Solving Life's Next Chapter Podcast - Cutting Edge Information for Your Powerful Senior Years

Lydia Wietsma and Sheryl Keeme

Remember college shopping with your kids to find the best school for them?Or, the other milestone of getting married and you had to find the place for your wedding and all the accoutrements?Navigating the unknown is tricky, at first. So knowing the issues and milestones as you age and how to make good choices to address them for your aging parents or even for yourself is critical.Have you shared how you want you want your golden years to look with your family? Does your family know what you want to happen when you are no longer here? Do they know your wishes about your health care so they can help you in the best way possible if you are unable to tell them when that time comes?What about your plans for living when you can no longer live alone? Knowing these personal choices and the answers to these questions is a guessing game. Plus, just like paying for your dream wedding was a concern, so is paying for in-home help as you age. And moving to a home that offers assistance on the campus such as an assisted living community can also be pricy. What's involved in downsizing to a smaller home so that you can liquidate some equity to help pay for future services, such as caregivers?  Or what kind of plan is needed to manage daily life if a family member receives a dementia diagnosis?  Did you know there are dozens of ways to answer these questions? There are! But, which are YOUR best answers? Few of us ever thinks about managing aging issues, but the truth is, it happens to every person in every walk of life, every single day. There are 60,000 baby boomers turning 65 EVERY SINGLE DAY. Listen to our Solving Life's Next Chapter Podcast and get to know me and my vetted, friendly guests who have answers we all need and ideas we can weigh as we age or as we help our parents age. Let's Solve YOUR Life's Next Chapter together!

  1. 4H AGO

    Part 1: Protecting Seniors from Scams & Fraud

    Part 1: Protecting Seniors from Scams & Fraud Guest: Jeff Jones, Chandler Police Department This week on Solving Life’s Next Chapter, host Lydia Wietsma, Certified Senior & Probate Real Estate Specialist, sits down with Jeff Jones from the Chandler Police Department for an essential conversation about the rising threat of scams targeting seniors in Chandler and the East Valley. In Part 1 of this two-part series, Jeff provides an inside look at the most common fraud schemes affecting older adults today — from phone scams and online imposters to government impersonation and gift-card fraud. He breaks down how scammers choose their victims, the tactics they use to create fear and urgency, and real examples of cases happening right here in our community. Lydia and Jeff also discuss: • Why seniors are at higher risk • Red flags families should never ignore • What to do immediately if something feels “off” • How to help aging loved ones stay safe without taking away independence This episode is a must-listen for seniors, caregivers, adult children, and anyone who wants to better understand how to protect vulnerable loved ones from financial exploitation. 🎧 Tune in to Solving Life’s Next Chapter 📻 Sundays from 3:00–3:30 PM on 960 AM The Patriot Hosted by Lydia Wietsma, Senior & Probate REALTOR® 📘 Author of Solving Life’s Next Chapter — Available on Amazon 📞 Helpful Resources Mentioned Chandler Police (Non-Emergency): 480-782-4130AARP Fraud Watch Network Helpline: 877-908-3360 AARP+1Arizona Attorney General – Consumer Protection / Consumer Fraud Line: 800-352-8431 Real Estate & Senior Transition Help – Lydia Wietsma: (602) 688-4310  To Contact Lydia or Sheryl OR DONATE to Neighbors Who Care Follow US... On Facebook @VolunteerChandler; @lydiawietsma; @sherylzwolskikeeme On Instagram @solvinglifesnextchapter; @sherylkeeme On Youtube @solvinglifesnextchapter; @neighborswhocare; @luvgr8mnds On Email Lydia@arizonapoweragent.com  AND sherylkeeme@gmail.com Thanks for listening... #ChooseVolunteering

