Slightly Unsupervised

Jennifer Hobbs & Jackie Schroeder

Two best friends. Zero filters. All truth. We’re not married—but we kinda are.  Slightly Unsupervised is a podcast about the kind of soulmates who don’t come with a marriage license. Hosted by longtime best friends Jennifer and Jackie, this show dives into the real, raw, and ridiculously funny side of female friendship, emotional growth, and what it really takes to stay connected through the chaos of life.  From navigating toxic friendships and healing after breakups, to starting a trademarked friendship ceremony called Bestiemony®, we’re here to celebrate the messy magic of bestie energy.  Expect honest conversations about:  Friendship breakups and red flagsLoyalty, boundaries, and emotional supportMotherhood, identity, and growing up side-by-sideAnd of course, a few laugh-till-you-snort momentsIf you’ve ever had a ride-or-die, lost one, or are still looking, this podcast will remind you why friendship is the most underrated love story of all. 🎧 New episodes weekly. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony   #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #Bestiemonies #FriendshipPodcast #FemaleFriendship #RideOrDieFriends #RealTalkWithBesties #UnfilteredConnection #EmotionalSupport #PlatonicSoulmates #FriendshipBreakups #ToxicFriendships #HealingJourney #FriendshipIsLove #SupportiveFriends #CelebrateYourBestie #PodcastForWomen 

  1. 4D AGO

    Making Friends Later in Life Series | Episode 2: Your Social Energy Style — Why Friendship Feels Draining (or Lonely)

    Send us a text Making Friends Later in Life | Episode 2: Your Social Energy Style — Why Friendship Feels Draining (or Lonely) Making friends later in life isn’t about trying harder — it’s about understanding yourself better. Welcome back to our mini-series Making Friends Later in Life, inspired by what we’re seeing in women’s groups online: so many women want connection, but they’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or unsure why friendship feels harder than it used to. This series isn’t about “fixing you.” It’s about slowing down and understanding you first — because the best friendships start with self-awareness, not a quick intro blurb. In Episode 2, Jennifer and Jackie break down the three social energy styles — introvert, extrovert, and ambivert — and why mismatched energy can leave you feeling lonely, drained, or misunderstood, even when you do have people around. We share real-life examples (hello, holiday hosting + introvert husbands 😅), talk about why energy shifts as we get older, and why knowing your style helps you choose friendships that actually fit your life. At the end, we do an on-air Social Energy Self-Test and encourage you to take it too. ✅ Download the Episode 2 Social Energy Self-Test here: Social Energy Style Worksheet Because you’re not bad at friendship — you just need one that matches how you’re wired. 🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie  💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective 🎵 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose ▶️ Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust If this episode hit you in the feels, consider it a win.  Subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your ride-or-die. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    35 min
  2. JAN 26

    Making Friends Later in Life Series | Episode 1: Who Am I Now? Making Friends Later in Life Starts with You

    Send us a text Episode 1: Who Am I Now? Why Friendship Starts With Self-Awareness Have you ever looked around one day and thought, “I raised the kids, built the life… so why do I feel disconnected?” You’re not broken — you’re just in a new season. In Episode 1 of our new series on making friends later in life, Jennifer and Jackie open an honest, compassionate conversation about why adult friendships feel harder — and why they actually start with self-awareness, not small talk. So many women reach midlife having poured everything into family, marriage, and work… only to realize they don’t actually know what they need anymore — or how to articulate it. This episode isn’t about posting another vague “looking for friends” blurb. It’s about doing the inner work first. Because real friendship doesn’t begin with information — it begins with recognition. In this episode, we talk about: Why friendships change after kids grow up and seasons shiftHow losing yourself in roles makes connection harderWhy old friendship templates don’t work anymoreThe difference between wanting a friend and knowing what kind of friend you needHow energy, honesty, and self-knowledge shape lasting friendships🎧 Download the “Who Am I Now?” Self Test To help you start this journey, we created a free, private self-reflection guide you can download and complete on your own — no website sign-up required. 👉 Download the Who Am I Now? Self Test here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ACtGKWLQelnEd1OyGOvGoSZBfapURfh-/view?usp=sharing Take it quietly. Honestly. Without fixing anything yet.  This isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about remembering who you are now. About the Series This episode kicks off our Making Friends Later in Life series — a real, no-judgment exploration of adult friendship. Each episode helps women reconnect with themselves first, so friendships can grow naturally instead of feeling forced. If this episode hits you in the feels, we consider that a win. 💛  Subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your ride-or-die. And when you’re ready to make your friendship official, book your Bestiemony® at rhinestoneweddingchapel.com — because the best love stories don’t always come with a ring. 🎵 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    32 min
  3. JAN 19

