Slightly Unsupervised

Jennifer Hobbs & Jackie Schroeder
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Two best friends. Zero filters. All truth. We’re not married—but we kinda are.  Slightly Unsupervised is a podcast about the kind of soulmates who don’t come with a marriage license. Hosted by longtime best friends Jennifer and Jackie, this show dives into the real, raw, and ridiculously funny side of female friendship, emotional growth, and what it really takes to stay connected through the chaos of life.  From navigating toxic friendships and healing after breakups, to starting a trademarked friendship ceremony called Bestiemony®, we’re here to celebrate the messy magic of bestie energy.  Expect honest conversations about:  Friendship breakups and red flagsLoyalty, boundaries, and emotional supportMotherhood, identity, and growing up side-by-sideAnd of course, a few laugh-till-you-snort momentsIf you’ve ever had a ride-or-die, lost one, or are still looking, this podcast will remind you why friendship is the most underrated love story of all. 🎧 New episodes weekly. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony   #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #Bestiemonies #FriendshipPodcast #FemaleFriendship #RideOrDieFriends #RealTalkWithBesties #UnfilteredConnection #EmotionalSupport #PlatonicSoulmates #FriendshipBreakups #ToxicFriendships #HealingJourney #FriendshipIsLove #SupportiveFriends #CelebrateYourBestie #PodcastForWomen 

  1. 3D AGO

    The Retirement Home Pact: Why Best Friends Plan to Grow Old Together (And Refuse to Drift Apart)

    Send us Fan Mail The Retirement Home Pact: Why Best Friends Plan to Grow Old Together (And Refuse to Drift Apart)   It started as a joke… but it turned into a pact.  In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into their very real plan to end up in the same retirement home—and why it’s about so much more than aging, housing, or even logistics.  Because behind the laughter, the chaos, and the slightly unhinged planning… is something deeper:  👉 the decision to choose each other for life.  As women get older, friendships don’t just “stick”—they require intention, effort, and a shared vision for the future. Jennifer and Jackie open up about why they’ve spent years planning their “retirement home era,” how it gives them comfort knowing they won’t grow old alone, and why this kind of friendship bond is rare—but powerful.  They also get real (and hilarious) about:   What their future living situation might actually look like (retirement home vs. friend compound 👀)  Why women often outlive their partners—and what that means for friendship  The importance of planning emotional support, not just financial retirement  The role each bestie will play (caretaker, troublemaker, organizer… you already know 😂)  Why staying connected long-term doesn’t happen by accident  And yes… they’ve already trained their kids on what to smuggle in. (You’re welcome.)   Because at the end of the day, this isn’t about where they end up—  it’s about who they refuse to lose along the way.   If this episode made you laugh, think, or text your best friend… we’ll call that a win. 💛   👉 Subscribe, leave a review, and share with your ride-or-die.   This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    23 min

  2. APR 27

    Reconnecting After Years Apart: How We Rebuilt Our Friendship

    Send us Fan Mail We Found Our Way Back: Rebuilding a Friendship After 15 Years Apart  What happens when a friendship you thought was gone forever… finds its way back?  In this deeply personal episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie share the real story of how they reconnected after 15 years apart—and why rebuilding a friendship later in life is rarely instant, but always worth it.  From high school best friends to years of silence, life changes, and separate paths… this episode walks you through the exact moments that brought them back together. It wasn’t one big conversation or a dramatic reunion—it was small steps, uncomfortable reaches, and choosing to show up again and again.  They open up about:   The first awkward reconnection (and why it matters)  How vulnerability and courage rebuild trust  Why consistency—not intensity—is what brings friendships back to life  The emotional reality of reconnecting after divorce, distance, and time  What it really takes to feel safe, seen, and connected again  How to know if a friendship is worth trying again  Plus, their Bestie Rapid Questions get real, emotional, and honest—covering what they wish they had said, what they’ve learned, and why losing each other actually made their bond stronger.   If you’ve ever lost a friendship, wondered if you should reach out, or hoped for a second chance… this episode is your reminder that some connections don’t disappear—they just need time, space, and a little courage to come back.  Because the best friendships aren’t always the easiest… but they might just be the ones worth rebuilding.   This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    26 min