    26 min

  2. 4D AGO

    Downsizing with Dignity

    🎙️ Downsizing with Dignity: How to Make Life’s Next Chapter Easier, Lighter & More Empowering Hosted by: Lydia Wietsma, Certified Probate & Senior Real Estate Specialist (CPRES, SRES) Co-Host: Raquel Uggiano, Designated Broker & Co-Owner, NextHome Power Realty Radio Show: Solving Life’s Next Chapter — KKNT 960 AM The Patriot Episode Theme: Downsizing with Dignity When it comes to major life transitions, few decisions carry as much emotion, history, and impact as downsizing. In this week’s episode of Solving Life’s Next Chapter, host Lydia Wietsma and co-host Raquel Uggiano walk listeners through the practical, emotional, financial, and family aspects of downsizing — and how to do it with dignity, clarity, and confidence. Whether you’re moving from a longtime family home, considering a 55+ community, transitioning closer to loved ones, or simply craving a simpler lifestyle, downsizing isn’t about losing space — it’s about gaining freedom. 🌟 Why Downsizing Feels So Big — And Why Planning Ahead Matters Most people don’t suddenly decide, “Today is the day to downsize.” Instead, the decision is sparked by: RetirementHealth changesThe desire for a simpler lifestyleThe overwhelming responsibility of maintaining a large homeWanting to be closer to children or grandchildrenAs Raquel shared on the show, “Dignity is making choices before they’re made for you.” Too many families wait until a crisis forces a rushed decision. Planning ahead gives seniors: ✔ Control ✔ Choice ✔ Peace of mind ✔ A smoother transition Downsizing also means re-evaluating what really matters now: location, accessibility, affordability, community, and long-term support. 📦 Preparing for the Move: Start Small, Stay Consistent One of the biggest questions families ask is: “Where do we even start?” Raquel suggests beginning with one small space — a closet, a drawer, or a spare room. Then, use simple labels: KeepDonateSellFamilyLegacyThis makes decisions manageable and reduces overwhelm. Lydia reminds listeners: You don’t have to do this alone. Many families lean on: Senior move managersProfessional organizersTrusted real estate professionalsEstate plannersDownsizing and transition specialistsNextHome Power Realty has vetted vendors who specialize in helping seniors navigate emotional transitions with care and compassion. 💛 Letting Go with Love — The Emotional Side of Downsizing This is where the heart of downsizing truly lives. Downsizing isn’t just packing boxes — it’s reviewing a lifetime of memories, milestones, and mementos. Tips shared during the show: 🌟 Take photos of sentimental items 🌟 Create digital albums for the next generation 🌟 Write down stories connected to heirlooms 🌟 Gift meaningful items during the holidays 🌟 Celebrate the memories, not the stuff One of Raquel’s recent clients passed down her grandmothe To Contact Lydia or Sheryl OR DONATE to Neighbors Who Care Follow US... On Facebook @VolunteerChandler; @lydiawietsma; @sherylzwolskikeeme On Instagram @solvinglifesnextchapter; @sherylkeeme On Youtube @solvinglifesnextchapter; @neighborswhocare; @luvgr8mnds On Email Lydia@arizonapoweragent.com  AND sherylkeeme@gmail.com Thanks for listening... #ChooseVolunteering

