Shrink Wrapped

Michelle O'Neil
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Shrink Wrapped dives into the real, messy, sometimes hilarious side of mental health- no toxic positivity, no sugarcoating, and zero judgment. Hosted by Michelle, a counselor’s daughter with a mic and a low tolerance for BS, the show breaks down mental health (think anxiety, trauma, burnout, relationships, neurodivergence, addiction, and more) in a way that actually makes sense. Expect honest conversations, guided journaling, DSM dives, and dark humor for people who’ve cried in their car, side-eyed self-help books, or stress-ate pizza in the name of self-care.

  1. 4H AGO

    Episode 42: You Are Not a Bottomless Mimosa (The One Where Michelle Talks About Balancing Work/Home/Friends)

    Work-Life Balance Is a Myth (Here’s What Actually Helps) Balancing work, home, friendships, errands, sleep, hydration, therapy, and that one plant you swore you wouldn’t kill, it’s not just a lot. It’s kind of a scam. Or at least it feels that way when society expects you to have it all together while you’re slowly dissociating under fluorescent lights in a Target aisle. In today’s episode of Shrink Wrapped, we’re untangling the chaos around work-life balance- because the idea that everything should exist in perfect harmony all the time is the real myth. The burnout? That’s the predictable outcome of trying to meet impossible expectations. Michelle breaks down what balance actually looks like in real life (spoiler: it’s not a color-coded planner or flawless routine), why so many people feel overwhelmed and stretched thin, and how chronic imbalance quietly erodes mental health. We’ll talk about boundaries, capacity, prioritization, and why constantly juggling everything doesn’t mean you’re failing, it means the system is demanding too much. This episode isn’t about disappearing off the grid or ghosting everyone to live in a yurt (unless that’s your thing- no judgment). It’s about learning how to protect your time, energy, and peace in realistic ways that don’t require becoming a productivity robot or burning your life down to start over. If you’ve been feeling exhausted, behind, or like balance is something everyone else got the manual for, this episode offers a more honest, compassionate reframe. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

    47 min

  2. 6D AGO · BONUS

    Episode 41.5: Trauma Without the Background Music (Bonus Episode ft. Selena Morelock)

    Bonus Episode: Mental Health in Media — A Real Conversation with Selena Today’s bonus episode of Shrink Wrapped takes a closer look at how mental health and trauma show up in pop culture- with a little help from a friend. Michelle and longtime friend Selena talk honestly about telling your own story, and why representation matters more than people realize. No media-studies jargon. No moral panic. Just a real, grounded conversation about storytelling, stigma, and what it’s like to see your brain reflected back at you- sometimes accurately, sometimes wildly off-script. Selena brings both lived experience and thoughtful insight to the conversation. She understands the power of stories, and the real harm that happens when mental health is flattened into stereotypes, tropes, or trauma-for-entertainment. To see/hear Selena tell her own story, check out her TikTok! Special shout outs to: -Miley Cyrus (See You Again is a masterpiece, got Selena through hard times, and stays in Michelle's regular rotation.) -Dr Phillip McGraw (We have beef with you. You know what you did.) -Sesame Street (May the street live forever. We Stan.) -Jack Johnson (Better Together is perfect. Don't let anyone ever tell you different.) -Eggs. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

    2h 55m

  3. FEB 5

    Episode 41: Sad Girl Season: Now Streaming (The One Where Michelle Talks About Mental Health Portrayal In The Media)

    Mental Health in Media: Representation, Reality, and the Cringe Factor From prestige dramas to reality TV meltdowns to every gritty reboot with a tortured lead, media plays a massive role in how we understand mental health, how we talk about it, how we treat people who struggle, and how we see ourselves when we’re the ones quietly unraveling. In today’s episode of Shrink Wrapped, we’re digging into mental health representation in movies, TV, and pop culture- the good, the bad, and the deeply cringey. Because representation does matter… but not when it’s reduced to shock value, stereotypes, or a convenient plot twist. Michelle breaks down how media portrayals influence stigma, expectations, and self-recognition; why some depictions feel validating, others feel harmful, and how dramatized narratives often flatten complex experiences into something sensational or misleading. We’ll talk about common tropes, oversimplification, romanticizing suffering, and what happens when mental illness is treated as entertainment instead of lived reality. This episode isn’t about canceling shows or declaring one “correct” portrayal. It’s about media literacy, nuance, and learning to separate storytelling from truth, especially when those stories shape how people understand their own mental health. If you’ve ever watched a show and thought, “That’s not how this actually works,” or wondered why certain portrayals left you feeling seen while others left you feeling worse, this episode helps connect the dots. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