    When Friendships Become One-Sided: How to Spot It, Test It, and Heal From It

    Send us a text When Friendships Become One-Sided: How to Spot It, Test It, and Heal From It Description: At some point, almost every woman has the same quiet realization: Wait… am I the only one holding this friendship together? One-sided friendships rarely end in a blowup. They fade quietly. They drain you slowly. And they leave you questioning whether you’re asking for too much—or if you’re just asking the wrong people. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie unpack the emotional reality of one-sided friendships using a real story that struck a nerve with women everywhere. From being the dependable one, the planner, the rescuer, and the emotional glue—to realizing no one shows up when it finally matters to you—they break down the subtle signs a friendship isn’t mutual. They talk honestly about how to test a one-sided friendship without confrontation, why pulling back can be the most revealing move you make, and how to release the fantasy of what you thought the friendship was—without blowing everything up. This episode is about recognizing emotional imbalance, trusting what your body and heart are telling you, and giving yourself permission to step away with grace. Because real friendships don’t require you to do all the emotional labor. And when you stop holding a one-sided friendship together, you make room for the ones where your presence is valued—and your absence is noticed. In This Episode: 💔 The quiet moment you realize a friendship isn’t mutual [01:00]  🧠 The subtle signs of a one-sided friendship most women ignore [05:20]  🪞 How to test a friendship without confrontation [09:40]  🚫 Why pulling back tells you everything you need to know [12:50]  🧩 Releasing the fantasy of what you thought the friendship was [15:30]  ✨ Healing without drama, guilt, or explanations [18:40]  💞 Bestie Rapid Fire: loyalty, boundaries, and real friendship truths [22:30] 🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license 🎵 Music Credit:  Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust  If this episode hits you in the feels—or makes you finally say “Oh… now I see it”—send it to the friend who’s been carrying too much for too long. 🎧 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised for real talk, deep laughs, and honest conversations about modern friendship. This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    35 min
  4. JAN 12

    The Anatomy of Bestie Groups: 6 Friendship Archetypes (and Why You Need Every One)

    Send us a text  Episode Title: The Anatomy of Bestie Groups: 6 Friendship Archetypes (and Why You Need Every One) Description: Every girls’ group has a vibe—and a cast. The Organizer with clipboard energy, the Free Spirit who follows the vibes, the Empath who feels it all, the Comedian who keeps it light, the Peacemaker who smooths it over, and the Truth Teller who says the thing out loud. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie map the six friendship archetypes that make every circle messy, magical, and weirdly functional. They share real-life stories (Cards Against Humanity chaos, anyone?), what happens when roles clash, and how to keep love at the center—even when the group chat is ignoring the RSVP. You’ll leave knowing your role, appreciating your friends’ roles, and with a few lines you can borrow the next time the vibes go sideways. In This Episode: 🗂️ The Organizer: clipboard energy & calendar herding [02:00] 🌿 The Free Spirit: plans? vibes. why flexibility saves trips [05:30] 💗 The Empath vs. “the emotional one” (and who brings tissues) [09:30] 🤣 The Comedian: pressure valve for heavy moments [11:30] 🕊️ The Peacemaker & 🔥 The Truth Teller: keeping balance without losing honesty [14:30–17:10] 🤝 Navigating clashes, cooling off, and repairing fast [27:00] ⚡ Bestie Rapid Fire: roles that ground (and sometimes annoy) us [23:45] 🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie  💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective 🎵 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust Listen, laugh, and tag your group chat (yes, even the one that never replies). 🎧 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised  Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    32 min
  5. JAN 5

    The Lonely Season: What It Feels Like to Be Without Friends (and How to Rebuild)