    26 min

  3. 5D AGO

    Tips & Bits Every Senior and Family Should Know

    Senior Living Tips Every Arizona Family Needs to Know (Before a Crisis Happens) What if one conversation today could save your family stress, confusion—and even costly mistakes later? In this episode of Solving Life’s Next Chapter, Lydia Wietsma—Certified Probate & Senior Real Estate Specialist and REALTOR® with NextHome Power Realty—sits down with senior living expert Leslie Davis to uncover the real-life decisions families across Mesa, Chandler, Gilbert, Sun Lakes, Tempe, and the Phoenix East Valley are facing right now. If you’re caring for aging parents, planning ahead, or navigating senior housing options in Arizona, this episode delivers practical, local insight you won’t find in a brochure. 🔍 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How to choose between independent living, assisted living, and memory care ✔️ The #1 mistake families make when planning for senior care ✔️ What senior living communities don’t always tell you about pricing ✔️ Key questions to ask when touring assisted living or memory care ✔️ How to avoid overwhelm when making decisions for aging loved ones ✔️ Why early planning can prevent crisis-driven decisions ✔️ What truly matters most: safety, care quality, and quality of life 📍 Arizona Focus (GEO Optimization): Whether you're searching for:  Senior living in Mesa, Chandler, Gilbert, or Sun Lakes Memory care options in Phoenix or Scottsdale Help with downsizing, probate, or selling a senior’s home in ArizonaThis episode is designed specifically for families in the East Valley and greater Phoenix area. 💡 Real Talk for Families: Many families wait until a health crisis forces quick decisions.  By then—options are limited, emotions are high, and costs can increase. This episode helps you get ahead of that moment with clear, compassionate guidance. 🎧 Why You Should Listen: If you’ve ever asked:  “Where do I even start with senior living?”  “How much does assisted living really cost in Arizona?”  “What happens if my loved one’s care needs increase?” This conversation gives you answers, direction, and peace of mind. 📞 Need Help Navigating Next Steps? Lydia Wietsma helps Arizona families every day with:  ✔️ Senior housing transitions  ✔️ Probate real estate  ✔️ Downsizing and selling a home  ✔️ Planning ahead to avoid probate 📲 Call/Text: 602-688-4310 🌐 Serving: Mesa, Chandler, Gilbert, Sun Lakes, Tempe & Phoenix 🎙️ About the Show: Solving Life’s Next Chapter airs Sundays at 3 PM on KKNT 960 AM The Patriot and is dedicated to helping families navigate probate, senior living, aging decisions, and real estate transitions with trusted local experts. 🔁 Engagement Boost (for Buzzsprout + Platforms): 👉 Follow the show so you don’t miss upcoming episodes  👉 Share this episode with someone caring for aging parents  👉 Leave a review to help more Arizona families find these resources To Contact Lydia or Sheryl OR DONATE to Neighbors Who Care Follow US... On Facebook @VolunteerChandler; @lydiawietsma; @sherylzwolskikeeme On Instagram @solvinglifesnextchapter; @sherylkeeme On Youtube @solvinglifesnextchapter; @neighborswhocare; @luvgr8mnds On Email Lydia@arizonapoweragent.com  AND sherylkeeme@gmail.com Thanks for listening... #ChooseVolunteering

    26 min

  4. JAN 10

    “Title Talk with Lynn Martinez: What Every Seller Needs to Know Before Closing” Part 2

    Part 2 of "Solving Life's Next Chapter" Guest: Lynn Martinez, Escrow & Title Officer at American Title Service Agency Host: Lydia Wietsma Following the insightful first part of our conversation with Lynn Martinez, this second installment dives deeper into the practical issues that arise in title and escrow work—especially when dealing with senior transitions, estate sales, and inherited property. Lynn and Lydia explore the real-world complications that can derail a smooth transaction, plus actionable advice for families, real-estate professionals and estate executors. What’s Covered in This Episode 1. Common Pitfalls in Title & Escrow for Senior / Estate Situations Lynn identifies several glitches she sees regularly: missing signatures, incorrect beneficiary designations, delayed recordings, overlooked judgments or liens, and confusion when a property owner has moved to assisted living or passed away. These issues, she explains, often carry more risk in estate and senior-transition scenarios. 2. How Families Can Protect Themselves The show outlines concrete steps: Ask for a “title search summary” early—so you know what issues exist before listing a property.Confirm who has legal authority (power of attorney, executor, trustee) and ensure proper documentation.Talk to the title/escrow officer about “what if” scenarios (e.g., a hidden heir emerges) and how the company handles them.Build realistic timelines. Lynn emphasises that estates tend to take longer because of extra checks and communication among parties.3. Choosing the Right Title/Escrow Team Lynn gives criteria for selecting a strong partner: experience with probate and senior transitions, attention to detail in lien/judgment research, good communication with all parties (seller, heirs, agents), and a transparent fee structure. Lydia and Lynn also discuss why some companies may shy away from “complex” deals—but those are exactly the ones where experience matters most. 4. Real-Life Stories & Lessons Lynn shares examples of transactions that went off track (e.g., a sale that stalled because an old judgment resurfaced) and how early engagement of the title/escrow team prevented worse outcomes. The value: you don’t have to learn the hard way. Why This Should Matter to You If you’re working with seniors, helping settle an estate, or advising on a property that’s been in the family for decades, this episode gives you a clearer path forward. With Lynn’s advice you’ll be better prepared to: Anticipate possible hurdles rather than being blindsided.Select the right professionals who speak your language (real estate + estate + senior transition).Reduce the stress and uncertainty for families going through change.Host: Lydia Wietsma Phone: 602-363-1720Address: 125 N. 22nd Place, Unit 105, Mesa, AZ 85213Website/contact form: NextHome Power Real Estate – Lydia WietsmaBook/e-book: The 7 BIG Mistakes Most Executors Make While Going Through Probate To Contact Lydia or Sheryl OR DONATE to Neighbors Who Care Follow US... On Facebook @VolunteerChandler; @lydiawietsma; @sherylzwolskikeeme On Instagram @solvinglifesnextchapter; @sherylkeeme On Youtube @solvinglifesnextchapter; @neighborswhocare; @luvgr8mnds On Email Lydia@arizonapoweragent.com  AND sherylkeeme@gmail.com Thanks for listening... #ChooseVolunteering

