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Daamly & Gigi

Join Gigi from Cali, and Daamly from Seoul for lighthearted and hilarious discussions of question marks around Korean and American cultures. Let's navigate the quirks, joys, and occasional confusion of two cultures. Legolego! Cali에 살지만 김치를 더 좋아하는 Gigi와 서울에 살지만 햄버거를 더 좋아하는 Daamly가 얘기하는 한국-미국이야기. 재미있고, 신기하고, 불편할 때도 있는 현실까지. 궁금했던 거 시원하게 풀어봅니다. Legolego!

  1. Episode 18 Is Jeju Island Actually Overrated? 🇰🇷 (The Truth From a Local)

    May 28

    Episode 18 Is Jeju Island Actually Overrated? 🇰🇷 (The Truth From a Local)

    Watch the full episode on Youtube @sidechatnews. We pack it up with fun visuals 😍. Welcome back, Kkakdugis! 🫶 Today, we are diving deep into the gorgeous, serene, and absolutely stunning Jeju Island (Jeju-do)! Often called the "Hawaii of Korea," Jeju has a completely different, slow-paced vibe from the bustling streets of Seoul and Busan. Gigi has been obsessed with her social media feed lately, discovering incredible family Airbnbs and tracking a viral "Jeju Guy" influencer who is putting the island on the map for English-speaking foreigners. Meanwhile, Daamly has been there more than 5 times and gives us the ultimate insider breakdown of what makes this island a bucket-list destination. From insane food recommendations to volcanic hikes, we cover it all! 📌 What We Discuss in This Episode:The Slow Life & Pop Culture: How K-pop icon Lee Hyori made everyone fall in love with the quiet Jeju lifestyle on her Netflix bed and breakfast show. The Ultimate Jeju Food Guide: Wrapping fresh Mackerel Sashimi in seaweed with seasonal rice.Sweet and bouncy Jeju red-banded lobsters (딱새우)—and making ramen broth out of the heads!The famous Jeju Black Pork BBQ... and the shocking proof of authenticity you can see right on the meat 🐖!Meljot: The traditional fermented big anchovy dipping sauce. Must-Visit Nature & Hiking Spots: Watching the sunrise at Seongsan Ilchulbong, a giant volcanic hill by the ocean.Hiking Hallasan (South Korea's highest mountain) to see the beautiful Baengrokdan (White Deer) crater lake. The Real-Life Mermaids: The legendary Haenyeo, female free-divers in their 70s and 80s who catch fresh seafood without oxygen tanks! Relaxation & Healing: Walking the coastal Jeju Olle Trail and cafe-hopping through traditional stone houses. Are you planning a trip to Korea soon? Have you ever tried Jeju black pork or braved the mackerel sashimi? Let us know your thoughts and travel experiences by DM-ing us @sidechatnews

    22 min
  2. Episode 17 The Naked Truth: The "tap" to flip and the unspoken deal of scrubbing a stranger’s back.

    May 13

    Episode 17 The Naked Truth: The "tap" to flip and the unspoken deal of scrubbing a stranger’s back.

    Welcome back to that space somewhere between California, USA, and Seongsu-dong, Korea—where Sidechat News (깍두기 News) happens! Grab your loofah and maybe some courage, kkakdugi! This week, we’re peeling back the layers—literally—on the legendary Italy Towel (이태리수건). While it’s currently trending as a "luxury spa treatment" in the US for over $170, Gigi and Daamly are here to remind us of its humble (and much more painful) OG roots in the public bathhouses of Korea. Daamly and Gigi dive deep into the cultural evolution of Sae-sin (세신), the professional scrubbing service where you’re treated less like a spa guest and more like a "piece of fish" getting de-scaled by a super-strong ajumma. The ladies also dive into:The $2 vs. $60 Markup: Why a scrubbing towel that costs a couple of bucks in Korea is being rebranded as a high-end "Italy Towel Deluxe" in America with a 10x markup. The History of the "Italy" Label: The surprising reason it’s called an "Italy Towel"—hint: it’s all about the original viscose fabric imports from decades ago. Public Bathhouse Etiquette: A survival guide to being "naked-naked," the unspoken rule of "tapping" to flip over, and the community tradition of scrubbing a stranger’s back so they’ll do yours. The "Deungmuk" Days: How a lack of indoor plumbing 50 years ago created a culture of deep-cleaning that stuck with generations of Koreans. "Baby Skin" vs. Skin Barriers: Is the "glowing" look worth the trauma? Daamly explains why Koreans are actually moving away from intense scrubbing while the West is just catching on. If you’ve ever wondered why your mom used to scrub you until you turned red, or if you’re curious about the "luxury" version popping up in LA, this episode is your Kkakdugi field guide to the grit, the glamour, and the "Italy" of it all. #KoreanCulture #SidechatNews #ItalyTowel #KoreanSpa #KBeauty #SaeSin #Kkakdugi