    Send us a text The Lonely Season: What It Feels Like to Be Without Friends (and How to Rebuild)Feeling alone isn’t a flaw—it’s a signal. In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie open up about the quiet ache of friend-loneliness: the empty calendar, the phone that doesn’t light up, and the stories you wish someone else remembered with you. Jennifer shares the distance and displacement of moving states to build a business (hi, Rhinestone Wedding Chapel life 👋), while Jackie talks candidly about isolation inside a controlling first marriage—how you can be surrounded by people and still feel utterly alone. Together, they unpack why women drift into lonely seasons without noticing, how to spot the signs (in yourself and your bestie), and what it looks like to stitch connection back together—one honest text, meme, FaceTime, or girls’ trip at a time. In this episode: Different kinds of isolation: geography, seasons of life, and relationship controlWhy friends help us remember who we were (and still are)Gentle first steps to reconnect when you feel awkward or out of practiceHow to check on a withdrawing bestie (without overthinking it)Long-distance friendship ideas that actually feel like “being there”Bestie Rapid Questions to end on a laugh and a little truthContent note: emotional isolation and controlling relationship dynamics. If this one hits you in the feels—or makes you laugh-snort—we’ll count it as a win. 💛  Subscribe, rate, and share with your ride-or-die. Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    33 min
  6. 12/29/2025

    New Year, Real Talk: Why Friendship Matters More With Age

    Send us a text New Year, Real Talk: Why Friendship Matters More With Age  Episode Description: As we get older, New Year’s hits different. It stops being about sparkly outfits and staying up till midnight, and starts becoming something deeper—a pause, a breath, a moment to feel the weight of everything we survived… and everyone who helped us survive it.  In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie look back at the friendships, memories, and lessons that shaped their year. From sleeping on sidewalks at 17 waiting for the Rose Parade, to ringing in the New Year at home by 10 p.m., the girls reflect on how time changes everything—except the importance of having your ride-or-die.  They talk about why friendship becomes more sacred with age, how New Year’s reminds us that time is moving faster than ever, and why choosing your people—intentionally and consistently—is the real resolution.  This episode is cozy, nostalgic, honest, and full of the reminder every woman needs:  Your friendships are the safety nets that carry you into every new year. Protect them. Prioritize them. And celebrate them.  In This Episode: ✨ New Year’s as a teenager vs. New Year’s at 55 ✨ Why time speeds up (and hits harder) as we age ✨ How friendships deepen when life gets more complicated ✨ What this year taught Jennifer & Jackie about loyalty, growth, and showing up ✨ Bestie Resolutions for 2025 ✨ Rapid-Fire Bestie Questions: New Year Edition  🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie 💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license. ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective  🎵 Closing Song: “Definition of a Best Friend” by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust  If this episode hit you in the feels—or made you laugh way too hard—we consider that a win.  Hit subscribe, leave us a review, and share it with your ride-or-die. 💛  Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    30 min
  7. 12/22/2025

    Why Moms Think They Have to Do It All at Christmas (and How Besties Break the Spell)

    Send us a text Why Moms Think They Have to Do It All at Christmas (and How Besties Break the Spell) The holiday magic you see on the outside often comes at the cost of a mother’s sanity on the inside.  In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into the emotional, mental, and invisible labor women carry every Christmas—the lists, the gifts, the decorating, the expectations, the pressure to make everyone else’s season “magical,” and the exhaustion no one seems to notice. Jennifer reflects on the generational patterns of motherhood, how traditions get passed down (or skipped entirely), and why women feel responsible for holding every holiday together. Jackie opens up about the self-imposed pressure to create perfection—why she does it, why she can’t stop, and how it somehow still brings her joy even when it burns her out. Together, they unpack where these beliefs start (hello childhood programming), how the “good girl/caretaker” identity shows up in December, and why moms secretly fear asking for help. And then there’s the bestie piece—the part that saves us.  Best friends are often the only ones who say, “You don’t have to carry all this.” They’re the ones we vent to, cry to, laugh with, and call when Christmas feels like a full-time job we never applied for. In this episode:  🎄 The generational roots of holiday pressure (grandmas, moms, and the invisible baton)  🎄 Why moms struggle to delegate or ask for help  🎄 The emotional labor women carry during the holidays (that no one talks about)  🎄 How partners often don’t see the extra load — and why  🎄 The moment every mom hits her Christmas breaking point  🎄 How besties help us stay grounded, laugh, and remember we don’t have to be Santa + Mrs. Claus + Superwoman  🎄 Bestie Rapid Questions to end on a laugh and a little truth Content note: conversations around emotional labor, overwhelm, and holiday pressure in mothering and partnership 🎵 Closing Song: “Definition of a Best Friend” by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust If this episode hit you in the feels—or made you laugh way too hard—we consider that a win. Hit subscribe, leave us a review, and share it with your ride-or-die. 💛 Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    34 min
  8. 12/15/2025