    26 min

  5. JAN 10

    Why Title & Escrow Matter Part 1

    Lynn opened by explaining that while many people focus on the house itself, they often overlook what happens behind the scenes in the title and escrow process. The “fine print” of transferring ownership, safeguarding against unexpected liens or claims, and making sure all parties are protected can make a big difference — especially when dealing with senior clients, inherited properties, or changing living arrangements. Some of the specific ways Lynn described this include: Ensuring the chain of title is clear and free of surprises (e.g., unknown heirs, unresolved judgments, tax liens).Confirming that the property being sold or transferred is actually eligible to be transferred (especially when the owner is elderly, incapacitated, or the estate is involved).Escrow’s role as a neutral holder and facilitator: assets (or deeds) are held safely, funds are disbursed appropriately, and instructions executed properly.How the title/escrow side overlaps with probate or senior transition issues — for example, when someone has moved into assisted living, or the home is part of an estate sale, the title process can reveal hidden complications.The key message: when you’re at a point of significant life transition — downsizing, estate settlement, moving a parent to assisted living, or selling a long-held home — having a trusted title/escrow officer like Lynn on your team is critical. Highlights from the Conversation Here are some of Lynn’s key points from the show: Start early: Lynn emphasized that waiting until the last moment to review title or escrow issues can create stress and unexpected delays. For example, if you’re selling a home that’s part of an estate, discovering a lien or unresolved their claim late in the game can derail everything.Know what you’re signing: Lynn reminded listeners that escrow isn’t simply “paperwork” — it is the legal process that governs how and when ownership and funds are transferred. Understanding who is signing, who is authorized, and what they’re signing for matters.Expect the unexpected: Even when someone assumes “everything is clear,” Lynn shared true-life examples of title issues that surfaced in senior estates: old judgments, siblings who weren’t aware of a transfer, or delayed recordings.Choose the right partner: In a world of many title/escrow companies, Lynn stressed choosing a firm with experience in senior transitions, estates and probate, since these cases often require extra attention and sensitivity.Communication is key: For real-estate professionals, families and seniors alike, Lynn’s advice was to foster open communication early — letting everyone know the timeline, the steps, and the responsibilities ahead of time helps avoid last-minute surprises. To Contact Lydia or Sheryl OR DONATE to Neighbors Who Care Follow US... On Facebook @VolunteerChandler; @lydiawietsma; @sherylzwolskikeeme On Instagram @solvinglifesnextchapter; @sherylkeeme On Youtube @solvinglifesnextchapter; @neighborswhocare; @luvgr8mnds On Email Lydia@arizonapoweragent.com  AND sherylkeeme@gmail.com Thanks for listening... #ChooseVolunteering

    26 min
  6. “Memory Care 101”

    11/03/2025

    “Memory Care 101”