  3. APR 20

    We Didn’t Talk for 15 Years… And It Mattered More Than We Admitted

    Send us Fan Mail We Didn’t Talk for 15 Years… And It Mattered More Than We Admitted  What happens when someone who once knew everything about you… becomes a stranger?  In this deeply personal episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie open up about the 15 years they didn’t speak — and why that silence mattered more than they ever admitted.  This wasn’t a dramatic falling out.  No big fight. No clear ending.  Just life… pulling them in different directions.  But here’s the truth:  You don’t just lose the friendship.  You lose the person who remembers your life with you.  Together, they reflect on:   How a ride-or-die friendship can quietly fade over time  The pain of losing shared memories — not just the person  Why “we just grew apart” doesn’t always tell the full story  The impact of relationships, life changes, and timing  What it feels like to reconnect after years apart  And why some friendships never fully leave you  This episode is raw, nostalgic, funny, and honest — full of wild high school memories, late-night talks, and the kind of connection that doesn’t come around often.   Because sometimes…  The friendships we lose aren’t gone.  They’re just waiting for the right moment to find their way back.   🎙 Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie  💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring   If you’ve ever lost a friend, missed someone quietly, or wondered “what if”… this episode will hit you right in the heart.   And maybe… give you the courage to reach back out.   Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    32 min

  4. APR 13

    Same Friendship, Different Rules: Why Generations Don’t Get Each Other

    Send us Fan Mail Same Friendship, Different Rules: Why Generations Don’t Get Each Other  Ever feel like you and someone you care about are speaking completely different emotional languages? You’re not imagining it… it might be generational. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into why friendships across different generations can feel confusing, frustrating, and sometimes even hurtful—even when both people genuinely care. From communication styles and emotional expression to boundaries, loyalty, and expectations, every generation was shaped differently… and those differences don’t just disappear in friendships. Jennifer and Jackie get real about:  Why generational clashes happen (and why it’s not always personal)  The biggest friction points between Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z  How the way you were raised shapes how you show up as a friend  Real-life examples of generational misunderstandings in families and friendships  Why some people want to talk everything out… and others just want you to move on  How to navigate friendships when you see the world completely differently They also share honest stories about family dynamics, different perspectives, and the challenge of trying to connect when your emotional wiring doesn’t match. Because sometimes…  👉 it’s not the friendship that’s broken …it’s the framework you’re both using. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    27 min

  5. APR 6

    Why You Don’t Think Like Me: The Truth About Generational Friendships

    Send us Fan Mail Why You Don’t Think Like Me: The Truth About Generational Friendships  Friendship hasn’t gotten worse… it’s just gotten different.  In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie break down how friendships have evolved from Baby Boomers to Gen Z—and why every generation connects, communicates, and shows up in completely different ways.  From the loyalty and “don’t talk about it” mindset of Baby Boomers, to the independent, low-maintenance friendships of Gen X… to the emotionally expressive Millennials and the boundary-driven Gen Z—each generation has its own friendship language.  And sometimes… those languages don’t translate.  Jennifer and Jackie get real about:   Why different generations expect completely different things from friendship  The biggest clashes between loyalty, communication, and boundaries  How the way you were raised shapes how you show up as a friend  Why some people want to talk everything out… and others just want you to get over it  How to stop taking generational differences personally—and start understanding them  They also share real-life stories, generational frustrations, and a few laugh-out-loud moments (including the reality of growing up with wall phones and zero privacy).   Because the truth is—  we’re all using the word “friendship”…   👉 but we don’t all mean the same thing.   Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    37 min

  6. MAR 30

    Touch My Bestie and It’s On: Why We Defend Our Friends Harder Than Ourselves

    Send us Fan Mail Touch My Bestie and It’s On: Why We Defend Our Friends Harder Than Ourselves  You can insult us. We’ll probably roll our eyes and move on.  But disrespect our bestie?  Now we’re drafting paragraphs, standing taller, and deciding who needs to be escorted out of the group chat.  In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie unpack the protective instinct that kicks in when someone hurts our people. Why is it easier to defend our friends than defend ourselves? Why do we forgive faster for our own pain… but hold lifelong grudges when someone crosses our bestie?  This chapter dives into:  Why women go full mama bear for their friends  How loyalty can turn into fierce (and sometimes petty) protection  The difference between healthy boundaries and permanent blacklists  Why our “bullsh*t tolerance” drops as we age  How childhood patterns of self-abandonment can turn into over-protection of others  When sticking up for your friend helps — and when it complicates things  Jennifer and Jackie share real stories from their friend group — girls’ trips gone sideways, shady behavior, teenage locker-room standoffs, Moscow Mule meltdowns, and the unspoken rule: if you hurt one of us, you hurt both of us.  They also admit the hard truth:  Sometimes we hold onto anger longer than the friend who was actually hurt.  Because protecting your bestie feels powerful.  Protecting yourself? That’s harder.  This episode is about loyalty, love, projection, fierce devotion — and the beautiful, chaotic energy of women who refuse to let their people stand alone.  🎙 Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie  💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license.  Listen in, laugh with us, and maybe text your ride-or-die just to say: “I’ve got you.”  Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    26 min