    49 min

  4. JAN 29

    Episode 40: Guided Journal Entry #10

    Guided Journal Episode: If Your Life Were a Book (What’s the Theme?) You ever read a book where the first few chapters are kind of a mess? Half the characters are confused, the main plot hasn’t kicked in yet, and you’re not entirely convinced the author knows where this is going? Yeah... welcome to being a person. In today’s guided journal episode of Shrink Wrapped, we’re stepping back and looking at your life through a narrative lens- not to judge the messy parts, but to make sense of them. Today’s journal prompt is:“If your life were a book, what would its central theme be? And how do the chapters so far lead toward a purpose-driven climax?” This episode guides you through a reflective journaling practice focused on meaning-making, identity, and perspective. We’ll explore how confusing, unfinished, or painful chapters can still contribute to a larger story, even if the plot hasn’t fully revealed itself yet. Michelle helps you examine patterns, values, and recurring themes without forcing everything to make sense or pretending the hard parts were “necessary for growth.” This isn’t about toxic optimism or rewriting your life into a tidy hero’s journey. It’s about recognizing that being mid-story doesn’t mean you’re lost, it means you’re still in the middle. And sometimes, naming the theme helps you understand where you want the story to go next. If you’ve been feeling stuck, behind, or unsure how your past connects to your future, this guided journal episode offers a compassionate way to zoom out and see your life with more curiosity than criticism. Grab your journal, your notes app, or just your thoughts. The author’s still writing. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

    36 min

  5. JAN 22

    Episode 39: Tics, Tropes, and Total Misunderstandings (DSM Dive- Tourette's)

    Tourette Syndrome: Beyond the Myths (A DSM Dive) Welcome to today’s episode of Shrink Wrapped, where we’re getting real about Tourette Syndrome, and no, it is notjust about randomly shouting curse words every five seconds. (Thanks, media, for that wildly inaccurate legacy.) This DSM Dive episode starts with the DSM criteria for Tourette Syndrome, the official diagnostic framework clinicians use, and breaks it down into something that actually makes sense. Spoiler alert: Tourette’s is far more complex than “just tics” or “random outbursts,” and it’s definitely not a punchline or a sitcom gag. We’ll talk about motor tics, vocal tics, onset, patterns, and how symptoms can fluctuate over time and across environments. We also dig into how Tourette Syndrome is portrayed in movies and TV, where coprolalia (involuntary swearing) is treated like the defining feature, even though it affects a minority of people with Tourette’s. This episode unpacks why that portrayal is so misleading, how it fuels stigma, and what Tourette’s actually looks like in real life for most people. This isn’t about diagnosing yourself or turning Tourette’s into a spectacle. It’s about education, nuance, and correcting a narrative that’s been wrong for far too long. Tourette Syndrome is a neurological condition- not a joke, not a character flaw, and not something people can just “control if they tried harder.” If most of what you know about Tourette’s came from pop culture, this episode offers a clearer, more accurate understanding, minus the stereotypes and sensationalism. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

    49 min

  6. JAN 16 · BONUS

    Episode 38.5: You're So Mature for Your Age, And Other Childhood Scams (The Bonus Episode Where Michelle Talks About How Damaging "You're So Mature For Your Age" Is)