    Memory Care 101 with Guest Leslie and Shea: Hosted by Lydia Wietsma, Certified Probate & Senior Real Estate Specialist KKNT 960 AM “The Patriot” | Sundays, 3:00 – 3:30 PM When a loved one begins showing signs of memory loss, families are often left wondering where to turn. On this week’s episode of Solving Life’s Next Chapter, host Lydia Wietsma sits down with Leslie and Shae, both ladies are experienced senior living professionals who specializes in memory care, to unpack what families really need to know when facing this emotional and complex journey. 💡 Understanding Memory Care Leslie begins by explaining what memory care truly means—and how it differs from traditional assisted living. Memory care communities are specifically designed to support individuals living with Alzheimer’s disease, dementia, or other cognitive challenges. From structured daily routines to specialized therapies, every detail is focused on safety, comfort, and preserving dignity. “Memory care isn’t just about supervision—it’s about engagement, compassion, and helping residents live with purpose,” Leslie shares. ❤️ Recognizing the Signs For many families, the hardest part is recognizing when it’s time for extra support. Shae and Leslie outline some early warning signs: forgetting familiar routines, getting lost, or showing sudden personality changes. They also discuss how guilt and fear can hold families back from making the best decision for their loved one. “Families need to know that seeking help isn’t giving up—it’s providing the best quality of life possible,” she explains. Early intervention can make a world of difference, often improving both the individual’s comfort and the caregiver’s peace of mind. 🏡 Inside a Memory Care Community Listeners get an inside look at daily life in a memory care community—where structured activities, sensory therapies, and personalized care plans help residents stay connected and calm. Safety is built into every design element, from secure walking paths to soothing color palettes. Shae and Leslie also discuss caregiver training, emphasizing the compassion and skill that go into caring for those with dementia. “Our staff receive ongoing education on communication, behavioral changes, and emotional support,” Shae notes. “It’s about understanding the person, not just the diagnosis.” 💬 Resources and Support for Families The conversation closes with practical advice for families preparing for a memory care transition. Leslie highlights the importance of early planning—emotionally and financially—and encourages families to seek out local support groups. Their final message is one of reassurance: “You don’t have to walk this road alone. There are caring professionals and communities ready to help.” Leslie mentions Banner Alzheimer and Memory Cafe, to help with resources for families going through this journey.   Reach out of Lydia Wietsma @ ‪(602) 688-4310‬ for a list of questions to ask as you visit communities for your loved one. If you or someone you know is beginning to explore memory care options, this episode is a must-listen—it’s filled with compassion, clarity, and hope for families navigating life’s next chapter. 🎧 Listen to the Full Episode To Contact Lydia or Sheryl OR DONATE to Neighbors Who Care Follow US... On Facebook @VolunteerChandler; @lydiawietsma; @sherylzwolskikeeme On Instagram @solvinglifesnextchapter; @sherylkeeme On Youtube @solvinglifesnextchapter; @neighborswhocare; @luvgr8mnds On Email Lydia@arizonapoweragent.com  AND sherylkeeme@gmail.com Thanks for listening... #ChooseVolunteering

    26 min
  7. The power of having a power of attorney

    11/02/2025

    The power of having a power of attorney

    In this episode of Solving Life’s Next Chapter, Lydia Wietsma, Certified Probate & Senior Real Estate Specialist, dives into one of the most overlooked—but absolutely essential—legal tools: the Powers of Attorney (POA). Whether you're helping an aging parent, planning your own future, or guiding a family through unexpected life changes, understanding POAs can save you time, stress, and thousands of dollars. Lydia shares real-life stories from families caught off-guard without one, explains the different types of POAs, and lays out exactly why having one in place is crucial long before a crisis hits. ✅ What is a Power of Attorney? ✅ The risks of not having one ✅ Who should you choose as your agent? ✅ Durable vs. medical POA ✅ FAQs and common misconceptions Don’t wait until it’s too late. Tune in to learn how a simple document can protect your health, your finances, and your family’s peace of mind. 🎧 Listen now and take control of life’s next chapter. 📘 Grab Lydia’s book Solving Life’s Next Chapter on Amazon for more guidance on probate, estate planning, and senior real estate. #PowerOfAttorney #EstatePlanning #SeniorCare #ProbateHelp #LydiatheRealtor #SolvingLifesNextChapter #NextHomePowerRealty #AZRealEstate #Trusts #DurablePOA #MedicalPOA Download my free eBook called the 7 BIG Mistakes Most Executors Make While Going Through Probate Solving Life's Next Chapter LinkedIn Buy the Book, "Solving Life's Next Chapter®" on Amazon To Contact Lydia or Sheryl OR DONATE to Neighbors Who Care Follow US... On Facebook @VolunteerChandler; @lydiawietsma; @sherylzwolskikeeme On Instagram @solvinglifesnextchapter; @sherylkeeme On Youtube @solvinglifesnextchapter; @neighborswhocare; @luvgr8mnds On Email Lydia@arizonapoweragent.com  AND sherylkeeme@gmail.com Thanks for listening... #ChooseVolunteering

    26 min
  8. “Senior Living 101”"

    11/02/2025

    “Senior Living 101”"

