Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ with Dian Griesel: How People Think, Lead & Create Success

Dian Griesel, Ph.D. aka @SilverDisobedience

What happens when raw curiosity collides with uncharted truths? In Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics, host Dian Griesel—a provocateur of perception—dives into unscripted, no-holds-barred stories from fascinating guests across diverse lives. We unpack work, play, psychology, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments & unguarded insights—stunning even the boldest with their own "aha" truths. Raw inspiration, mindset shifts & uplifting wisdom fuel deeper self- and other understanding. No scripted fluff. Subscribe.

  1. 1D AGO

    Leadership Transformed: The Seven Pillars with Larry Hartmann

    The Essence of Leadership: Larry Hartman's Seven Pillars ExplainedTune into as Dian Griesel interviews Larry Hartmann, the author of 'Seven Pillars of Inspired Leadership.' Larry shares his profound wisdom on leadership, discussing the importance of influence, servant leadership, and emotional intelligence. He also dives into his journey of scaling two multimillion-dollar companies and offers valuable advice on fostering loyalty, navigating challenges, and developing communication skills crucial for effective leadership. Tune in to learn about the evolving dynamics of leadership and how to build a culture that retains top talent. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠ Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to Leadership00:27 Meet Larry Hartman01:27 Defining Leadership04:20 Larry's Background and Journey08:58 The Seven Pillars of Inspired Leadership12:06 Challenges in Modern Leadership27:05 The Importance of Communication Skills29:37 Building a Balanced Team30:47 The Myth of 20% Doing 80% of the Work32:12 Quiet Quitting and Leadership Responsibility35:17 The ETCH Leadership Method38:48 The Importance of Candor in Leadership45:56 The Future of Hiring and AI51:43 Building and Changing Company Culture54:43 Advice for Aspiring CEOs56:19 Conclusion and Book Promotion

    57 min
  2. 3D AGO

    The Power of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy with Dr. Debbie Joffe Ellis

    Empower Your Life: Dr. Debbie Joffe Ellis on Rational Emotive Behavior TherapyJoin host Dian Griesel in this enlightening episode of the Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast as she interviews the renowned psychologist Dr. Debbie Joffe Ellis. They delve into the powerful concepts of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT), exploring how to identify, challenge, and change irrational beliefs that cause emotional distress. Dr. Debbie explains the importance of rational thinking, creating emotions, and taking personal responsibility for one's actions. Discover how practicing daily gratitude and understanding the interplay between thoughts and emotions can empower you to live a more fulfilling life. The episode also highlights the critical role of healthy versus unhealthy emotions and the significance of unconditional self-acceptance. Whether you're new to REBT or looking to deepen your understanding, this conversation is packed with wisdom and practical advice for enhancing mental well-being. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠00:00 Introduction to Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT)01:52 Defining Rational Thinking03:05 Understanding Emotive Behavior04:30 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Emotions08:28 The Power of Personal Responsibility18:34 The Role of Gratitude in Mental Health25:59 Nature, Nurture, and Personal Responsibility28:07 The Role of Healthy Models in Learning28:38 Impact of Parental Behavior on Children29:07 Consequences of Negative Upbringing30:30 The Importance of Unconditional Self-Acceptance31:33 Distinguishing Worth from Behavior36:33 Empowerment and Responsibility40:11 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Emotions47:24 The Philosophy Behind REBT48:33 Final Thoughts and Advice

    52 min
  3. FEB 4

    Strategic Learning and Never Retiring: A Dialogue with Willie Pietersen

    Mastering Leadership and Strategic Learning with Willie Pietersen | Silver Disobedience PodcastJoin host Dian Griesel in this insightful episode of the Silver Disobedience Perception Dynamics podcast as she interviews Willie Pietersen, a seasoned C-suite executive, Columbia University professor, and author. Willie shares his invaluable wisdom on topics such as never retiring, the importance of continuous learning, and leading life at a reasonable pace. He delves into the concept of strategic learning, the critical distinction between leadership and management, and offers personal anecdotes on navigating corporate challenges. Willie also discusses the impact of the status quo bias and the evolving dynamics of corporate longevity. This episode is packed with lessons on resilience, adaptability, and effective leadership—vital for anyone aiming for personal and professional growth. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠00:00 Introduction to Willie Pietersen00:47 The Philosophy of Never Retiring01:52 Transitioning Careers and Lifelong Learning03:41 The Intersection of Theory and Practice08:23 Adapting to Change and Innovation22:30 The Importance of Leading Life at a Reasonable Pace27:04 Addressing Urgent Problems27:51 Strategic Learning and Corporate Lifespans28:38 The Role of Strategy in Competitive Advantage32:06 Leadership vs. Management37:41 Capitalism and Ethical Leadership44:40 The Importance of Feedback in Leadership50:59 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

