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  1. ep. 10 | so this happened... this is the end

    MAR 27

    ep. 10 | so this happened... this is the end

    Hi besties! This is it… the end of Season 2. In this episode, we’re taking a walk down memory lane and diving into all things 90s and Y2K, reflecting on the pop culture, trends, and moments that shaped who we are today. From the things we grew up watching to the subtle ways those eras still influence how we move through the world, this conversation is equal parts nostalgic and reflective. We also share what our summer break is going to look like, what we’re focusing on while we’re away, and how we plan to come back even stronger for Season 3 later this year. It’s a little bit of a goodbye, but not for long… so get comfy and let’s close out the season together. SO THIS HAPPENED: Instagram: @sothishappenedpod TikTok: @sothishappenedpod   TIA: Instagram: @tiajuicy15 TikTok: @tiajuicy15   KELLY: Instagram: @kelly.kurian96 TikTok: @king_kel96   ALEXIS: Instagram: @alexisbellefit TikTok: @alexisbellefit Audio Chapters: 00:03 Trailer 00:51 Intro 01:18 90s Babies But Y2K Childhood 04:01 Tech Is Moving Too Fast For Us 06:30 Our First Internet Mems 15:36 2026 Is The New 2016 17:50 Growing Up In Y2K 21:59 Yucky Side Effects Of The 2000s 38:40 Summer Break Time 40:21 Outro

    41 min
  2. ep. 9 | so this happened... i bullied someone

    MAR 20

    ep. 9 | so this happened... i bullied someone

    Hi besties! This week’s episode is a little bit of everything in the best way. We kick things off with stories from St. Patty’s weekend, sharing our experiences with Chicago traditions and just how hard the city really goes for it. From there, we switch things up with a fun Jeopardy-style trivia segment filled with chaotic, brain rot categories that test what we actually know versus what we think we know. To wrap it all up, we catch you up on where the girlies are headed next with some upcoming travel plans and vacation updates. It’s a mix of stories, laughs, and a little bit of everything in between, so get comfy and let’s talk about it. SO THIS HAPPENED: Instagram: @sothishappenedpod TikTok: @sothishappenedpod   TIA: Instagram: @tiajuicy15 TikTok: @tiajuicy15   KELLY: Instagram: @kelly.kurian96 TikTok: @king_kel96   ALEXIS: Instagram: @alexisbellefit TikTok: @alexisbellefit Audio Chapters:

    56 min
  3. ep. 8 | so this happened... the girls are winning

    MAR 6

    ep. 8 | so this happened... the girls are winning

    Hi besties! We dive into the idea that “the girls are winning,” especially on the world stage at the Olympics. We talk about the controversy surrounding Team USA men's and women’s hockey teams, but also take a step back to reflect on the strength, discipline, and leadership we’ve seen from so many women medalists. Inspired by the sisterhood and resilience on display at the Games, the conversation shifts to what womanhood and community look like in our everyday lives. We share our own experiences as big sisters, both by blood and by choice, and why we believe being that steady, supportive presence for other women matters now more than ever. Sources referenced in this episode: • International Olympic Committee – Milano Cortina 2026 set to be a landmark Olympic Winter Games for gender equality https://www.olympics.com/ioc/news/milano-cortina-2026-set-to-be-a-landmark-olympic-winter-games-for-gender-equality • Official Milano Cortina 2026 Olympic Medal Tracker https://www.olympics.com/en/milano-cortina-2026/medals • USA Hockey – U.S. Olympic History and Records https://teamusa.usahockey.com/page/show/2904211-u-s-men-s-olympic-history-and-records Audio Chapters: 00:02 Trailer 00:22 Intro 00:43 2026 Winter Olympics 03:59 USA Hockey Scandal 09:17 Gold Medal Treatment 14:24 Hold People Accountable 18:31 Heated Rivalry Is Real Life Hockey 24:09 We Think Before We Speak 32:20 Kelly's 75 Hard Update 39:43 Big Sister Lexi 43:41 Big Sister Tia 49:16 Big Sister Kelly 57:22 Sibling Secrets 01:06:34 We Can Be Your Big Sisters 01:09:10 Outro

    1h 9m
  4. ep. 7 | so this happened... we're locked in

    FEB 26

    ep. 7 | so this happened... we're locked in

    Hi besties! This week we’re joined by our very first guest of the season, Melvic (also known as Tia’s brother). He shares why he committed to doing the 75 Hard challenge for an entire year and what it means to pursue transformation from the inside out. His discipline and honesty spark a deeper conversation about our own relationships with fitness, the highs and harder seasons of personal growth, and why movement and self-improvement aren’t just about aesthetics. They are about alignment. Guest Appearance: Melvic Jusi Instagram: @tino.jusi TikTok: @meliciovicente YouTube:@melicio.vicente Audio Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 00:23 Intro 01:12 365 Hard 07:43 Diversify Your Portfolio 16:26 Kelly' 75 Hard Challenge 25:37 Our Fitness Stories 28:57 Peloton Quotes 35:26 Fitness Is Political 37:12 Our Favorite Lifts 45:50 Training With Intention 50:34 Burpees Are The Devil 01:04:35 Lock In 01:07:41 Outro