    Being There for a Bestie in Grief: Navigating the Holidays Without Losing Yourself

    Send us a text Being There for a Bestie in Grief: Navigating the Holidays Without Losing Yourself  Description: The holidays can be magical… until they aren’t. When your bestie is grieving the loss of her person—whether a spouse, partner, or the anchor of her family—the season hits differently. Suddenly the twinkle lights feel heavier, the memories sting sharper, and the pressure to “do it all” gets complicated. You want to show up for her, hold her together, make sure she doesn’t feel alone. But you’re also juggling your own family, your own joy, your own traditions—and sometimes it feels like you’re being stretched between her grief and your life.  In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie get real about what it truly looks like to support a grieving best friend during the holidays. They talk about showing up with compassion without abandoning yourself, why checking in matters more than saying the perfect thing, and the delicate balance between honoring your own traditions while making space for hers.  From navigating emotional triggers to understanding what grieving friends wish we knew, this episode is your gentle guide to loving her deeply while protecting your own heart. Because you can be her anchor without becoming her life raft—and sometimes the most powerful gift is simply, “You’re not doing this alone. I’m here.”  In This Episode: 💛 Why the holidays hit grief differently than everyday life [01:00] 🤍 How to show up without overstepping or smothering [05:10] 🎄 Balancing your own traditions with her emotional needs [12:00] 📩 What real checking-in looks like (and why it matters) [14:45] 🕯️ Why talking about the person they lost is often exactly what they need [17:00] 💞 The best gift you can give a grieving bestie [21:00] ✨ Bestie Rapid Fire: Holidays, healing, and the little moments that matter [23:00]  🎙️ Hosted by Jennifer & Jackie  💍 Presented by Bestiemony™ — Because not all soulmates come with a marriage license.  ✨ Part of the Chickology™ Podcast Collective  🎵 Closing Song: Definition of a Best Friend by Brooke August & Hannah Rose Follow Brooke on YouTube: @brookeaugust  If this episode hits you in the feels—or helps you love your bestie a little softer this season—send it to the friend who holds your heart.  🎧 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised for more real talk, deep laughs, and the truth about modern friendship.  Chickology PodcastsBold podcasts by women, for women. Real talk. Real growth.Bestiemony®Honor your forever friendship with a Bestiemony®.Rhinestone Wedding Chapel Weddings, Elvis, & Bestiemony® ceremonies—only in Nashville at Rhinestone Chapel. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at ChickologyPodcasts@gmail.com

    27 min

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Two best friends. Zero filters. All truth. We’re not married—but we kinda are.  Slightly Unsupervised is a podcast about the kind of soulmates who don’t come with a marriage license. Hosted by longtime best friends Jennifer and Jackie, this show dives into the real, raw, and ridiculously funny side of female friendship, emotional growth, and what it really takes to stay connected through the chaos of life.  From navigating toxic friendships and healing after breakups, to starting a trademarked friendship ceremony called Bestiemony®, we’re here to celebrate the messy magic of bestie energy.  Expect honest conversations about:  Friendship breakups and red flagsLoyalty, boundaries, and emotional supportMotherhood, identity, and growing up side-by-sideAnd of course, a few laugh-till-you-snort momentsIf you’ve ever had a ride-or-die, lost one, or are still looking, this podcast will remind you why friendship is the most underrated love story of all. 🎧 New episodes weekly. 💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony   #SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #Bestiemonies #FriendshipPodcast #FemaleFriendship #RideOrDieFriends #RealTalkWithBesties #UnfilteredConnection #EmotionalSupport #PlatonicSoulmates #FriendshipBreakups #ToxicFriendships #HealingJourney #FriendshipIsLove #SupportiveFriends #CelebrateYourBestie #PodcastForWomen