    52 min
  4. FEB 2

    Imperfect Parenting: Embracing Our Flaws for Happier Kids with Kate Hamilton

    The Imperfect Parent: Embracing the Flaws in Parenting with Kate HamiltonIn this episode, Silver Disobedience Perception Dynamics podcast, host Dian Griesel sits down with Kate Hamilton, author of 'The Imperfect Parent.' They delve into the challenging yet rewarding journey of parenting, discussing the unrealistic expectation of perfect parenting and the importance of embracing imperfection. Kate shares her personal insights and experiences, from learning that parenting doesn't come with a manual to discovering the individuality of each child. They discuss how different parenting styles can foster or hinder children's growth and emphasize the need for intentional parenting. Kate's book serves as a guiding tool, filled with reflective questions to help parents navigate their own unique paths. This episode is filled with relatable anecdotes, practical advice, and the overarching message that it's okay to be an imperfect parent. Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel, Ph.D. aka @SilverDisobedience to my hundreds of thousands of monthly blog readers. You can learn more about me here:   ⁠https://diangriesel.com⁠ But for starters…I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York. https://www.themanhattancenter.com/SHOW RUN: 00:00 Introduction to Imperfect Parenting00:44 Meet Kate Hamilton01:11 Kate's Parenting Journey02:13 The Reality of Imperfect Parenting03:03 Parenting Challenges and Realizations04:42 Teaching Accountability and Consequences09:31 Humorous Parenting Anecdotes20:01 The Importance of Choices in Parenting22:20 Parenting Reflections and Advice26:59 Booking Travel Tips27:19 Hilarious Niece Story28:22 Parenting Wisdom and Mark Twain29:00 Credit Card Lessons for Kids31:24 The Parent-Friend Dilemma33:02 Learning Right from Wrong36:10 Blame Game in Parenting38:13 Teaching Financial Responsibility47:13 Negotiating with Children50:36 Concluding Thoughts and Recommendations

    52 min
  5. JAN 28

    Discovering 'Slow Theology' with AJ Swoboda

    Discovering 'Slow Theology' with AJ Swoboda: Embracing Slow Living for Spiritual Strength In this thought-provoking episode, Dian Griesel sits down with AJ Swoboda, a theologian and co-author of the book "Slow Theology" Together they explore the concept of slowing down as a means to enhance spiritual strength. The discussion looks at how our fast-paced culture impairs thoughtful decision-making and the importance of patience in understanding and developing faith. Swoboda shares insights from his previous work on doubt and deconstruction in Christian faith and underscores the value of intentionality and community in spiritual practices. Touching on biblical stories, the conversation delves into embracing pain and suffering as avenues for divine work and the transformative power of genuine prayer and reconciliation. Whether you're questioning your faith or seeking deeper spiritual engagement, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice. You can buy a copy of SLOW THEOLOGY here: https://amzn.to/3Zn119H Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my ⁠website⁠ and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠⁠X⁠⁠ Career-wise, I am a ⁠perception analyst⁠, ⁠counselor, hypnotherapist⁠, author of 16 books and a ⁠Wilhelmina⁠ model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 ⁠YouTube Channel⁠ ⁠Spotify⁠ ⁠i❤️podcasts⁠ ⁠🍎podcasts⁠ LinkedIn: ⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠⁠  SHOW RUN: 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 01:35 The Concept of Slow Theology 03:58 Slowing Down in Faith and Life 05:51 Understanding God's Timing 07:39 Prayer and Expectations 12:30 The Nature of God's Power 17:30 Understanding Hurt and Reconciliation with God 18:11 The Role of Honesty in Reconciliation 19:16 Connecting Spiritual and Earthly Relationships 21:13 Lessons from Paul's Prison Epistles 24:32 The Bible's Enduring Legacy and the Holy Spirit 27:16 The Reality of Evil and the Existence of God 31:12 Finding Faith and Community 33:23 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    36 min
  6. JAN 26