    23 min
  3. Episode 16 🎂 "I’ll Shoot!" — The Wild World of Korean Birthday Culture & The Great Bill Fight

    May 6

    Episode 16 🎂 "I’ll Shoot!" — The Wild World of Korean Birthday Culture & The Great Bill Fight

    Welcome back to that space somewhere between California, USA, and Seongsu-dong, Korea—where Sidechat News (깍두기 News) happens! Buckle up, kkakdugi! This week, we’re celebrating a very special occasion—it was Gigi’s birthday! 🥳 But while Gigi was out celebrating with her Korean unnies in San Francisco, she hit a major cultural plot twist at the end of the meal: In Korea, the birthday person is actually the one who pays. Daamly and Gigi dive deep into the "pay culture" shock that leaves Americans confused and Korean cashiers exhausted. From the psychology of the "star of the day" to the high-stakes drama of the restaurant counter, we’re breaking down why your Korean friends are literally wrestling over the check. The ladies also dive into: "Naega Ssolge!" (내가 쏠게): Why Koreans say they’re going to "shoot" you when they’re actually offering to buy you dinner, and the generous slang behind "Han-teok." The Age Tax: Why being the "Senior" or the older Unni means your wallet is always the first one out—unless you’re part of the Gen Z "Dutch Pay" revolution. The Counter Combat: A look at the intense (and slightly embarrassing) physical fights K-Ajummas have at the cashier to prove who is more generous. Card Roulette: The genius "random card picking" game Koreans play to let fate (and a very stressed cashier) decide who foots the bill. Birthday Spotlight: Gigi reviews her birthday dinner at Sanhowon—the Michelin-recognized SF spot that’s the perfect "fine-casual" bridge between Seoul and the Bay. If you’ve ever wondered why your Korean friends get "sal-beol" (intense) when the bill arrives, or if you should feel guilty letting your older friend pay for the fifth time in a row, this episode is your "Kkakdugi" field guide to the social etiquette of celebration. #KoreanCulture #KkakdugiNews #SidechatNews #BirthdayCulture #Sanhowon #LivingInTheUS #KoreanEtiquette #Kbeauty

    16 min
  4. Episode 15 The BTS Breakdown: Underdogs, "Good Boys," and why 18 Million People Snubbed the Oscars

    Apr 30

    Episode 15 The BTS Breakdown: Underdogs, "Good Boys," and why 18 Million People Snubbed the Oscars

    Welcome back to that space somewhere between California, USA, and Seongsu-dong, Korea—where Sidechat News (깍두기 News) happens! Buckle up, kkakdugi! This week, Gigi and Daamly are going back to school—elementary school style—to finally figure out: Dummies for BTS. After realizing they’re basically "young-born fans" in the world of ARMY, the ladies dive into a crash course on the seven members, from RM’s "brain of the group" energy to Jungkook’s status as the "Golden Maknae." Gigi and Daamly also break down their exclusive survey of 100 Americans and 100 Koreans to figure out why the "BTS effect" feels so different depending on where you live. The ladies also dive into: The "Underdog" Debate: Why Americans love a "started from the bottom" story, while Koreans point out that their producer, Bang Si-hyuk, was already a massive industry legend. The "Presidential" Treatment: How BTS became the "Presidents of Korea," performing at Gwanghwamun—a spot usually reserved for national events and World Cup watch parties. The Fandom Rainbow: Why K-pop groups like BTS (Purple), Big Bang (Yellow), and G.O.D (Sky Blue) have official colors, and why Americans are still stuck on Taylor Swift’s friendship bracelets. The "Good Boy" (Chakhae) Vibe: A look at why fans feel like they’ve "raised" the members through vlog-style transparency and their surprisingly humble, family-oriented personalities. Netflix vs. The World: Breaking down those mind-blowing stats—like how BTS's live concert viewership of 18.4 million actually crushed the viewership of the Oscars. If you’ve ever wondered why your Korean friends get misty-eyed over "Borahae" or why the US thinks BTS were "underdogs," this episode is your "Kkakdugi" field guide to the biggest group on the planet. #BTS #ARMY #Kpop #SidechatNews #KoreanAmerican #Borahae #RM #Jungkook

    30 min
  5. Episode 14 Salmon Sperm & Stinging Needles: Our Unfiltered K-Beauty Survival Guide