    1h 8m
  5. ep. 6 | so this happened... she got arrested

    FEB 20

    ep. 6 | so this happened... she got arrested

    Hi besties! This week we’re recapping the Super Bowl halftime show and the unfortunate alternative halftime show, discussing what is and isn’t included in the latest public discourse surrounding the Epstein files, and exploring the surprising connection between historical cycles and astrology, including the moment where we accidentally keep saying Uranus instead of Pluto. We also touch on some local police body cam footage that has been circulating online and the broader conversations it sparked. Content note: This episode includes discussion of grief, death, sexual misconduct, and police-related incidents. We do not discuss any specific cases in detail, but these topics may be sensitive or triggering. Please take care while listening. Audio Chapters: 00:00 Intro 00: 21 Bad Bunny Concert 10:36 Alternative Half Time Show 12:38 The Epstein Files 16:18 Epstein's Influence On Our Childhoods 28:42 Protecting the Children 39:51 Astrology and History 47:24 She Was Arrested 54:39 Outro

    55 min
  6. ep. 5 | so this happened... we found the meaning of life

    FEB 13

    ep. 5 | so this happened... we found the meaning of life

    Hi besties! In this episode the conversation turns more personal as we reflect on grief, loss, and the ways those experiences shape how we see the world. Tia, Kelly, and Alexis share their perspectives on navigating difficult moments and what it means to find meaning in life even when things feel uncertain. We encourage listeners to use the chapter markers as a guide for when these topics appear in the episode. Content note: This episode includes discussion of grief, loss, and death. Please take care while listening. Audio Chapters: 00:00 Intro 00:26 Birthday Time 04:50 A Joint Birthday Party 07:24 We Can't Roast Each Other 12:04 An International Birthday 14:04 Traitors and Murder Mysteries 19:42 Celebrating Life and Grief 21:46 Grieving Family 41:02 Handle Grief With Care 43:18 Listener Happened: Storytime and Q&A 55:58 Outro

    56 min
  7. ep. 4 | so this happened... we're bringing 'chalant' back

    FEB 6

    ep. 4 | so this happened... we're bringing 'chalant' back

    Hi besties! This week we’re unpacking the idea of being “chalant” in a world that often rewards performative reactions and constant urgency. Tia, Kelly, and Alexis talk about performative activism, social media culture, and what it really means to show up for causes we care about in meaningful ways. Instead of surface-level engagement we explore how real change requires consistency, education, and long-term commitment. Reference mentioned in the episode: Performative action is a form of shallow, self-serving support for a social cause. It is often driven more by a desire to increase reputation or public image than a genuine commitment to creating real-world change. Performative Action: a form of shallow, self-serving support for a social cause, driven more by a desire to increase social capital, reputation, or "woke" image than a genuine dedication to creating real-world change. It often involves surface-level actions like social media posts, trends, or superficial allyship that lack concrete, long-term commitment. Boston Medical Center. “Performative Activism | Boston Medical Center.” Www.bmc.org, 2021, www.bmc.org/glossary-culture-transformation/performative-activism. Follow Nangi's Cafe: @nangiscafe Audio Chapters: 00:00 Intro 00:37 A Medieval Times Date 08:59 Be Open Minded 11:25 Be 'Chalant' In All Relationships 13:50 'Chalant' Friendships 17:05 Being Supportive 21:47 Community Matters 29:14 Ew Not Performative Activism 37:29 Empathy and Critical Thinking 48:59 Outro

    49 min
  8. ep. 3 | so this happened... we're still at the cottage

    JAN 26

    ep. 3 | so this happened... we're still at the cottage

    Hi besties! In this episode we’re still at the cottage and the conversation takes a more reflective turn. As the girls spend time away from their usual routines we talk about slowing down, reconnecting with ourselves, and the importance of having spaces where we can be honest about what we’re going through. This episode includes discussions that may touch on heavier topics, so we encourage you to take care of yourself while listening. Empty Netters Disclaimer: This episode was filmed prior to media coverage of a controversy involving Empty Netters. Our mention reflects our genuine perspective at the time. See links below for the Outsports articles and the Empty Netters’ follow-up response. Outsports Articles: https://www.outsports.com/2026/1/22/24126217/empty-netters-heated-rivalry-host-dan-powers-show-trash-podcast/ https://www.outsports.com/2026/1/26/24126627/empty-netters-heated-rivalry-dan-powers-texts-gay-hockey/ Empty Netters Response: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMFF2EVmyCY Voting Resources: Register to Vote: https://www.vote.org/register-to-vote/ Illinois Voters: https://www.vote.org/illinois/ The Pattern App: Apple: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/the-pattern/id1071085727 Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.thepattern.app&hl=en Audio Chapters: 00:00 Intro 00:13 I'm Going to the Cottage 04:19 Empty Netters are Allies 05:47 Heated Rivalry Chicago Edition 09:12 Don't Be Weird 13:04 Coming Out and Queer Media 15:27 Chicago Sports Culture 16:21 Heated Rivalry Heal's Tia's Inner Child 19:26 F**k ICE 22:26 Opposing Views 23:36 TikToker Helps Potential ICE Victim 26:00 Our Due Diligence 27:48 Are the Algorithms Censoring Us? 30:23 The Epstein Files 31:41 Find Your Balance 34:07 Explain It Like I Missed It: Tara's World 35:36 Bird Lore 37:37 Influencers and Their New Money 39:02 Haltertop Gate 46:28 Influencer Culture Is Dead 48:41 She's A Sagitarrius 59:11 Tia Needs To Go To Australia 01:01:03 Outro

    1h 1m
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it’s girls night every night! join us weekly for new episodes on how we’re navigating life, talking through current events, and giving advice we are NOT certified in giving.

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  • Creator
    TKA Productions
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Explicit
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