? Anything you/they need help with? If you enjoyed the episode: Subscribe to the channel and share this with another football parent or coach. Thanks for watching.

    31 min

  6. 10/20/2025

    #53 4 Tips to Help You Survive Your First Season as a Grassroots Coach

    Just taken over a grassroots football team? In this episode, we break down 4 practical tips that’ll save you stress, help you connect with your players, and make your first season a success. From managing parents to keeping sessions fun and simple, this is your survival guide for grassroots football coaching. Whether you’ve volunteered to coach your child’s team or are just starting your grassroots football journey, this episode will make your life easier, create sessions kids love, and hopefully help you enjoy the ride! Also, check out our NEW grassroots coaches website - https://onlinefootballcourses.com/ This is a brand new resource for coaches where we'll be providing sessions plans and info which is simple to use and tried and tested by our coaching team. Our first ebook, The Simple Guide To Coaching Scanning, is available now. Let us know what you think.

    31 min

  7. 09/22/2025

    #52 Resilience in Young Children: How Parents Can Help Kids Bounce Back from Setbacks

    Football isn’t just about skills and goals — it’s about how kids handle the tough moments. In this episode, we dive into how parents can help their children build resilience when they face setbacks like rejection, injury, or just having a tough game. We’ll cover: Why resilience matters for kids in sport and in life Common challenges young players face (injuries, rejection, mistakes) Practical things parents can do to support their child’s growth Simple strategies to help children develop long-term resilience Resilience is like a muscle — it grows with practice. The more our kids experience little setbacks (with our support), the stronger and more confident they become both on and off the pitch. If you’re a parent or coach who wants your child to enjoy football, stick with sport long-term, and learn life lessons along the way, this episode is for you. Don’t forget to like, comment and subscribe if you found this helpful. Share your own stories about resilience in the comments — we'd love to hear them.

    30 min

  8. 08/26/2025

    #51 From Academy Coach to Academy Dad

    What’s it really like being on both sides of academy football — as a coach and as a parent? In this episode we sit down with Leroy McIntosh, a former professional academy coach turned academy dad. Leroy’s journey started at Huddersfield Town before moving into a senior role at Barnsley FC, giving him a front-row seat to the realities of youth development in English football. Now, he’s living it from the other side of the pitch as a football parent. His son has spent time at Leeds United, Manchester United, and Manchester City, before signing for Man City Academy U9s. Leroy joins us to share his unique perspective: the lessons he’s carried over from coaching into parenting, the challenges of academy football, and the advice he’d give to other mums and dads supporting their kids in the system as well as grassroots football in general. In this episode we discuss: What Leroy would change about the academy systemThe key lessons he learnt as a coach that now help him as a football parentPractical tips for mums and dads navigating academy and grassroots footballHow to support your child without adding pressure If you’re a football parent, grassroots coach, or just curious about life inside the academy system, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

    1h 14m
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The podcast for parents, coaches & teachers involved in children's sport. We've got the best advice from professional sports coaches, pro athletes and everyone in-between to help you through the highs, lows and craziness of kids sport from grassroots to elite level. Brought to you by Foot-Tech Academy.

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