    Apr 22

    Episode 14 Salmon Sperm & Stinging Needles: Our Unfiltered K-Beauty Survival Guide

    Welcome back to that space somewhere between California, USA, and Seongsu-dong, Korea—where Sidechat News (깍두기 News) happens! Buckle up, kkakdugi! This week, Gigi and Daamly are getting vulnerable (and very swollen) as they spill the tea on the wild world of K-beauty procedures. Gigi kicks things off by recounting her journey with Rejuran, a treatment she affectionately—and terrifyingly—calls "salmon sperm."  From having her face manually "embossed" with a syringe to crying silent tears while a doctor told her she had a high pain threshold, she shares why she looked like a "monster" for a week just for a glow she's still looking for. The ladies also dive into: The "Iron Face" Experience: Gigi describes the sensation of Ultherapy and Thermage as being punched with an electric iron that you can feel in your teeth. The Gangnam Bandage Brigade: Why it’s totally normal to see people shopping for earrings with full-on surgical threads and bandages hanging off their faces in Korea. "Song-therapy" Drama: A look at actress Song Ji Hyo’s legendary 600-shot Ultherapy swelling that turned her into a viral meme. The "Baby" Procedures: For the "not-so-strong" women like Daamly who want the lifting without the "I think I’m dying" pain levels of Shurink. Cloud Serums & Dry Sponges: A shoutout to the brand Dear My Friend (DE:MAF) and the secret to layering serum like you’re hydrating a dry sponge. If you’ve ever wondered if you should let a doctor needle-point your face for the sake of "glass skin," this episode is your much-needed reality check.

    28 min
  6. Episode 13 Embracing the Layers: Charlie Smith on Black-Korean Identity, Motherhood, and "Jung"

    Apr 15

    Episode 13 Embracing the Layers: Charlie Smith on Black-Korean Identity, Motherhood, and "Jung"

    Welcome back to that space somewhere between California, USA, and Seongsu-dong, Korea—where Sidechat News (깍두기 News) happens! In this episode, Gigi and Daamly are joined by a very special guest, Charlie Smith, whose unique and authentic voice has been making waves on Instagram. We’re unpacking what it’s like to grow up being Korean and Black in the United States. From the diverse streets of Flushing, Queens, to the quiet mountains of Utah, we're diving into the struggle of claiming both sides of your heritage when the world tries to make you pick just one. We’re also getting into the heart of Korean "warmth" and the concept of Jung (정). Charlie shares her "healing" process of reclaiming the Korean culture she once pushed away, the hilarious reality of teaching a toddler "toddler-speak" like Kka-kka and Jiji, and why she’s finally ready to head back to Korea to reunite with her Busan-born roots. In This Episode, We Discuss: The Flushing Melting Pot: Growing up in a Korean American church where the community becomes your "second family".The "Not Korean Enough" Struggle: Charlie opens up about the pressure from both the Black and Korean communities and the regret of distancing herself from her heritage in her 20s.Motherhood & Heritage: Why having a son changed everything—from craving kimbap and miyeok-guk during pregnancy to wanting him to experience the same Korean "pride".Doljabi Dreams: A breakdown of her son’s first birthday ceremony. Did he pick the stethoscope, the microphone, or the classic pile of money?.K-Beauty & Survival: Charlie’s excitement for her upcoming trip to Korea—not just for the food, but for the personalized beauty treatments Gigi raves about.Toddler Talk & Deep Feelings: Why words like Saranghae and Nunchi encompass feelings that English just can't quite capture. Do you have a word in your culture that just doesn't translate to English? Or are you currently on your own journey of reclaiming your roots? DM us on Instagram and share your "Kkakdugi" story with us! #MixedHeritage #IdentityJourney #Kculture #Jung #KoreanAmerican

    30 min
  7. Episode 12 You’re So Baam-T, Ajas!" — Navigating the Wild World of Korean Gen Z Slang

    Apr 8

    Episode 12 You’re So Baam-T, Ajas!" — Navigating the Wild World of Korean Gen Z Slang