  7. MAR 23

    Making Friends Later in Life: Episode 9 Vulnerability — How to Open Up Without Overexposing Yourself

    Send us Fan Mail Making Friends Later in Life: Episode 9 Vulnerability — How to Open Up Without Overexposing Yourself You can’t build real friendship without vulnerability — but the older we get, the riskier it feels. In Episode 9 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie talk about why vulnerability is essential for deep connection, why it feels scarier in midlife, and how to open up without trauma dumping or overexposing yourself. Because here’s the truth: If you never let people in, you’ll only have activity buddies. But if you open up too fast, you might scare off the very connection you’re hoping for. In this episode, we break down: • The difference between vulnerability and trauma dumping  • Why surface-level friendships feel safe — but lonely  • How to “test the waters” before sharing something deeply personal  • Healthy vs. unhealthy responses to your vulnerability  • How to build trust in layers instead of emotional leaps We also share real examples from our own friendship — including how we rebuilt trust after a 15-year gap and why slow vulnerability made our connection stronger. If you’ve ever been hurt, misunderstood, or burned in friendship, this episode will help you open up wisely — not fearfully. Because vulnerability isn’t about spilling everything. It’s about revealing yourself slowly enough to see who can handle it. 💛 Series Reminder:  First the work on you. Then the work on connection. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    22 min

  8. MAR 16

    Making Friends Later in Life – Episode 8 Matching Effort: When You’re Doing Too Much in Friendship (And How to Stop)

    Send us Fan Mail Making Friends Later in Life – Episode 8 Matching Effort: When You’re Doing Too Much in Friendship (And How to Stop) Have you ever realized you’re the only one reaching out… the only one making plans… the only one checking in?  And then one day you stop — and the friendship disappears?  In Episode 8 of our Making Friends Later in Life series, Jennifer and Jackie dive into what it really means to match effort in adult friendships. This isn’t about keeping score or going tit-for-tat. It’s about recognizing when you’re over-functioning, over-giving, and carrying emotional weight that was supposed to be mutual.  We talk about:  • The signs you’re doing too much  • Why women are conditioned to over-give  • The difference between effort and chasing  • How to test a friendship without drama  • Why silence sometimes tells you everything  • And how to protect your energy without becoming cold or bitter  We also share real stories from our own friendships — including the 15 years Jennifer and Jackie weren’t friends — and what it took to rebuild trust, effort, and mutual investment.  If you’ve ever felt drained instead of connected…  resentful but saying nothing…  or scared that if you stop trying, there will be nothing left…  This episode is for you.  Because matching effort isn’t about control.  It’s about clarity.  And the best friendships?  They don’t need chasing — they need reciprocity.  Subscribe, leave a review, and share with your ride-or-die.  And when you're ready to make your friendship official, book your Bestiemony at rhinestoneweddingchapel.com — because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring.  Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    26 min
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About

Two best friends. Zero filters. All truth. We’re not married—but we kinda are.  Slightly Unsupervised is a podcast about the kind of soulmates who don’t come with a marriage license. Hosted by longtime best friends Jennifer and Jackie, this show dives into the real, raw, and ridiculously funny side of female friendship, emotional growth, and what it really takes to stay connected through the chaos of life.  From navigating toxic friendships and healing after breakups, to starting a trademarked friendship ceremony called Bestiemony®, we’re here to celebrate the messy magic of bestie energy.  Expect honest conversations about:  Friendship breakups and red flagsLoyalty, boundaries, and emotional supportMotherhood, identity, and growing up side-by-sideAnd of course, a few laugh-till-you-snort momentsIf you’ve ever had a ride-or-die, lost one, or are still looking, this podcast will remind you why friendship is the most underrated love story of all. 🎧 New episodes weekly. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony   #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #Bestiemonies #FriendshipPodcast #FemaleFriendship #RideOrDieFriends #RealTalkWithBesties #UnfilteredConnection #EmotionalSupport #PlatonicSoulmates #FriendshipBreakups #ToxicFriendships #HealingJourney #FriendshipIsLove #SupportiveFriends #CelebrateYourBestie #PodcastForWomen 

Information

  • Creator
    Jennifer Hobbs & Jackie Schroeder
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    47
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Slightly Unsupervised
  • Show Website
    Slightly Unsupervised