    Limerence, Romantic Longing & Abstinence with Amanda McCracken

    Understanding Limerence: Insights with Amanda McCrackenIn this episode of the Silver Disobedience Perception Dynamics podcast, host Dian Griesel explores the concept of limerence with guest Amanda McCracken. They discuss the psychological state of intense infatuation, the difference between love and limerence, and the impact of these feelings on one's relationships. Amanda shares her personal experiences and journey of abstinence, as well as her thoughts on how self-worth and societal messages affect dating behaviors. They delve into the cultural shifts surrounding hookup culture, the complexities of human relationships, and the importance of believing in one's worthiness for love. Amanda's forthcoming book, 'When Longing Becomes Your Lover,' is discussed, focusing on breaking free from patterns of infatuation and finding authentic love. Amanda's Website: https://www.amandajmccracken.com/ Book: https://amzn.to/3M3qVvW Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to Limerence01:47 Amanda McCracken's Journey with Limerence02:44 Defining Limerence and Its Impact04:24 The Role of Uncertainty in Limerence06:12 Navigating Ghosting and Rejection09:50 Personal Stories and Reflections13:02 The Influence of Culture and Society19:36 Abstinence and Dating Challenges27:07 Internet Connection Issues28:09 Defining Limerence in Early Dating28:47 Personal Experiences with Limerence31:34 The Impact of a College Relationship33:21 Writing and Researching Limerence36:37 Patterns in Attraction40:31 Advice for Future Generations42:56 Book Details and Final Thoughts

    51 min
  7. JAN 23

    Brainwashed for Greatness with Charles Porter, Part 2

    Battling Cancer and Climbing Mountains: An Inspirational Conversation with Charles Porter - Part 2In this powerful episode, Charles Porter, an actor, producer, and three-time bone marrow transplant survivor, shares the second part of his incredible journey battling stage four Hodgkin's lymphoma. From intense treatments to climbing Mount Rainier, Charles discusses the trials, innovations, and the significant role of relationships in his fight against cancer. He also touches upon the life-changing moment of finding a bone marrow match and the emotional connection with his donor. Join us for this heartwarming and inspiring continuation of Charles Porter's story. Learn more about Charles at any of these links:https://www.charlesfporter.com/ https://www.instagram.com/brainwashedforgreatness/ https://www.instagram.com/cfpgram/ https://amzn.to/4sTr4m7 https://www.mylifetime.com/movies/finding-faith Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on  my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠ Show Run:00:00 Introduction and Overview01:04 Charles Porter's Diagnosis and Initial Treatment02:41 The Journey Through Remission and Relapse03:52 Exploring New Treatments and Clinical Trials04:26 Climbing Mount Rainier and Personal Reflections06:46 The Power of Relationships and Support11:59 Facing New Challenges and Finding a Match20:31 Connecting with the Bone Marrow Donor23:31 Gratitude and Biblical Influence24:19 Brainstorming the Story25:00 Medical Journey and Miracles29:01 Inspiration from Others30:28 Perseverance and Personal Growth31:24 The Power of Appreciation39:41 Positive Ripple Effects41:52 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude

    44 min
  8. JAN 22

    Resillience, Faith and Filming Dreams: The Charles Porter Story, Part 1

    From Athlete to Actor: Charles Porter's Inspirational Journey and ResiliencePart 1 of 2 Episodes In this episode, Dian hosts Charles Porter, an exceptional individual whose life story is filled with resilience, inspiration and success. Charles shares his remarkable journey from being an athlete; his blood type changing due to cancer treatments; to becoming an actor; and now film producer, too. He discusses how he went from playing college football at Duke University to pursuing a modeling and acting career in Hollywood despite numerous challenges. Along the way, Charles dealt with life-threatening non-Hodgkin's lymphoma and underwent stem cell transplants, showing extraordinary bravery. He also talks about his career milestones, including a pivotal role in the faith-based film 'Finding Faith' which became highly successful. Throughout the episode, the emphasis is on how positivity, dedication, and support from loved ones helped him navigate through tough times, ultimately emerging stronger and successful. Learn more about Charles at any of these links: https://www.charlesfporter.com https://www.instagram.com/brainwashedforgreatness/ https://www.instagram.com/cfpgram/ https://amzn.to/4sTr4m7 https://www.mylifetime.com/movies/finding-faith Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on  my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨ 🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcasts LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠  This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York SHOW RUN:⁠⁠00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:48 Charles Porter's Inspirational Journey02:53 Athletic Beginnings and College Football06:35 Transition to Acting and Early Career14:48 First Big Break and Modeling Career30:19 Celebrity Encounters and Party Stories34:09 First Big Break and International Film Experience34:56 Producing a Low-Budget Horror Film40:40 Struggles and Support from Family46:28 Health Challenges and Triumphs56:27 Success in Faith-Based Film58:42 Conclusion and Future Plans

    1 hr

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What happens when raw curiosity collides with uncharted truths? In Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics, host Dian Griesel—a provocateur of perception—dives into unscripted, no-holds-barred stories from fascinating guests across diverse lives. We unpack work, play, psychology, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments & unguarded insights—stunning even the boldest with their own "aha" truths. Raw inspiration, mindset shifts & uplifting wisdom fuel deeper self- and other understanding. No scripted fluff. Subscribe.