    Welcome back to that space somewhere between California, USA, and Seongsu-dong, Korea—where Sidechat News (깍두기 News) happens! In this episode, Gigi and Daamly are putting on their coolest sunglasses to dive into the confusing, hilarious, and occasionally spicy world of modern Korean slang. Ever been called "Baam-T" and wondered if it was a compliment? (Spoiler: Unless it’s in a love song, probably not). We’re breaking down the evolution of "tacky" trends, the "safe" way to swear in Korean, and the Japanese-inspired phrase that Gen Z uses to get away with saying almost anything. We’re also comparing notes on American "Young 40" slang—from "chopped" to "cooked"—and realizing that while Daamly might watch a few too many PG-13 dramas, Gigi is here to make sure you don’t sound like Young Sheldon when you’re trying to be cool. In This Episode, We Discuss:The Legend of Baam-T: How a "tacky" avatar from a mobile game became the ultimate Korean word for "lame." Plus, why Daamly’s brother used it in a love song to describe someone’s "dorky" charm."Shagal" vs. "Sibal": Learning the art of the "mild" curse word. We track the journey from "Jenjang" (Damn) to "Doenjang" (Soybean Paste) and explain why you might see "Shagal" on Instagram but rarely hear it in real life.The "Ajas" Challenge: The Gen Z magic word derived from Arigatou Gozaimasu. Discover how to insult someone and immediately make it "all good" by adding "Ajas!" at the end.Kkondae Corner: A quick refresher on the older folks who love to "correct" you—and why the "Ajas" trend is the ultimate weapon against them.The American Equivalent: Why "No Shade" is the closest thing we have to "Ajas," and why saying "Darn it" or "Shoot" will officially make you the "nerdy" friend.Local Shoutout: Hyehae We’re loving these sun-cured nail stickers. They’re perfect for long flights and a healthier alternative to UV-light gel nails—plus, the name is a brilliant pun on the Korean word for "sun." Are you feeling a little "spicy" enough to try out "Shagal" this week? Or are you sticking to being a dorky "Baam-T" with us? DM us on Instagram with your favorite slang, trending news, or even the weird stuff from your KakaoTalk group chats! #BaamT #Shagal #Ajas #KoreanSlang #Kculture #KoreanAmerican

    19 min
  8. Episode 11 The “Kimjang Vest” & The Unspoken Connection: Why Some Kimchi Smells Like a Crime Scene

    Apr 1

    Episode 11 The “Kimjang Vest” & The Unspoken Connection: Why Some Kimchi Smells Like a Crime Scene

    Welcome back to that space somewhere between California, USA, and Seongsu-dong, Korea—where Sidechat News (깍두기 News) happens! In this episode, Gigi and Daamly are unpacking a fashion trend that technically started in your grandma’s garden but ended up on G-Dragon and Jennie from BLACKPINK. We’re diving into the world of the "Kimjang Vest" (a.k.a. the Grandma Vest)—the floral, padded essential designed to hide kimchi stains while making a major "meme fashion" statement. We’re also getting into the literal "stink" of authentic Korean flavors. From Gigi's hilarious story of a fridge-cleaning intervention triggered by Pa-kimchi (green onion kimchi) to why Daamly—the ultimate "Kkakdugi"—is actually a kimchi rebel who eats pizza without pickles and ramen without cabbage. Plus, we finally explain the "haircut" history behind Chonggak Kimchi and why some radishes are named after unmarried men. In This Episode, We Discuss: The Kimjang Vest Phenomenon: From a $4 street find to a $4,000 Valentino version. Why young Seoulites are heading to the countryside for "Chonkangs" (rural vacations) just to dress like their grandmothers. The "Dead Milk" Mystery: The time Gigi's American friends thought something had died in their refrigerator, only to realize it was just the pungent, delicious glory of fermented green onions. Kimchi Pairings 101: Why you need Kkakdugi for your Gomtang and why Geotjeori is basically the "fresh salad" of the kimchi world. What is a "Kkakdugi"? Reclaiming our name! From being the "extra" person on the elementary school dodgeball team to the beauty of being an "underdog" who doesn't take themselves too seriously. Defining "Jung" (정): Trying to explain the unexplainable—the unspoken connection, history, and immediate warmth between Koreans, even in a random grocery store aisle. Local Shoutout: We’re obsessed with Queens, a local brand making Korean-American ingredients like Kimchi Chojang and Miso Ice Cream look modern and fresh. Are you a kimchi traditionalist who needs it with every meal, or are you a "Kkakdugi" like Daamly? DM us on Instagram and let us know your favorite (or most "exotic") kimchi stories! #KimjangVest #KoreanCulture #Jung #Kculture #KoreanAmerican

    19 min

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Join Gigi from Cali, and Daamly from Seoul for lighthearted and hilarious discussions of question marks around Korean and American cultures. Let's navigate the quirks, joys, and occasional confusion of two cultures. Legolego! Cali에 살지만 김치를 더 좋아하는 Gigi와 서울에 살지만 햄버거를 더 좋아하는 Daamly가 얘기하는 한국-미국이야기. 재미있고, 신기하고, 불편할 때도 있는 현실까지. 궁금했던 거 시원하게 풀어봅니다. Legolego!

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