Slutty Activism

Sarah Martin

Welcome to Slutty Activism, the podcast that’s building a new, pleasure-based movement against fascism where you can learn to create more connections, experience more pleasure, and make the world suck less by being an extraordinary lover. No experience necessary! All aspiring sluts, regardless of gender, orientation, or relationship style preferences are welcome here. The show is hosted by Sarah Martin, an anti-fascist sex and dating coach who helps horny people get laid ethically using a proven and powerful alternative to pickup artistry, Female Dating Strategy, or other sexist seduction techniques. If you know you deserve better than what you’ve been told you have to settle for and you’re not ready to accept that this is just how it is when it comes to dating, sex, and relationships, or the creeping advance of neofascism, then head over to http://sluttyactivism.com/ (SluttyActivism.com) to get on the path to deeply pleasurable, more connected, and satisfying sexual experiences today.

  1. EPISODE 2

    The Power of Pity: How to Break Free from the Cycle of Self-Loathing and Manipulation

    When you've been conditioned to believe you're unworthy of love and connection, it's time to commit to changing your mindset and reclaiming your power. "You need to decide if you really want to experience sexual freedom and to discover who you are as a sexual being." Have you ever been really down on yourself about your sexual prospects? Maybe you've felt like you were never going to find someone who wanted you. A lot of people throw themselves pity parties by sharing their laments on anonymous forums or privately beating themselves up in their own minds. If that resonates, you're not the only one. I've been there. A lot of my clients have been there. It's easy to wind up getting really down about your sexual prospects. But here's the thing - pity isn't benign. In fact, pity does the internal work of fascism for the fascists... for free! The good news is that there is another way. In this episode, you will learn: 1. The dangers of pity parties and self-loathing 2. The toxicity of mainstream approaches to dating, sex, and relationships 3. The importance of commitment to self-liberation Connect with me: If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today! And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group Credits: Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin Cover Art by Nik Gothic Music by eFly Production

    13 min
  2. EPISODE 4

    Why Being Hidden Keeps You Single (and How to Change That)

    What's one simple, essential step required to experience more connection and intimacy in your relationships? For people to be able to connect with you, they have to be able to find you. "Your courage and allowing yourself to be seen as you truly are will give permission to others to begin to do the same." I'm always curious about who people are and what they want. It's one of the first things I ask about when I meet someone. I've found that a lot of people have spent years hiding who they are and what they want. They've learned that it's safer to be someone else. But that comes at a cost. When you're hidden, you're also disconnected from the things you want most. You're invisible, and that can be lonely and frustrating. I work with people to help them slowly reveal more of themselves. It's a process of taking small steps and seeing how it feels. As they become more visible, they also become more attractive to the people they want to connect with. And as they become more visible, they also help others around them to do the same In this episode, you will learn: 1. How staying hidden impacts your ability to connect with others 2. Some of the ways we stay hidden, even unconsciously 3. How revealing more of yourself has a positive impact on those around you and on the world at large Connect with me: If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today! And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group Credits: Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin Cover Art by Nik Gothic Music by eFly Production

    18 min
  3. EPISODE 7

    How to Date Without Being a People Pleaser or a Jerk

    In this episode, we explore how the common relationship strategies of people pleasing and domination actually wind up facilitating fascism. "The answer to escaping the self sacrifice - dominance paradigm is to stop playing this game entirely and to focus inward on what you actually want." I've been in private practice since 2016, and in that time, I've observed a pattern of two common approaches people take to relationships. Most of my clients are people who are trying to please others in order to get what they want. They might be single and frustrated because they're not finding the right relationships, or they might be in relationships where they're being treated poorly. Then there's another group of clients who are trying to dominate others in order to get what they want. They might be successful in getting into relationships, but they're anxious and doubtful about their partner's attraction to them. Both of these groups of people are actually quite similar in that they're both trying to control others to get what they want, and in the process, they're both missing on the opportunity for authentic connection. In this episode, you will learn: 1. What people pleasing and domineering approaches to relationships look like 2. How people pleasing and domineering behaviors can facilitate fascism 3. How shifting to a strategy of collaboration, based on sharing and hearing true desires, can change your life and the world for the better Connect with me: If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today! And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group Credits: Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin Cover Art by Nik Gothic Music by eFly Production

    14 min
  4. EPISODE 8

    Dignified Hedonism: A Framework for Extraordinary Loving

    Could Dignified Hedonism be the answer to dating frustrations and relationship discontent? In this episode, let's take a stand to change the bleak dating landscape by focusing on pleasure and connection. "Connection is our collective salvation." Have you noticed how bleak the dating scene can be, and how it often feels like we're just missing each other? It can be so frustrating. It's almost like we're being cheated out of something that we know on some level we deserve. It was within this modern dating hellscape that the Dignified Hedonist framework was born. It's all about creating pleasure and connection in a way that is caring and honors autonomy. Dignified Hedonism includes mindset and skills work and is an alternative to things like pickup artistry, female dating strategy, or other seduction strategies. When we start making pleasure and connection the priority, we will change the world. In this episode, you will learn: 1. How you can use Dignified hedonism to create more satisfying relationships and sexual experiences 2. The benefits of being a desire-led, sex-forward, and pleasure-focused individual 3. How connection with others can be an antidote to isolation and loneliness Connect with me: If you're ready to change the world with pleasure, head over to SluttyActivism.com today! And to connect with other like minded people, come join us in the Slutty Activism Podcast Community group at SluttyActivism.group Credits: Produced & Hosted by Sarah Martin Cover Art by Nik Gothic Music by eFly Production

    20 min
5
out of 5
9 Ratings

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Welcome to Slutty Activism, the podcast that’s building a new, pleasure-based movement against fascism where you can learn to create more connections, experience more pleasure, and make the world suck less by being an extraordinary lover. No experience necessary! All aspiring sluts, regardless of gender, orientation, or relationship style preferences are welcome here. The show is hosted by Sarah Martin, an anti-fascist sex and dating coach who helps horny people get laid ethically using a proven and powerful alternative to pickup artistry, Female Dating Strategy, or other sexist seduction techniques. If you know you deserve better than what you’ve been told you have to settle for and you’re not ready to accept that this is just how it is when it comes to dating, sex, and relationships, or the creeping advance of neofascism, then head over to http://sluttyactivism.com/ (SluttyActivism.com) to get on the path to deeply pleasurable, more connected, and satisfying sexual experiences today.