    🎙️ Solving Life’s Next Chapter: Senior Living 101 with Shea and Leslie, experts in the Senior industry as between them, they have 55+ years of experience in the senior industry When it comes to helping a loved one transition into senior living, most families have the same reaction — where do we even begin? On this week’s episode of Solving Life’s Next Chapter, host Lydia Wietsma, Certified Probate & Senior REALTOR® and owner of NextHome Power Realty, sat down with Shae Rambow and Leslie A. Davis, trusted senior-living professionals, to unpack the most common questions families face when exploring senior housing options. Together, they shared compassionate insight, practical advice, and a clear path to making confident decisions. Understanding Senior-Living Options Shea began by explaining that “senior living” isn’t one-size-fits-all. Families can choose from: Independent Living – Ideal for active seniors who want freedom with added community amenities.Assisted Living – Provides daily support with meals, medication, and personal care while encouraging independence.Continuing Care Communities – Offer multiple levels of care in one location, allowing residents to age in place.They emphasized that understanding these distinctions early helps families focus on what their loved one truly needs rather than what feels urgent in the moment. Knowing When It’s Time to Consider a Move One of the toughest parts of the senior-living journey is recognizing the signs that a move might be needed. Shea and Leslie shared that indicators often include isolation, poor nutrition, medication mismanagement, or safety hazards at home. They encouraged families to start the conversation early—not during a crisis. “The earlier you talk about it,” Leslie said, “the more control your loved one has in choosing where and how they want to live.” We also discussed the emotional side of these decisions. Guilt and hesitation are normal, but professionals can guide families through those feelings with compassion and facts. Touring Communities and Asking the Right Questions Once families decide to explore options, Shea and Leslie recommends visiting multiple communities and coming prepared with questions about staffing, activities, dining, and medical support. They reminded listeners that finding the right fit is about more than cost—it’s about quality of life. Tasting the food is very important so make sure to take time to have a meal whether that's a lunch or a dinner.   During the conversation, Lydia noted how often her real-estate clients feel relief once they realize there are professionals who specialize in this process, from finding the right community to coordinating the home sale. Financial Planning and Available Resources Another major concern for families is how to pay for care. Shea highlighted resources such as: VA Aid & Attendance benefits for eligible veterans and surviving spouses.Bridge loans or home-equity options to fund the transition.Working with a SRES, Certified (Senior Real Estate Specialist) REALTOR® familiar with downsizing and estate sales.By plannin To Contact Lydia or Sheryl OR DONATE to Neighbors Who Care Follow US... On Facebook @VolunteerChandler; @lydiawietsma; @sherylzwolskikeeme On Instagram @solvinglifesnextchapter; @sherylkeeme On Youtube @solvinglifesnextchapter; @neighborswhocare; @luvgr8mnds On Email Lydia@arizonapoweragent.com  AND sherylkeeme@gmail.com Thanks for listening... #ChooseVolunteering

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Remember college shopping with your kids to find the best school for them?Or, the other milestone of getting married and you had to find the place for your wedding and all the accoutrements?Navigating the unknown is tricky, at first. So knowing the issues and milestones as you age and how to make good choices to address them for your aging parents or even for yourself is critical.Have you shared how you want you want your golden years to look with your family? Does your family know what you want to happen when you are no longer here? Do they know your wishes about your health care so they can help you in the best way possible if you are unable to tell them when that time comes?What about your plans for living when you can no longer live alone? Knowing these personal choices and the answers to these questions is a guessing game. Plus, just like paying for your dream wedding was a concern, so is paying for in-home help as you age. And moving to a home that offers assistance on the campus such as an assisted living community can also be pricy. What's involved in downsizing to a smaller home so that you can liquidate some equity to help pay for future services, such as caregivers?  Or what kind of plan is needed to manage daily life if a family member receives a dementia diagnosis?  Did you know there are dozens of ways to answer these questions? There are! But, which are YOUR best answers? Few of us ever thinks about managing aging issues, but the truth is, it happens to every person in every walk of life, every single day. There are 60,000 baby boomers turning 65 EVERY SINGLE DAY. Listen to our Solving Life's Next Chapter Podcast and get to know me and my vetted, friendly guests who have answers we all need and ideas we can weigh as we age or as we help our parents age. Let's Solve YOUR Life's Next Chapter together!

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