    “You’re So Mature for Your Age”: When Survival Gets Mistaken for Strength “You’re so mature for your age.”It sounds flattering- like someone just recognized your wisdom, your resilience, your uncanny ability to hold it together. But sometimes that “compliment” isn’t about you being impressive at all. Sometimes it’s about an adult lowering the bar for what’s appropriate… or quietly raising the bar for what they expect you to carry. In today’s episode of Shrink Wrapped, we unpack what that phrase often really means, and how it shows up in experiences like parentification, emotional responsibility beyond your years, and growing up too fast because someone else didn’t show up. Michelle talks about how being labeled “mature for your age” is often the result of necessity, not choice. How kids learn to regulate adults, manage emotions that weren’t theirs to hold, and become the emotional support human in rooms where boundaries quietly disappeared. We’ll explore how the brain adapts to that environment, rewiring itself for survival, hyper-awareness, and responsibility, and why those adaptations aren’t flaws, weaknesses, or proof that something was wrong with you. This episode is about reframing survival skills that were mistaken for personality traits, and understanding how early emotional burden can shape adulthood- from people-pleasing and hyper-independence to burnout and difficulty asking for help. It’s also about naming the truth: you didn’t become “mature” because you were meant to be. You became mature because you had to be. If that phrase still echoes in your head, or if you’ve always felt older than you should have been, this episode offers language, validation, and compassion for a version of you that was doing the best it could in an unfair situation. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

    1h 60m

  7. JAN 15

    Episode 38: Neuroscience Says Be Thankful, So Here We Are (The One Where Michelle Talks About Practicing Gratitude)

    Gratitude Without the Gaslighting: Why Noticing Good Things Actually Helps Here’s the thing: gratitude is not a toxic positivity slogan slapped on a sunset background. It’s not about pretending everything is fine when it very much is not. Real gratitude, the kind that actually works, is more like mental floss. It clears out the gunk. It gently rewires your brain. And it doesn’t require you to lie about how you’re doing. In today’s episode of Shrink Wrapped, Michelle breaks down what gratitude actually is (and what it definitely isn’t). No, you will not be asked to thank your trauma, find a silver lining in suffering, or spiritually bypass your feelings. Instead, we explore how small, realistic acts of noticing what’s okay- or even just less bad- can shift your nervous system, improve emotional regulation, and support mental health over time. This episode looks at the science behind gratitude, why it helps with anxiety, burnout, and emotional numbness, and how it works alongside hard feelings instead of trying to erase them. Gratitude isn’t about denying pain, it’s about widening your awareness so pain isn’t the only thing your brain can see. If gratitude practices have ever felt fake, forced, or mildly insulting to your lived experience, this episode offers a much more honest approach. You can be struggling, exhausted, and still benefit from noticing one small good thing. Even if you’re still a little dead inside. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

    34 min

  8. JAN 8

    Episode 37: Grief: The Unwanted Houseguest That Won't Stop Rearranging Your Furniture (The One Where Michelle Talks About Grief)

    Grief: When It Shows Up Uninvited and Rearranges the Furniture Grief is weird. One minute you’re answering emails and making a sandwich, and the next you’re ugly crying over a sock because it reminded you of someone you lost. It doesn’t knock. It doesn’t check your calendar. It just shows up, kicks off its shoes, and settles in like it pays rent. In today’s episode of Shrink Wrapped, we’re talking about grief in all its messy, inconvenient, deeply human reality. No silver linings. No “everything happens for a reason.” No spiritual bypassing dressed up as comfort. Just real talk about what it means to lose someone — and still be here, trying to function in a world that looks and feels different without them. Michelle breaks down how grief actually shows up day to day: the unpredictability, the sudden waves, the way it sneaks into ordinary moments and refuses to be linear or polite. We’ll talk about why grief doesn’t have a timeline, why “doing okay” and “falling apart” can coexist, and why continuing to live doesn’t mean you’ve moved on or forgotten. This episode isn’t about fixing grief or finding meaning before you’re ready. It’s about naming it, normalizing it, and making space for the fact that loving someone doesn’t stop just because they’re gone. If you’re grieving, whether the loss is recent, complicated, or something you’ve been carrying quietly for years, this episode is for you. Join us on the O'Neil Counseling app here: ⁠https://www.oneilcounseling.com/app-landing-page

    1h 13m
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Shrink Wrapped dives into the real, messy, sometimes hilarious side of mental health- no toxic positivity, no sugarcoating, and zero judgment. Hosted by Michelle, a counselor’s daughter with a mic and a low tolerance for BS, the show breaks down mental health (think anxiety, trauma, burnout, relationships, neurodivergence, addiction, and more) in a way that actually makes sense. Expect honest conversations, guided journaling, DSM dives, and dark humor for people who’ve cried in their car, side-eyed self-help books, or stress-ate pizza in the name of self-care.

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  • Creator
    Michelle O'Neil
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    52
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Michelle O'Neil
  • Show Website
    Shrink Wrapped